St. Patty day sale is going on now - 25% off. Eom.
[QUOTE=Tony9;6373536]Yes you can join for free & view profiles when initially logging on. You can send but can not read messages or view private photos. (it's the incentive for the PAY subscription).[/QUOTE]SA membership sale 25% is going on now valid for next 5 days or so.
Seeking or Secret Benefits
Looking for a new SB. Deciding whether to go with SA as usual in the past or switch to Secret Benefits.
Any suggestion?
Are there any other promising sites?
Thanks for sharing your experience.
[QUOTE=Tibby92;6383861]Others may have had better experiences, but I decided to try SB a few months ago. It mostly seems like a scam to me. I looked for profiles I could identify were real and in my area. Some of them were also on SA. One of the women was actually a waitress I recognized from a local restaurant. Another I easily found on Facebook, and a third had an SIU shirt on in one picture. I had received messages from each of these women, so I paid the credits to read them. One of them said something like, "hey baby, how can I make you happy? 😘" Others were pretty generic as well, mostly asking what I was looking for. One of them had granted me private photo access, so I used credits to unlock them. I wrote each of them back with a simple message to see if they would respond. They all supposedly opened my messages. Not one of them replied. The private photos I unlocked from one were fully clothed selfies that were similar to her public photos.
I decided to set up a female account using a VPN and a different computer to see what was going on here. Turns out there's an option for these girls to set up automatic introduction messages that go out to guys even when they're not online. I searched my town, and my profile didn't show up in the results even though I had been online an hour earlier. So I'm not sure how any of the dozens and dozens of accounts that had supposedly viewed me and favorited me could have done so. I was a ghost.
I emailed customer support and asked for a refund on my credits due to not getting a single reply. Surprisingly they granted it to me. They also completely deleted my account and blocked my IP address from signing up again.
I recently tried to sign up again out of boredom and got in, so I guess it was a temporary block. I now see they've added new ways for you to blow your credits. In addition to private photos, you can unlock secret questions they have allegedly answered or even pay credits to become a "top fan. ".
If you have unlimited funding to burn through, you might be able to find someone real on there. Just know that a lot of the site is automated and a lot of the girls don't even know they've sent you a message when you reply to them. I wouldn't waste my time or money. Also, Secret Benefits and Sugar Babies are the same site with different URLs. I tried signing up for the latter, and they wouldn't accept the email addresses I had used on the other site. When I did get in, it was the same women and same layout.[/QUOTE]That's what I thought too. It is too good to be true when so many sugar baby accounts show 'active' and 'online' whenever (any time of the day) you login to the site. To find a real one that you like, you may have to burn a lor of money to unlock the messaging option.
SA is dying in St. Louis area and it is very sad. I met some real gems over the years on SA.