Utr

[QUOTE=OneWayOut;5943986]No Fly Zone status by me means buyer beware. Yes she is and has been a gem of a woman and I truly wish her all the best in her journey. However OWO will not contribute any more $ or time due to her self sabotaged choices. Most certainly we know women of this lifestyle carry a Sweet Tooth, yet Charlotte candyland became seriously dangerous to her own health. I personally will not finance any contributions to a cemetery plot. Yet continue to pray that she makes a healthy change and buries such demons.[/QUOTE]I stand corrected sir. Thanks for the clarification. And thank you for the heads up.

Well, I had hoped to be sharing a glowing report on Charli. We texted a few times, we're set to meet last night and I texted to confirm. Unfortunately I was totally ghosted. Now I get this is an "utr" so she may not be checking the phone. Then again. It's just good manners. Of course it's an occupational hazard in this hobby.

Certainly hope to hear from her and try again.

[QUOTE=LTlurker53;5945506]Well, I had hoped to be sharing a glowing report on Charli. We texted a few times, we're set to meet last night and I texted to confirm. Unfortunately I was totally ghosted. Now I get this is an "utr" so she may not be checking the phone. Then again. It's just good manners. Of course it's an occupational hazard in this hobby.

Certainly hope to hear from her and try again.[/QUOTE]Your not the only one. She's already going back to her old ways. I texted once I heard about her having a hotel for the weekend. I texted her Saturday with nothing in return. Haven't heard from her since that first day she announced she was back.

[QUOTE=Pbfla321;5946948]Your not the only one. She's already going back to her old ways. I texted once I heard about her having a hotel for the weekend. I texted her Saturday with nothing in return. Haven't heard from her since that first day she announced she was back.[/QUOTE]She just canceled after I booked the hotel and drove 2 hours away. She gave me some excuse about her vehicle being down, when I could have just picked her up and offered her transportation. I got a confirmation the night before and the day of and she still cancelled on me. Can we find somebody more reliable. I'm upset.

Word of warning with her which is a shame since I only had an issue with her once. I had two good experiences then was ghosted last time I showed up after multiple confirmations. I never heard from her since until recently when she sent me an unsolicited text (big no no) asking for money. Little head was about to win out and she offered everything on the menu. It was odd enough I felt like I wasn't getting texted from her but a handler. She also asked for money through cash app to reserve a room. Damn shame as I thought she was a sweet girl when I saw her.

[QUOTE=MikeV8458;5949936]Word of warning with her which is a shame since I only had an issue with her once. I had two good experiences then was ghosted last time I showed up after multiple confirmations. I never heard from her since until recently when she sent me an unsolicited text (big no no) asking for money. Little head was about to win out and she offered everything on the menu. It was odd enough I felt like I wasn't getting texted from her but a handler. She also asked for money through cash app to reserve a room. Damn shame as I thought she was a sweet girl when I saw her.[/QUOTE]See my CHARLOTTE "Unplugged" post on her being No Fly Zone pal, sadly a vast number of these girls qualify for such Zone these days.

Saw the post. Was just looking to give my feedback on the unsolicited texts. Thanks!

Charli has pulled the plug on her come back tour. Knowing I'm her biggest fan (JJ2 honorable mention) personally & professionally, it just wasn't the best time to un-retire. Caught up in the "I should do this" & "Why am I doing this" is certainly a difficult place to be. OWO makes no excuse for the UNACCEPTABLE behavior of her ghosting recently or lack of communication. Thru all my blessings of finding UTRS over the years, I've always said the shelf life of a UTR is unpredictable. Dam its unpredictable on how I've found them in the first place. So OW wishes her well and hopefully someday she calls in w " I'm seriously ready " until such we continue the journey looking for NEXT.

[QUOTE=OneWayOut;5950757]Charli has pulled the plug on her come back tour. Knowing I'm her biggest fan (JJ2 honorable mention) personally & professionally, it just wasn't the best time to un-retire. Caught up in the "I should do this" & "Why am I doing this" is certainly a difficult place to be. OWO makes no excuse for the UNACCEPTABLE behavior of her ghosting recently or lack of communication. Thru all my blessings of finding UTRS over the years, I've always said the shelf life of a UTR is unpredictable. Dam its unpredictable on how I've found them in the first place. So OW wishes her well and hopefully someday she calls in w " I'm seriously ready " until such we continue the journey looking for NEXT.[/QUOTE]Damn sad to hear about both of them now. But I truly appreciate everything you've done to help me get in contact with them. So hard to find a consistent piece of ass in this damn county. Even more so the ones that are actually sexy an not trying to have you pay there mortgage.

Thanks for the no pass update. The tightest kittie I've ever encounter and never asked for money in advance in the past. We had scenario where she had to pay hotel by 10 am but she took care of me earlier and I took her to bank to deposit cash to pay for hotel. When a UTR who's on 🍭 hits me up first, I'm generally cautious for setup.

The whole point for me is to have access to some fun without the usual drama that comes with a wife or SO. I don't have the time, energy, or patience for any of that shit, so here I am.

Meanwhile due to other personal business I have been pretty much sidelined for that past month. While I previously saw her a lot I had not seen Charlotte since she got out of the hospital for a quick social visit and to give her a couple marios to tide her over. I normally never do this but we had a pretty good thing going and I knew she could use it at the time. I did have plans to see her this weekend to get my own assessment of her situation and to get a much needed nut but now I too and out of the blue am getting crazy texts and requests to help her get a place to stay. I am not a WK and don't need that shit in my life, and all signs point to a woman whose decisions and lifestyle are in decline. OWO called it correctly.

Meanwhile, Julia seems to be the opposite. She hasn't ever asked me for any financial assistance, but she FREQUENTLY texts to see how I am doing. On one hand it seems like a thoughtful gesture, but on the other it seems like she expects constant back and forth and gets frustrated if she doesn't hear from me for a few days to check in and share how I am doing. Again, drama I don't need. This shit happens at my convenience and on my schedule, not the other way around. I'll still see her regularly but will need to reestablish some boundaries.

Don't get me wrong, I love the dynamics of a UTR but if you are not careful and set boundaries these ladies will take advantage.

Meanwhile Charli was back and then re-retired in the span of a sparrow fart. You'd think with the economy being what it is that there would be more options in the area right now but dang pickings sure are slim!

I was going to ask the same about Julia. She is great to meet and lives up to the hype but no one told me about the random texts messages. I try to be polite but I can not meet every day she reaches out or the time she reaches out. Luckily it is not a phone number I use reguarly or it would be a problem.

[QUOTE=TooJaded;5960700]The whole point for me is to have access to some fun without the usual drama that comes with a wife or SO. I don't have the time, energy, or patience for any of that shit, so here I am.

Meanwhile due to other personal business I have been pretty much sidelined for that past month. While I previously saw her a lot I had not seen Charlotte since she got out of the hospital for a quick social visit and to give her a couple marios to tide her over. I normally never do this but we had a pretty good thing going and I knew she could use it at the time. I did have plans to see her this weekend to get my own assessment of her situation and to get a much needed nut but now I too and out of the blue am getting crazy texts and requests to help her get a place to stay. I am not a WK and don't need that shit in my life, and all signs point to a woman whose decisions and lifestyle are in decline. OWO called it correctly.

Meanwhile, Julia seems to be the opposite. She hasn't ever asked me for any financial assistance, but she FREQUENTLY texts to see how I am doing. On one hand it seems like a thoughtful gesture, but on the other it seems like she expects constant back and forth and gets frustrated if she doesn't hear from me for a few days to check in and share how I am doing. Again, drama I don't need. This shit happens at my convenience and on my schedule, not the other way around. I'll still see her regularly but will need to reestablish some boundaries.

Don't get me wrong, I love the dynamics of a UTR but if you are not careful and set boundaries these ladies will take advantage.

Meanwhile Charli was back and then re-retired in the span of a sparrow fart. You'd think with the economy being what it is that there would be more options in the area right now but dang pickings sure are slim![/QUOTE]

The thing is with me is she knows I have been out of town and unable to meet. She was genuinely concerned about me and was checking to see how I was doing. Which is incredibly thoughtful of course, but was happening with a frequency and level of expectation you'd expect from a long term SO. It just kinda crossed a boundary.

But she is such as sweetheart that when I brought it up and asked her to give me some distance she was apologetic and accommodating. She is really easy going and an absolute sweetheart, and being 'UTR' I think she forgets about hobby boundaries. Otherwise she is easily the most chill and easy going woman we have right now with none of the other red flags.

In any case, I don't mean to hijack OWO's thread and Julia already has one of her own. I just wanted to share my experience with Charlotte and unfortunately lack of experience with Charli.

[QUOTE=Cdmail32;5960778]I was going to ask the same about Julia. She is great to meet and lives up to the hype but no one told me about the random texts messages. I try to be polite but I can not meet every day she reaches out or the time she reaches out. Luckily it is not a phone number I use reguarly or it would be a problem.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TooJaded;5960892]The thing is with me is she knows I have been out of town and unable to meet. She was genuinely concerned about me and was checking to see how I was doing. Which is incredibly thoughtful of course, but was happening with a frequency and level of expectation you'd expect from a long term SO. It just kinda crossed a boundary.

But she is such as sweetheart that when I brought it up and asked her to give me some distance she was apologetic and accommodating. She is really easy going and an absolute sweetheart, and being 'UTR' I think she forgets about hobby boundaries. Otherwise she is easily the most chill and easy going woman we have right now with none of the other red flags.

In any case, I don't mean to hijack OWO's thread and Julia already has one of her own. I just wanted to share my experience with Charlotte and unfortunately lack of experience with Charli.[/QUOTE]Don't delude yourself. UTRs stay in contact with the frequent clients to maximize cash flow. It is always all about the money. When I lived in the Macon area I knew a UTR who became a friend. She told me she operated on a 3 by 5 plan. Her objective was 3 clients a day, 5 days a week. She made a pretty good income, since she was on Me-decade and getting state income aid because her reported income was below the poverty level.

[QUOTE=Cdmail32;5960778]I was going to ask the same about Julia. She is great to meet and lives up to the hype but no one told me about the random texts messages. I try to be polite but I can not meet every day she reaches out or the time she reaches out. Luckily it is not a phone number I use reguarly or it would be a problem.[/QUOTE]Julia yeah I get the random "hi" text messages from her. I already made it clear up front that I don't make good money. And with everything else going up but my paycheck I'm starting to struggle and not have much play money. But I just stopped responding to her. It was starting to get annoying. It's like when I want you an need you. I'll contact you. It's that easy. She's even contacted me from another / older number she has. I'm sorry but the only time I want a woman contacting me even if it's to really check up on me is when I'm dating someone or if I'm married. Her reaching out to me just tells me she's struggling for money. I get it trust me like I said I don't make good money. But I don't go contacting people every time I need money.