Moving my reply to a more fitting thread
[QUOTE=HendoKy;4927035]Looking for a provider who's pic's are real, isn't geeked out of their minds on drugs, has a full set of teeth, doesn't have a pimp lurking, has no facial tattoos, who doesn't upscale, doesn't bait and switch, doesn't ghost you, doesn't live in a barn, doesn't smell like they live in a barn, that doesn't blow up your burner phone for money or rides, isn't as wide as they are tall, doesn't have back and side boobs, who looks like they have seen the sun this year, not covered in sores, provides service asked for, isn't a dead fish, doesn't smell like fish, isn't 40 looking like 60, has a grooming standard, doesn't have dirty feet, doesn't have an ass that looks like chewed up bubble gum, doesn't think they are queen of the world, doesn't clock watch, won't talk your erection away and accepts the donation when services are done. Anyone? Seriously, anyone?[/QUOTE]While I agree with the sentiment here, and I agree with the suggestion offered in the ISO thread, which was Molly Daniels, the solution to the criticisms in the above tirade is simple enough. One just has to be willing and able to explore another market or a higher level in the local one. Touring providers could be another solution, again, if you are willing and able to get involved with them.
Sexworkers Provide More Than Sex
Its not always about sex. Sometimes its about companionship for those people who are lonely.
[URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/MadeMeSmile/comments/iehuv4/literally_melts_my_heart_saw_this_one_wholesome/[/URL]
This seems to be becoming the norm
[QUOTE=BTBear;4948944]Wanted to reconnect with an ATF from the past, so scheduled a meeting with Lexi / EatinCrayons.
Multiple attempts to get final address on the day of and up to the time of the meeting. No reply at all.
Just a head's up. I hope she gets her shit together because back in the day she was a great time.
[/QUOTE]I don't think this is simply a Lexi issue. It seems like the majority of providers see hobbyists as being here for their convenience whenever it is that they need to pay their late electric bill, get something to make them "feel better," need money for a kid's birthday, are about to have their phone shut off, need their water turned back on, need their gas reconnected, etc. And, yes, those are all excuses I've heard from various providers, often one's I've seen before and who then text me asking if I want an appointment. Then add to that the ones who, if they don't disappear on you, ask you to postpone an appointment by hours the same day, or reschedule for another day, when you are already there waiting to go into their incall. They simply don't approach their work in a professional manner, and, sadly, it's difficult to get away from this sort of egotistical mindset; even trying to make arrangements with higher end providers can fail because many of them are guilty of the same things, even if the frequency is less with them. Maybe its the cynic in me, but the only solution I've found is to lower my expectations and to look at any appointment I've made as being something that may happen, but probably won't. If I don't get my hopes up and a good dream actually happens, it's fantastic. If not, meh, who cares? It certainly limits the hobbying when one can only really do this on a whim because there's no faith in anybody keeping an appointment, but that's what it's come to, and that situation is disappointing, indeed.
Seems like there's more to it
Ten years ago there were about a dozen providers, either local or traveling, who were swingers and lived sex, so why not get paid for it? Seems like that has completely dried up.
[QUOTE=DNut;4950267]I believe one of the issues mongers are facing is that in the past, there were very little sources of revenue for quick cash. Now, need cash and have a car? Drive for Uber or Lyft. Need cash and your're pretty and want to be famous any way possible? Create an OnlyFans page. Need cash and have a spare room but don't want a roommate? Rent it out for a few nights a month as an AirBnb. There is a whole microeconomy available into which people can tap for quick money before considering becoming a provider.[/QUOTE]
Damn! $300 is the baseline
Seems that the Cincinnati options are looking rough. Anyone that doesn't look like she's been rise hard and pit away wet is seems to be have a starting point of $300. Even then, at sites like Eros and Tryst, $30 streetwalkers are masquerading as $400 courtesans.
Who is paying those rates for that level of service?