Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=SolitaryMan603;5194042]Thought I would share what has worked and hasn't worked as far as the first message for me. I've been most successful getting a response when I send a first message stating what I'm looking for: discrete, mutually beneficial, let's chat if that is interesting etc. The next most successful has been f they have something in their profile I can tailor into a first message as either a shared interest or a follow up question but I find most don't put enough in their profile to come up with much.

I've abandoned these because of the low response rate: Giving a compliment. A generic hi, how was you week, or something similar. Asking for more details on what they are looking for or their interests.

Favoriting and sending a message seems to bring the best response rate.

Curious to hear approaches that work and don't work for others.[/QUOTE]Yes something pretty specific without being blunt is good. Something showing you read the profile is good. I never "favorite" I just don't use that feature.

A polite follow up after a day or two works too. Some women don't respond because they are flooded with messages; others are just terrible at communication.

[QUOTE=DurtyDawg;5191647][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e7b1872d-f09e-4171-9131-821206d3b2f8[/URL]

I almost spit coffee all over my keyboard while reading this one!!.[/QUOTE]I tried to engage this one, mostly out of curiosity. I got a very nice / polite response that really was nothing other than an acknowledgement that I messaged her. So she's either getting more attention than she can handle or she's not interested due to my age. You'd think with a profile like hers that anyone who does message her is OK with her 'rules' and that the amount of messages she receives would be less than the average, but she certainly is not desperate.

[QUOTE=WCFields62;5195301]I tried to engage this one, mostly out of curiosity. I got a very nice / polite response that really was nothing other than an acknowledgement that I messaged her. So she's either getting more attention than she can handle or she's not interested due to my age. You'd think with a profile like hers that anyone who does message her is OK with her 'rules' and that the amount of messages she receives would be less than the average, but she certainly is not desperate.[/QUOTE]Just an FYI she now list chicago as home no longer ct.

[QUOTE=NewEngland;5196235]Just an FYI she now list chicago as home no longer ct.[/QUOTE]Either a travelling escort or an outright scammer.

[QUOTE=Bran001;5196372]Either a travelling escort or an outright scammer.[/QUOTE]Ahhh yes, Chicago now. Jeez, I missed my chance LOL! Yeah, I have no doubt it's one of those two.

[QUOTE=MeloYello;5184854][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5ae8a92e-9bc1-44cf-bbb4-f0e9cc2e4f7c[/URL]

Cute girl, easy to communicate with, no drug use, can't host, nice body, great BBBJ and great FS. Lots of dirty talk and gets into it.

Definitely a good experience. $$ damage.[/QUOTE]Did you get a hotel or did she drive to you? And was thr FD uncovered?

This one wouldn't participate in any form of photo verification and came across like a scammer:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/766815bc-f976-4d82-bb44-a303b52240c4[/URL]

Wondering if anyone has info about these three:

Seems legit:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4d9ac7d0-e361-4412-8172-086fefca4f07[/URL]

Wanted to immediately switch to Snapchat:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/21b9a93c-a19f-4938-a509-7ed3ae431160[/URL]

Intelligent and probably legit:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a427ee59-2ec6-47bf-b1df-5ecd7c6bdc23[/URL]

It's been a bad week. Many conversations have dried up due to the women not logging back in.

I just finished a one month trial of seeking. The first few days were really cool, I got a lot of messages and leads (a lot of scams or pic sellers too). The next few weeks were decent but not as busy. Most of my final week was completely dead. I got no messages and couldn't really find anyone. The last day I was getting several messages from many promising leads. It's like they decided to boost my profile in hopes of me staying. Did this happen to anyone else?

Yes, they boost your profile a couple of days before your membership is ending in order to get you to renew. My take is that membership will not pay off until this pandemic is over / under control. I will not be renewing until then anyway.

[QUOTE=Newbie978;5199730]I just finished a one month trial of seeking. The first few days were really cool, I got a lot of messages and leads (a lot of scams or pic sellers too). The next few weeks were decent but not as busy. Most of my final week was completely dead. I got no messages and couldn't really find anyone. The last day I was getting several messages from many promising leads. It's like they decided to boost my profile in hopes of me staying. Did this happen to anyone else?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Newbie978;5199730]I just finished a one month trial of seeking. The first few days were really cool, I got a lot of messages and leads (a lot of scams or pic sellers too). The next few weeks were decent but not as busy. Most of my final week was completely dead. I got no messages and couldn't really find anyone. The last day I was getting several messages from many promising leads. It's like they decided to boost my profile in hopes of me staying. Did this happen to anyone else?[/QUOTE]Like everything in life its a cycle. There are only so many sb's that are on the site which is why I do not think its worth it to pay for a membership each month. I do think that a membership every 3 or 4 months could be worth while depending on how you like the relationship you had established with your SB.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5199763]Like everything in life its a cycle. There are only so many sb's that are on the site which is why I do not think its worth it to pay for a membership each month. I do think that a membership every 3 or 4 months could be worth while depending on how you like the relationship you had established with your SB.[/QUOTE]I tend to agree with you, after a month I think I have enough leads to work with for a while. I just found it odd that on my last premium day I got more messages than another other day. However, I would sign up again if the girls I am talking to don't work out or I get bored.

Also fellas, today is a good day to sign up if you're on the fence. They have a special, $75 instead of $90 for one month. Just make sure to take off auto renewal right away, I think they tried charging my card again after a few weeks (lucky for me it was maxed out- haha).

Did you make it to the FC? I was 1 for about 200 sent messages. Could have had a few more but didn't like looks or personality or vibe.

[QUOTE=Newbie978;5199730]I just finished a one month trial of seeking. The first few days were really cool, I got a lot of messages and leads (a lot of scams or pic sellers too). The next few weeks were decent but not as busy. Most of my final week was completely dead. I got no messages and couldn't really find anyone. The last day I was getting several messages from many promising leads. It's like they decided to boost my profile in hopes of me staying. Did this happen to anyone else?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Newbie978;5199873]I tend to agree with you, after a month I think I have enough leads to work with for a while. I just found it odd that on my last premium day I got more messages than another other day. However, I would sign up again if the girls I am talking to don't work out or I get bored.

Also fellas, today is a good day to sign up if you're on the fence. They have a special, $75 instead of $90 for one month. Just make sure to take off auto renewal right away, I think they tried charging my card again after a few weeks (lucky for me it was maxed out- haha).[/QUOTE]You mean this valentines promo LOL.

[QUOTE=LordOfThEeyes;5197765]Did you get a hotel or did she drive to you? And was thr FD uncovered?[/QUOTE]OK I thought I knew all the acronyms. What does FD mean?

[QUOTE=Bran001;5200479]OK I thought I knew all the acronyms. What does FD mean?[/QUOTE]Prob just a typo for FS.