Arrangement Reports

[QUOTE=Pal5600;3893754][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/103ee62f-f701-4bfe-bcad-f4aed8c048dd[/URL]

Chat and text, she will meet up for coffee but need 100 upfront for coffee and said whatever I give her after coffee for sex is fine with her, WTF is that so she okay with $5? (likely a scam I think she just want 100 coffee date and that's it) , I said no. I really don't think she is that good look either, I was not thinking straight, so go for it if you find her attractive.[/QUOTE]This is a nothing burger. JMHO.

My search will not let me search by profile name. There is a text block for entering the name but my browser will not let me type in the block. Anyone else?

[QUOTE=FruitNinja;3894337]My search will not let me search by profile name. There is a text block for entering the name but my browser will not let me type in the block. Anyone else?[/QUOTE]I think they removed that a few weeks ago.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8ab83e4f-de52-4cfd-acb3-ef4e6a83115f[/URL]

Message this one a few weeks ago, said she would be interested in meeting up, didn't set up anything because was too busy with other stuffs, she seems ok face and body, so if you guys find her attractive go for it.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/96193cc8-add5-418d-8347-8b4b611e912f[/URL]

Chat with this one a few weeks ago, said she was interested in meeting up, looking like a fun girls in the bedroom, but I did not set up anything with her, go for it if you find her attractive.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/906264c1-0383-4bd8-86cd-cff916216254[/URL]

This is a funny one, we chat and text about 4 days ago, she send sexy pic and want to meet that same night, she give me her locations and ask if I want to look for a hotel near her because she do not want to drive to far, so I said ok (by the way, her text pic look really good, seems like a fitness model), so I text her back a said I find a hotel near her, then ghost, WTF waste of time, can anyone check to see if she block me or not, but I really don't care, I thought the whole thing was stupid and laughable.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b7240713-4450-4ff1-aae2and-773ff3560d01[/URL]

Not sure what to think about this one, she claim to be athletic and 18 years old, but only have one face photo, so without body pic can't tell you if she's really fat or not, and athletic body type can mean anything, we chat but I will not commit until see text body pic. Have anyone see her text body pic and confirm is young and tight? Most the time you can tell a young tight 18 years old body vs a 28 years old body easily....

side note, if an 18 years old and 28 years old or older wear exactly the same size, you would think their body would be the same, but not to me, i can tell a big different between a naked 18 years old body vs a naked 28 years old body, so if any guys tell me that their 30+ years old girlfriend wear size one, therefore is the same as a 18 years old wear size 1 body type, i would totally disagree

good example of young tight body are these two: https://www.seeking.com/member/425245db-d4a3-4a26-a760-749fa41239fd

and https://www.seeking.com/member/74ddffee-7065-4dac-835c-d661a1280819

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bb8a713f-0c5c-4d7a-9498-60a021460966[/URL]

She want online platonic friendship only, hahaha too funny, probably some fat old guy behind a computer in Nigeria or Siberia creative this profile, I will tell her, I will send her a 100 billions dollar to her Nigeria bank account, and also she said many guys benefits from her online chat and support therapy, whatever the fuck that mean, this one is too funny, she also said her pic is non sexual because she don't want to give guys the wrong ideas, are some of these girls from another planet far far away or what, but just to fair with her, there are guys somewhere out there that looking for online platonic friendship only with girls, is bizarre/crazy to me, but some guys actually only looking for online girls,

[QUOTE=Pal5600;3894956][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/906264c1-0383-4bd8-86cd-cff916216254[/URL]

This is a funny one, we chat and text about 4 days ago, she send sexy pic and want to meet that same night, she give me her locations and ask if I want to look for a hotel near her because she do not want to drive to far, so I said ok (by the way, her text pic look really good, seems like a fitness model), so I text her back a said I find a hotel near her, then ghost, WTF waste of time, can anyone check to see if she block me or not, but I really don't care, I thought the whole thing was stupid and laughable.[/QUOTE]Not seeing her profile pop up so think she's not on SA anymore.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7508a829-9e47-4b4a-9db4-3f574832480e[/URL]

She was pretty upfront about meeting. Sent some great pics and vids.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b73cff34-332a-4b1b-b0d6-d52e8c587aba[/URL]

Chatted some but it tailed off.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2ad7cb3d-66e6-4829-afc5-268dc71c1222[/URL]

Down for anything but the butt.

Any of you had any interactions with any of these:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1d887c6c-9ed7-4bc8-92b0-a6e9d203fc74[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/06fd4953-e5f2-9015-2d46-1b6c70b96d57[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ba5d4300-0c3a-4323-a3e0-d885d8537bc4[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/fa43601a-b419-4379-8d3a-19f9cd43cf3d[/URL]

Just looking for any red flags you may have experienced.

[QUOTE=ChiNorthside;3896088][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7508a829-9e47-4b4a-9db4-3f574832480e[/URL]

She was pretty upfront about meeting. Sent some great pics and vids.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b73cff34-332a-4b1b-b0d6-d52e8c587aba[/URL]

Chatted some but it tailed off.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2ad7cb3d-66e6-4829-afc5-268dc71c1222[/URL]

Down for anything but the butt.[/QUOTE]The last one, izabellaizababe is she okay with BBFS or she only do cfs.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/92cbf992-34eb-455b-9a05-64d31f0150b7[/URL]

No idea about this one seeking, 1st was maybe fwb, then change to platonic friendship only, now back to "Typical sugar babby relationship. You spoil me and ill please you in return, submissive by nature. " is that mean she will have sex or not, anyone knows what the hell she seeking?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/168a7dbf-d0bd-4fa0-81a3-f31848b6eba6[/URL]

Chat with this one for a while but lead to nowhere, anyone had better success.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7f43974d-844c-4232-b220-5eba81e33539[/URL]

This one ready to go, will only do cfs, I think she maybe a pro but not sure, she just give me that pro / business services vibe, and I am more interested in true amateur coed that do BBFS, but if you okay with cfs a pro, go for it.

[QUOTE=Pal5600;3896804][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7f43974d-844c-4232-b220-5eba81e33539[/URL]

This one ready to go, will only do cfs, I think she maybe a pro but not sure, she just give me that pro / business services vibe, and I am more interested in true amateur coed that do BBFS, but if you okay with cfs a pro, go for it.[/QUOTE]What did she quote you CFS?

[QUOTE=Pal5600;3896791][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/168a7dbf-d0bd-4fa0-81a3-f31848b6eba6[/URL]

Chat with this one for a while but lead to nowhere, anyone had better success.[/QUOTE]Same experience awhile back. Seemed real and non-pro, and she was in my area, but contact just tailed off as any talk of a M&G came up. Made no attempt to rinse or push for pre-payment, and she's back active on the site after I originally chatted with her months ago, so not sure what she's looking for off of SA. You seem to cast a very wide net LOL, so probably not worth more effort especially if anyone else had a similar experience with her.

[QUOTE=Kingforamonth;3896913]What did she quote you CFS?[/QUOTE]She want 350 for cfs, I ask about BBFS and she said no.

[QUOTE=FafaFooey;3896977]Same experience awhile back. Seemed real and non-pro, and she was in my area, but contact just tailed off as any talk of a M&G came up. Made no attempt to rinse or push for pre-payment, and she's back active on the site after I originally chatted with her months ago, so not sure what she's looking for off of SA. You seem to cast a very wide net LOL, so probably not worth more effort especially if anyone else had a similar experience with her.[/QUOTE]It like fishing, you will see a lots swimming around, lots of trial and error, time, effort, money to catch a nice one, because of what I am looking for, it seems more unsuccessful fishing trip, then successful one, just part of the game.

It looks pretty expensive to upgrade so you can exchange messages. Is it worth it?

Potentially looking for some companionship on a business trip. Do I need to put in a similar level of effort to using SA, or is it more straightforward given the nature of the site?

[QUOTE=Westburbia;3897413]It looks pretty expensive to upgrade so you can exchange messages. Is it worth it?[/QUOTE]Just put it this way, if you are 40+ years old, that pick up college girls at college bars are over, SA is a new game with exactly same players (assuming you still want to have sex with hot amateur college coed), if you only interested in fat old ladies then is a very, very easy game and cost much less. If you still want 18-22 hot amateur college coed it will cost you much more, headache, time, trial and errors, flaking and lotssss bullshits. Ect, the reward, fun dates, events, dinners, movies, concerts, ect. And bareback pussy and cip (you will not get bare pussy with escorts agency girls, rare if any will do bare), my advice is think about it, if 90 fee to begin your game is too much, then don't do it because it will cost you a lots for then 90 for their pussy.

[QUOTE=Westburbia;3897413]It looks pretty expensive to upgrade so you can exchange messages. Is it worth it?[/QUOTE]If you already have a nice rotation of indy or agency pros that give you what you enjoy and you can fit into your schedule and budget, then SA may not offer you a whole lot.

But if you're tired of that rotation, don't like the agency scene, or are looking to recapture some of the feeling of 'hooking up' then it may be worth the time and expense.

It's pretty damn amazing when it works, but can also wear thin quickly if you're running short on patience, free time, or play money. And there's been some changes to the site lately that some of us feel have made the game more difficult. But if you're intrigued it's certainly worth one $90 shot to see how it goes. As the others suggest, if you find that initial investment daunting you won't enjoy the next steps that put meet-and-greet dates, time out of your schedule for less than sure things, and hotel rooms on you.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6809d5ce-a542-4792-9ba2-b337b58f5363[/URL]

This one has her profile tagged with "friends with benefits" and "no strings attached". After talking for awhile she said she only wants an allowance to be an online sugar baby because she is so busy with school. I guess she is not too busy to be constantly on SA all day, so it seems. I asked her why is she not using the "online only" tag since that is what she is seeking? Telling someone you want FWB and NSA implies actually meeting person. Avoid this time waster.

Get that sex.

SDX.

[QUOTE=ChiNorthside;3896088][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7508a829-9e47-4b4a-9db4-3f574832480e[/URL]

She was pretty upfront about meeting. Sent some great pics and vids.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b73cff34-332a-4b1b-b0d6-d52e8c587aba[/URL]

Chatted some but it tailed off.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2ad7cb3d-66e6-4829-afc5-268dc71c1222[/URL]

Down for anything but the butt.[/QUOTE]Did the last one (izabellaizababe) commit to anything? I'm good with CFS and the other restriction.

Anyone with other experience with her?

[QUOTE=FruitNinja;3884681]She looks good. Any other details?[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/407cf22a-8b7c-4488-9cb9-cf85534cb346[/URL]

Was Looking at this further and her last location was Latvia. I'm a bit new to this scene, but isn't that a red flag? Especially on a fairly new profile?

Happy to learn more about the significance of this.

[QUOTE=Samath2624;3898372][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/407cf22a-8b7c-4488-9cb9-cf85534cb346[/URL]

Was Looking at this further and her last location was Latvia. I'm a bit new to this scene, but isn't that a red flag? Especially on a fairly new profile?

Happy to learn more about the significance of this.[/QUOTE]I'd say no but I'd want to talk to her more before deciding. In Chicago we are lucky to have a lot of European, Latvian, Russian, etc. In the area.

My best score was a Polish 19 year old last year. If she had been mentioned like so many profiles have been lately, I may have had a bias and not tried her out. YMMV. She started as a gp type who over the course of attraction, mutual interest, etc. Became a great per meet friend and sex wise you name it. Just bringing that up as I see a lot of blanket profile opinions looking for concurrent intel on girls. Unlike agency or parlor types, these girls are not the same to each guy. (And when they are, they are more of a pro than I'd want).

I've also noticed if your diligent, some that are online at the same time, you can sometimes find their tinder, or whatever else profile they might have. I've caught a few on more legit dating sites, while it doesn't necessarily change the convo we might have, it does sort of lower their guard when you can first connect not on the sa site. (As the hot ones get slammed, and don't always appreciate what gets said to them in less than tactful ways) Just few thoughts.

[QUOTE=ItsHowdyDoody;3898974]I'd say no but I'd want to talk to her more before deciding. In Chicago we are lucky to have a lot of European, Latvian, Russian, etc. In the area.

My best score was a Polish 19 year old last year. If she had been mentioned like so many profiles have been lately, I may have had a bias and not tried her out. YMMV. She started as a gp type who over the course of attraction, mutual interest, etc. Became a great per meet friend and sex wise you name it. Just bringing that up as I see a lot of blanket profile opinions looking for concurrent intel on girls. Unlike agency or parlor types, these girls are not the same to each guy. (And when they are, they are more of a pro than I'd want).

I've also noticed if your diligent, some that are online at the same time, you can sometimes find their tinder, or whatever else profile they might have. I've caught a few on more legit dating sites, while it doesn't necessarily change the convo we might have, it does sort of lower their guard when you can first connect not on the sa site. (As the hot ones get slammed, and don't always appreciate what gets said to them in less than tactful ways) Just few thoughts.[/QUOTE]One of the few I met when I was on the site I originally saw on an online dating site first. She lives pretty far from me, but when I saw her on SA I had better luck and we met. She probably felt comfortable with me- especially since she had younger guys emailing her. I guess they were into the older woman, mommy fetish which she said freaked her out. She was close to my age- so not really a typical baby in the traditional sense.

[QUOTE=Westburbia;3897413]It looks pretty expensive to upgrade so you can exchange messages. Is it worth it?[/QUOTE]Depend if you want to be able to talk or just look. Read the forum. See what others have managed to do and then make your own decision. For me it's been a gold mine.

[QUOTE=SNeed12;3897587]Potentially looking for some companionship on a business trip. Do I need to put in a similar level of effort to using SA, or is it more straightforward given the nature of the site?[/QUOTE]THere is nothing in this hobby that is straightforward. It takes time. Unless you start months before and set up multiple meets for a travelling biz guy it's a waste. IMHO. If you're home and can put in the time it's a blast.

Hi everyone.

Thank you all for the valuable information and advice. FruitNinja, Jasse1 and TheMidwestExec have especially been helpful for orientation. I'm looking forward to getting started!

It sounds like the following are important: 1) prepaid VISA to pay for membership 2) burner phone for privacy 3) some way to deal with self photos.

I've come across a few methods on these forums for dealing with self photos: 1) use Badoo to find a look-a-like photo 2) use one real photo, that is not on any social media site, keep it private, and only show it once you are in communication with a SB 3) use a real photo, make it public, but blur your face. In any case, it sounds like once you are in communication with a SB over text or app (such as Kik), then it is okay to send a couple real photos. Am I summarizing this correctly? Any other tips for maximizing privacy, while still being effective on the site?

What do you all normally use to book a hotel while maintaining privacy? Do you use a pseudonym?

Thanks again for all these value-packed posts.

Incidentally, a while back I randomly met a girl at a bar in the city. During conversation she mentioned her "friend" is on SA. A few days later, we went on a date for drinks. She came clean and said it isn't her "friend", but herself that is on the site. Even more recently, about six months ago, I met another girl at a late-night bar, and again it came up in conversation that she is on SA. This girl was cute, but kind of a mess, and we didn't hook up. But it goes to show how many girls are signed up! Quite amazing.

[QUOTE=Bamboo99;3899438]

Incidentally, a while back I randomly met a girl at a bar in the city. During conversation she mentioned her "friend" is on SA. A few days later, we went on a date for drinks. She came clean and said it isn't her "friend", but herself that is on the site. Even more recently, about six months ago, I met another girl at a late-night bar, and again it came up in conversation that she is on SA. This girl was cute, but kind of a mess, and we didn't hook up. But it goes to show how many girls are signed up! Quite amazing.[/QUOTE]Often, the way to other girls is through the ones you meet on the site. I've never had a SB that didn't say something along the lines of [I]"do you know some other guys that might be interested in meeting my friend?"[/I] I'm thinking like, "Yeah. [B]Me[/B]".

[QUOTE=EricLex;3782765]Gents, beware. There is a cutie girl on SA by the name Rosalove24. I never thought I'd get hit with something like this, but I'm a victim of attempted extortion.

Fellas, be aware that you're meeting girls you never have met before. After this experience, I don't know how to proceed on SA or whether I'd like to engage in any of this at all. Gauge the texts, see for yourself, and just try to be careful. I've got to deal with this now.

I can't view her profile anymore since I reported her through SA (it automatically blocks the person upon report), so this is the only picture from her profile that I could get. I won't be surprised if she already deleted her profile/blocked me. I'm sick to my stomach right now.


https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/961cc944-427c-412d-8c74-87c4fc4977b2[/QUOTE]Not really here to point fingers but there is a resemblance there.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f6e7ba22-32ae-4b72-be3f-39701c197fdf[/URL]

[QUOTE=ChicagoGoer;3900948]Not really here to point fingers but there is a resemblance there.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f6e7ba22-32ae-4b72-be3f-39701c197fdf[/URL][/QUOTE]Same chick who tried extorting anyone she met up with. You should steer clear unless you want to put up with that.

I have been messaging this one: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/956794fc-bce5-4a4d-9852-c4c940cd5423[/URL].

Anyone have experience with her? Her profile says "If you think that you will be giving gifts or monies in exchange for sex, you are mistaken. I am looking for a legitimate connection!" Is that a psychological defense mechanism against the reality of the situation? Or should I stop messaging her? My profile makes it clear that I'm looking for something casual and implies NSA sex without actually saying it.

A couple of girls have asked, "tell me a little more about yourself. " How do you answer that? My profile is fairly complete, playful, and clear. I'm thinking the girls want to know standard small-talk type information, for their comfort, which is totally fine. Or am I missing something here?

[QUOTE=EricLex;3900981]Same chick who tried extorting anyone she met up with. You should steer clear unless you want to put up with that.[/QUOTE]But did you meet with her and besides the extortion was she worth it?

[QUOTE=Samath2624;3898372][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/407cf22a-8b7c-4488-9cb9-cf85534cb346[/URL]

Was Looking at this further and her last location was Latvia. I'm a bit new to this scene, but isn't that a red flag? Especially on a fairly new profile?

Happy to learn more about the significance of this.[/QUOTE]The changing location may be because she's using SA as a phone app. Unless you turn it off, the app reports back your location to HQ, and then it's shown in the profile.

[QUOTE=AlMelrose;3901110]But did you meet with her and besides the extortion was she worth it?[/QUOTE]I don't understand how you can ask that, given the intel I provided on her already.

No she wasn't worth it, and no I wouldn't even think of seeing her again. She will extort you, and she is a sociopath. I am not exaggerating. Do as you please, though.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8488689f-2118-42c4-85a5-0c45c98a5b93[/URL]

This one claims to be Jo Jo Kiss, and in town for 3 weeks. Asking $400 per hour, but $200 up front. Told her nothing up front, and she squaked at that saying too many no shows. I think she is full of shit with stolen pics off web. Has anybody else risked the plunge and it really is her? I totally doubt it, but never hurts to ask. In the highly unlikely case it is, it would be a bargain because Jo Jo Kiss is very fucking hot. Thanks.

[QUOTE=BudLover99;3902289][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8488689f-2118-42c4-85a5-0c45c98a5b93[/URL]

This one claims to be Jo Jo Kiss, and in town for 3 weeks. Asking $400 per hour, but $200 up front. Told her nothing up front, and she squaked at that saying too many no shows. I think she is full of shit with stolen pics off web. Has anybody else risked the plunge and it really is her? I totally doubt it, but never hurts to ask. In the highly unlikely case it is, it would be a bargain because Jo Jo Kiss is very fucking hot. Thanks.[/QUOTE]She messaged me but I doidn't reply. If you send her $ you can kiss it goodbye.