What goes on inside of a woman's head?
[QUOTE=Taws6;7015161]Glad that works for you.
Although I don't really know what goes on inside a woman's head (who here does?) - I can only speak from my experiences.
As the old saying goes, Men are from Mars, women from Venus.
We are built differently.
Especially after a woman starts squeezing out puppies, their priorities change. We don't (by and large).
By that I mean that for the vast majority here, having an occasional side thing going on without disclosure to he wife is far healthier than telling your wife that you are going go be fucking around on her.
Women want that loving dedicated husband, father etc. Take that from her, you do far more damage and the odds are far against any conceivable percentage of chance that she will "understand".
From where I sit, I disagree wholeheartedly.[/QUOTE]From experience with three wives, dozens of gfs, scores of casual encounters and hundreds of hookers, I have some idea what goes on in their heads.
There are two levels: physical and cultural.
Physical. Women, like men, have libido or sexuality. They want sexual release ten times a day, one time a week or not at all. Like men, they masturbate. According to research, more frequently than we do. A guy, who posted on a porn site, worked as a hotel night clerk. He put hidden clock cameras in some of the hotel rooms. He recorded single women occupants masturbating. He revealed in a PM that the majority of females hotel room occupants masturbated at least once a night. Some masturbated several times each night. Some not at all.
Hetero women do not just get off by themselves. They also like to fuck with men. Of my three wives, the first was hypersexual and wanted sex several times per day, more than I did. That is one of the reasons we separated and divorced. The third wife does not like sex hardly at all. The second liked it once or twice per week.
Women also have different sexual preferences. Some like to have one partner; some two; some several.
All of the above describe women's physical sexuality. These features are largely genetically programmed and not learned.
Cultural learned sexuality. Women, more than men, learn cultural mores, rules and taboos about sex. Most women are more conformist than men. They need to fit their image to the ideal that they learned as little girls. For most, they need to look like princesses, searching for Prince Charming to sweep them off their feet. When they think they have found Prince Charming, they want him to also conform to their ideal marriage image. He must work hard, support the family and be sexually faithful. She, the princess, must also be faithful. She can enjoy fucking but only with her prince and he can enjoy only with her, the princess.
However, if she is a high libido woman with a physical preference for multiple partners, she will have problems adjusting to monogamy. My first wife was such a woman. She naturally needed to fuck with multiple partners. I was immature and could not accept this. We divorced.
Women will be less honest about their sex lives especially when they discuss them with other women. Even modern women will try to mould their stories into the princess cultural ideology. They will not admit to masturbating often; they will deny enjoying sex with multiple partners. It is only within the last two generations that they started to admit to like sex at all. Before that, nobody even imagined that women could enjoy orgasms, much less orgasms from their fingers, vibrators or tongues.
There is a dichotomous contradiction between their physical and cultural sexuality. Physically, they are hornier than we are. Culturally they dare not admit horniness. This applies to prostitutes, certainly to Chinese pros. I am Caucasian but lived in China for years. I am fluent in Mandarin. I once overheard Chinese pros in China talking about their customers. Two sex workers, one who was assigned to service me as soon a a room was free, were competing in convincing each other about how much they disliked sex work. I sat quietly and listened. I expected my hour with the woman to be mechanical, boring and disappointing. It was not. She was very responsive and had several convulsive orgasms. No, she was not faking. Those of you with experience know the difference. She would never admit to her colleague that she really enjoyed sex with her clients. Her colleague probably the same. This is the dichotomous contradiction. They like the sex with lots of guys but they cannot admit it. Many if not most women have this contradiction.
I advised a brother who mistakenly thinks he has sex addiction to square with his wife. I understand why you disagree with that advice. She may be so overwhelmed with cultural mores about sexual fidelity and she may find it impossible to allow that both the brother, her husband, and she, the aspiring princess, are just physical beings that need sex but actually love each other with a pure love that can liberate them from cultural bonds.
In my long life, I have found it better to be honest in my truly intimate relationships with spouses and children; that may not work for everyone.
Variability is libido and sexuality
[QUOTE=DarkRoomDaddy;7019401]Where do you get a job at that hotel? But with our society, a hidden camera like that will probably get you more jail time than hiring a hooker. But those videos would be nice to see.
There are also women who can go 5-10 years without sex, and who prefer cuddling. And on the other end of the spectrum there are something like 10% of women who get off on anal sex. There is much more variety in women than there is in men. We are more alike than we like to think.[/QUOTE]Totally agree that women are extremely variable. Men are also variable but less so.
Regarding the hotel clerk who video recorded clients, he posted on one of major tube sites that starts with x. He made loads of videos of women masturbating in their rooms. His videos have been taken down and I have not seen them on the lesser sites like p. Zog. If I see them, I will let you know.
He responded to my PMs for a while explaining how he made the videos and how often single women would masturbate. I remember him saying that most single women did self love and some did it several times before retiring. But some women stayed multiple nites without touching themselves.
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Leaving America and Irvine
I tried. Anyways. This is why I should leave America until their violent crime and std rates are below 10%. If that takes 20 years? So be it. Seeing as I'm STD / STI clean and a peaceful person, for my own safety, I should be somewhere with similar values until America gets its act together! I'll start raising funds for a long term leave of absence from American Soil starting within the next few days to weeks.
Stds and Stis are fiction. Crime is fiction. However, you guys are providing great lore to use as a reason for leaving to more peaceful, STD / STI free societies, with less obese people while "they" forcefully fix America's problem. Irvine is a terrible place to do anything sketch.
You're going this direction. Don't blame me if you find life to be extreme in the coming years. I'll be a in tent in Nevada or somewhere else.
Cleanse it all from American Society.
Haven't seen your post is in a while
[QUOTE=SukijoSeiwaka;7071249]I tried. Anyways. This is why I should leave America until their violent crime and std rates are below 10%. If that takes 20 years? So be it. ........ I'll be a in tent in Nevada or somewhere else.[/QUOTE]Please keep posting, love reading what you write, so 'fing funny. I thought you were earning passive income being a mathematical scientist or some such shit with your superior intelligence, dating JAV girls.
WW3 physically is likely unlikely
[QUOTE=BraveNuPengwin;7071917]I reckon the US will collapse within the next 4 years, ww3 will likely begin 2025, nows the time to out, before they don't let you leave![/QUOTE]WW3 is already happening and it's cultural grey zone vs weapons. The sooner the west wakes up and realizes this, the.
Be honest. Report both good and bad
[QUOTE=RegDucat;7078893]Now that my account has been activated I would like to give back to this community by sharing reviews. How do you do this so as not to be accused of being a shill or a bot? I have quite a bit of experience to share but I don't want to be attacked if I happen to leave a positive review. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Typical person that's accused as a shill tears down one place as all bad, and builds up another as all good, with glowing walk on water type of statements. I havnen't been in any place that's as good as a "shill" reports. Age is off, place isn't as clean. Whatever.
Don't worry about being called a shill, if you are honest and report your experience, that's why people come here.