Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Ymch520;5220473]Hi,

Fist time I am got in touch withsome on SA. And she is asking 250 ppm. She has not tell me what's inclided. But being ideal guy at first, I told her I am looking casual only. Not sure how she interpret. Should I ask her straight up about what's included or let it go with flow as gf and developing connection? Appreciate any feedback.[/QUOTE]I would tell her what you are expecting. Early on when I start communicating with them off the site I tell them I am looking for an arrangement that is physical and not platonic. If that is what she is expecting it shouldn't be a problem but if she is looking for platonic you saved yourself time and aggravation. As for the 250 my opinion is it depends on how far from Boston you are and how young / hot she is. In Southern NH 200-300 seems to be the sweet spot for me. The closer they are to Boston the more they seem to expect.

[QUOTE=LordOfThEeyes;5219676][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bafeb5ee-60a0-4389-a032-c4a3331ecaf6[/URL]

Why do girls shoot for 500 all the time.[/QUOTE]Because I am sure some suckers pay that amount. Thats the bottom line. Some guys ruin it for everyone else because they pay these crazy prices when they think with there little head instead of the big one.

[QUOTE=Bran001;5217986]I certainly don't bring anyone to my home. Ever. Yes. I have more to lose than these women. That's always the case; it's just "table stakes" for playing in the Sugar Bowl.[/QUOTE]I have been seeing this SB for the past 3 months. A few times she has insisted she wanted to come back to my house & spend some time with me. As much as I know how fun it could be to have her over I have to think about the potential risk that she ends up being a psycho and cause me headaches. You know what they say you don't shit where you eat.

That is about average for an average girl. Just take her for coffee or lunch and get down to details and see if you really want to go to FC with her.

[QUOTE=Ymch520;5220473]Hi,

Fist time I am got in touch withsome on SA. And she is asking 250 ppm. She has not tell me what's inclided. But being ideal guy at first, I told her I am looking casual only. Not sure how she interpret. Should I ask her straight up about what's included or let it go with flow as gf and developing connection? Appreciate any feedback.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LordOfThEeyes;5219676][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bafeb5ee-60a0-4389-a032-c4a3331ecaf6[/URL]

Why do girls shoot for 500 all the time.[/QUOTE]This one is a semi-pro. And has advertised on eros / lc before. I almost booked when she was quoting 300 but no GFE and she wanted me to pay for the uber. I passed.

[QUOTE=LordOfThEeyes;5219676][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bafeb5ee-60a0-4389-a032-c4a3331ecaf6[/URL]

Why do girls shoot for 500 all the time.[/QUOTE]500 happens all the time around Boston. That said, to me she's no 500 girl. Not close.

[QUOTE=Ymch520;5220473]Hi,

Fist time I am got in touch withsome on SA. And she is asking 250 ppm. She has not tell me what's inclided. But being ideal guy at first, I told her I am looking casual only. Not sure how she interpret. Should I ask her straight up about what's included or let it go with flow as gf and developing connection? Appreciate any feedback.[/QUOTE]Move the conversation off SA as soon as possible then be upfront and tell her what you are looking for, politely. If you keep leaving hints that are up for interpretation you will end up disappointed. Most girls are looking for the easy way of receiving money and if they think you are ok with no sex they will lead you on. I put that I am not looking for platonic in my profile so if they respond and act surprised when I mention sex I just refer to my profile and that I was up front with them. Meet for coffee or something really casual and quick. You will know right away if it is going to happen or not, don't waste your time chasing the unicorn and move on if the vibe isn't there. Also don't be disappointed if she pulls a no show, just go onto the next one.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b808b073-b844-4274-881a-d868bdcf8420[/URL] Has anyone seen or talked to her? She looks like my type and she said her prices range from 250 to 500 but she wants an upfront $50 deposit for the meet and greet which she says she'll put to the actual visit. Yes I know most ladies asking for a deposit are scammers. She's been on the site for 9 days so maybe she isn't a scammer, as they are usually booted off pretty quickly. I might give it another week and see if she is booted off or not.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1127e4a2-8eb8-40b5-939e-4664897b5bec[/URL] - This one is straight up escort. She told me escorts have sex and sugar babies don't. She wants 500 for the hr. Told me she gets that in all the cities she visits. I told her I'd pass.

[QUOTE=BigStu;5222280][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b808b073-b844-4274-881a-d868bdcf8420[/URL] Has anyone seen or talked to her? She looks like my type and she said her prices range from 250 to 500 but she wants an upfront $50 deposit for the meet and greet which she says she'll put to the actual visit. Yes I know most ladies asking for a deposit are scammers. She's been on the site for 9 days so maybe she isn't a scammer, as they are usually booted off pretty quickly. I might give it another week and see if she is booted off or not.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1127e4a2-8eb8-40b5-939e-4664897b5bec[/URL] - This one is straight up escort. She told me escorts have sex and sugar babies don't. She wants 500 for the hr. Told me she gets that in all the cities she visits. I told her I'd pass.[/QUOTE]Looks like a dude to me?? But she certainly isn't a rookie and good luck with the prepay. Offer her a meet and greet for coffee and if she refuses move on but that is only my opinion. I won't even pay the 23 yos 500, so to even think of shelling that kind of cash for a mature girl would never happen.

[QUOTE=BigStu;5222280][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b808b073-b844-4274-881a-d868bdcf8420[/URL] Has anyone seen or talked to her? She looks like my type and she said her prices range from 250 to 500 but she wants an upfront $50 deposit for the meet and greet which she says she'll put to the actual visit. Yes I know most ladies asking for a deposit are scammers. She's been on the site for 9 days so maybe she isn't a scammer, as they are usually booted off pretty quickly. I might give it another week and see if she is booted off or not.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1127e4a2-8eb8-40b5-939e-4664897b5bec[/URL] - This one is straight up escort. She told me escorts have sex and sugar babies don't. She wants 500 for the hr. Told me she gets that in all the cities she visits. I told her I'd pass.[/QUOTE]IMO both of these scream PRO escort to me, the 2nd one just came out and was honest about it. Giving you a price range for meetings and requiring a deposit that she will put towards the visit, this is all PRO talk. Also the bit about not willing to send verification photos ("No I won't be sending pics with 2 fingers up".

Not saying she's not real and actually will deliver on everything she says, but know the risks you are opening yourself up to with ANY deposit first sugar baby or escort.

Do you remember her number for the Eros / lc ads by any chance? Or have links?

[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;5221002]This one is a semi-pro. And has advertised on eros / lc before. I almost booked when she was quoting 300 but no GFE and she wanted me to pay for the uber. I passed.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ThirdBasePleas;5220114][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/36d21e96-1ce1-4165-8092-7e7acc266bec[/URL]

She knows what she wants, anyone have any experience?[/QUOTE]She wants 500-600, lives in south boston and will send pics to verify. Haven't met her.

[QUOTE=BigStu;5222280][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b808b073-b844-4274-881a-d868bdcf8420[/URL] Has anyone seen or talked to her? She looks like my type and she said her prices range from 250 to 500 but she wants an upfront $50 deposit for the meet and greet which she says she'll put to the actual visit. Yes I know most ladies asking for a deposit are scammers. She's been on the site for 9 days so maybe she isn't a scammer, as they are usually booted off pretty quickly. I might give it another week and see if she is booted off or not.
[/QUOTE]Everything you wrote says, "I'm going to be scammed but I don't care. ".

Looking to hear input / experience from people who have been with 19 or 20 years old SB. I have never been with one under 21 and right now talking with a 19 why / o, new territory for me. What are they really looking for.

[QUOTE=Bran001;5223472]Everything you wrote says, "I'm going to be scammed but I don't care. ".[/QUOTE]Her pictures have been on there before. Anyone asking for gas money, money for phone bill, money to hold off an eviction, all upfront before the first meet is a scammer. Report her as such. Offer to hand her a $100 dollar bill in person when you meet. They'll be some type of excuse.