My two cents and I'm done
Here's where I disagree with you. You mention two things, first. "not just lost access to some girl' I do indeed consider that to be harmful. We all work to find these UTR diamonds. Someone was generous enough to share with you and your actions could easily have led to them losing access. Why would you not consider that materially injured? At the very least its incredibly poor manners. Secondly. You mention establishing trust for future access for yourself. Do I need to even say it. You may have caused irreparable damage to Jimmyjams chance at the very same thing, and he found her, not you! Anyway, just my two cents.
Wow. Let it go. Enough already
All of you, or start a thread, so you guys can compare your stuff, and who is right and wrong. I even called said girl. She acted skidish, so I said later, these girls are like buses. You miss this one, theres another in 10 minutes. We all have freedom of choice. Sounds like alot of ego here to me.