Sugarbabies and Arrangements

[QUOTE=PainWint;5861178]JJxoxo64.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d42bfc70-8e11-45b4-952d-ef2431e65f8f[/URL]

Slow to communicate but will agree to PPM. Unfortunately what she wants is to be paid to have dinner at the Marble room.

A bit perplexing that dinner would be more than I would give her for personal time.

If any of you ballers want that, I can ask if she wants me to share her #.[/QUOTE]I paid once for a meet and greet and got ripped off. Have never paid for a Meet and greet since. I figure if she isn't willing to invest a little time and have a nice dinner, she will probably rip you off somewhere down the road. The only thing worse is sending money before hand.

[QUOTE=RobertD26;5867153]Hey I'm about to meet this women later on today any info you all can give me before hand so I know if she is good or not.[/QUOTE]Face pic looks like Wren I was chatting with a few months ago but I did not meet due to the reports of Vag Stank.

If you see her please update us on this report. I'd meet her If it ain't stanky.

[QUOTE=OholdGuyX;5741103]I have been active on SA, SDM, and SB for several months and have had a number of the good, bad, and ugly hook ups. Here are my observations.

1) I try to stay with women over 30. I have been ghosted several times, and cash and dashed once. All women in their 20's. The fact that I'm 70+ means I don't get many takers in that age group, and the ones that do respond are probably up to "no good". So my stats are probably skewed. I've had just the opposite results from most women in the 30's and 40's. I have had three meet and greets that led to intamacy that night and two on the next date. The one exception was the one that tried to blackmail me after our second date. It was really my fault. I was thinking with my little head and missed to obvious red flags.
There are fewer fish in 30+ group, but they are more honest and hungrier.

2) Honesty. Be totally honest in your post and communications, but be carefull about being too direct too early. Women can sense dishonesty also and good ones will move on fast. Remember you are looking for a "relationship" not a one night stand. I have had a number of promising connections with very attractive women nipped early because we were both being honest, and it was obvious we had no chemistry. Good to find out early. Here is a helpful link: [URL]https://www.letstalksugar.com/advice/top-10-mistakes-you-can-make-in-sugar-daddy-messaging/[/URL].

3) Read the post carefully. Poor sentence structure and grammar is sure sign of an airhead. Put their photo out of your head when you read the post, because red flags show up more readily when you are not thinking with you little head. One red flag is when the post is all about the good life and money and not about any kind of connection. I'm not stupid, I know $ is their main motivation, but in the SD / SB word iI I am looking for a connection. Women and men generally word things differently enough for you to get a sense that you are communicating with a guy. I caught three before anything happened.

4) If the photos look like models they probably are. Do a reverse image search. I caught three so far.

5) When you get a phone number, search it out. Haven't caught anyone yet.

Right now I have an on-going relationship with a hard-bodied 31 yo and an in-shape 41 yo that are easy on the eyes and very satisfying. So it seems to work. Hopefully other guys have advice.[/QUOTE]OholdGuyX, My hat is off to you!

Great report and great respect for you being solidly on your game at 70+.

[QUOTE=PainWint;5874017]OholdGuyX, My hat is off to you!

Great report and great respect for you being solidly on your game at 70+.[/QUOTE]Yep good post. Text or hip hop grammar / speak is an instant pass for me. Signals that drama is probably ahead.

So I am currently chatting with sweetie2 aka Sandra. Started on SA but now chatting through text. Convo going well agreed to M&G for lunch and shopping, with possible more back at room. I said we'd only do something if there was something there and money would be same either way. I know this doesn't protect from possible LEO sting. But at least I'd have a fighting chance if it came down to it.

In any event she is now asking for pic exchange. Now I have heard on hear not to do that its a scam. But I can also understand a girl wanting to get a pic to confirm she isn't walking into something herself. So what's everyones thoughts on the sending a pic and if I shouldn't is there a good way to skirt around it?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c5f3db8a-1a4d-41a5-ba18-e08a688ffd2b[/URL]

[QUOTE=ShowTime1721;5874070]So I am currently chatting with sweetie2 aka Sandra. Started on SA but now chatting through text. Convo going well agreed to M&G for lunch and shopping, with possible more back at room. I said we'd only do something if there was something there and money would be same either way. I know this doesn't protect from possible LEO sting. But at least I'd have a fighting chance if it came down to it.

In any event she is now asking for pic exchange. Now I have heard on hear not to do that its a scam. But I can also understand a girl wanting to get a pic to confirm she isn't walking into something herself. So what's everyones thoughts on the sending a pic and if I shouldn't is there a good way to skirt around it?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c5f3db8a-1a4d-41a5-ba18-e08a688ffd2b[/URL][/QUOTE]It's not a good idea to have your real pic attached to your convo. I never send pics via text until maybe after we meet. Tell them your pics are on the site.

[QUOTE=SR7D1;5874121]It's not a good idea to have your real pic attached to your convo. I never send pics via text until maybe after we meet. Tell them your pics are on the site.[/QUOTE]I saw the site has an option to I'd verify pics. Is that something I should do in order to put a potential dates mind at ease. I ask because it cost a little bit of money not sure if it is worth it.

[QUOTE=ShowTime1721;5874289]I saw the site has an option to I'd verify pics. Is that something I should do in order to put a potential dates mind at ease. I ask because it cost a little bit of money not sure if it is worth it.[/QUOTE]Sounds like an upsell. Next will be dental records.

[QUOTE=ShowTime1721;5874070]So I am currently chatting with sweetie2 aka Sandra. Started on SA but now chatting through text. Convo going well agreed to M&G for lunch and shopping, with possible more back at room. I said we'd only do something if there was something there and money would be same either way. I know this doesn't protect from possible LEO sting. But at least I'd have a fighting chance if it came down to it.

In any event she is now asking for pic exchange. Now I have heard on hear not to do that its a scam. But I can also understand a girl wanting to get a pic to confirm she isn't walking into something herself. So what's everyones thoughts on the sending a pic and if I shouldn't is there a good way to skirt around it?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c5f3db8a-1a4d-41a5-ba18-e08a688ffd2b[/URL][/QUOTE]She quoted me 4 for meetup and intimacy. But she also talked about taking her shopping to buy lingerie for the intimacy part. Then she got to talking about how she likes gifts like amazon gift cards for her kids. So I started thinking this is a scam.

She did send me a "naughty" video. But it really didn't do it for me. She is good looking but the pictures are definitely filtered. In any event I haven't sent any of my pics and I am kinda putting it on ice in hopes of an alternative coming forward. I will keep everyone posted if I try to set something up.

[QUOTE=ShowTime1721;5875156]She quoted me 4 for meetup and intimacy. But she also talked about taking her shopping to buy lingerie for the intimacy part. Then she got to talking about how she likes gifts like amazon gift cards for her kids. So I started thinking this is a scam.

She did send me a "naughty" video. But it really didn't do it for me. She is good looking but the pictures are definitely filtered. In any event I haven't sent any of my pics and I am kinda putting it on ice in hopes of an alternative coming forward. I will keep everyone posted if I try to set something up.[/QUOTE]She sent me pics too. Not really athletic at all, I passed. 400 is for top tier babes, she is not.

[QUOTE=SR7D1;5875225]She sent me pics too. Not really athletic at all, I passed. 400 is for top tier babes, she is not.[/QUOTE]3rd Tier for sure. Any time one of them writes me 1st I know it's a bad omen. I didn't even reply. I'm not paying for an old broad with kids that's past her prime and on the decline. Desperate to try and make up for her mistakes.

I'll take the 20 something who is out for some adventure for 1/2 the price.

Wants 400 ppm.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0cf3afef-6539-4c40-bc31-e54580dd47f5[/URL]

Seems to be a scam.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/686458c7-b333-4a41-a0c3-1c908d7f9cd6[/URL]

Any luck with this one? Has never replied.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4f91ffd1-bc64-4173-bc35-7756d5949138[/URL]

[QUOTE=PainWint;5875613]3rd Tier for sure. Any time one of them writes me 1st I know it's a bad omen. I didn't even reply. I'm not paying for an old broad with kids that's past her prime and on the decline. Desperate to try and make up for her mistakes.

I'll take the 20 something who is out for some adventure for 1/2 the price.[/QUOTE]Yep 200 max for anyone with kids over 30! There are just too many oompa loompas on SA now. Keep in mind colleges end in 3 weeks so be sure to get the coed talent that's home for summer break! May thru August are the best days of the year for me!

From the street. Went by Victoria. So I'm sure good to go. I didn't care for her personally.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/83162550-9f74-4f37-97cd-92bf3badc0ac[/URL]

Time Waster.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/03475e3f-a300-4e0b-80c7-8d95334d2349[/URL]

600 ppm!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/464f5b9c-a7cc-4ad1-acd5-300df40b9364[/URL]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bbacfbe8-2ca0-4f19-91b0-776f59ec7a1d[/URL]

After texting a bit found out she is in Streetsboro, asking $600 ppm. Hard pass.