Sugar bowl sites and sugar babies

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a357c6675a1aa8f8[/URL]

For the SB guys don't bother with this one. Too many red flags. When I asked where she lived she told me "near the arch". When I asked for something more specific, like an area she couldn't tell me, just kept saying "near the arch". Even people who live downtown don't say that, they say downtown. The cost she quoted, with absolutely no rules at all by the way, and all kinks available, was WAY too low. Wouldn't do any confirmation at all, just kept saying all her pics were real. Never gave her a chance to move in to asking for money. When I offered to meet her today she started backing down about not being free until later this week, after telling me right earlier that she was bored and didn't have anything to do.

Should have trusted my instincts when I saw her pop up on the website and avoided her.

[QUOTE=HolyStone1975;6386316][URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/a357c6675a1aa8f8[/URL]

For the SB guys don't bother with this one. Too many red flags. When I asked where she lived she told me "near the arch". When I asked for something more specific, like an area she couldn't tell me, just kept saying "near the arch". Even people who live downtown don't say that, they say downtown. The cost she quoted, with absolutely no rules at all by the way, and all kinks available, was WAY too low. Wouldn't do any confirmation at all, just kept saying all her pics were real. Never gave her a chance to move in to asking for money. When I offered to meet her today she started backing down about not being free until later this week, after telling me right earlier that she was bored and didn't have anything to do.

Should have trusted my instincts when I saw her pop up on the website and avoided her.[/QUOTE]She had messaged me. I was about to pay and unlock her!

[QUOTE=Chrisstl;6386323]She had messaged me. I was about to pay and unlock her![/QUOTE]I assume she is doing the normal new girl thing where she spams everyone online with a generic opening. I will say that the person was responsive but it was obvious a few messages in that it was bullshit.

[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/lqwMzODaAPjp9LW5vyV3b61r[/URL]

Wow, this one is relentless asking for money. I have no less than 20 messages from her today asking me to send her money, among the other messages. For a girl that is a paralegal, and has no issues telling you her real info, she is pretty dumb. Someone with a grudge could really do some damage if she pissed them off. I turned her notifications off and looked again a little bit ago and there were like 40 texts from the day varying between asking for money and getting mad I wasn't responding. When I asked about meeting tonight, earlier in the day, she had every excuse in the book saying she wasn't available. When I asked about other days this week, more excuses and then the asks for money with the implication that unless I indulged her frequent 25 and 50 dollar requests, she would be busy this weekend.

[QUOTE=HolyStone1975;6390457[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/lqwMzODaAPjp9LW5vyV3b61r[/URL]

Wow, this one is relentless asking for money. I have no less than 20 messages from her today asking me to send her money, among the other messages. For a girl that is a paralegal, and has no issues telling you her real info, she is pretty dumb. Someone with a grudge could really do some damage if she pissed them off. I turned her notifications off and looked again a little bit ago and there were like 40 texts from the day varying between asking for money and getting mad I wasn't responding. When I asked about meeting tonight, earlier in the day, she had every excuse in the book saying she wasn't available. When I asked about other days this week, more excuses and then the asks for money with the implication that unless I indulged her frequent 25 and 50 dollar requests, she would be busy this weekend.[/QUOTE]She messaged me for $9 because she forgot her purse and she was at the store on our first text. She messaged me at work about needing money "sooner rather than later". I'm like, I thought you had a job LOL. She quoted me a price for a BJ $200. I told her that was a bit steep. She came back with $150. Ok I told her that was cool. I couldn't come at the time she wanted me to, so she said I was playing games and she was through with me LOL. Cool. A future headache avoided.

[QUOTE=MrBrookss;6391748]She messaged me for $9 because she forgot her purse and she was at the store on our first text. She messaged me at work about needing money "sooner rather than later". I'm like, I thought you had a job LOL. She quoted me a price for a BJ $200. I told her that was a bit steep. She came back with $150. Ok I told her that was cool. I couldn't come at the time she wanted me to, so she said I was playing games and she was through with me LOL. Cool. A future headache avoided.[/QUOTE]I have had her notifications turned off for a few days now. I went and looked this morning and there were another 15 or so texts asking for money from her. She alternated between being nice, to complaining she was stuck and needed money for an Uber, and then angry that I wasn't responding fast enough for her. I finally replied asking her having a job and do they not pay enough to cover the basics? Nothing but excuses. If she's not a scammer she has other issues that require her to get her money in quick 20-30 dollar bits at a time. She did quote me 300 for FS (extra 100 for bbfscip) earlier in the week and I was going to take her up on it but she tried to talk me in to giving her half up front and then she would come over 'in a few days'. That's when it started to all come in to clearer view.

It also looks like she pulled her profile down from the site.

[QUOTE=Chrisstl;6386323]She had messaged me. I was about to pay and unlock her![/QUOTE]If you notice, she hasn't been online now for 4 days since I called her out as a scammer. Starting to think the best plan with SB is wait a week on new profiles to see if they stick around.

[QUOTE=HolyStone1975;6390457][URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/lqwMzODaAPjp9LW5vyV3b61r[/URL]

Wow, this one is relentless asking for money. I have no less than 20 messages from her today asking me to send her money, among the other messages. For a girl that is a paralegal, and has no issues telling you her real info, she is pretty dumb. Someone with a grudge could really do some damage if she pissed them off. I turned her notifications off and looked again a little bit ago and there were like 40 texts from the day varying between asking for money and getting mad I wasn't responding. When I asked about meeting tonight, earlier in the day, she had every excuse in the book saying she wasn't available. When I asked about other days this week, more excuses and then the asks for money with the implication that unless I indulged her frequent 25 and 50 dollar requests, she would be busy this weekend.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=MrBrookss;6391748]She messaged me for $9 because she forgot her purse and she was at the store on our first text. She messaged me at work about needing money "sooner rather than later". I'm like, I thought you had a job LOL. She quoted me a price for a BJ $200. I told her that was a bit steep. She came back with $150. Ok I told her that was cool. I couldn't come at the time she wanted me to, so she said I was playing games and she was through with me LOL. Cool. A future headache avoided.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=HolyStone1975;6392504]I have had her notifications turned off for a few days now. I went and looked this morning and there were another 15 or so texts asking for money from her. She alternated between being nice, to complaining she was stuck and needed money for an Uber, and then angry that I wasn't responding fast enough for her. I finally replied asking her having a job and do they not pay enough to cover the basics? Nothing but excuses. If she's not a scammer she has other issues that require her to get her money in quick 20-30 dollar bits at a time. She did quote me 300 for FS (extra 100 for bbfscip) earlier in the week and I was going to take her up on it but she tried to talk me in to giving her half up front and then she would come over 'in a few days'. That's when it started to all come in to clearer view.

It also looks like she pulled her profile down from the site.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=HolyStone1975;6392507]If you notice, she hasn't been online now for 4 days since I called her out as a scammer. Starting to think the best plan with SB is wait a week on new profiles to see if they stick around.[/QUOTE]Her profile was most likely removed (banned) by WYP.

If they receive a few reports of an individual trying to scam guys, WYP will ban them.

I've personally had several scammers removed for reasons of fake addresses to using fake / stolen pictures.

Many times WYP will refund your credits, if you request and WYP thinks your report / complaint legitimate.

We all need to work together and weed these low lifes out.

Be safe and continue the hunt.

JamesJ.

I texted a girl from seeking using my real number without thinking. She hasn't replied yet. Googling my number doesn't give you much but if she dug and dug.

Anyway, what's a good way to walk this back and switch to my burner or is the damage done? Should I block her and delete my account or go forward?

[QUOTE=SkiPoles;6393778]I texted a girl from seeking using my real number without thinking. She hasn't replied yet. Googling my number doesn't give you much but if she dug and dug.

Anyway, what's a good way to walk this back and switch to my burner or is the damage done? Should I block her and delete my account or go forward?[/QUOTE]Tell her you had to get a new phone number and will text her on your "new" number. Then do so. I did this before.

A few months ago a lowlife that went by lily and was supposedly 20 years old tried to blackmail me. It sent me some nudes then went silent. Then a "police officer" contacted me asking me to confirm my full name and address (most likely pulled from public records) and asking why I getting nudes from a "m&n at r" called Lily (I told him to fuck off) then her "dad" texted me threatening to file a police report. I reminded "dad" that blackmail is a felony and pretty much left me alone after that. I knew it was a scam from the beginning but I'm not going to lie that gave me some anxiety. Never giving out my real phone number again.

Well I decided to come back to SA after a long hiatus and seems like things have gotten worse.

Good grief it's like everyone has weapons grade adhd. You have a good conversation one day and the next day they are gone. I really don't get it. Anyway I'm happy to share what I have found.

Adorableprimadonna is probably a rinser. Hits me up for money right away. It's an emergency of course. You all know how that goes.

Had lunch with a woman from SA. Everything seemed to go well. We were supposed to meet up the following day. The day of the meeting she requested me to send a photo of my license "for safety reasons". Of course I wouldn't. Then there was just silence. I know this subject has been brought up before.

[QUOTE=Yorgi1;6397000]Had lunch with a woman from SA. Everything seemed to go well. We were supposed to meet up the following day. The day of the meeting she requested me to send a photo of my license "for safety reasons". Of course I wouldn't. Then there was just silence. I know this subject has been brought up before.[/QUOTE]So you met for lunch and everything went fine and agreed to meet the next day for a fun time. Then before the fun time meeting she requested a picture of your license? I've seen some women on social media push this or similar stuff as a screening method and to keep guys from misbehaving. I'd be reluctant to send a woman I've just met a picture of my ID especially in these circumstances. Perhaps inquire if there is another way to make her feel safe meeting you.

[QUOTE=Yorgi1;6397000]Had lunch with a woman from SA. Everything seemed to go well. We were supposed to meet up the following day. The day of the meeting she requested me to send a photo of my license "for safety reasons". Of course I wouldn't. Then there was just silence. I know this subject has been brought up before.[/QUOTE]So you've already met her for lunch, it went good, and NOW she wants your pic and personal info after the fact? Sorry, but that sounds like the lunch date was just her doing recon to "size up if you're a sucker" for potential identity theft or an extortion scam more than any sudden safety concern as she claimed...You made the correct call because something certainly wasn't on the level there and it's amazing how many guys still just fall for this kind of shit. It's much better to err on the side of caution, and maybe miss out every now and then, than to be a gullible, reckless fool and end up in a nightmare situation.

Be careful out there...