I just got shot down by Leina because I don't have a provider reference, any ideas on what I should do? Or is there just no way I can see her?
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I just got shot down by Leina because I don't have a provider reference, any ideas on what I should do? Or is there just no way I can see her?
[QUOTE=Auto1239]I just got shot down by Leina because I don't have a provider reference, any ideas on what I should do? Or is there just no way I can see her?[/QUOTE]
Use a different name and call from a different number. Provide a good reference
Know what, I just got an email from her saying that she has been reading the guide and is fucking pissed! What can I say aside from the fact that though I shouldn't be, I am very embarrassed that she even got wind of the stupid STD rumor. In fact she has been getting really weird emails from the guide because of it.
It may be of course selfish of me to also rant that she will probably only being seeing her regulars this tour. Its just a shame, as meeting her was all I could think about when 1st I talked to her on the phone, BEFORE all of these shenanigans mind you. Ha! I'm laughing at myself right now for being caught up in all of this. Gawd Fucking Dammit.
Lei-chan, if your reading:
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Take care and be safe sweetheart,
StripedFashion
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[QUOTE=Auto1239]
I just got shot down by Leina because I don't have a provider reference, any ideas on what I should do? [/QUOTE]
Personally, if I was in your situation (trying to lose my virginity at a reasonable cost), I would simply choose one of the many ladies at relaxation places who don't require a "provider reference" to meet you and who are probably less expensive than Leina. You've already been involved with this project for four days, and you've said, "I'm sick of waiting." It really doesn't have to be time consuming and complicated. :)
[QUOTE=Auto1239]I just got shot down by Leina because I don't have a provider reference, any ideas on what I should do? Or is there just no way I can see her?[/QUOTE]I agree with kapalua, go to a relaxation place (do some research and go to one where you'll find what your looking for), and get it done. Try to relax and enjoy the experience and keep in mind that it's your first experience and not your last.
That is good advice.
I have all the info I need.
My next post will be my report.
Man, what a humongous can of worms I opened with my post. Leina, if you're reading this, I am very sorry this whole horrible, unfounded rumor got spread around. I've learned from some of the senior members that the guy who made the false claim about you was banned months ago and that no one believed him from the very beginning. The problem is, I know this NOW. At the time I posted the question about the rumor, I was trying to sort out truth from fiction, and I guess it got out of hand. For that, I am truly sorry. I never meant to turn any kind of negative spotlight on you, especially one so undeserved. For the record, everyone, the STD rumor is 100% NOT TRUE.
You grace us with your presence here in the islands, Leina. I hope you can forgive me for the unintentional part I played in this huge mess and be open to meeting new people some time in the near future.
[QUOTE=StripedFashion]Know what, I just got an email from her saying that she has been reading the guide and is fucking pissed! What can I say aside from the fact that though I shouldn't be, I am very embarrassed that she even got wind of the stupid STD rumor. In fact she has been getting really weird emails from the guide because of it.
It may be of course selfish of me to also rant that she will probably only being seeing her regulars this tour. Its just a shame, as meeting her was all I could think about when 1st I talked to her on the phone, BEFORE all of these shenanigans mind you. Ha! I'm laughing at myself right now for being caught up in all of this. Gawd Fucking Dammit.
Lei-chan, if your reading:
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Take care and be safe sweetheart,
StripedFashion
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[QUOTE=Starfox64]I agree with kapalua, go to a relaxation place (do some research and go to one where you'll find what your looking for), and get it done. Try to relax and enjoy the experience and keep in mind that it's your first experience and not your last.[/QUOTE]
I agree with Kapa and Starfox. If you've already decided to lose it with a stranger, instead of someone you know well, a lot has been decided already.
It doesn't seem like an escort would be that much more personable and nurturing than an AMP provider. I could be wrong, I dunno...
Have a couple of drinks to calm the nerves, but don't drink too much.
I don't know how old you are, but we've mentioned many times on this forum how drinks can affect one's judgment. At any age, you know this about driving, but we've said here how it affects your mongering judgment.
Also, if you're not a drinker, too many drinks thins your blood and makes it harder to maintain an erection.
I really dig what Starfox said about it being your first time and not your last.
A nice first time can be great, but every other time, no matter who it's with, can be pretty fuckin' great, too.
I appreciate every single orgasm I've had (while a woman was in the same room - heh heh). I don't remember them all, of course, but I appreciate 'em.
And minutes or hours after you've gotten laid, you'll be thinking about where and when you can get laid again. The first time will be inconsequential. It's an endless cycle anyway. God gave us these hormones, and that son-of-a-gun knew exactly what he was doing when he made us males this way. He wanted us to procreate, and he engineered it so that we wanna bang everything that moves.
Looking forward to your future posts.
Spread those seeds!
Primal Needs
From a poster I had in my dorm room in college (loooooooooong time ago):
"When sex is good it's beautiful. But when it's bad, it's still pretty good!"
[QUOTE=Auto1239]Anyway, I was wondering if anyone had any advice on who a good provider would be for someone who’s tired of being a virgin. [/QUOTE]
Dude, don't lose it to a prostitute! It will wreck everything you percieve as being a heathy relationship. How old are you anyway? If you're pushing 30 then, yeah, I guess it's time. If you're still not drinking age, my advice is look for someone meaningful.
The reason I say this is that I've personally seen two friends fall for the first girl they lay (one at the KB's and one at the MP) and think they are in love just because she was "nice" to him. Both of them spent all of their money and wrecked their credit for what was percieved as a relationship. Sure they got some ass but they also spent everything they made, everything they owned, and everything the credit card companies would advance. It was a mess for both of them when all was said and done. Ironically, they used to rag me for going to these places until they went themselves.
Just my advice. As everyone here knows, there is no turning back from the dark side.
Just seen a post from a escort name Stacey on CL. Looks like she's from the states cause of her area code. Her post said she's 19 years old. Smoking hot pics. Think I will try her. Has anyone seen her before?
[QUOTE=Member #2322]Just my advice. As everyone here knows, there is no turning back from the dark side.[/QUOTE]Hey Auto1239,
Listen to master #2322! I cannot agree more.
[QUOTE=Bar Butterfly]Just seen a post from a escort name Stacey on CL. Looks like she's from the states cause of her area code. Her post said she's 19 years old. Smoking hot pics. Think I will try her. Has anyone seen her before?[/QUOTE]Called her this morning as well as Carmen. Same person picked up on both numbers and said they were located near the Royal Hawaiian Shopping Center.
Carmen has reviews on TER and both numbers are Nextel. Kind of wary. Feeling of LE behind it.
[QUOTE=Bar Butterfly]Just seen a post from a escort name Stacey on CL. Looks like she's from the states cause of her area code. Her post said she's 19 years old. Smoking hot pics. Think I will try her. Has anyone seen her before?[/QUOTE]
Last time I checked ... Hawaii was part of the "States". LOL ;-)
[QUOTE=Member #2322]Dude, don't lose it to a prostitute! It will wreck everything you percieve as being a heathy relationship. How old are you anyway? If you're pushing 30 then, yeah, I guess it's time. If you're still not drinking age, my advice is look for someone meaningful. [/QUOTE]
Auto,
How about a compromise and just get BJ from a provider, not FS?
The satisfaction you get from that might tack on some patience for you, until you hook up with "someone meaningful" like brother 2322 said (my personal take on this is that not all first times stay meaningful, and if you're as tired of being a virgin as you said, I assume that there's no one on the horizon).
FS and BJ are completely different things, like Bill Clinton believes.
Primal Needs