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[QUOTE=VividDream;5214781]Sorry, I have not used cash app or Venmo. Does this reveal your real identity to recipients?[/QUOTE]I use fake account names so they don't know who I am. You can call your profile anything you want, similar to here. All of my accounts have fake profiles for this reason.
You still have to eventually link it to your real account, right? Unless you've found a way to fund the online payment app with cash or a cash-funded credit card.
[QUOTE=Joe1223;5214845]I use fake account names so they don't know who I am. You can call your profile anything you want, similar to here. All of my accounts have fake profiles for this reason.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Joe1223;5214845]I use fake account names so they don't know who I am. You can call your profile anything you want, similar to here. All of my accounts have fake profiles for this reason.[/QUOTE]The Venmo or the app company will still have a chain to identify you when you enter your bank / credit card info, no?
[QUOTE=DrinIvisible;5214896]The Venmo or the app company will still have a chain to identify you when you enter your bank / credit card info, no?[/QUOTE]Yes it isn't as discreet as cash but I find the convenience worth it. The chance of someone following the bank info back to me is a long shot. I'm certainly not worried about the IRS as I can spend my money anyway I chose to. It's like having someone's license plate, what can you do with it with access to the database? If you book a hotel room they could track you down also but unless you are a freak or causing a girl to worry about her safety you probably will be OK. I've been playing here for quite a few years and have never had an issue with a girl finding my real identity. Although I have had a few that I wish would, LOL. I am very selective as to the “type” of girl I am looking for and my target audience is more toward the college girls, GND or single Moms. I steer clear of the pros or semi pros who may pose a higher risk. Like I said I use cash until I feel it's a good fit and if the girl wants to move to the E payment I will do it. It works for me but some may not like it.
[QUOTE=Dano7;5213719]I had my first meaningful correspondence on the site with a chick named Nina from Revere. Back and forth a bit until she asked about ppm. I'm new to "sugar," but have seen many escorts and this is the most like that. I played dumb but gleaned she wants $450-500 for a "date," which is at least double what I'd want to pay. When asked what this would entail, ex. Overnight or at least long visit, she went dark. Is this what these girls expect? Might be out of my league but that's a dangerous amount for me in either not being worth it, or awesome and tempted to blow huge cash. Thoughts?[/QUOTE]Profile link?
[QUOTE=Joe1223;5215247]Yes it isn't as discreet as cash but I find the convenience worth it. The chance of someone following the bank info back to me is a long shot. I'm certainly not worried about the IRS as I can spend my money anyway I chose to. It's like having someone's license plate, what can you do with it with access to the database? If you book a hotel room they could track you down also but unless you are a freak or causing a girl to worry about her safety you probably will be OK. I've been playing here for quite a few years and have never had an issue with a girl finding my real identity. Although I have had a few that I wish would, LOL. I am very selective as to the type of girl I am looking for and my target audience is more toward the college girls, GND or single Moms. I steer clear of the pros or semi pros who may pose a higher risk. Like I said I use cash until I feel it's a good fit and if the girl wants to move to the E payment I will do it. It works for me but some may not like it.[/QUOTE]Totally the same here. My current SB is happy with cash, so that's easy. I stop at the atm on my way to see her. If she wanted me to switch to an app payment I'd have no issue with it.
There are many many aspects to "security" doing this. As Joe mentioned, one is being highly selective who you see. That helps; obviously is not a guarantee. And it's just a numbers game; I don't see a lot of girls. If it's a new one every week, the numbers catch up with you faster.
[QUOTE=DrinIvisible;5214896]The Venmo or the app company will still have a chain to identify you when you enter your bank / credit card info, no?[/QUOTE]My friend sometimes uses a vanilla gift card to send them via PayPal. Fake name and e-mail I think that's the safest way if you don't want to use cash.
[QUOTE=TheList00;5214403][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fc9f499a-29db-4279-af95-b40a459d4f08[/URL]
Can someone pm me if they have her new number or email. Used to meet her and lost touch and she was off seeking, she's now back active and I text the number I have ending in 6497 and nothing. If anyone has any info to share so I can reconnect I'd appreciate it.[/QUOTE]How about a review?
I agree with being selective. However, not sold on the numbers argument. The more often you see the same person, the more data she has on you to piece together a more complete profile of you. This reduces your anonymity (with her) over time. The longer you see her the more attached she is likely to become and the more likely she is to be able to track you down if she woke up one day and went "Bobbitt".
That's the reason I don't bring anyone home, no matter how safe and sane they might appear. In a desperate moment they're very capable of showing up unannounced and disrupting your private life. Always remember who has more to lose (it is usually you, not her).
[QUOTE=Bran001;5216968]Totally the same here. My current SB is happy with cash, so that's easy. I stop at the atm on my way to see her. If she wanted me to switch to an app payment I'd have no issue with it.
There are many many aspects to "security" doing this. As Joe mentioned, one is being highly selective who you see. That helps; obviously is not a guarantee. And it's just a numbers game; I don't see a lot of girls. If it's a new one every week, the numbers catch up with you faster.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Spill;5217478]How about a review?[/QUOTE]She's been reviewed many times. Been on seeking for years different name and profiles.
[QUOTE=TheList00;5217500]She's been reviewed many times. Been on seeking for years different name and profiles.[/QUOTE]I have her number.
[QUOTE=TheList00;5214403][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fc9f499a-29db-4279-af95-b40a459d4f08[/URL]
Can someone pm me if they have her new number or email. Used to meet her and lost touch and she was off seeking, she's now back active and I text the number I have ending in 6497 and nothing. If anyone has any info to share so I can reconnect I'd appreciate it.[/QUOTE]If you have a membership message her. If not, get one like the rest of us.
[QUOTE=DarkClouds;5217485]I agree with being selective. However, not sold on the numbers argument. The more often you see the same person, the more data she has on you to piece together a more complete profile of you. This reduces your anonymity (with her) over time. The longer you see her the more attached she is likely to become and the more likely she is to be able to track you down if she woke up one day and went "Bobbitt".
That's the reason I don't bring anyone home, no matter how safe and sane they might appear. In a desperate moment they're very capable of showing up unannounced and disrupting your private life. Always remember who has more to lose (it is usually you, not her).[/QUOTE]I certainly don't bring anyone to my home. Ever. Yes. I have more to lose than these women. That's always the case; it's just "table stakes" for playing in the Sugar Bowl.
[QUOTE=Syedna;5217954]If you have a membership message her. If not, get one like the rest of us.[/QUOTE]If I could message I would. But I've been banned again and blocked and until everytime I make new account I get flagged off. I have to get a cheap phone to make a new account. No big deal not going to lose sleep over it I was simply just asking.
[QUOTE=TheList00;5218084]If I could message I would. But I've been banned again and blocked and until everytime I make new account I get flagged off. I have to get a cheap phone to make a new account. No big deal not going to lose sleep over it I was simply just asking.[/QUOTE]Sorry to hear this man. I was in same trouble for long time. Someone suggested me here to write customer service. I did and explained and asked for a reason. And what within 24 hours they replied stating that it's system glitch and theunflagged my account. I am using it now for 3 months. It's different story that I have no luck yet. LOL. Need some advise from others on hat from others here. But I'd suggest you to try writing customer service.