Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

GeminiVenus.

22 • Female • Charlotte, North Carolina, United States.

Ambitious, fun-loving girl looking for adventure.

Was corresponding with this girl and happened to finally read her profile down to the bottom edge where she said if you lied to her about being married, she would find your wife and tell her everything. After I saw that I asked.

"That would be fun, but I just read the last line of your profile. I am married. Is that an issue for you?

GeminiVenus about 11 hours ago.

"No, not if you're honest with me about it".

I noticed today she has updated her profile to remove that line about calling your wife.

But frankly, someone who threatens that is not someone I would see anyway.

So I signed up with SA for the first time and I'm getting all these message from ladies trying to hoop up. But its funny that some of them don't read the profile. When they get to "Life Style Expectation" a lot of them have HIGH. So when they contact me and I see that I tell them that they are too rich for me. They don't understand. I point out that if they say HIGH, they are expecting a monthly allowance of up to $10,000. If they can get it more power to them. I'm not mad. But they weren't getting it from me. So tell me. Should I do them on a per meeting allowance? Some of them sound like a lot of fun. But if I get a good one, I might retire. So tell me how to handle SA. Is it like AF and WYP? They all the same? I don't believe that all of them are BP girls.

Thanks Guys.

[QUOTE=DollarBill50;3541891]So I signed up with SA for the first time and I'm getting all these message from ladies trying to hoop up. But its funny that some of them don't read the profile. When they get to "Life Style Expectation" a lot of them have HIGH. So when they contact me and I see that I tell them that they are too rich for me. They don't understand. I point out that if they say HIGH, they are expecting a monthly allowance of up to $10,000. If they can get it more power to them. I'm not mad. But they weren't getting it from me. So tell me. Should I do them on a per meeting allowance? Some of them sound like a lot of fun. But if I get a good one, I might retire. So tell me how to handle SA. Is it like AF and WYP? They all the same? I don't believe that all of them are BP girls.

Thanks Guys.[/QUOTE]I have had pretty good success with the site seeing a woman tonight who I've kind of started dating, had a great arrangement with a woman who just moved back to Missouri, and have had some great Pay to play / one time visits. My advice would be to make your financial parameters known up front. When they inevitably ask me if I have had an arrangement before (or I ask them and they respond--what about you), I tell them about my favorite arrangement where are young woman would come to my house, we would hang out, intimacy was always an option, and I gave her 4 to 5 a month, which breaks down to about a Franklin a visit. So they know basically what I am offering. If they counter with something like well I usually get 1000 a month. I say I am sure you are worth it, but that is too rich for me. Usually, they move on, or call me cheap and move on, or in a couple of instances decide to negotiate. I have seen a 400 a visit girl for a buck 50. But I find most of the ones I am interested in -- not necessarily the Barbie doll / beauty queen / porn star, more like the Girl next door / MILF type-- are good with a Franklin a visit after we meet and they see that I am polite, clean, and fun. Also, I like to get them off of SA.

And talking to me by text or email that often gives me the opportunity to do a little background checking on them as well.

Most will do a per visit areangement if they really need the money and they feel like you are safe and reliable.

[QUOTE=DollarBill50;3541891]So I signed up with SA for the first time and I'm getting all these message from ladies trying to hoop up. But its funny that some of them don't read the profile. When they get to "Life Style Expectation" a lot of them have HIGH. So when they contact me and I see that I tell them that they are too rich for me. They don't understand. I point out that if they say HIGH, they are expecting a monthly allowance of up to $10,000. If they can get it more power to them. I'm not mad. But they weren't getting it from me. So tell me. Should I do them on a per meeting allowance? Some of them sound like a lot of fun. But if I get a good one, I might retire. So tell me how to handle SA. Is it like AF and WYP? They all the same? I don't believe that all of them are BP girls.

Thanks Guys.[/QUOTE]I have had pretty good success with the site – – seeing a woman tonight who I've kind of started dating, had a great arrangement with a woman who just move back to Missouri, and have had some great Pay to play slash one time visits. My advice would be to make your financial parameters known up front. When they inevitably ask me if I have had an arrangement before (or I ask them and they respond--what about you), I tell them about my favorite arrangement where are young woman would come to my house, we would hang out, intimacy was always an option, and I gave her 4 to 5 months, which breaks down to about a Franklin a visit. So they know basically what I am offering. If they counter with something like – – well are usually get 1000 a month. I say I am sure you are worth it, but that is too rich for me. Usually, they move on, or call me cheap and move on, or in a couple of instances decide to negotiate. I have seen a 400 a visit girl for a buck 50. But I find most of the ones I am interested in – – not necessarily the Barbie doll / beauty queen / porn star, more like the Girl next door / MILF type-- are good with a Franklin a visit after we meet and they see that I am polite, clean, and fun. Also, I like to get them off of SAM talking to me by text or email – – that often gives me the opportunity to do a little background checking on them as well.

[QUOTE=DollarBill50;3541891]So I signed up with SA for the first time and I'm getting all these message from ladies trying to hoop up. But its funny that some of them don't read the profile. When they get to "Life Style Expectation" a lot of them have HIGH. So when they contact me and I see that I tell them that they are too rich for me. They don't understand. I point out that if they say HIGH, they are expecting a monthly allowance of up to $10,000. If they can get it more power to them. I'm not mad. But they weren't getting it from me. So tell me. Should I do them on a per meeting allowance? Some of them sound like a lot of fun. But if I get a good one, I might retire. So tell me how to handle SA. Is it like AF and WYP? They all the same? I don't believe that all of them are BP girls.

Thanks Guys.[/QUOTE]I have had pretty good success with the site – – seeing a woman tonight who I've kind of started dating, had a great arrangement with a woman who just moved back to Missouri, and have had some great Pay to play slash one time visits. My advice would be to make your financial parameters known up front. When they inevitably ask me if I have had an arrangement before (or I ask them and they respond--what about you), I tell them about my favorite arrangement where are young woman would come to my house, we would hang out, intimacy was always an option, and I gave her 4 to 5 a month, which breaks down to about a Franklin a visit. So they know basically what I am offering. If they counter with something like – – well are usually get 1000 a month. I say I am sure you are worth it, but that is too rich for me. Usually, they move on, or call me cheap and move on, or in a couple of instances decide to negotiate. I have seen a 400 a visit girl for a buck 50. But I find most of the ones I am interested in – – not necessarily the Barbie doll / beauty queen / porn star, more like the Girl next door / MILF type-- are good with a Franklin a visit after we meet and they see that I am polite, clean, and fun. Also, I like to get them off of SA and talking to me by text or email – – that often gives me the opportunity to do a little background checking on them as well.

[QUOTE=DollarBill50;3541891]So I signed up with SA for the first time and I'm getting all these message from ladies trying to hoop up. But its funny that some of them don't read the profile. When they get to "Life Style Expectation" a lot of them have HIGH. So when they contact me and I see that I tell them that they are too rich for me. They don't understand. I point out that if they say HIGH, they are expecting a monthly allowance of up to $10,000. If they can get it more power to them. I'm not mad. But they weren't getting it from me. So tell me. Should I do them on a per meeting allowance? Some of them sound like a lot of fun. But if I get a good one, I might retire. So tell me how to handle SA. Is it like AF and WYP? They all the same? I don't believe that all of them are BP girls.

Thanks Guys.[/QUOTE]-ignore the lifestyle expectation.

I've had great success. Currently have 2 girls I want to see for a while, so I'm off the site for the time being. I'll go back on when I get bored with these 2.

-offer up texting early. I only meet up with girls who I can identify ahead of time, for my own safety.

-DON'T BE A CREEP. Approach them like they are a human being. A lot of men on that site don't. Just take a little interest in their lives. Make them feel like they aren't essentially being a prostitute, even though we know the truth.

-I tell them I only do per meet but tell them that, that way also doesn't obligate them to hang out a certain number of times a month. Many end up liking that.

-I make it clear up front that I have zero interest in interfering in their real lives. Most seem to appreciate that. Also gives a chance to tell them I expect the same discretion in return.

-Offer up a meet and greet. I like to meet for coffee. That type of casual meet seems to put people at ease. I've never paid anyone for a meet and greet (though don't be a jerk, buy them a coffee)

-I do make it clear that I am looking for a physical arrangement.

Well, I had an amazing 4 weeks with a girl next door type, she was 20 and genuinely innocent bordering naive. The advice below is spot on. Don't be a creep, be upfront. You can be kind and still be firm in your wants / offerings.

Sadly, the young lady I had been seeing found her old boyfriend and began another relationship. I paid per visit and was transparent from the beginning. Bruco and SludgePup said it very well. Do your homework if possible, be nice and upfront.

All I can say is WOW!

First all I paid for just 1 month, so I have gotten a few day left. I'm finding out that some of these young ladies just want the money just to pay some bills. There is nothing for them on that site but that. Some of them are "SUPPOSE" to get getting like $500 per visit. OMG! I have been ask for $500 for rent to $400 for getting their car fixed. No first date, no lets meet in the parking lot first. Just give me that cash and we can call it a day. I have been offered webcam (Which I never do unless we have had a sexual relationship first) A couple of them want to be just exclusive. Which I don't mind. That could lead to a lot of other things. But I have a couple that just want to go to dinner and meet. Then lets go from there. Hanging out can lead to the other stuff. That comes from the olders ladies. (30+ in age). The young ones want to meet right away. Lets get to the business of having sex so that I can get my monthly allowance or per visit cash. I find it funny.

Let me tell you a funny.

So I had these ladies from Charlotte. They wanted money as a favor from me and will pay me back (YEA! RIGHT!) So I told one of them that I had a date with one girl on the site for like $500. She was going to let me spend the night with her and have as much as I wanted. (I really wasn't). The other girl got mad and told me that she was way better than the one I was going to see. She said that I can come see her for $400. I fell out. I said to myself SELF: You could parlay this into everything and a all nighter for like $50 if yu play your cards right. So there are girls on that site you can probably get for like $100 every 2 weeks and get everything. I haven't indulge just yet. Just see how far they are willing to go. SA is kinda of a gold mine.

But there are some of the older ladies that just want to hangout, have dinner and drinks. Then see what can become of that. But I bet you have them for a LTR. There is no STR with them at all. But there a few cute older ladies that I might try that with. I would be out of pocket on this site, but just maybe it might be worth it. WHO KNOWS.

You guys be safe.

And have fun.

I just signed up but haven't actually met up with anyone yet. I've exchanged texts with afew and gotten respectable $2-3 prices. I'm still having ahard time about that nevermind your $500 advances and promises "to get you back " LOL.

Agreed could be a gold mine or just fools gold. Let me know how you make out.

[QUOTE=DollarBill50;3545018]All I can say is WOW!

First all I paid for just 1 month, so I have gotten a few day left. I'm finding out that some of these young ladies just want the money just to pay some bills. There is nothing for them on that site but that. Some of them are "SUPPOSE" to get getting like $500 per visit. OMG! I have been ask for $500 for rent to $400 for getting their car fixed. No first date, no lets meet in the parking lot first. Just give me that cash and we can call it a day. I have been offered webcam (Which I never do unless we have had a sexual relationship first) A couple of them want to be just exclusive. Which I don't mind. That could lead to a lot of other things. But I have a couple that just want to go to dinner and meet. Then lets go from there. Hanging out can lead to the other stuff. That comes from the olders ladies. (30+ in age). The young ones want to meet right away. Lets get to the business of having sex so that I can get my monthly allowance or per visit cash. I find it funny.

Let me tell you a funny.

So I had these ladies from Charlotte. They wanted money as a favor from me and will pay me back (YEA! RIGHT!) So I told one of them that I had a date with one girl on the site for like $500. She was going to let me spend the night with her and have as much as I wanted. (I really wasn't). The other girl got mad and told me that she was way better than the one I was going to see. She said that I can come see her for $400. I fell out. I said to myself SELF: You could parlay this into everything and a all nighter for like $50 if yu play your cards right. So there are girls on that site you can probably get for like $100 every 2 weeks and get everything. I haven't indulge just yet. Just see how far they are willing to go. SA is kinda of a gold mine.

But there are some of the older ladies that just want to hangout, have dinner and drinks. Then see what can become of that. But I bet you have them for a LTR. There is no STR with them at all. But there a few cute older ladies that I might try that with. I would be out of pocket on this site, but just maybe it might be worth it. WHO KNOWS.

You guys be safe.

And have fun.[/QUOTE]

What does SA mean?

[QUOTE=DonBr;3547555]What does SA mean?[/QUOTE]Seeking Arrangement.

Seeking Arrangement.

[QUOTE=DonBr;3547555]What does SA mean?[/QUOTE]

I've actually had some decent luck on SA. You do have to weed trough the fakes and escorts, etc. But many real women are on there. Previous reports are correct, treat them with respect, like you would a real person (that's what they are) and you can have fun.

Only bad experience I had ever was from supersweetnfun. Her profile is deleted now, or maybe she just blocked me, but we met once in public, had some fun, everything seemed fine. Next time she ripped me off. I think her name is Heather and she posted her location as Denver. Not sure what her issue is, maybe drugs? (But didn't seem that type at all). But she could have made a lot more off me than what she stole. I'm not the type to make a big deal out of it.

Just heads up!

She blocked you. Her profile is still up.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6b5dcfbd-2dec-4974-b7e6-1563001fee67[/URL]

[QUOTE=Newguy72;3550154]I've actually had some decent luck on SA. You do have to weed trough the fakes and escorts, etc. But many real women are on there. Previous reports are correct, treat them with respect, like you would a real person (that's what they are) and you can have fun.

Only bad experience I had ever was from supersweetnfun. Her profile is deleted now, or maybe she just blocked me, but we met once in public, had some fun, everything seemed fine. Next time she ripped me off. I think her name is Heather and she posted her location as Denver. Not sure what her issue is, maybe drugs? (But didn't seem that type at all). But she could have made a lot more off me than what she stole. I'm not the type to make a big deal out of it.

Just heads up![/QUOTE]

I know that girl. She has been pinging me for like 4 days now. Trying to get me to hookup with her. She wanted $200 for her to come by and have some fun. I kicked her to the curb. But she still pings me. LOLOLOL.

I can't believe it. She always want to come over to my house. I'm glad that I turned her down. Sorry for your lost. There are some good ones on that site. You are right. I have been out with a couple of them. But I never come over to my house on a date. I told them once I get to know you then we might start that. We always meet somewhere public. THAT GIRL BEEN JOCKING ME FOR A FEW DAYS NOW!!

I willl stay away from her like the plague.

[QUOTE=Newguy72;3550154]I've actually had some decent luck on SA. You do have to weed trough the fakes and escorts, etc. But many real women are on there. Previous reports are correct, treat them with respect, like you would a real person (that's what they are) and you can have fun.

Only bad experience I had ever was from supersweetnfun. Her profile is deleted now, or maybe she just blocked me, but we met once in public, had some fun, everything seemed fine. Next time she ripped me off. I think her name is Heather and she posted her location as Denver. Not sure what her issue is, maybe drugs? (But didn't seem that type at all). But she could have made a lot more off me than what she stole. I'm not the type to make a big deal out of it.

Just heads up![/QUOTE]