"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

I've been striking gold lately but it's costing more than I want to dish out at the time. My SD4me rights expired but I uploaded a nice photo and it wasn't long I got an email from a full access member. She said I was cute and we began messaging, then texting, which led to talking. I named her Mayweather since she threw the first punch, she reached out to me so I knew the sugar amount was under my control. Long story short, she lives 1500 miles away so my only choice was to fly to her. The festivities cost $800 for the 4 days we were together and all I could say was "Wow! Now that was money well spent." It went like this.

She texted me asking what I think she should wear to the airport so I said whatever she was confortable with. Plane lands, we hug and it's an hour drive to her place. We are in her garage & began kissing which led to roaming hands & before I knew it, Jr. Was in her mouth. When the 4 day trip was over, we balled (had sex) 7 times. We screwed around more in 4 days than what I got from a girl I dated for 3 months. Mayweather is a 7/9/10/10 blonde MILF in her mid 30's, has her own place, loves sex & works a steady job. Sad part is, she cried when I flew back to my headquarters. Did she get attached? Uh oh!

I am flying a babe to me that lives 800 miles away in less than a week, that also initiated contact, this one is on SA. A 28 year old brunette that does mechanic work, weird huh. She will be known as lug nuts. 9/7/10 & a preseason rank of a 10 on her skills. Her texts suggest that we are going to have a ball when we get together. She is texting me pictures of items that better be on my bed when she gets here, which include handcuffs, lube, and all the goodies we will need. She would text saying she wants to deep throat, wants her hair pulled while being pounded, and wants all 3 holes explored. She thinks I'm the world's funniest guy so my only cost will be her flight $388 & a room for 2 days (roughly $200). Even though I'm single, my cottage is off limits. She wanted to stay up to a week but with me having to work and not using my place, I have only scheduled our time for 2 days. The problem will be daytime hours. I have to report back since I room with a sibling just so he doesn't get concerned. I work nights so being gone all night is normal. I am thinking about booking a hotel where everything she needs is within walking distance: mall, spa, dining etc. Should I go cheap on the room to keep the cost low or do I owe her at least a 3 star since she won't be staying at my place?

So seeing MsLilMama is becoming harder because of schedules. MsThickness seems to have communication problems. It is very sporadic, which can be maddening when you need to plan and confirm.

So I met with the 3rd and 4th round draft picks from my CL fishing. One, TheArtist was 5'10 big girl with an interesting taste in clothing. We talked for a while face to face and need to schedule our next date.

The second, has this little girl voice, cute face. 38d, and way overboard on the hips butt and thighs MsHipsnThighs ( 8/7/9/8). So to make a long story short, we had meet and greet yesterday morning and she rode the Tiggastick in the backseat that night. She also finished me off with an incredible BBBJ CIM and swallow to send me home with a smile. I will meet her this morning. Then MsThickness this afternoon.

BigTigg

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1889279]Brothers,

I believe I am the one Magic is referring to. As it has been said before, none of us is invincible, and yesterday my SO caught me with my browser open to SA, but fortunately not yet logged in. I was able to tap dance with enough skill to divert her from launching the nukes, but I am under heavy scrutiny for the foreseeable future, and will need to lay low, if not cease all Sugar activity until peace is restored.

In all honesty, I am mulling over in my head the ramifications of becoming single again, but I don't know if I could handle the devastation to my children.

Be careful out there,

Scott.

My sympathies my friend. Many of us have been there, done that. Unfortunately this hobby is addicting and we all know it. I can't give it up either as hard as I am trying.

The increased scrutiny will be maddening and the tendency will be to hold anger towards your SO. This will further erode the intimacy between the two of you. Face it, if our relationships were great we wouldn't be out here in the Sugar World.

The lesson for our brotherhood is this : We all will get caught if we do this long enough. ALL of us. No matter how careful you are there will be a slip up like brother Scott, me, Alias, and others. I'm on my 3rd life now.do I get 9 lives? I doubt it. Stop it before you get addicted if you value your SO relationship.

I haven't posted in a while because things have been slow in the bowl lately. I had to go out of town on a project for a month, and that seemed to precipitate a dry spell. I was in F. Scott's neck of the woods and thought I would drop a line in those waters. I had a couple of interesting nibbles, but could not land a trophy. I did have one meet and greet, and the young lady who showed up did not bear much of a resemblance to the photos I had seen. While she seemed ready and willing to climb aboard for $ a visit, I had to throw her back as she was over my size limit. After a couple of weeks of frustration, I decided that maybe a short break was good for me and just focused on getting the job done and back home.

Since arriving home, things have continued on their slow trend, but I have a few good prospects shaping up and hope that I'll turn it around this week.

SB-3, my booty call baby, texted me at midnight a couple of nights ago and wanted to come over. I was already in bed, but I just figured that would save time on getting my pants off. She came over, we reacquainted ourselves, and she spent the night. Our original arrangement was $ per visit but I have almost always given her $.2, with a little extra to cover her gas. When she left for work the next morning, I only had $ because I wasn't expecting her, so I slipped tht in her purse like always. Later in the day I got a terse text from her about being short. I reminded her of our original deal, and she was still pissed, so I may be looking for a new booty call baby.

SB-1 doesn't know I'm back in town yet. Communication with her was poor while I was out of town. I really have fun with her and she's a very pretty white-Korean mix, but the sex has always been so-so. I don't know if we'll start back up.

I had a brand new, for sure first time 22 yo baby set up for a M&G last week. She seemed eager and excited, and had agreed to $ per visit 'or whatever I thought was fair'. She then proceeded to flake on me two days in a row followed by 3 days of silence. On the third day (the 30th of the month) she texted her apologies, and asked if she could borrow money for rent! These girls crack me up.

I've been hit up twice this week by pro's from SA, both talking the language, one wanted $$$ 'hun'; and the other $$$$ for 2 hours. I politely declined those fabulous offers.

I have M&G's scheduled for the next three days with girls that I think are 'real' and whom I have already offered $ per visit. I just received an initial response form another who appears to be 10/10/9 material asking for a picture. If she starts looking like a viable candidate she will leap to the front of the line and I will be prepared to up the ante. In any event, I'm having fun.

[QUOTE=Dsprdo; 1890278]I had to throw her back as she was over my size limit.

SB-3, my booty call baby, texted me at midnight a couple of nights ago and wanted to come over. I was already in bed, but I just figured that would save time on getting my pants off. She came over, we reacquainted ourselves, and she spent the night. Our original arrangement was $ per visit but I have almost always given her $.2, with a little extra to cover her gas. When she left for work the next morning, I only had $ because I wasn't expecting her, so I slipped tht in her purse like always. Later in the day I got a terse text from her about being short. I reminded her of our original deal, and she was still pissed, so I may be looking for a new booty call baby.

I had a brand new, for sure first time 22 yo baby set up for a M&G last week. She seemed eager and excited, and had agreed to $ per visit 'or whatever I thought was fair'. She then proceeded to flake on me two days in a row followed by 3 days of silence. On the third day (the 30th of the month) she texted her apologies, and asked if she could borrow money for rent! These girls crack me up.[/QUOTE]Paragraph 1. LOL.

Paragraph 2. It was an overnite. If it was me I would pay up and continue fucking her at your convenience.

Paragraph 3. Recently lent a girl .6. Take a guess if she or any other girl, ever, has paid me back.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1890327]Paragraph 2. It was an overnite. If it was me I would pay up and continue fucking her at your convenience.[/QUOTE]I agree, definitely fine with giving her the money. I was just surprised because she was really indignant. It just shows that anything extra given is soon not an extra but an expectation.

[QUOTE=AliasSM; 1889509]Scott- I doubt that finding a single web site open on your laptop is enough evidence to prosecute on. Likely only a small percentage of people that actually visit the SA website actually act on their fantasies. You can continue to claim your innocence and be totally believable.

To all married guys who continue to play this game. Be extra careful and always keep up your guard.[/QUOTE]Alias,

My best play was to say that the link to SA had apparently come in on some sort of spam, and that I had not, in fact, sought it out. There was clear skepticism, but enough plausibility that I slept in my own bed that night. The real issue is moving forward, and I'm sad and afraid that for the next few weeks, or months, I will need to impersonate an altar boy. I vacillate between chucking the whole married thing or keeping on living the under-cover life. I know I am addicted to the adrenaline rush of fear mixed with lust, so just don't know where to land. Yoga tomorrow, just to clear my head. Hopefully Jenn will be teaching.

Keep up the good work, my brothers. I am always here to be a sounding board if nothing else, and am happy to share any insights I may have.

Sheesh,

Scott

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1890365]Alias,

My best play was to say that the link to SA had apparently come in on some sort of spam, and that I had not, in fact, sought it out. There was clear skepticism, but enough plausibility that I slept in my own bed that night. The real issue is moving forward, and I'm sad and afraid that for the next few weeks, or months, I will need to impersonate an altar boy. I vacillate between chucking the whole married thing or keeping on living the under-cover life. I know I am addicted to the adrenaline rush of fear mixed with lust, so just don't know where to land. Yoga tomorrow, just to clear my head. Hopefully Jenn will be teaching.

Keep up the good work, my brothers. I am always here to be a sounding board if nothing else, and am happy to share any insights I may have.

Sheesh,

Scott[/QUOTE]Remember she wants to believe you are innocent. It is your job to help her through this. Do not change your habits. That means don't start being nicer and more caring all of a sudden.

Women are amazingly sensitive to any change of behavior. Stay steady brother.

Revvo

[QUOTE=Revvo; 1890442]Remember she wants to believe you are innocent. It is your job to help her through this. Do not change your habits. That means don't start being nicer and more caring all of a sudden.

Women are amazingly sensitive to any change of behavior. Stay steady brother.

Revvo[/QUOTE]Back in the day. If I just felt like takin an extra shower I would get the third degree.

Maybe these will get someone to go visit the poor lass.

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G Damn. That would be my PERFECT SB. Tell us more!

[QUOTE=JoeBlowDC; 1890511]Maybe these will get someone to go visit the poor lass.

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[ATTACH=CONFIG]278377[/ATTACH][/QUOTE]Where is it? DO planes go there? LOL

Although if she is needing $650 she won't get it in one visit . A recent One and done SB just before my "retirement" wanted $1000 for tuition and books to see me again . When I offered my usual $250/meet she didn't even respond . Too bad since she was ATF material and could have gotten $1000 /month for "ever". Definitely in the top 5 sweetest pussies I have ever had . These Babies are so short sighted sometimes .

Gentlemen,

As I near the end of day two in solitary, I am amazed at how much I am jonesing, if that is the right term, over the lack of babies in my foreseeable future. It really is an addiction, I'm coming to believe, and while I did not maintain as active a schedule as some of you, just the knowledge that there will be no hot young pussy for me for the next several months has got me in a total funk. Is it possible to experience depression over pussy withdrawal? I believe it is.

The 500 pound gorilla continues to sit in the corner, making mornings and evenings strained to say the least. Last night we were watching tv, and some show was on where the husband gets caught cheating, and the suddenly-escalated tension in the room almost gave me a grabber. I now know it is possible to hear someone thinking bad thoughts about you.

Thank you to all who have posted or pm'ed me with advice and words of encouragement. I know that this too will pass, and whether the center will hold or not, I will survive.

Onward, in a bit,

Scott

That is the sound of walking on eggshells. The questions and ultimate explosion never seem very far away. Dissemination, obfuscation, and feigned innocence only work for so long. Hopefully SOs don't take a heightened interest in the family finances, because once the cash flow is cut off the party is over. Unfortunately money is the name of the game in keeping these little angels interested, at least for us oldsters. Perhaps you 30 somethings have enough realistic appeal to be considered a real life prospect, but not those of us who are 3 or more decades older. No matter how cute and interesting we are money talks.

The media if rife with shows and news stories about some aspect of infidelity, porn, or prostitution. Not a day goes by that it isn't thrown in our face. For an overly sensitized SO it is a constant strain.

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1891180]Gentlemen,

As I near the end of day two in solitary, I am amazed at how much I am jonesing, if that is the right term, over the lack of babies in my foreseeable future. It really is an addiction, I'm coming to believe, and while I did not maintain as active a schedule as some of you, just the knowledge that there will be no hot young pussy for me for the next several months has got me in a total funk. Is it possible to experience depression over pussy withdrawal? I believe it is.

The 500 pound gorilla continues to sit in the corner, making mornings and evenings strained to say the least. Last night we were watching tv, and some show was on where the husband gets caught cheating, and the suddenly-escalated tension in the room almost gave me a grabber. I now know it is possible to hear someone thinking bad thoughts about you.

Thank you to all who have posted or pm'ed me with advice and words of encouragement. I know that this too will pass, and whether the center will hold or not, I will survive.

Onward, in a bit,

Scott[/QUOTE]I remember at some point in my x marriage where I had to stop watching love scenes on TV because they were so irritating knowing I was"nt going to get any. I sympathize. No new pussy. Fuck that. No young girl pussy. Fuck that. No spontaneous wild sex. Fuck that. No hot extended makeout sessions. Fuck that. Never again for me bro. Pussy is my drug of choice.