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[QUOTE=PlaynAtl;3261347]I do too, but the problem with that is how are you going to explain where you were? Even if it is one hundred percent clearly self defense, there will be news stories, public police records, etc. How do you explain to the wife why you were there to begin with?[/QUOTE]When LEO and TV shows up, instead of explaining, blow them away.
Wife asks were you were, blow her away too. Kids? Hey, can't have witnesses.
[QUOTE=IronCity;3261209]Any Japanese Karaoke places in or around Atlanta? The Adult version, not just the ability to rent a room. ?[/QUOTE]Some just don't accept any foreigners and some are just so expensive. Korean KOK is slightly cheaper but still very expensive. They will take foreigners, but it is best to go with a Korean friend.
I am a retired Asian guy and I have through the years met lots of Caucasian girlfriends, a lot of them are dancers or ex-dancers. I take them our to dinner and go drinking with them and sometimes I take them to the hotel. I don't pay them for sex. Only once in awhile like Christmas buy them some clothes to go out with me. I was in a classy hotel room with 2 of them having fun and in come 4 cops when we were not dressed. They said some people reported that we had drugs and prostitution. After being grilled and questioned individually for above 45 minutes, they left without finding any evidence of either claim and told me that I can stay in the hotel. I told them I know these girls for 7 and 3 years and I know their families and they are some of my girlfriends. I was totally humiliated. How can people accuse others without any evidence or facts and I always think you need some evidence before you can search and detain people? I always think USA is a land of law and order and freedom. Don't get me wrong. I always support the cops for protecting us and risked their lives everyday. This is the second time this happened. Situations like this that make me feel I never belong here. I bet you if I were a Caucasian guy, this will not happen. I hate people discriminating against others and I surely strongly dislike being treated like this. Has this occurred to you? I have lived here for 51 years, paid millions of taxes through my working years, and honestly I am thinking of leaving this country. Without my kids being here, I would be long gone. I have a friend who married a black guy and when they travelled to Chicago to see her mom, they were called all kinds of nasty names, refused service at restaurants, and accused for sex slavery. What is going on in the USA? I did not support either Trump or Hillary in the election. So this is not a political issue with me.
[QUOTE=PlaynAtl;3261347]I do too, but the problem with that is how are you going to explain where you were? Even if it is one hundred percent clearly self defense, there will be news stories, public police records, etc. How do you explain to the wife why you were there to begin with?[/QUOTE]Whenever you have run ins with uncle, you are in trouble regardless. It's best to play the game like the older guys do, by trying to MINIMIZE THE DAMAGE.
Your wife / significant other will still find out and know what you were doing, but at least you can avoid a criminal record.
I'll use myself as an example, when I got caught up with that BSW last year. It cost be 1500 bones and my family now knows about the "hobby. " Though, all of that is better than having a criminal record.
Times heals most wounds, you have to take the risks of this hobby like a man. Honestly, sometimes the kitty cat or bbj is not worth it.
You live and you learn.
[QUOTE=Acaryu;3262040]Some just don't accept any foreigners and some are just so expensive. Korean KOK is slightly cheaper but still very expensive. They will take foreigners, but it is best to go with a Korean friend.[/QUOTE]Many years ago I went to Club Eve, which was a Korean social club / karaoke on Buford Hwy, north of 285; I don't know if it was still around. It was just me, but I knew well enough to dress sharp, and when I entered the hostess was extremely cordial. EXTREMELY.
I said "I hear there are nice girls here", and I told her what I like (skinny, pretty, as young as possible on this side of 18), and she seated me in a private booth where I was joined shortly by a very beautiful young Korean woman. From there, it was comically expensive, and I knew I was being fleeced big time, but I'd expected it (the same thing happens in clubs in Asia, like a club in Bangkok where they would only sell me whole bottles of cognac, etc, no shots). I remember the girl wanted a fruit plate (literally, sliced fruit) which was $130, and I'm sure I was paying $20 or $30 for drinks, but again, this was their game, and I went along with it (I was flush from sale of a company, so whatever). I probably walked from there a grand lighter.
Now the girl was cool with whatever I did. She was dressed, but I put my hand under her skirt and slid a finger into her vagina (got to check tightness), had her lick the juices from my fingers, etc. It was fun. We did hook up for a fuck buddy arrangement a few times after that at her apartment (which was nearby), and she was an insatiable little fuck machine with serious pussy waterworks. I probably "gifted" her $200 or so when we'd meet, and we fucked maybe 5 times, so total expense (club plus gifts) was $2000 ish, divided by 5 is $400 per fuck session? Hardly economical, but she was a slim, model quality 20 year old Korean girl, and I recall it as good times: she had amazing pussy grip, so when you fucked her from behind and she arched her back to present just right, you'd see that creamy pink sleeve pulling in and out with each stroke. Is that worth $400? It's subjective.
If you like the Korean girls, it's worth trying once with the understanding that you're on their turf, you're going to be fleeced, and the girl isn't a sure thing. Otherwise, stick to a KMP or an Apartment outfit.
O.
[QUOTE=Acaryu;3269595]I am a retired Asian guy and I have through the years met lots of Caucasian girlfriends, a lot of them are dancers or ex-dancers. I take them our to dinner and go drinking with them and sometimes I take them to the hotel. I don't pay them for sex. Only once in awhile like Christmas buy them some clothes to go out with me. I was in a classy hotel room with 2 of them having fun and in come 4 cops when we were not dressed. They said some people reported that we had drugs and prostitution. After being grilled and questioned individually for above 45 minutes, they left without finding any evidence of either claim and told me that I can stay in the hotel. I told them I know these girls for 7 and 3 years and I know their families and they are some of my girlfriends. I was totally humiliated. How can people accuse others without any evidence or facts and I always think you need some evidence before you can search and detain people? I always think USA is a land of law and order and freedom. Don't get me wrong. I always support the cops for protecting us and risked their lives everyday. This is the second time this happened. Situations like this that make me feel I never belong here. I bet you if I were a Caucasian guy, this will not happen. I hate people discriminating against others and I surely strongly dislike being treated like this. Has this occurred to you? I have lived here for 51 years, paid millions of taxes through my working years, and honestly I am thinking of leaving this country. Without my kids being here, I would be long gone. I have a friend who married a black guy and when they travelled to Chicago to see her mom, they were called all kinds of nasty names, refused service at restaurants, and accused for sex slavery. What is going on in the USA? I did not support either Trump or Hillary in the election. So this is not a political issue with me.[/QUOTE]If the recent election season showed us anything it is that there is still a lot of bias or racism in the US. I saw a skit recently where the comic was basically saying these were closet racists that came out during this election cycle and they should go back in the closet. I would not leave, this is still the greatest country in the world and your experience aside also one of the most sexually free counties.
[QUOTE=ShyGuyAtlanta;3269767]If the recent election season showed us anything it is that there is still a lot of bias or racism in the US. I saw a skit recently where the comic was basically saying these were closet racists that came out during this election cycle and they should go back in the closet. I would not leave, this is still the greatest country in the world and your experience aside also one of the most sexually free counties.[/QUOTE]I agree with most of what you said, except for the U.S. being the most sexually free of all Countries. Canada, especially Montreal, gets that "honor" IMHO.
[QUOTE=Acaryu;3269595]I am a retired Asian guy and I have through the years met lots of Caucasian girlfriends, a lot of them are dancers or ex-dancers. I take them our to dinner and go drinking with them and sometimes I take them to the hotel. I don't pay them for sex. Only once in awhile like Christmas buy them some clothes to go out with me. I was in a classy hotel room with 2 of them having fun and in come 4 cops when we were not dressed. They said some people reported that we had drugs and prostitution. After being grilled and questioned individually for above 45 minutes, they left without finding any evidence of either claim and told me that I can stay in the hotel. I told them I know these girls for 7 and 3 years and I know their families and they are some of my girlfriends. I was totally humiliated. How can people accuse others without any evidence or facts and I always think you need some evidence before you can search and detain people? I always think USA is a land of law and order and freedom. Don't get me wrong. I always support the cops for protecting us and risked their lives everyday. This is the second time this happened. Situations like this that make me feel I never belong here. I bet you if I were a Caucasian guy, this will not happen. I hate people discriminating against others and I surely strongly dislike being treated like this. Has this occurred to you? I have lived here for 51 years, paid millions of taxes through my working years, and honestly I am thinking of leaving this country. Without my kids being here, I would be long gone. I have a friend who married a black guy and when they travelled to Chicago to see her mom, they were called all kinds of nasty names, refused service at restaurants, and accused for sex slavery. What is going on in the USA? I did not support either Trump or Hillary in the election. So this is not a political issue with me.[/QUOTE]LE oversteps their bounds because few people bother to fight it. They aren't targeting you because your Asian; they'll do it to anyone and intimidate you into implicating yourself if they scare you enough. It happens to everyone sooner or later. How did the cops come into your private hotel room? A warrant? I doubt hotel management could legally authorize it.
[QUOTE=NuGuy36;3270207]I agree with most of what you said, except for the U.S. being the most sexually free of all Countries. Canada, especially Montreal, gets that "honor" IMHO.[/QUOTE]When I think "sexually free," I think of Europe. What's going on in Montreal? The USA Is still one of the most prudish countries in terms of expressing sexuality.
[QUOTE=Niteluvr;3270228]When I think "sexually free," I think of Europe. What's going on in Montreal? The USA Is still one of the most prudish countries in terms of expressing sexuality.[/QUOTE]Prostitution is legal in Canada! IMHO, Montreal, has some of the prettiest women / providers in North America. Rates are extremely "reasonable" for what you get, also once you hobby in Montreal you will not want to hobby anywhere else again.
[QUOTE=Niteluvr;3270223]LE oversteps their bounds because few people bother to fight it. They aren't targeting you because your Asian; they'll do it to anyone and intimidate you into implicating yourself if they scare you enough. It happens to everyone sooner or later. How did the cops come into your private hotel room? A warrant? I doubt hotel management could legally authorize it.[/QUOTE]They were saying somebody reported a drug party and prostitution. After 45 minutes of abusive questioning and threats to me and my friends, they found none and left. A real humiliating experience. This is from a guy who always support the cops in doing their jobs. The only smoking we have done is smoking one Newport 100 outside in the balcony. The girls are family friends for years, even though one works at a strip club. It does not mean I pay them. We were just having a good time after a nice Japanese dinner and drinking in Pink Pony. Even their parents know me. It surely sucks.
[QUOTE=ShyGuyAtlanta;3269767]If the recent election season showed us anything it is that there is still a lot of bias or racism in the US. I saw a skit recently where the comic was basically saying these were closet racists that came out during this election cycle and they should go back in the closet. I would not leave, this is still the greatest country in the world and your experience aside also one of the most sexually free counties.[/QUOTE]The USA is pretty far from being "one of the most sexually free countries".
Pretty much every European country is more so, as is Canada. Even China (122 sessions* per year) and India (130 sessions* per year) come well ahead of the USA (which isn't in any top 10 or top 12 survey).
* per Durex market research study.
Basically, the USA is puritanical (which should surprise no one here), a bunch of evolution-believin', non-sex-havin' Fundies. Which is why there is The Hobby, of course.
O.
[QUOTE=Acaryu;3270863]They were saying somebody reported a drug party and prostitution. After 45 minutes of abusive questioning and threats to me and my friends, they found none and left. A real humiliating experience. This is from a guy who always support the cops in doing their jobs. The only smoking we have done is smoking one Newport 100 outside in the balcony. The girls are family friends for years, even though one works at a strip club. It does not mean I pay them. We were just having a good time after a nice Japanese dinner and drinking in Pink Pony. Even their parents know me. It surely sucks.[/QUOTE]Did they break in or did you let them in?