Arrangement Reports

[QUOTE=DynoJr;6255526]He's dropped a good amount of wisdom and I agree on the ghosting. One girl that I connected with very well told me to just ghost if you want to end it. The GenZs ghost without a second thought and it seem like my (GenX) generation has some need to end things elegantly.

Have you read about employees that just stop showing up for work? It's crazy how much this younger generation just moves on. I recommend you learn from them.[/QUOTE]That's a very good point on this generation and ghosting. I'm from the same 'clean break' generation. I'm also at the point in my life where I don't want to work that hard for pussy anymore, so the SB life prolly isn't for me. LOL. Thanks for the info guys.

[QUOTE=PauFord;6255659]Had plans to meet. She cancelled at the very last minute with some horseshit excuse. I wasn't going to reschedule but she was pushing pretty hard to meet so we set another meeting time. She ghosted. No call / no show.

Saw her on a different SD site she had different pics than on SA. She looks kinda chubby / dumpy so kind of glad meetings fell through.[/QUOTE]Unless that's your body type, I'm thinking $300-$350 tops. Have you tried to negotiate? A lot of girls start at $500 now. I recently had a $500 that turned into a $300. The girl has to have some worth. If it's not looks, it damn well better be menu.

[QUOTE=Baggio57;6254216]Curious for those of you who have had an SB and at some point ended it. How'd that go? Because really, that's the key part. Some of you have talked about how great it's going and the money and all that while also saying you know you're going to have to end it. That is the part where it can all go to hell. Because if she isn't ready for the allowance and gifts and all that to end, you could be looking at some major headaches. So, has anyone out here have an extended period with an SB and ended it and if so, how did it go? Really, isn't that why we see escorts and go to parlors, because when it's over it's over and we don't have to concern ourselves with any baggage? I agree that the good parts sound great, I'm just concerned about what the end game will be like and if that may ruin everything before it. But maybe I'm too cynical.[/QUOTE]You should have lots of options to end it from your end if or when it gets to that point. Exactly how depends on the girl. If there's any hint of crazy / clingy ghosting may be the best option. This assumes like the other advice that you used burner contact points and didn't share personal info. If she knows a lot about you and doesn't want to let go, you're in trouble. With a more rational girl, especially if you know she's still playing the field, its probably 'nicer' to at least try an excuse like schedule changes at work, traveling, or even crying poor to give things a cleaner end. That also might leave that girl as a future option if you end up in a dry spell and want to scratch the itch with someone familiar.

I've had the same experience with the girls ending things. Luckily only been ghosted a few times by ones I wasn't that into. I've had a few others tell me they were moving or getting back with SOs from their past lives, and at least they didn't show up right back on the site so those stories seemed credible. The first SA girl I ever connected with I saw on and off for over 2 years and she checked a lot of the boxes for me. All along she told me she was using the money to finish a class and pay off some fines so she could get her license and find a job. I thought it was the usual BS the girls feed us so we feel better about paying for it. But lo and behold she actually used the money to finish a class, pay off fines, and get her license back. She would proudly send me pictures of her grades and receipts, and then she went and got a good job and had no more time to play. I was pretty upset about that one at the time, but it was a lot more positive ending than a lot of arrangements will be.

It'll always be an easy come, easy go game so keep your guard up personally, financially, and emotionally and don't be surprised by anything.

Thanks for the info! Helps a ton!

[QUOTE=Tkow70;6255704]Unless that's your body type, I'm thinking $300-$350 tops. Have you tried to negotiate? A lot of girls start at $500 now. I recently had a $500 that turned into a $300. The girl has to have some worth. If it's not looks, it damn well better be menu.[/QUOTE]My type is large natural tits and a tone / tight waist (Can be average of slim). Not many women on seeking fit that body type.

I usually don't bother negotiating. I find so few women interesting on Seeking that I don't want to risk losing out on an opportunity.

We hadn't discussed $ yet so I was going in blind. I don't normally go in blind for this very reason reason, it could wind up being a waste of time but she was pushing to meet so I just rolled with it.

No, she's not my body type nor age preference and I would not have paid 500. She comes across super slutty DTF so I was willing to meet and assess things in person but 300 was the number I had in mind all along.



[QUOTE=Tkow70;6255704]Unless that's your body type, I'm thinking $300-$350 tops. Have you tried to negotiate? A lot of girls start at $500 now. I recently had a $500 that turned into a $300. The girl has to have some worth. If it's not looks, it damn well better be menu.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PauFord;6255659]Had plans to meet. She cancelled at the very last minute with some horseshit excuse. I wasn't going to reschedule but she was pushing pretty hard to meet so we set another meeting time. She ghosted. No call / no show.

Saw her on a different SD site she had different pics than on SA. She looks kinda chubby / dumpy so kind of glad meetings fell through.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Baggio57;6254216]Curious for those of you who have had an SB and at some point ended it. How'd that go? Because really, that's the key part. Some of you have talked about how great it's going and the money and all that while also saying you know you're going to have to end it. That is the part where it can all go to hell. Because if she isn't ready for the allowance and gifts and all that to end, you could be looking at some major headaches. So, has anyone out here have an extended period with an SB and ended it and if so, how did it go? Really, isn't that why we see escorts and go to parlors, because when it's over it's over and we don't have to concern ourselves with any baggage? I agree that the good parts sound great, I'm just concerned about what the end game will be like and if that may ruin everything before it. But maybe I'm too cynical.[/QUOTE]I knew that she didn't want a real romantic relationship so I told her that I was in love with her and because I couldn't let that go I was going to have to move on. That made sense to her so I ramped down and moved on. So it depends on the woman and what she wants. But I would think most wouldn't want to marry someone a lot older than them. If they did I'd mention very restrictive prenups, etc so they understood there would be no / limited financial benefit.

[QUOTE=TimeForPlay10;6200213]What's funny is that's the same Dana who has a solo profile on here and many guys have seen her for 300 and bbcip. You can also see the weight gain in her conbo profile as opposed to her solo profile. Sorry, don't have link handy but think it's Danaspa or something.[/QUOTE]But isn't it $600 for both versus $300 for just Dana? Am I reading that wrong?

Yes, my being single absolutely has its advantages as I can spend without caring if someone finds out. I have stayed with SA for this and not really tried elsewhere. It is a lot of time filtering through the profiles and staying on top of the conversations. I probably spend an hour a day messaging current prospects and hopefuls. Until I have seen someone 4-5 times, I do not count that as anything regular and they could easily ghost me the next time. Many of the girls too I feel are probably seeing multiple guys in the beginning trying to see who are the best fit for them from a lifestyle and financial standpoint. You are correct though in that at times, I have spent as much as $4,000 a month on this but that was seeing multiple people every week as I weeded out the good from the bad or just was supporting someone that I was spending lots of time with. In the prior arrangement, we would see each other sometimes 4-5 times a week so when you think of it like that, it gets more reasonable although to be honest, we also did not have sex every time as we settled into a more vanilla relationship. With the current arrangement, if it works out, it puts me at $300 each time at most which is a number I am comfortable with and she is willing to come over more often then twice a week, we just understand that that is the expected minimum as we agreed on a monthly. I do not doubt that the girl you are seeing for $250 PPM is as pretty as any of the others as I have found little correlation between price and looks. If anything, the ones that ask for more come across more entitled and flaky. What I have seen, as to be expected is that if the girl lives downtown, expect it to be more, if she lives in the suburbs, more likely less as geographically her options are more limited.

[QUOTE=DWill;6255357]Hey man great write up. Couple of things if I read this correctly at one point you were spitting out over 4 gs a month. First off good on you. I make a really good living but no way could I ever find 4 k a month, hell 3 k a month to spit out on the hobby. I couldn't get that much excess spending pass the Warden if I tried. You being single I'm sure plays a huge role in that expenditure. Lastly the more important question. How much "fishing" as you put it did you have to do and was it all on SA? I have to be honest I've had 2 long term arrangements in the past, one just ended a couple months ago and they were both 250 ppm everything goes and I mean everything. I would stack their looks up against any girl on the market. So I say that say it doesn't have to be 400-500 to find quality which is why I'm interested in where you did your fishing the most.

Good write up.[/QUOTE]

Interesting that you say this as that is exactly how mine ended with a 26 y / o last summer. One day she was at the house telling me she loved me and listing all the reasons. Said she wanted to continue the relationship after she moved. The next week, she told me to never call her again as she prepared to move out of state.

[QUOTE=DynoJr;6255526]He's dropped a good amount of wisdom and I agree on the ghosting. One girl that I connected with very well told me to just ghost if you want to end it. The GenZs ghost without a second thought and it seem like my (GenX) generation has some need to end things elegantly.

Have you read about employees that just stop showing up for work? It's crazy how much this younger generation just moves on. I recommend you learn from them.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ChiGuy1977;6256383]But isn't it $600 for both versus $300 for just Dana? Am I reading that wrong?[/QUOTE]Hey man. Not sure Dana will do $300 anymore. She quoted me $500. If anyone is still seeing her at that rate lmk as I have to work on my negotiation skills. I got her for $400 for a few hours 2 weeks ago.

Her and her friend would be asking $1 k.

Hey guys. Was conversing with this one tonight and she was way to easy and accomodating. She's in Hanover Park (decent area) living at an Extended Stay. She told me that's where she's LIVING at the moment. I offered $250 with cip included. She jumped on it no questions asked which was concerning.

Def some flags with low price point and where she says she's living. Sounds like one level above a street walker and may be a serious user. A guy forewarned me on a previous inquiry of mine not to see a chick as she was strung out and not worth it. Curious if anyone has seen this one and what their experience was.

I don't stick my raw dick in $250 pussy so curious if I should make an exception. My head is telling me don't but, we now how that can be overridden when we're thinking with the wrong one!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/193fa06f-239b-45ef-8779-0d737c3fbfd2[/URL]

[QUOTE=Tkow70;6257274]Hey guys. Was conversing with this one tonight and she was way to easy and accomodating. She's in Hanover Park (decent area) living at an Extended Stay. She told me that's where she's LIVING at the moment. I offered $250 with cip included. She jumped on it no questions asked which was concerning.

Def some flags with low price point and where she says she's living. Sounds like one level above a street walker and may be a serious user. A guy forewarned me on a previous inquiry of mine not to see a chick as she was strung out and not worth it. Curious if anyone has seen this one and what their experience was.

I don't stick my raw dick in $250 pussy so curious if I should make an exception. My head is telling me don't but, we now how that can be overridden when we're thinking with the wrong one!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/193fa06f-239b-45ef-8779-0d737c3fbfd2[/URL][/QUOTE]She looks familiar and its weird because I saw someone that looked like her in that specific area and I thought my encounter was weird because that doesn't happen in HP area. Check your DM hit me back.

[QUOTE=BillUnderwood;6256574]Yes, my being single absolutely has its advantages as I can spend without caring if someone finds out. I have stayed with SA for this and not really tried elsewhere. It is a lot of time filtering through the profiles and staying on top of the conversations. I probably spend an hour a day messaging current prospects and hopefuls. Until I have seen someone 4-5 times, I do not count that as anything regular and they could easily ghost me the next time. Many of the girls too I feel are probably seeing multiple guys in the beginning trying to see who are the best fit for them from a lifestyle and financial standpoint. You are correct though in that at times, I have spent as much as $4,000 a month on this but that was seeing multiple people every week as I weeded out the good from the bad or just was supporting someone that I was spending lots of time with. In the prior arrangement, we would see each other sometimes 4-5 times a week so when you think of it like that, it gets more reasonable although to be honest, we also did not have sex every time as we settled into a more vanilla relationship. With the current arrangement, if it works out, it puts me at $300 each time at most which is a number I am comfortable with and she is willing to come over more often then twice a week, we just understand that that is the expected minimum as we agreed on a monthly. I do not doubt that the girl you are seeing for $250 PPM is as pretty as any of the others as I have found little correlation between price and looks..[/QUOTE]Good stuff. Being single has its advantages in the hobby for sure.

[QUOTE=RitTigers;6255174][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8c2f366f-c993-4336-8975-9da3502a13f3[/URL][/QUOTE]I've met with her over coffee. Laila. She's 40 ish. Busy mom, newish job. There is MUCH better indian pussy out there. This one is a little plump. A little full of herself.

[QUOTE=Freakspead;6258579]I've met with her over coffee. Laila. She's 40 ish. Busy mom, newish job. There is MUCH better indian pussy out there. This one is a little plump. A little full of herself.[/QUOTE]Thank you for the feedback. I never tried an Indian pussy, so thinking of giving her a try, but you are right after a conversation with her, she is full of herself.

This has the scent of another Nigerian scammer. 19 years old but in her third year of college. 19 years old and working as a bartender.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bf507da5-edfe-4341-8d27-cc9e4d95f381[/URL]

Get that sex.

SDX.

I know somebody have reported her before, but not able to find her in this thread. Did she changed her username or she created a new account. Any info about her is appreciated.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/89d924e0-c282-4ffb-a6e5-7595f4571778[/URL]

Thank you.

New listing, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/9f246cd3-f8e6-4288-bace-62ec5bf17e18[/URL].

Link is to your messages.

[QUOTE=ChitownGuy321;6261207]New listing, [URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/9f246cd3-f8e6-4288-bace-62ec5bf17e18[/URL].[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/4eQKnwdY0pr1deBJjZvO92xL[/URL]

I know she is on seeking under a diffrent name but can't find the profile at the moment.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/577204bb-6273-4b64-9a8a-fdcc24155eb8[/URL]

I need to know what to expect when I see her again.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/83d5a059-51a0-4874-a30e-e0523dc0e272[/URL]

This is her current profile. She use to go by Gigi. A little chubby, fun fuck; but not always reliable, she likes to drink.

[QUOTE=OngBak15;6262373][URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/4eQKnwdY0pr1deBJjZvO92xL[/URL]

I know she is on seeking under a diffrent name but can't find the profile at the moment.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/577204bb-6273-4b64-9a8a-fdcc24155eb8[/URL]

I need to know what to expect when I see her again.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/00da12c2-e0c0-4983-9a81-186a54c0167d[/URL]

Even though her tagline is "PLEASE DON'T WASTE MY TIME", our entire conversation was her wasting time. It took over a week before she gave me her number. She asked if I was ok with a quickie and ppm. She then told me she wanted $400 for the quickie. I laughed and said I'd had multi hour arrangements for that and wished her good luck.

[QUOTE=RedHead169;6263271][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/00da12c2-e0c0-4983-9a81-186a54c0167d[/URL]

Even though her tagline is "PLEASE DON'T WASTE MY TIME", our entire conversation was her wasting time. It took over a week before she gave me her number. She asked if I was ok with a quickie and ppm. She then told me she wanted $400 for the quickie. I laughed and said I'd had multi hour arrangements for that and wished her good luck.[/QUOTE]Currently talking to her. I appreciate your intel. I won't waste a single penny with her. Thanks.

Another one asking $50 gas money, before setting up the appointment. I said I will pick you up and she blocked me. Luckily I had copied her profile url.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b854e218-a88e-48de-9e99-65a0eae7c3a9[/URL]

Asking $400 for dinner time. She said my time is valuable and don't want to waste it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/73cd2d5f-f6d7-4030-9e8c-3440fc93a6b6[/URL]

I have no words to describe where SA is heading.

[QUOTE=RitTigers;6263475]Asking $400 for dinner time. She said my time is valuable and don't want to waste it.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/73cd2d5f-f6d7-4030-9e8c-3440fc93a6b6[/URL]

I have no words to describe where SA is heading.[/QUOTE]Currently chatting with her. She told me she would buy me the first drink. No money mentioned. We were scheduled, but she said she got ill the day before we were going to meet. I got the vibe she's bad news. More and more like her appearing every day.

[QUOTE=Tkow70;6263634]Currently chatting with her. She told me she would buy me the first drink. No money mentioned. We were scheduled, but she said she got ill the day before we were going to meet. I got the vibe she's bad news. More and more like her appearing every day.[/QUOTE]Come on. She's 45. Why even bother?

[QUOTE=BigPenor;6263651]Come on. She's 45. Why even bother?[/QUOTE]I mostly agree Mr. Penor, partially about the age. Even more when they describe themselves as princess, queen or show pictures in high end designer bags, clothes etc. Big turnoffs. And then the "know my worth" or going on about how valuable their time is. UM, MY time is valuable, otherwise I wouldn't be the giftor and them the giftee. Right?

Since your the one with the cash, absolutely.

[QUOTE=Donger999;6263918]I mostly agree Mr. Penor, partially about the age. Even more when they describe themselves as princess, queen or show pictures in high end designer bags, clothes etc. Big turnoffs. And then the "know my worth" or going on about how valuable their time is. UM, MY time is valuable, otherwise I wouldn't be the giftor and them the giftee. Right?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=RitTigers;6260249]I know somebody have reported her before, but not able to find her in this thread. Did she changed her username or she created a new account. Any info about her is appreciated.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/89d924e0-c282-4ffb-a6e5-7595f4571778[/URL]

Thank you.[/QUOTE]What would you like to know? Just PM me.

[QUOTE=RitTigers;6260249]I know somebody have reported her before, but not able to find her in this thread. Did she changed her username or she created a new account. Any info about her is appreciated.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/89d924e0-c282-4ffb-a6e5-7595f4571778[/URL]

Thank you.[/QUOTE]Also I'd be super interested to pull up that previous review. I tried a search too. So if anyone remembers a previous profile.

She's thicker than the pics indicate. Built like a catcher on the girls softball team. Pics are flattering appearance wise (if that's even possible LOL). Not fake or anything, just make her look better than she does in person. She asked for 400 (or maybe even 500?) agreed to $350 but wouldn't go lower. Services all covered / CFS. She was punctual, and is a nice enough girl but I'd probably save your money for something else unless you are super desperate.

[QUOTE=RitTigers;6260249]I know somebody have reported her before, but not able to find her in this thread. Did she changed her username or she created a new account. Any info about her is appreciated.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/89d924e0-c282-4ffb-a6e5-7595f4571778[/URL]

Thank you.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Freakspead;6265058]Also I'd be super interested to pull up that previous review. I tried a search too. So if anyone remembers a previous profile.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e73ada5f-4136-41b5-80ea-c41621ad0819[/URL]

Pm is fine also.

[URL]https://www.rubrankings.com/united-states/illinois/chicago/bodyrubs/body-rubs/100-all-natural-26069.html[/URL]

Jordan is amazing. Girls a pro and super glamorous. I know prefer Milking over AMPs, for sure. Super hot! I can't stress it enough.

[QUOTE=Bokinchitwn;6265855][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e73ada5f-4136-41b5-80ea-c41621ad0819[/URL]

Pm is fine also.[/QUOTE]You can fuck fer for free if you take her to dinner and drinks. Just don't let her drink too much or she'll pass out on you.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9cba1768-1fad-4e35-b5c6-f249b3edc4e8[/URL]

Posting here as it seems the whole link was cut short on his post. Same thing happened to me. Said couldn't meet on the day we agreed to and then when I asked for another time she just stopped responding. At least I didn't waste a trip, but wasted a month or so of chatting through snap.

[QUOTE=KravenMoreHead;6122436][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9cba1768-1fad-4e35-b5c6-[/URL]

Waste of time guys. Talked with her / whomever for just over a week and set up a time to meet. Bailed on the first one because she felt bad and thought she my have Covid. Cool, it was early in the day and didn't waste any time or money. Set up for a week later and says she's on her way. Get to the meeting place and have a drink while I wait. She texts me that she's a few min away. 20 min later I go to text her and I'm blocked! Ha ha ha, why? I don't get what the game was? I didn't send a deposit or anything. She didn't get a penny from me. Anyways boys, ignore this one.[/QUOTE]

This lady on SA is an escort, not an SB. 400/ hr. She promises everything covered with BBBJ YMMV because she doesn't CIM.

I asked for PPM and she gave me her straight rate. Decent looking with bolt ons. But for that price you can do better if you search harder. If you want an ez in and out, go for it but some GPS attached.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dc4b5952-8049-4e15-9642-b718c0155cbd[/URL]

Has anyone seen her or talked to her? Been chatting with her for a few days, looks really good, has a nice body. Kinda slow on replying, but probably busy due to the holidays. Just wanted to see if anyone has seen her or talked with her. I'll update yall if we are able to set something up. Thanks in advance!

[QUOTE=MasterBaggins;6268263][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dc4b5952-8049-4e15-9642-b718c0155cbd[/URL]

Has anyone seen her or talked to her? Been chatting with her for a few days, looks really good, has a nice body. Kinda slow on replying, but probably busy due to the holidays. Just wanted to see if anyone has seen her or talked with her. I'll update yall if we are able to set something up. Thanks in advance![/QUOTE]Met her for coffee long ago (yr+?) Her pics were NOTHING like her current self. Didn't go any further / not interested. Suggest asking for a fresh selfie, doubt she'll send one.