Sentencing date from Black Wednesday is next week
Just a sad reminder that the sentencing date for all the owners from last years black Wednesday is next week. Most of the owners will get 12 - 18 months, pay fines and in at least a couple cases get deported after serving their time. A few of the working girls who testified have now been put on the fast track for green cards, most deported. Kind of interesting that a couple who had been deported are back working in LA and Texas. Makes you wonder if they can get in who else can? Just my most likely last intel for 12 - 18 months.
I asked for help and she gave me a hand
[QUOTE=Bseeks]I have been thinking about this for some time, and I wonder if my fellow mongers have an opinion. It seems like a silly thing, which is why I haven't raised it before. Perhaps that will keep the flames to a minimum.
In an AMP, I really enjoy the HJ more than the FS. I like a good bbbj too, but FS just doesn't do it for me as much. Well, then you might say, "you're in luck, because HJ is cheaper". But here's the discussion point. Along with the HJ, I like the full attention, body to body, mouth, other parts, etc. So I want the full treatment, but I am pretty happy if she finishes it manually.
When I have just paid the HJ price, I have often gotten very mediocre, disinterested service, particularly in recent years. it seems like 5 years ago, the HJ was a perfectly acceptable conclusion.
Yes, I can ask her to do it that way, and I have, but it always seems like a strange request and she doesn't understand it.
Maybe I don't even have a question here, but I wonder if other mongers have any similar experience with this issue and if there is a good approach that you could share.
Thanks much.
B.[/QUOTE]I share many of your views and appreciate your post [though perhaps it should be on another board; since the ongoing flame war isn't though, then no reason why this should, I guess].
However, my strong sense is that we. As mongers and as part of the general male population. Are in a distinct minority. [aside: one adult website I belong too sometimes has HJ videos on. Which I really like. But most of the site's members (no pun. They have a comments section) think it's almost gay to watch them and basically seem to say (a) "why would I want to watch what I can do myself" or (be) "why would I want to watch what I had to settle for in HS? ".
Like you, I, too, appreciate a well-performed and intimate handjob with extras (including kissing) and other things as you describe. IMHO, this can be extremely erotic, many times even more so than standard fare. She's has to concentrate on you. She can't just close her eyes and perform (or let you perform on her). She can lay next to you and get really close. Third, when it's popping time. You (and her) get to see the whole show. Now, don't get me wrong, there's a place for BJs and everything else. It's not like I don't do that. But the standard HJ has stood its test in time since high school.
When I began mongering in fact, this is what I almost always got. For a variety of reasons including not knowing that there were other menu items. I think you're right that that this practice has changed some over the last years.
I have also experienced a disinclination by some. But not most. Girls to giving HJs. Mostly, its an economic issue, but also it requires a level of intimacy sometimes that they just don't want to engage in.
My. 02 and I'm glad to have a fellow traveler!