Make sure to always report the fakes
On top of the other suggestions I made earlier, always remember to report the fakes, scammers, and the girls only wanting online or snapchat arrangements. That is against their rules.
[QUOTE=Oily123;4432404]Thinking about joining again but got frustrated the first time around with the fake crap.
Some fake ads are very obvious, but others not so.
Any advice on spotting the fake one's that look real?
What do you guys look for?[/QUOTE]
Northern Fox and sister. Anyone seen them?
I know a couple of you were talking to them. Wanted to see if anyone bit the bullet and went for it? Or are going to. Would love to hear a report.
General thoughts on the situation did it on and off since 2010.
I've done the SB / SD things and off since 2010, and wanted to share some general thoughts with everyone; I'm thinking about jumping back in, and have been observing the action on SA. The last time I did it, I had an SB 30 years younger, and we ended up living together for three years. Nope, I am not a high-roller; we are still close. So, when it was the natural point for her to move on, it was about 1. 5 years ago, and I had a false start. I've been in observation mode on SA for the last three months watching to see who comes and goes, etc. (I tend to be really detail oriented, and don't want to take up a bunch of bandwidth. I could tell some stories that's for sure. I'll get to the crux of the matter.).
So, the whole thing has changed dramatically since 2010 and not for the better. The clampdown on the escort sites pushed the pros to new spots; the media attention brought in a lot of young, curious girls, who are really nervous like little deer, and both men and women who are in scam mode. It's always been a bit of a chess game, but if you're sincere and take some time, you can find some real gems. I found a few of them along the way, and the are all awesome women, who have successful lives now.
However, in the midst of all the noise on SA now, there's still those women on there. I'm making the assumption that most guys are looking for the traditional SB / SD thing. I'd say if you have a decent budget, look for a real college girl who is working and really focused and serious. If she's smart and sane, she's not going to want to disrupt any lives; she doesn't want drama either. Work out an amount that keeps everyone happy, and still leave some room in the allocation to do something nice for her. It goes a long way for someone who is fighting through school. Find someone with common ground, it makes the physical thing easier for her. You'll be surprised at how well it can all go. It takes time and work to find one.
The other woman is the single mom who is working, focused and just struggles with the demands, and who simply never has time for a real date. One of the women I had a relationship with was in this category; she was closer to me in age -- 10 years younger, and was an attorney doing non-profit work. She was awesome, but I was married at that time, and there was too much attraction, and she said she couldn't do it anymore. This brings up the other part of it. I sought out women, who met or mostly met my criteria for a girlfriend despite an age difference in some cases.
If you're married and doing this, you really need someone who you can trust, no drama, major issues, etc. She has to have some "skin in the game" meaning something to lose. If she likes and respects you and you treat her well; keep your end of the deal, and make her feel appreciated and special, believe me, it's great!
I've got some great stories along the way with all this; there were the situations that didn't work out after a month or a couple of dates, and wow. Some good stories over some drinks.