Getting bored with the hobby
Also in my 50's here. Age may be a factor, but here's another one: The options before us at present are simply not very good.
As others have noted, there are some young, chubby $100 girls asking for $500 or more:
[URL]https://tryst.link/escort/naughtynicole-333[/URL]
And I know some of you with geriatric preferences like "MILFs". Fine and good. But there is a difference between a hot older woman (I acknowledge that they exist), and a beat-to-heck, overweight old woman:
[URL]https://tryst.link/escort/annie-girl[/URL]
Or you can spend $450 on a woman whose cellulite-covered posterior could justify its own zip code:
[URL]https://tryst.link/escort/karmyn-bankz[/URL]
Honestly, I don't know if these options would have appealed to me when I was a horny 16-year-old, and certainly not at these prices.
The good news: The market is historically cyclical. This, too, shall pass. If you're feeling unmotivated by the high-priced, low-quality options at present, hold on to your $ for now. COVID turned lots of markets upside down this year. Why should the hobby market be any different?
[QUOTE=UOnlyLiveOnce;4997630]For those who've been mongering for a while. Do you ever get bored with the hobby? I appear to be in such a phase now. Last time I got some was with Ariel about 3 months ago. For most of the time since then, I've wanted it yet not wanted it at the same time, if you know what I'm trying to say.
I think part of it is I'm getting tired of women in general. Not so much sexually, but more because their bullshit seems to get worse with each passing year (we can thank social media for that). COVID and the lack of quality providers here has probably put a damper on it too. But it's starting to feel kind of boring even apart from these things. Maybe after almost 10 years of pretty continuous hobby action, I'm starting to get de-sensitized to it. 20-something chicks with shaved mounds and tattoos were a novelty and a huge turn-on once upon a time. Now, the novelty has worn off. I used to know how many women I've slept with, now, I would have to go through all my posts here from the last 8 or 9 years to give even a rough estimate.
Maybe it's age too. I'm in my 50's. I've never needed those special pills, but losing some interest kind of bothers me anyway.
Can't really bring up this subject with anyone in everyday life, so am interested to hear your thoughts.[/QUOTE]
Defining "average girls", and reasonable age spreads
[QUOTE=Lenny6746;5001401]We all have our own tastes when seeking providers. What you think is great I may think she's bad. Ages to me do not matter as long as they are over 18 and under 50. I look for the average girls not the beauty Queens. I mainly judge a provider by performance. If I'm not sexually attracted to one I leave. I'm not into strippers LOL they are not worth a fuck in bed LOL. I've been with a few lesbians they are worse than strippers. In today world 98% are using drugs. Most of them have their BFs or husbands close by. Streetwalkers are now on new sites and liscrawler selling it for 150 to 200 a hour. They were getting 40 on the street. I had counted 4 of them on skip the games in one day last week. On list crawler the ads are full of them. A lot of you say I don't do streetwalkers. The hell you say their ads are up now and your fucking them at a higher rate that's all. I currently have 5 providers I see none with ads up and one that walks. That's the way it is today!! Lenny6746.[/QUOTE]
I agree with what you say about the streetwalkers now dominating the online platforms. That's why the pickings are so slim nowadays.
As for age: 18 to 50 is quite a spread. That is barely legal to grandma territory. My standard is: under 35, with a focus on women under 30. I don't want to pay to boink grandmas.
As for average girls: I am fine with average girls. But what is an average girl?
To the me, an "average girl" is Ryann:
[URL]https://tryst.link/escort/ryannxoxo[/URL]
She's not bad, but you wouldn't gawk at her if you saw her in public, either.
The problem is, most of the girls on the sites at present are not "average". They are old, fat, or simply unattractive:
[URL]https://tryst.link/escort/vixen-simone[/URL]
[URL]https://tryst.link/escort/karmyn-bankz[/URL]
[URL]https://tryst.link/escort/katness0049-kik[/URL]
[URL]https://tryst.link/escort/annie-girl[/URL]