A shower with every outcall.
[QUOTE=GunnerThompson;5267421]You got to wash your ass.[/QUOTE]If you are doing a car date, well, can't expect much. However, if you are planning an outcall,(or they are at a motel incall) ask to start off with a shower together. One secret I have used when I am out of state, and might do an outcall, I request a handicap shower. No question its big enough for two, and if you are able to go more than once, start or end in the shower. Myself, a one time guy, so I start in the shower, then move to the bed.