Do any of you pay a deposit before meet and it legit or are they all scams?
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Do any of you pay a deposit before meet and it legit or are they all scams?
[QUOTE=Rahassa;4835948]You really don't until you message.
There are all different types on there: some are just straight up scammers (ask for bank account numbers or give a sob story and ask for cashapp money right away); some are operating on the escort model (screen you on SA first, then move to texting or kik or snapchat to give you their pay per meet (PPM) expectation; some want more of a boyfriend / girlfriend thing with a very wealthy guy, sort of a full time gig idea; some think you should give them money and they will text you (LOL); some are just there for fun but spook when you try to actually meet; some want to play blackmail games; some want to find an American husband for immigration purposes (the Venezuelan and Ukrainian girl are hot! Some have borderline personality and want to find someone to play drama games with; some are submissive kinkstresses who get off on serving father figures and figured out they can get paid for it; some are regular gals who are bored and don't need a boyfriend because men are fairly useless overall, but do want sex and a date now and again.
Figure out what you're after, look at it as a fun distraction and time-suck, and above all practice excellent security. Use a burner app, don't use your real name, don't overshare identifying details. Also, remember these are largely civilian women who need / deserve to be treated respectfully. If you are honest and direct about boundaries, you'll stand out from the crowd.[/QUOTE]The original poster was asking about STG (Skip the Games). This response sounds more like SA (Seeking Arrangement).
I think the screening methods are a little different. Similar tools (reverse number and image searches) but different interpretation of the results. Also, there are still some sites around with reviews of girls you'll find on STG. Nothing on SA girls in this area accept an occasional mention on this site.
Personally, I'm searching SA for GNDs that have a reasonable rate and a 2 hr time limit. STG is more about pros that watch the clock and charge much more.
[QUOTE=BbcNerd;4836897]Do any of you pay a deposit before meet and it legit or are they all scams?[/QUOTE]I'm sure 1 or 2 of them are legit, but unless you want to risk losing money, or giving a provider your real world info, there are other fish in the sea. Never send a deposit.
[QUOTE=BbcNerd;4836897]Do any of you pay a deposit before meet and it legit or are they all scams?[/QUOTE]It's never a good idea to pay a deposit in advance.
I understand that some providers have been burned when the customer ghosts them. But far more gullible men have been burned by scammers who were never going to be providers. So if you want to burn your money, just make a nice pyramid of $20 bills in the backyard and set it on fire. You'll have more fun watching that than you will handing over a gift card and then realizing that the scammers took your money and you'll get nothing for it.
[QUOTE=BbcNerd;4836897]Do any of you pay a deposit before meet and it legit or are they all scams[/QUOTE]Never pay a deposit and if they ask for a gift card, steam card, amazon card, etc. It's a well known scam.
Honestly the scams / fake ads on places like STG are very very obvious for anyone who has been on this earth for more than 45 seconds. If it looks too good to be true, it is. If the rate is $15/ hour for bareback sex. If it is just an email it's fake, etc. It really is that simple.
[QUOTE=EGrayUpstate2;4838297]Never pay a deposit and if they ask for a gift card, steam card, amazon card, etc. It's a well known scam.
Honestly the scams / fake ads on places like STG are very very obvious for anyone who has been on this earth for more than 45 seconds. If it looks too good to be true, it is. If the rate is $15/ hour for bareback sex. If it is just an email it's fake, etc. It really is that simple.[/QUOTE]Also remember google is your friend google most the pics on these sites like stg escort index escort fish listcrawler and most now go to internet pornstars twitter and instagram models it getting bleak finding legit ads anywhere and the majority that don't come back as fake pics have the same cash app in advance excuse I have found a dozen with the same story I don't take cash anymore, I was robbed and raped too many times now I only do cash app in advance the b. S is insane.
I didn't read closely enough.
[QUOTE=MuckForFunny;4836971]The original poster was asking about STG (Skip the Games). This response sounds more like SA (Seeking Arrangement).
I think the screening methods are a little different. Similar tools (reverse number and image searches) but different interpretation of the results. Also, there are still some sites around with reviews of girls you'll find on STG. Nothing on SA girls in this area accept an occasional mention on this site.
Personally, I'm searching SA for GNDs that have a reasonable rate and a 2 hr time limit. STG is more about pros that watch the clock and charge much more.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BTK187;4838596]Also remember google is your friend google most the pics on these sites like stg escort index escort fish listcrawler and most now go to internet pornstars twitter and instagram models it getting bleak finding legit ads anywhere and the majority that don't come back as fake pics have the same cash app in advance excuse I have found a dozen with the same story I don't take cash anymore, I was robbed and raped too many times now I only do cash app in advance the b. S is insane.[/QUOTE]This is what I was wondering are any of the girls that want cash app or Venmo upfront deposit real? Are they bing legit cause they have been robbed? Idk I never trust them to do it, but was wondering if anyone here has done any cash app deposits and if it worked out or they got scammed?
[QUOTE=Rahassa;4838817]I didn't read closely enough.[/QUOTE]Yup, but you did cover the problems with sites like SA or SB very well. Think you forgot to mention the young hot ones with ridiculous GPS tho.
[QUOTE=Tomb8871;4839260]Yup, but you did cover the problems with sites like SA or SB very well. Think you forgot to mention the young hot ones with ridiculous GPS tho.[/QUOTE]Lots and lots of gps, pro's faking it and amateurs that bail at the first mention of what it really takes to get an allowance. You will waste A LOT of time with the sugar dating sites.
[QUOTE=BbcNerd;4839186]This is what I was wondering are any of the girls that want cash app or Venmo upfront deposit real? Are they bing legit cause they have been robbed? Idk I never trust them to do it, but was wondering if anyone here has done any cash app deposits and if it worked out or they got scammed?[/QUOTE]I've paid using cashapp, it's pretty common among the younger set. I wouldn't do it before getting to know them a little first.
[QUOTE=Rahassa;4839583]I've paid using cashapp, it's pretty common among the younger set. I wouldn't do it before getting to know them a little first.[/QUOTE]I'm 0/2 on that and never will send again tons of chicks are making cash off dating apps selling there snap promising meetups for a donation once you send your blocked.
All I can say after reading the last few reports is NEVER, EVER, pay in advance. Not half, not a quarter, not 5 cents. It doesn't matter what site the ad is on. It doesn't matter how long you have known the provider. NEVER front money. Ever. If they whine or cry tell them no anyway and call somebody else. Be safe.
Guys never send deposits. End of story.
Would have to agree, I don't recall ever seeing anyone say yeah I paid half up front and it was all good, always the other way around.