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The address for this new operation seems out of place since it is in a medical office building. Third floor location with 3 ladies to chose from. Unfortunately all three were pushing the overweight mark. None peaked my interest so didn't bother to stay. I'm hoping any other new spas that open at least have ladies close to those portrayed in their ads! Considering it's location, I question the longevity of the spa, unless the doctors need some after work stress relief.
River.
[QUOTE=Deflator;2477689]Went by there the other day and was with Marena. Generally a good time and HE but I was disturbed when she said they had cameras.[/QUOTE]Why were you disturbed? Most if not all spas have cameras. Did you mean they had cameras IN the treatment rooms? Did they record your actual treatment, or just entering / leaving the building while clothed?
Stopped by FE without calling so everyone I knew was either busy or gone so met Yoko. Thought it was my lucky day. Very tiny, and pretty though not typical looks for a K-girl and definitely on the younger side (for a spa, not young for a civi). When she smiles she goes from a 6 to an 8 and had a perfect spinner body (proportioned well not cartoon) looked like if I held her waist with both hands my fingers and thoumbs would meet on both sides of her waist. Everyone likes a beautiful woman and I like spinners so I was looking forward to the session, but it was one of the worst experiences AMP experiences I've ever had. She didn't talk at all unless I asked her something so hard to make any connection, shower was perfunctory, "massage" lasted maybe 5 minutes and saying it was 'half-hearted' is giving her way too muych credit. I wasn't sure if she had really started the massage or was just getting ready when she started the light touch. Mediocre tease and from there on the shower was starting to look good. I felt a little bad thinking maybe she was just exhausted at the end of the day but after when I asked about the surge of people ringing the bell during my session she said it was quiet all day until evening. She was so hot her attitude almost didn't matter and maybe she was having an off day, but I got the strong feeling she doesn't like her job. She is really super attractive so maybe someone else will have a better experience but I won't bre repeating. With her.
Thanks to some good report detail from LH, I wanted to check out Main Therapy. I checked out the information on BP for details. The entrance is in the back and there is a big municipal parking lot with lots of available parking spaces. I went in the back and rang the bell. It actually took a few minutes (it seemed) before mama Kim answered the door. Real nice lady, asked if I had been there before. I actually said "no", which is the first time I've ever admitted to not going to a place. Mama Kim brought me to the room. In walks Mimi. Based on LH's reports I knew Mimi was not a lucky choice, but I decided to stick with her and be super nice, just basically "make it work".
During the time there, Mama Kim made sure I knew other girls were there, and actually went out of her way to introduce Cici and Yoko (I was not sure if there was another girl or not. Thought Kim indicated there was but not sure. Mimi, Cici and Yoko are about the same scale in the looks department. Mimi was more classic K-girl with straight black hair, thin but with a bit of a belly. Cici and Yoko had very light hair, Yoko had a perm. All girls were GND and decent to look at. I thought Cici was pretty cute and looked a bit younger. I would guess all the girls were low to mid 30's.
Well, back to Mimi. I tried to strike a rapport with her, which seemed to work. Her TS was very nice. She has a great touch and I really enjoyed it. She did not rush thru it and went out of her way to make sure I enjoyed. Back to the room, I assumed the position and got a great soft rub (which I asked for). Like I said, she had a great touch and thought it was my best bet. Lots of nice slow touch and then Mimi moved to more of a body-to-body massage which was really nice. All I have to say is Mimi gave some great skin exposure and access to her and provided a fantastic completion. I really enjoyed Mimi.
In closing, I know that LH mentioned he hit a trifecta - 3 massages and a couple of HEs. Mentioned it was a good departure from FS places and made a good connection. I also made a good connection, but didn't go that route. I did the. 6 + . 6 single. I will say that I think the place is well managed, the girls are well-coached, and it was a positive experience. I enjoyed my time with Mimi, and I will go back for a next visit to see one of the other girls.
Visited today, in the mood for some Asian cuisine.
Met with Bonnie, body an emphatic 10; face 9. Very good English skills.
$60 room fee.
Table shower was OK, good attention to the boys. The ad mentioned a slide but was not available.
Back to the room, she asked what I wanted, I said everything. Only brought $1. 2 but she was firm on $1. 4 for FS.
She said BJ for $1. 2 which I reluctantly agreed to and paid up front.
My mistake was to make the deal up front because the massage, which I wanted, was nonexistent.
I flipped at about the 5 minute mark but I have to admit I was able to have some fun at least.
She wanted to work on the boys right away but I managed to get her undressed and boy, am I glad I did.
Her body was flawless, perfect tits, great figure, shaved pussy.
I asked if she could just lie on the table with me a while to which she agreed. No kissing but I was able to explore her perfect 10 body.
Eventually she moved down to give me an OK BJ.
I would recommend but, as I said, at least get a little bit of a massage before you start negotiating.
I visited the Simple Serenity Spa in Pawtucket about 1:00 PM last Saturday. I had called ahead. When I got there, I filled out a form, signed it with a fake name and paid the $60 house fee. I thought it would be $65. There was a girl at the desk and 5 or so others. The girl at the desk, Amber, told me I could have her or 2 girls who were not in the room. I chose Amber. She was white, fairly short, pretty, shapely, early 20's, wearing a short cloth dress that kept riding up. Several tattoos. She took me to the room, which was large with a real door. Table had an attached face hole. There was no table shower.
Amber used lots of oil which she washed off later with hot wash cloths. Her technique was pretty good with lots of elbows. She worked out the kinks. She told me she was the assistant manager. Lena was the manager and Gina was the owner. She has kids. Standard service was available; don't know how much else as I didn't push. She told me she was also a dominatrix, so we enjoyed a little mild fetish. Left out tip envelope; no haggling. Paid $60 + $60, or whatever the code is. I will ask for her again.
Happy. How fitting her name was.
First time visiting Harmony, and was led in. Mamasan thought she recognized me and said she hasnt seen me in a while. I played along. I drew a short haired k girl, with a decent body, but wasnt really my type. I asked if I could see who else was working and 2 other girls showed up. Surprisingly, I chose Happy, who had the smallest top, but had the most natural body. English was decent enough, and the chemistry was there. She made me feel at home and acted as if she was lucky I chose her. TS was through, with above avg tease. She joined me in the sauna for a few minutes before proceeding to the massage. Decent, but forgettable. No face holes on the table prohibited me from totally relaxing.
On to the flip, she asked if I was interested in anything else, which I replied "everything". She leaves the room for supplies and I leave the tip on the table. When she returned, she allowed me to caress her as she undressed. Applied the cover with her mouth and performed a slightly teethy CBJ. Hopped on for a few positions and left happy. Mamasan made sure I was happy with Happy, and invited me back to visit. I think I shall.
[QUOTE=iamioman;2479562]Stopped by FE without calling so everyone I knew was either busy or gone so met Yoko. Thought it was my lucky day. Very tiny, and pretty though not typical looks for a K-girl and definitely on the younger side (for a spa, not young for a civi). When she smiles she goes from a 6 to an 8 and had a perfect spinner body (proportioned well not cartoon) looked like if I held her waist with both hands my fingers and thoumbs would meet on both sides of her waist. Everyone likes a beautiful woman and I like spinners so I was looking forward to the session, but it was one of the worst experiences AMP experiences I've ever had. She didn't talk at all unless I asked her something so hard to make any connection, shower was perfunctory, "massage" lasted maybe 5 minutes and saying it was 'half-hearted' is giving her way too muych credit. I wasn't sure if she had really started the massage or was just getting ready when she started the light touch. Mediocre tease and from there on the shower was starting to look good. I felt a little bad thinking maybe she was just exhausted at the end of the day but after when I asked about the surge of people ringing the bell during my session she said it was quiet all day until evening. She was so hot her attitude almost didn't matter and maybe she was having an off day, but I got the strong feeling she doesn't like her job. She is really super attractive so maybe someone else will have a better experience but I won't bre repeating. With her.[/QUOTE]When I read this I had had a similar recent experience there & she called herself "baby. Upon reflection I'm pretty sure it was the same staffer as when I asked her name she paused like she was thinking up a good answer.
Petite, very attractive, young and I thought "oh boy" and it was a totally lackluster experience. Little engagement, little interaction, forced conversation, not really interested. VERY different from what is my typical experience at this facility.
So for whatever its worth it wasn't you or me rather that particular provider's very poor customer-orientation.
Was there more recently & drew "Bonnie" who was much more customer oriented and a completely enjoyable experience.
I worry the changing political environment will affect staffing and attitudes if not worse & try to appreciate the opportunity while I have it.
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I've been wanting to visit and all-American spa for a while now and I've read good reviews about SS. What is the general clientele of SS? Does it have a the feel a strictly therapeutic setting? Or is it mostly mongers going in and out? I think I want to book an appointment with Amber as I've read good reviews. I am not looking for FS I was just thinking about a HJ; is she.
One to be pissed off or irritated doing anything but FS. I know some girls don't want to waste their time because they can be making the big bucks doing FS.
Thanks for your help!
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Is there any truth to the rumor that Pawtucket is going to pass an ordinance similar to Prov?
Wow I'm ready to run over there after that post. Havnt had a massage in a while she sounds like she's worth it. I've read sum confusing posts on opulance that's why I have never been there. I love a gd massage but want to at least get a HJ. So to get to my point. Is it going to be a sure thing or is it something you got to put sum time and $ before you get something. I know everyone is different but has anybody gotten lucky first time thanks guy appreciate the help.
[QUOTE=Nickj8889;2483844]I've been wanting to visit and all-American spa for a while now and I've read good reviews about SS. What is the general clientele of SS? Does it have a the feel a strictly therapeutic setting? Or is it mostly mongers going in and out? I think I want to book an appointment with Amber as I've read good reviews. I am not looking for FS I was just thinking about a HJ; is she.
One to be pissed off or irritated doing anything but FS. I know some girls don't want to waste their time because they can be making the big bucks doing FS.
Thanks for your help![/QUOTE]Hi Amber, this is like the 5th post you've made this week.
[QUOTE=TomFord;2484464]Hi Amber, this is like the 5th post you've made this week.[/QUOTE]I did not know Amber was "white knighting" for herself. LOL. Amber DOES do FS and dominatrix work on the side. Unfortunately, she had fallen on some difficult times not too long ago. I have her digits.
Simple Serenity has many girls there that I already had sexual intercourse with. I hate the fucking layout of the place and the fucking noise is awful. I preferred Gina's old location on East Street. Even Blissful Oak had better ambience than the current SS location IMHO.
[QUOTE=MikeRandCbone;2484863]I did not know Amber was "white knighting" for herself. LOL. Amber DOES do FS and dominatrix work on the side. Unfortunately, she had fallen on some difficult times not too long ago. I have her digits.
Simple Serenity has many girls there that I already had sexual intercourse with. I hate the fucking layout of the place and the fucking noise is awful. I preferred Gina's old location on East Street. Even Blissful Oak had better ambience than the current SS location IMHO.[/QUOTE][BLUE]This is some douchebag that makes a living providing over the top reports for massage parlors and spas. I've banned user names from him all over the forum. I guess somebody up here is paying him now. Unfortunately now that he's posting in Providence he will be back. Don't ever respond to him, just report new infestations and I'll take out the trash.
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Saw the ad today. [URL]http://providence.backpage.com/BodyRubs/h-i-d-d-e-n-s-e-c-r-e-t-s/4861815[/URL].
Called and asked where abouts they are. Young sounding girl asks where I am from, and then giggles. Tells me 1150 Reservoir on 3rd floor. Pull up, and location is a medical building with emergence room on first floor. Get in elevator to third. No name on directory. See the all too familiar door bell on the door frame. A butter faced, squatty Mamsan answers and ushers me in. Big head says "RUN Forrest Run!", Little head says STAY!! We know who won THAT battle! .
She hugs me and says welcome. Asks if I been there before, answered " you just opened, NO!" She laughs and leads me to room. Takes the house fee ($60) and tells me undress, girl be right in. No table shower. Dodged a bullet I think. Am on table face down when door opens, and She walks back in and starts with the rub. Damn. Why does little head always win the battle?
As far as the rub goes, an A for effort, a D for execution. Lots of kneading and rubbing, no real actual skills. Plenty of tease, and I really needed that. On the flip, just closed eyes and tried hard to think NMS and Admiral girls! Nice clean-up, and head neck and scalp massage for balance of the time. Left 40 for Her. Saw a quick glimpse of other provider, a little bit younger version!
Given where they are, and lack of indentification or even a false appearance of legitimacy, do not see them being there long. But then again, do not plan on going back unless other reports indicate changing of providers.
[QUOTE=MarriedTom;2485839]Saw the ad today. [URL]http://providence.backpage.com/BodyRubs/h-i-d-d-e-n-s-e-c-r-e-t-s/4861815[/URL].
Called and asked where abouts they are. Young sounding girl asks where I am from, and then giggles. Tells me 1150 Reservoir on 3rd floor. Pull up, and location is a medical building with emergence room on first floor. Get in elevator to third. No name on directory. See the all too familiar door bell on the door frame. A butter faced, squatty Mamsan answers and ushers me in. Big head says "RUN Forrest Run!", Little head says STAY!! We know who won THAT battle! .
She hugs me and says welcome. Asks if I been there before, answered " you just opened, NO!" She laughs and leads me to room. Takes the house fee ($60) and tells me undress, girl be right in. No table shower. Dodged a bullet I think. Am on table face down when door opens, and She walks back in and starts with the rub. Damn. Why does little head always win the battle?
As far as the rub goes, an A for effort, a D for execution. Lots of kneading and rubbing, no real actual skills. Plenty of tease, and I really needed that. On the flip, just closed eyes and tried hard to think NMS and Admiral girls! Nice clean-up, and head neck and scalp massage for balance of the time. Left 40 for Her. Saw a quick glimpse of other provider, a little bit younger version!
Given where they are, and lack of indentification or even a false appearance of legitimacy, do not see them being there long. But then again, do not plan on going back unless other reports indicate changing of providers.[/QUOTE]Just for laughs I took a look at the BP ad from the link you posted. And it was almost hilarious seeing those photoshopped pics of Asian women with big JLo Latina type asses.
[QUOTE=Westbayman2000;2481702]Visited today, in the mood for some Asian cuisine.
Met with Bonnie, body an emphatic 10; face 9. Very good English skills.
$60 room fee.
Table shower was OK, good attention to the boys. The ad mentioned a slide but was not available.
Back to the room, she asked what I wanted, I said everything. Only brought $1. 2 but she was firm on $1. 4 for FS.
She said BJ for $1. 2 which I reluctantly agreed to and paid up front.
My mistake was to make the deal up front because the massage, which I wanted, was nonexistent.
I flipped at about the 5 minute mark but I have to admit I was able to have some fun at least.
She wanted to work on the boys right away but I managed to get her undressed and boy, am I glad I did.
Her body was flawless, perfect tits, great figure, shaved pussy.
I asked if she could just lie on the table with me a while to which she agreed. No kissing but I was able to explore her perfect 10 body.
Eventually she moved down to give me an OK BJ.
I would recommend but, as I said, at least get a little bit of a massage before you start negotiating.[/QUOTE]Is this the Bonnie from NMS?
Also did anyone find out where Changel from DT went? She was probably the best of all the girls in the area imo.
I decided to roam Rhode Island again. I was away since Providence closed all AMPs. One day I stopped in NMS, Papa-San told me I can be get in his SUV or follow him to another area that they provide massage. I was worry of that setup and I decided to skip. Well I was back this past Monday in the afternoon and I chose to go to Main Therapy. It was a good choice because the place was empty.
I had a choice between two Koreans girls and I decided to go with Shi-Shi, a little girl, pretty and skinny, no more than 30 why. Limited English but this is not the place to talk, (besides the one that like to talk start making personal questions bringing me to reality and I am all for the fantasy) She gave me my bath, then a regular massage. I asked hard but it felt like medium soft. Then I switched to soft and it was pure caress. I flipped and she went straight to take care junior. Nice HE and she allowed limited roaming in her bees. After the HE, she went to get a towel and since still I have time, she gave me a massage into the feet. Felt good. . 6 + . 6. I had my fun, definitely I will repeat.
SePuede.
I thoroughly enjoyed your review. Please do keep posting.
[QUOTE=SePuede;2488409]I decided to roam Rhode Island again. I was away since Providence closed all AMPs. One day I stopped in NMS, Papa-San told me I can be get in his SUV or follow him to another area that they provide massage. I was worry of that setup and I decided to skip. Well I was back this past Monday in the afternoon and I chose to go to Main Therapy. It was a good choice because the place was empty.
I had a choice between two Koreans girls and I decided to go with Shi-Shi, a little girl, pretty and skinny, no more than 30 why. Limited English but this is not the place to talk, (besides the one that like to talk start making personal questions bringing me to reality and I am all for the fantasy) She gave me my bath, then a regular massage. I asked hard but it felt like medium soft. Then I switched to soft and it was pure caress. I flipped and she went straight to take care junior. Nice HE and she allowed limited roaming in her bees. After the HE, she went to get a towel and since still I have time, she gave me a massage into the feet. Felt good. . 6 + . 6. I had my fun, definitely I will repeat.
SePuede.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Cellucor;2487101] did anyone find out where Changel from DT went? [/QUOTE]Do you mean Channel? If I'm not mistaken there were reports of her at Harmony (which was connected to DT) for a while, but I can't claim to have any first hand knowledge of that.
[QUOTE=FlyDangler;2488611]Do you mean Channel? If I'm not mistaken there were reports of her at Harmony (which was connected to DT) for a while, but I can't claim to have any first hand knowledge of that.[/QUOTE]Yes silly typo on my part. I'll have to look into Harmony now I'll report back with any findings.
I'm thinking of leaving the hobby. Should I? Approximately 15 years ago (in the mists of an ugly divorce) I started my journey down the AMP road. I don't remember the name of the first spa, but I do remember the provider. My next time was about a year later at V. I. P. In providence and then subsequently only once or twice a year there after (was always concerned about LEO). In those early years, I realized I preferred basic service instead of FS. Didn't like the upsell, phony enjoyment, taste of ky and more importantly the lack of a challenge. I found that going to a non FS spa and "pushing the envelope" was far more satisfying. Well, approximately 3 yrs ago (while paying on annual visit to a now former well known HJ only spa) not only did I push the envelope; I knocked it out of the part. And I was hooked.
My provider was a 10 in every aspect. Massage, ts, looks and personality. Her smile and warmth lit up the room. She would eventually become many mongers ATF. On my first visit, when It came time for "the ending" I began to push the envelope as usual. To my surprise, she let me go further than I ever had gone at an HJ only spa. Let's just say, my fingers tasted like heaven. Needless to say I didn't wait another year- more like a week. The next session, she let me go even further and by the third session, she gave be a BBBJCIM. There was no turning back. For the next three years I saw her exclusively. There was nothing we didn't do together, and always reassuring each other to keep our secret. At this time I've got to say, at no time did she try to upsell me or ask for more than the HJ service price. Did I tip a little more than. 40? Yes, but never more than. 70. This was a relationship. She always assured me that I was the only customer she would do this with and I could tell by how "nonprofessional" she was, her nervousness and that KY was never used, that she was telling the truth. It was all her (She would have been found out long ago if she was doing that with everyone). We thoroughly enjoyed our time together. Providers are humans and have needs to. But my mistake was in developing such strong feelings for her when mine (in a relationship) and her situation didn't allow for more. It all came to an end when Providence cracked down. Now I don't know where she is and I miss her. She was a beautiful woman, and I wish nothing but happiness wherever she is.
Since the Providence closings, I've tried a few other providers (AMP's and private) but all just pale in comparison. I know what I had was probably once in a life time.
So, to my question. Should I leave the hobby? (P.S. Don't bother asking the name of the spinner or the spa. And the name I'm using was set up just for this so you couldn't look at my past entries to figure out whom I writing about, but I assure you I'm a senior member.) I promised to keep it a secret.
Was there on 5/30. My tech was meaghan. I realize I am new here but the experience was otherworldly. She is gorgeous, intelligent, articulate and unbelievably sensual. Pm for details. I'm. So captivated I almost feel like mike. Whayever except I don't exaggerate.
[QUOTE=SecretLv;2489374]I'm thinking of leaving the hobby. Should I? Approximately 15 years ago (in the mists of an ugly divorce) I started my journey down the AMP road. I don't remember the name of the first spa, but I do remember the provider. My next time was about a year later at V. I. P. In providence and then subsequently only once or twice a year there after (was always concerned about LEO). In those early years, I realized I preferred basic service instead of FS. Didn't like the upsell, phony enjoyment, taste of ky and more importantly the lack of a challenge. I found that going to a non FS spa and "pushing the envelope" was far more satisfying. Well, approximately 3 yrs ago (while paying on annual visit to a now former well known HJ only spa) not only did I push the envelope; I knocked it out of the part. And I was hooked.
My provider was a 10 in every aspect. Massage, ts, looks and personality. Her smile and warmth lit up the room. She would eventually become many mongers ATF. On my first visit, when It came time for "the ending" I began to push the envelope as usual. To my surprise, she let me go further than I ever had gone at an HJ only spa. Let's just say, my fingers tasted like heaven. Needless to say I didn't wait another year- more like a week. The next session, she let me go even further and by the third session, she gave be a BBBJCIM. There was no turning back. For the next three years I saw her exclusively. There was nothing we didn't do together, and always reassuring each other to keep our secret. At this time I've got to say, at no time did she try to upsell me or ask for more than the HJ service price. Did I tip a little more than. 40? Yes, but never more than. 70. This was a relationship. She always assured me that I was the only customer she would do this with and I could tell by how "nonprofessional" she was, her nervousness and that KY was never used, that she was telling the truth. It was all her (She would have been found out long ago if she was doing that with everyone). We thoroughly enjoyed our time together. Providers are humans and have needs to. But my mistake was in developing such strong feelings for her when mine (in a relationship) and her situation didn't allow for more. It all came to an end when Providence cracked down. Now I don't know where she is and I miss her. She was a beautiful woman, and I wish nothing but happiness wherever she is.
Since the Providence closings, I've tried a few other providers (AMP's and private) but all just pale in comparison. I know what I had was probably once in a life time.
So, to my question. Should I leave the hobby? (P.S. Don't bother asking the name of the spinner or the spa. And the name I'm using was set up just for this so you couldn't look at my past entries to figure out whom I writing about, but I assure you I'm a senior member.) I promised to keep it a secret.[/QUOTE]Being a Senior Member sometimes makes you more blind (stupid) to what the reality of all this really means. Me included! With that being said I can guarantee you 120% that you were not the only one. Your precious little perfect girl who you were sure was giving "only" you the golden ticket was and is surely handing out dozens of those tickets.
Sure she may be a bit selective and keep a handful of "Special guys" (10 -20) who she will make feel like teenage boys in love! Trust me, if she felt the same about you she would not have vanished into thin air when the Spa's closed. You were one of many regardless of what she was telling you. Fact is all these girls are very smart.
They all know that there chances of landing a guy to support them into "retirement" is far better if they groom several guys or more for there future needs. Looks like you were not part of the final cut and / or she was not ready for retirement. The minute you think you are the "Only One" is when she has successfully set the hook and is beginning to reel you in!
Count yourself as being one of the lucky ones who was released. Maybe to be hooked at a later date when either she or another girl is ready to reel you in.
How do I know this? Count me as one of the victims who figured things out before it was too late! My dearest friend Daddyslookin can attest to that. LMAO.
Do yourself a favor and don't EVER think yourrrrrrrr the only special one. YOUR NOT!
Muffy.
Before I get started be advised that they are doing that fucking night time construction on 95 south so expect delays. I got into a 6 mile bumper to bumper traffic jam that delayed me 30 minutes and almost ruined my night. I ended up getting to Far east at 10:45 Thursday night and the lot was full of cars with CT plates. Inside I'm told there's a 15 minute wait. I've never been a fan of the sloppiest of seconds so I head to harmony and draw bonnie. She's not my type so I request a line up. I pick Yuri, a late 30's medium height K girl who had natural breasts. She was cute, and things started off great with a 5 minute wait for the TS which gave us some early teasing time. After the TS and sauna it was back to the room. This is where things got weird. Yuri is here from Cali. I guess where she's from it's right to ST with basically zero massage. I objected and insisted on a rub. I had to coach her through each body part and all in all it was the worst massage I've ever had, professionally or non professionally. Good thing she was cute or I would have been totally pissed. After she struggled through the most basic of massage fundamentals I ended up giving her a massage which she thoroughly enjoyed. When it came down to the nasty she performed well and I had my fun. We still had some time at the end so I ended up rubbing her some more. The good kind of rubbing though, with jr involved big time. Standard damage 60 plus 140, but in the end I leave unsatisfied since a good rub is really what I needed just as much as getting laid. Now I'm thinking of hitting Main Therapy soon for what should be a guaranteed high quality rub down.
[QUOTE=SecretLv;2489374]So, to my question. Should I leave the hobby? (P.S. Don't bother asking the name of the spinner or the spa. And the name I'm using was set up just for this so you couldn't look at my past entries to figure out whom I writing about, but I assure you I'm a senior member.) I promised to keep it a secret.[/QUOTE]Yup, definitely time to retire from the game for you. You've lived the fantasy, and believe me, it was fantasy, so it's time.
I know exactly who you're writing about, as I imagine at least three or four others here in this forum I can think of do. We've all been that customer with the "special" relationship with her, and I imagine there were quite a few others that don't participate here in the same boat.
You've got to be kidding me. That's rule #1 in the hobby. Don't fall in love. Because they won't. It's their job to make you feel special. And to do this while looking innocent. And to make you feel like you're the only one. I can't count the number of times I've met a girl and felt that she's the best ever. And, then, with time and perspective, and meeting someone else equally sexy or sexier, it wears off. When I look back I wonder why I thought she was the best ever. I've realized that even having an ATF is insanity. Give yourself the freedom to explore. There are many flowers in the garden. Each one is more beautiful than the rest. Smell them all.
Stay happy.
PG.
[QUOTE=SecretLv;2489374]I'm thinking of leaving the hobby. Should I? Approximately 15 years ago (in the mists of an ugly divorce) I started my journey down the AMP road. I don't remember the name of the first spa, but I do remember the provider. My next time was about a year later at V. I. P. In providence and then subsequently only once or twice a year there after (was always concerned about LEO). In those early years, I realized I preferred basic service instead of FS. Didn't like the upsell, phony enjoyment, taste of ky and more importantly the lack of a challenge. I found that going to a non FS spa and "pushing the envelope" was far more satisfying. Well, approximately 3 yrs ago (while paying on annual visit to a now former well known HJ only spa) not only did I push the envelope; I knocked it out of the part. And I was hooked.
My provider was a 10 in every aspect. Massage, ts, looks and personality. Her smile and warmth lit up the room. She would eventually become many mongers ATF. On my first visit, when It came time for "the ending" I began to push the envelope as usual. To my surprise, she let me go further than I ever had gone at an HJ only spa. Let's just say, my fingers tasted like heaven. Needless to say I didn't wait another year- more like a week. The next session, she let me go even further and by the third session, she gave be a BBBJCIM. There was no turning back. For the next three years I saw her exclusively. There was nothing we didn't do together, and always reassuring each other to keep our secret. At this time I've got to say, at no time did she try to upsell me or ask for more than the HJ service price. Did I tip a little more than. 40? Yes, but never more than. 70. This was a relationship. She always assured me that I was the only customer she would do this with and I could tell by how "nonprofessional" she was, her nervousness and that KY was never used, that she was telling the truth. It was all her (She would have been found out long ago if she was doing that with everyone). We thoroughly enjoyed our time together. Providers are humans and have needs to. But my mistake was in developing such strong feelings for her when mine (in a relationship) and her situation didn't allow for more. It all came to an end when Providence cracked down. Now I don't know where she is and I miss her. She was a beautiful woman, and I wish nothing but happiness wherever she is.
Since the Providence closings, I've tried a few other providers (AMP's and private) but all just pale in comparison. I know what I had was probably once in a life time.
So, to my question. Should I leave the hobby? (P.S. Don't bother asking the name of the spinner or the spa. And the name I'm using was set up just for this so you couldn't look at my past entries to figure out whom I writing about, but I assure you I'm a senior member.) I promised to keep it a secret.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=SecretLv;2489374]I'm thinking of leaving the hobby. Should I? Approximately 15 years ago (in the mists of an ugly divorce) I started my journey down the AMP road. I don't remember the name of the first spa, but I do remember the provider. My next time was about a year later at V. I. P. In providence and then subsequently only once or twice a year there after (was always concerned about LEO). In those early years, I realized I preferred basic service instead of FS. Didn't like the upsell, phony enjoyment, taste of ky and more importantly the lack of a challenge. I found that going to a non FS spa and "pushing the envelope" was far more satisfying. Well, approximately 3 yrs ago (while paying on annual visit to a now former well known HJ only spa) not only did I push the envelope; I knocked it out of the part. And I was hooked.
My provider was a 10 in every aspect. Massage, ts, looks and personality. Her smile and warmth lit up the room. She would eventually become many mongers ATF. On my first visit, when It came time for "the ending" I began to push the envelope as usual. To my surprise, she let me go further than I ever had gone at an HJ only spa. Let's just say, my fingers tasted like heaven. Needless to say I didn't wait another year- more like a week. The next session, she let me go even further and by the third session, she gave be a BBBJCIM. There was no turning back. For the next three years I saw her exclusively. There was nothing we didn't do together, and always reassuring each other to keep our secret. At this time I've got to say, at no time did she try to upsell me or ask for more than the HJ service price. Did I tip a little more than. 40? Yes, but never more than. 70. This was a relationship. She always assured me that I was the only customer she would do this with and I could tell by how "nonprofessional" she was, her nervousness and that KY was never used, that she was telling the truth. It was all her (She would have been found out long ago if she was doing that with everyone). We thoroughly enjoyed our time together. Providers are humans and have needs to. But my mistake was in developing such strong feelings for her when mine (in a relationship) and her situation didn't allow for more. It all came to an end when Providence cracked down. Now I don't know where she is and I miss her. She was a beautiful woman, and I wish nothing but happiness wherever she is.
Since the Providence closings, I've tried a few other providers (AMP's and private) but all just pale in comparison. I know what I had was probably once in a life time.
So, to my question. Should I leave the hobby? (P.S. Don't bother asking the name of the spinner or the spa. And the name I'm using was set up just for this so you couldn't look at my past entries to figure out whom I writing about, but I assure you I'm a senior member.) I promised to keep it a secret.[/QUOTE]Hi there. I just wanted to say listen to the wise advise of the people on this board. Muffy had some good advice. Unless you have the resources to take them compleltley out of their life and support their expensive tastes for clothes cars etc all while also now supporting their family and their family's expensive taste back home then you do not stand a chance. I just recently started back in the game but with an entirely new perspective. If I meet my soulmate someday then I will retire. Until then, it is game on!! So be smart, be thoughtful. Don't be stupid like me.
[QUOTE=CrazyButTrue;2490007]Hi there. I just wanted to say listen to the wise advise of the people on this board. Muffy had some good advice. Unless you have the resources to take them compleltley out of their life and support their expensive tastes for clothes cars etc all while also now supporting their family and their family's expensive taste back home then you do not stand a chance. I just recently started back in the game but with an entirely new perspective. If I meet my soulmate someday then I will retire. Until then, it is game on!! So be smart, be thoughtful. Don't be stupid like me.[/QUOTE]Don't ever forget it's a fantasy. A very nice fantasy. All that has been said is true! I KNOW that I was her favorite, because she told me so. Yeah, right!
Have the urge for a massage today. Called fe & made appointment, disappointed to find my fave Nicole no longer there. Drew her about 5 weeks ago & she was very good. Wound up doing canine. So good I went back the next week. She was getting into it. Hope I get lucky with the draw!
[QUOTE=SecretLv;2489374]I'm thinking of leaving the hobby. Should I?
Since the Providence closings, I've tried a few other providers (AMP's and private) but all just pale in comparison. I know what I had was probably once in a life time.
So, to my question. Should I leave the hobby ?.[/QUOTE]Some good insights in the replies so far. But I would say just take a short break for a little while, then get back into it on a limited basis, and someday you may find another one that is more than just a quick are&T.
[QUOTE=iamioman;2479562]Stopped by FE without calling so everyone I knew was either busy or gone so met Yoko. Thought it was my lucky day. Very tiny, and pretty though not typical looks for a K-girl and definitely on the younger side (for a spa, not young for a civi). When she smiles she goes from a 6 to an 8 and had a perfect spinner body (proportioned well not cartoon) looked like if I held her waist with both hands my fingers and thoumbs would meet on both sides of her waist. Everyone likes a beautiful woman and I like spinners so I was looking forward to the session, but it was one of the worst experiences AMP experiences I've ever had. She didn't talk at all unless I asked her something so hard to make any connection, shower was perfunctory, "massage" lasted maybe 5 minutes and saying it was 'half-hearted' is giving her way too muych credit. I wasn't sure if she had really started the massage or was just getting ready when she started the light touch. Mediocre tease and from there on the shower was starting to look good. I felt a little bad thinking maybe she was just exhausted at the end of the day but after when I asked about the surge of people ringing the bell during my session she said it was quiet all day until evening. She was so hot her attitude almost didn't matter and maybe she was having an off day, but I got the strong feeling she doesn't like her job. She is really super attractive so maybe someone else will have a better experience but I won't bre repeating. With her.[/QUOTE]I agree on looks, when she let me in I was like WOW. Very nice spinner body. TS was ok. Washed all thr right areas. She did talk to me a bit, ask about work, and about my age, have I been there before. I love when they ask this becausei just name off all the greats I've had hoping they get the hint about what type of service I'm looking for. After the TS the massage was ok not great, but she did a back walk and tried to get some kinks out. Then a small tease and the question. She hinted for a bit more of a tip, but I stayed strong and said maybe if we had a good time. It was ok, doesn't like daty, very rushed. Normaly I hold out on AMP's like this to make the session last longer. But she got me haha, the girl does have good V control, I'll give her that. Clean up and was happy with the standard tip. If she opened up abit and was a little more willing she would be a fave for sure. So cute. . I miss Bebe, Summer or Joy, or even Jackie there a FE. Sucks with Prov AMPs closing. Never thought I'd miss Mika at 1027. Oh well times change I guess. Good hunting gents.
Long time lurker, first time poster. Your post inspired me to join. There is lots of good info here for you, Muffy and SMS said it best. If you quit now you might miss your next "special girl", there are a lot of them out there. It hurts now but time heals the wound. Best not to fall in love with them, but if you pretend to and they like you, you'll reap the benefits.
Obviously, there are exceptions to every rule BUT, if you really think you have a 'relationship' which is more than cash-driven, here's a simple test -.
Try to leave without paying.
I know that I don't pay my friends to hang out with me, I don't have to pay GFs to spend the night, my friends don't have special 'dinner date' prices for me.
Its a simple yet somewhat rude test, but it does bring you back to reality quickly.
(My experience at NY and the old, old CT AMPs, was that bb service was available to regulars, GFE was available to keep regulars coming back and even some AMP babes would see guys outside of the AMP, just to hold onto the cash cow. So when you see a georgeous babe with a 60 yearold CPA at a restaurant and someone says, 'what is she doing with him', unless its a niece, you know the answer.).
Anyway, good luck and don't mean to be a Dave Downer to the fantasy, but have seen so many guys veer off-course and get confused, thought I'd post something hoping it helps a little bit.
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[QUOTE=NYMonger;2491293]Obviously, there are exceptions to every rule BUT, if you really think you have a 'relationship' which is more than cash-driven, here's a simple test -.
Try to leave without paying.
I know that I don't pay my friends to hang out with me, I don't have to pay GFs to spend the night, my friends don't have special 'dinner date' prices for me.
Its a simple yet somewhat rude test, but it does bring you back to reality quickly.
(My experience at NY and the old, old CT AMPs, was that bb service was available to regulars, GFE was available to keep regulars coming back and even some AMP babes would see guys outside of the AMP, just to hold onto the cash cow. So when you see a georgeous babe with a 60 yearold CPA at a restaurant and someone says, 'what is she doing with him', unless its a niece, you know the answer.).
Anyway, good luck and don't mean to be a Dave Downer to the fantasy, but have seen so many guys veer off-course and get confused, thought I'd post something hoping it helps a little bit.[/QUOTE]You couldn't have said it any better! 99.9% of the time your "Special" girl will make it clear after your time with her that something is missing $$.
I had one that was in the. 01% though one time in my longggggggggg history of AMP patronage. She would hand me back the tip portion of the fee's or sneak it back into my pants pockets and only keep the house fee. Also she gave me $500 cash for my birthday along with a $150 dress shirt and $100 tie she liked!
After a few months of her doing these things for me, she gradually worked her way into conversations of living with me and marriage which was becoming more persistant with each visit! Muffy finally had to bail out and go into the "Monger protection program". LOL.
It took months before she let go and still to this day I get texts from her asking when we can see each other again.
Do yourself a favor, always PAY for your time together with these girls, paying makes it clear to them that your in this for the fun of it, not to be there savior into retirement. Do you really want to be married to a woman who has had 100's of guys?
So I ventured out to Sun Massage today, it had more foot traffic than the mall during Christmas. I had called ahead and made an appointment. They said Lucy would be available cute with decent English skills and very good massage skills and as it turned out it was exactly that, a very thorough therapeutic massage. . 60 To the house for 1 hour. They do advertise in body rubs on back page but no hint of happy ending.
Peace.
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