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Going from Common Man to SD
[QUOTE=Dolato;2067454]With a true SB and not some pretend pro, you'll be paying less and getting more time. Marathon sessions or overnights for $ with someone that appreciates that $ and your company.
The numbers are always in your favor, so best of luck to you.[/QUOTE]Yes it's true being a Sugar Daddy is within the reach of the "common man", I still think it's a good idea to at least give the image that you're fairly well-off. Sometimes the richer you look, the less you have to pay. Okay forget the GPS and Pros. They want ridiculous allowances no matter how you look or what you do. But there's a large segment of SBs (who BTW are still very attractive) who just want to be treated out by a true gentleman and maybe get some help with a few bills or a little spoiling. After all, most of them are tired of their always-broke 20-something boyfriends that never paid for a full meal outside the first date.
So even if you're a "common man", remember your job is still give the allusion that you're a man of means, financial stability, and class. Remember 95% of those girls will never have a "millionaire" sugar daddy who drop 5 k-10 a month on a SB. The rest must settle for far less. But it's all in the presentation. You can give a girl $ and make her feel like your her "white night" and she feels like your baby or you can give her the same $ and make her feel like a cheap prostitute and you're just blue collar creeper spending his Friday paycheck on a cheap thrill.
All about presentation and your attitude. Here are a few tips to make even the "common man" look like a man of means:
- Get yourself a German car. It doesn't even have to be new. There are quite a few used car lots that specialize in used luxury cars. The vast majority of girls couldn't tell the difference between a 2005 Mercedes or a 2012. Just make sure it has a modern dashboard (that can play iPod music) and the paint job and headlights in good condition. Having a luxury car will make the SB feel like she's with someone who has money and she can brag to her friends about it.
- Even if you have a poor fashion sense, get some nice sunglasses, watch, name-brand wallet, or some quality accessory. You better believe girls notice little things like this. And for goodness sakes, make sure you wear clean shoes! Again even if you have poor fashion taste, you want to look more clean cut than her grungy 20-something boyfriends.
- Save the roach motels for the 4th & 5th dates after you've established yourself as a legit SD. Yes with a Non-Pro off CL any 4-walled enclosure will do for the p4 p transaction, but your FC locations with your SB at least initially should give her comfort and make it feel like a secret rendezvous, not a trip to a crackhead no-tell or truck stop for debasement. Once you've gained her comfort and if she's totally cool with going cheap on the hotels to reduce your cost, then maybe it's okay but I would still avoid it if possible.
- Don't just always give cash. Add a gift certificate or gift when you can. It does three things. It reminds her of you long after your hookup. It makes the arrangement feel less transactional. And it gives something for her to brag about to her friends.
- Yes, she will brag to her friends. She won't talk about how she had your cock in her ass and then took a facial, licking up every last teaspoon of your jizz. No she won't tell her friends that. She will tell them how she has a rich sugar daddy who gives her money and gifts, just for giving him companionship and talking. So giving her little things that she can show off to her friends will pay off down the line.
- Don't over exaggerate. If you're middle-management pulling in 50-60 k, don't try to pretend to be a multi-millionaire. Go for the small business owner angle. It gives you prestige, but explains some of your modest living and she won't be constantly asking to see your big mansion or fly to Paris every weekend.
Personally I think there is a difference between being a sugar daddy looking for a sugar baby, and just being a regular guy looking for cheap Non-Pro / UTR bootycall. There's nothing wrong with the latter, but there is a difference. Yes some girls are just looking for no-strings attached pvp for a few $, but if you're seeking more of a personable connection and to make a real impression, then you have to up your game. IMO, if you do this you'll be able to reach a wider variety of girls. Girls you thought were unattainable will be texting / flirting with you daily, eager for the next sex-romp. And these girls won't just sex the next guy who offers $+1 because you'll be giving them something a little more. You'll be giving them the "taste of the finer things in life" which almost every damn SB profile says they want.
Remember the "finer things" is relative. I once bought a girl a $20 meal with full appetizers and desert and she was completely over the moon like I just bought her a $200 meal. You better believe she showed her full appreciation later that evening. Ironically if I just gave her $200, she probably would have spent it on something stupid she normally does and wouldn't experience anything new except getting fucked by an old guy. But the $20 meal gave her a whole new experience she wouldn't have experienced otherwise, and makes fucking an older guy more appealing when she thinks back on it. Also, the less likely she'll feel dirty and flake on you in the future.
I know this is a long post, but I thought it was important to pass this on. Being a "SD" is more attainable than ever before but if you want success then you still have to present yourself like a SD even if you have modest means. I still think we're in the Golden Era of the Sugar Bowl even if there are a lot of GPSs, but I have a feeling it can all get fucked up if too many supposed "SD"s treat the girls like BP prostitutes. All it will take is a few Dateline or Oprah specials saying how a ton of dirty old men are preying upon college girls, sexing innocent little Alice and turning her into a teenage prostitute. Even if SD / SB arrangements aren't illegal, it would make the public more aware of old men with younger women and society would drive these type of arrangements further underground. That's my fear, so it's why I like to help my newer brethren play the Sugar Bowl the right way, so we can play longer.
Great post that should be shared with all
[QUOTE=JohnGSmith;2067594]Yes it's true being a Sugar Daddy is within the reach of the "common man", I still think it's a good idea to at least give the image that you're fairly well-off. Sometimes the richer you look, the less you have to pay. Okay forget the GPS and Pros. They want ridiculous allowances no matter how you look or what you do. But there's a large segment of SBs (who BTW are still very attractive) who just want to be treated out by a true gentleman and maybe get some help with a few bills or a little spoiling. After all, most of them are tired of their always-broke 20-something boyfriends that never paid for a full meal outside the first date.
[/QUOTE]I hope the others that frequent the Richmond SD thread see your post. Lots of good advice and thanks for taking the time to share what you've learned.
I agree that it's important to present the part when going to a M&G. That doesn't mean talk big and act flashy, but also act like a grown ass man and not some man-child that the girls are used to with guys their age. You don't have to spend big $ at a M&G, but ordering / recommending a good drink or even opening the door can be a big difference from what she's used to.
I don't consider myself to have lived in luxury or priviledge, but have learned first hand how the "finer things" really are relative. There may be the POTs who already have a taste for the luxuries in life and need a SD to finance their ways, but there are also plenty of girls who have lived a much more modest life and each new experience is an eye opening one that can show her the value you can add to her life besides the $/ visit.