Dear GothicBBW,
I think you did a wise thing by letting everone know the type of person CTBatman is and I hope you see your money soon.
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Dear GothicBBW,
I think you did a wise thing by letting everone know the type of person CTBatman is and I hope you see your money soon.
Yep.. A snake by any other name... I imagine if you scout-out some of the posts he's made, they'd show pretty much how he really is..
I too, Applaud you for outting him right in front of his peers, here. And I hope any other provider who reads it, knows enough to not trust the same deal.
As for how to prevent it from having it happen in the future, you really answered it yourself.. All up front, or no service. house rule! If you don't agree with the rules, GET OUT OF MY HOUSE! NOW!"..
And, Anyone who knows Batman personally, let him know he's now on notice.. Pay-Up what you owe! Most of us don't give our hard work on credit.. (save for those who remit monthly/weekly billing.) We get paid for our hard work.. Even providers deserve that.. I know, too many rip-off artists.. Don't join their ranks.
His user info:
Senior Member
Join Date: 07-20-05
Total Posts: 37 (0.04 posts per day)
Last Activity: 04-16-08 00:35
[QUOTE=Gothic Bbw]Ctbatmann38 is a senior member, who came to see me on Tuesday evening/wed morning. He paid me about half upfront with the deal to come by between 6-8 pm wed evening and pay the rest. Seeing he is a SR member, and he seemed rather kind, considerate and so on I agreed. He showed me a pretty good time, was nice, considerate, passionate, and skillful. Only problem is he never returned to pay me the second half, and I've been calling his phone but he is keeping it off.
I'm pretty livid that someone who would seemingly be such a polite and considerate gentleman could take advantage of my kindness, and rob me of funds he knew I was in need of.
Any suggestions, other than "don't take partial payment/half hearted promises in the future"?[/QUOTE]
Not for nothing, but I have a little bit of a problem of you "outing" someone that you made a deal with. First, you could give the guy a little more time than a day and a half. Real life does happen, and maybe something happened where paying you for services rendered wouldn't be his top priority, even though it may be to you.
Second, you DO realize that even though we all here would like to see the puritan times changed, what you are doing is illegal. I realize you're a nice person, etc., but that doesn't change the fact that you're selling sex for money. If you want a guaranteed paycheck, I suggest you get a job where you're paying taxes and getting direct deposit every week. Nothing in this game is guaranteed. Have us mongers gotten burned by women? Yes, I'm sure each and every one of us has. Welcome to the world of pay for play. Time to cut your losses, learn from your experience, and move on.
/end rant. I now await all of the knights in shining armour that are going to post to defend your honor from the evil Wolfie. :rolleyes:
[QUOTE=Wolfman Jack]Not for nothing, but I have a little bit of a problem of you "outing" someone that you made a deal with. First, you could give the guy a little more time than a day and a half. Real life does happen, and maybe something happened where paying you for services rendered wouldn't be his top priority, even though it may be to you.
Second, you DO realize that even though we all here would like to see the puritan times changed, what you are doing is illegal. I realize you're a nice person, etc., but that doesn't change the fact that you're selling sex for money. If you want a guaranteed paycheck, I suggest you get a job where you're paying taxes and getting direct deposit every week. Nothing in this game is guaranteed. Have us mongers gotten burned by women? Yes, I'm sure each and every one of us has. Welcome to the world of pay for play. Time to cut your losses, learn from your experience, and move on.
/end rant. I now await all of the knights in shining armour that are going to post to defend your honor from the evil Wolfie. :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]
Nicely said Wolfman Jack!
[QUOTE=Wolfman Jack]Not for nothing, but I have a little bit of a problem of you "outing" someone that you made a deal with. First, you could give the guy a little more time than a day and a half. Real life does happen, and maybe something happened where paying you for services rendered wouldn't be his top priority, even though it may be to you.
Second, you DO realize that even though we all here would like to see the puritan times changed, what you are doing is illegal. I realize you're a nice person, etc., but that doesn't change the fact that you're selling sex for money. If you want a guaranteed paycheck, I suggest you get a job where you're paying taxes and getting direct deposit every week. Nothing in this game is guaranteed. Have us mongers gotten burned by women? Yes, I'm sure each and every one of us has. Welcome to the world of pay for play. Time to cut your losses, learn from your experience, and move on.
/end rant. I now await all of the knights in shining armour that are going to post to defend your honor from the evil Wolfie. :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]
First, she DIDN'T "rat him out", she just posted his handle in a forum discussing sex, sex workers, and the dangers/risks/warnings about women AND their customers. It's a fair warning to those others here who might someday make arrangements to meet him.
If she wanted to "rat him out" she could have posted his real name, address, phone number, wife's name, children's names, etc. etc. etc.
Second, I think she's old enough and intelligent enough to realize what business she's in and the risks without the lecture from you.
Now, third, I'm sure you haven't gotten burned by any women. As someone once said, if you don't play the game you don't make the rules. Enough said there.
And I see you tried to be to be clever enough to realize that all you do is whine, so you tried to short-circuit the lambasting you expected for your idiotic lecture. Well, it didn't work.
Gothic BBW, you did JUST what you should have done. You didn't expose the asshole for what he is, just let other workers who post or browse here know enough to avoid the guy. Good job.
[QUOTE=Gothic Bbw]Well it's all part of the risk. It's just the fact he's a senior member, so I expected more,respect. You know?
Thanks for offering to be my knight :)[/QUOTE]
Incidentally, a poster here automatically becomes a "senior member" after a certain number of posts, be they helpful or not. I may be wrong but I think the number is 50 posts. So, the fact that Ctbatmann38 is a "senior member" is no testimony as to his credibility, respectfulness, or honesty.
I think you've gotten the idea from other posters - stay away from the "lay away plan" in the future!
And many would agree (not all, ahem...) that Sarang is one of the most helpful members around here, bar none.
Good luck and stay safe!
I was looking into what it takes to become "Senior" a while back. According to the "rules" and what I remember, if you make 25 or more posts and have been a member for more than 6 months and your posts are pretty clean from a "Jackson doesn't need to edit them before allowing them to the board" (or, "You aren't a TOTAL incompetent around a keyboard" *grin*), you get seniored up!
It's the post limit holding me back, I think (I only have 9 or 10, not a lot to say. You see? ). I try to put INFORMATION in my posts, not just yammer! *LOL*
Anyway, while I very much appreciate Gothic BBW's efforts to "take care" of the senior members, there isn't really anything other than time in grade and posting without hideous amounts of errors to make one senior.
GBBW, it's YOUR business, how you run it is YOUR concern. If you want to, you could give discounts to people with two names (Steel Blue, Sarang Haeyo, Trav Elin. *grin*) but unfortunately, as you have discovered, you can't count on USF to "vett" your client base for you. *sigh* bummer, as that will probably make it harder for ME to get to meet YOU when I get the cojos to visit an incall provider, unless someone else on the board can "vett" me for you! *LOL*
Stay safe, stay sane, and don't let the bastards get you down, darlin'.
Trav Elin (two names. *grin*)
[QUOTE=Bubba261]First, she DIDN'T "rat him out", she just posted his handle in a forum discussing sex, sex workers, and the dangers/risks/warnings about women AND their customers. It's a fair warning to those others here who might someday make arrangements to meet him.
If she wanted to "rat him out" she could have posted his real name, address, phone number, wife's name, children's names, etc. etc. etc.
Second, I think she's old enough and intelligent enough to realize what business she's in and the risks without the lecture from you.
Now, third, I'm sure you haven't gotten burned by any women. As someone once said, if you don't play the game you don't make the rules. Enough said there.
And I see you tried to be to be clever enough to realize that all you do is whine, so you tried to short-circuit the lambasting you expected for your idiotic lecture. Well, it didn't work.
Gothic BBW, you did JUST what you should have done. You didn't expose the asshole for what he is, just let other workers who post or browse here know enough to avoid the guy. Good job.[/QUOTE]
What a geek. Of course you're going to disagree with my point of view as all you do is kiss ass, now go take your pocket protector go away, the adults are trying to have a civilized debate/conversation here. Kissing Gothic's ass isn't going to get you a freebie. It's ok to have a mind of your own, brownnoser. :rolleyes:
[QUOTE=Wolfman Jack]What a geek. Of course you're going to disagree with my point of view as all you do is kiss ass, now go take your pocket protector go away, the adults are trying to have a civilized debate/conversation here. Kissing Gothic's ass isn't going to get you a freebie. It's ok to have a mind of your own, brownnoser. :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]
- thanks for consistently being an ...... oh forget it, you've heard it too many times in your life.
Just a quick question to all of my fellow MP/AMP conessouirs.
Besides what's still left in CT, is there anything else? I remember American way back in the day, but I know that was hit or miss (very miss from what I remember) and that was about it.
I stopped by Star the other but it was not as successful as I thought. I made a quick report, but needless to say, it was closed that the time. Granted, I was there at 8:30 PM on my way back from dropping off a friend of mine from JFK Airport.
So is there anything else in CT that may not be an AMP but more...perhaps EMP? I doubt it but it never hurts to ask (and I can make the drive to right outside of CT as well since I drive a lot for work).
I'm extremely happy that you "outed" the Batmann. Now I'll know to get the entire fee up front before I let him insert his schlonger in any of my orifices. Or is that orifii?
Nothing knightly about my proposal. A knight would offer his services gratis. I'd need to take a small percentage of your fee. I'm more of a mercenary.
Be careful, this business is what it is: risky on both ends.
[QUOTE=PacoQ007]Just a quick question to all of my fellow MP/AMP conessouirs.
Besides what's still left in CT, is there anything else? I remember American way back in the day, but I know that was hit or miss (very miss from what I remember) and that was about it.
I stopped by Star the other but it was not as successful as I thought. I made a quick report, but needless to say, it was closed that the time. Granted, I was there at 8:30 PM on my way back from dropping off a friend of mine from JFK Airport.
So is there anything else in CT that may not be an AMP but more...perhaps EMP? I doubt it but it never hurts to ask (and I can make the drive to right outside of CT as well since I drive a lot for work).[/QUOTE]Are you Mexico's version of "Bond, James Bond?"
There used to be a Russian place in Stratford. I hit it once but the girls were a bit too Slavic for my taste. You could try Marlowe's in Branford or for a really pricey bad time there's Tubs for Two in Meriden.
That's the best I can do. Shit, I don't even know if the above mentioned are still open.
I'm a konnoissuer of Koreans.
[QUOTE=Wolfman Jack]Not for nothing, but I have a little bit of a problem of you "outing" someone that you made a deal with. First, you could give the guy a little more time than a day and a half. Real life does happen, and maybe something happened where paying you for services rendered wouldn't be his top priority, even though it may be to you.
Second, you DO realize that even though we all here would like to see the puritan times changed, what you are doing is illegal. I realize you're a nice person, etc., but that doesn't change the fact that you're selling sex for money. If you want a guaranteed paycheck, I suggest you get a job where you're paying taxes and getting direct deposit every week. Nothing in this game is guaranteed. Have us mongers gotten burned by women? Yes, I'm sure each and every one of us has. Welcome to the world of pay for play. Time to cut your losses, learn from your experience, and move on.
/end rant. I now await all of the knights in shining armour that are going to post to defend your honor from the evil Wolfie. :rolleyes:[/QUOTE]
Heel, sit! You love stirring up the pot. I am not defending Goth BUT like you said if a provider were to cheat one of us everyone would hear about it. I think it is excellent that there is a way for a provider to out the bad apples on our side of the fence.
Believe me there are way worse ways to out a client than telling everyone her ripped you off. Ask Mr. Spitzer, lol!
Steel Blue
As was said, if I "outed" this man I could have posted his personal info on here... or somewhere women would see it. I asked Steel about this situation in a PM cus Steel is my confidant. He suggested I make a report about it..
[QUOTE=Steel Blue]Call batman out in the forum. I would[/QUOTE]I pretty much take all the advice SB has for me, it's worked thus far!
Think of it this way; if you went to see a provider and found she stole half your funds from your wallet how mad you would be? In essence it is the same scenario. And furthermore WJ HE'S the one who set the deadline, not I and despite the fact if something came up and he couldn't pay me -yet- answering his phone or dropping me an email when he was online the next day would have made coal into diamonds IMO. It was the lack of communication on his part that did it.
As I said he treated me nicely and with respect, so he didn't get a cold shoulder and lackluster time like two other people who have seen me have, I was my usual giving relaxed and playful self.
Had it been Goth who ripped off Batman I am sure we would have heard an earful from Batman. I am surprised with knowing that he could be outed on this forum he did this.
BTW Batman where is the report?