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[QUOTE=Golfcart; 1214175]Good post.

We fail to appreciate the girl's point of view. The job entails going behind closed doors with strange men. She is often small and we are often quite large. The risks of the job are several and serious, and we are often aware of only the basic ones. Even something happening during a noon appointment with Guy A can upset her and impact her emotional ability to keep an appointment with Guy B later in the day.

The job entails keeping from family and friends what is really going on. She must cover her tracks all the time. I doubt any of us appreciate the difficulty of leading a double life in the work life. The job may not be 24/7 but maintaining a work double life away from family and friends is 24/7 and I bet the emails she must respond to are also 24/7.

So the challenges are more than looking good all the time. All sorts of things can get in the way of her keeping an appointment including one that she confirmed minutes earlier.

Even when things in her life go perfectly I don't think it is all that easy to walk in the door with a smile on her face and always be backed up by a smile inside. My hat goes off to the girls who manage to pull it off and act for an hour but nobody can pull everything off every time.

Girls are fickle, God love them. Today may not feel right. This is part of being a girl. Girls need space and when she needs space she needs it NOW. This goes with the territory dealing with girls. There are things that make them different. We have to understand and appreciate the differences.

What happens if she calls to say she is sorry but she must cancel? Will that be a 30 second phone call? I doubt it. I bet some of us expect, as in demand, to reschedule on the spot. Maybe she is not able to see her schedule clearly at the moment. There are those of us who whine about not getting to see her as we were so looking forward to, yak yak yak. I bet some of us act childish. Some of us become angry as shown by those who run to a message board to post,"I just got stood up."

Friends, we are not stood up unless we are there and she is not. Give her the benefit of all doubt. Understand.

Many or some don't understand. So for her sanity she texts she must cancel and she's sorry and she'll get back in touch later. That should be the end of it for the present. But often times she is rewarded by a guy replying by phone or text, or a series of phone calls or texts with machine-gun rapidity containing drama or whatever, showing immaturity, maybe anger, on his part, and now, due to our reaction showing a true side we become the last guy in the world she will ever go with behind closed doors.

We as guys get what we deserve when we deal with a girl. Be understanding. [/QUOTE]I agree with you 100. I was going to make a comment but no need, Thanks, Golfcart

Guys,

I didn't send any nasty messages to that **** until she stood me up twice. Bottom line she deserved to be called a **** and a working girl bc all she had to do was tell me from the very first time, I won't see you, go see someone else. If she had done that, none of this nonesense would have transpired.

She lied to me twice, stood me up twice, bottom line. She should have (once she decided I was a cop of siko) just ignore my messages or told me to go away.

But instead she lied to me about being in an accident and said lets make it up the next night, then she proceeds to re schedule with me and stands me up.

That's when I flew off the reservation and called her a working girl, and she deserved it, and she deserves to have her dirty laundry displayed on here so guys can take a 2nd guess before scheduling time with her.

I don't even know why I am wasting my time trying to rationalize with a bunch of johns. Maybe I am sick in the head.

[QUOTE=Ronaroo; 1214231]Guys,

I didn't send any nasty messages to that * until she stood me up twice. Bottom line she deserved to be called a * and a working girl bc all she had to do was tell me from the very first time, I won't see you, go see someone else. If she had done that, none of this nonesense would have transpired.

She lied to me twice, stood me up twice, bottom line. She should have (once she decided I was a cop of siko) just ignore my messages or told me to go away.

But instead she lied to me about being in an accident and said lets make it up the next night, then she proceeds to re schedule with me and stands me up.

That's when I flew off the reservation and called her a working girl, and she deserved it, and she deserves to have her dirty laundry displayed on here so guys can take a 2nd guess before scheduling time with her.

I don't even know why I am wasting my time trying to rationalize with a bunch of johns. Maybe I am sick in the head.[/QUOTE]After reading your texts to Abby I'd say yes you are sick in the head and apperently Abby was right to bail on you. I really don't give a shit if you are trying to rationalize anything, no excuse for crap like that, I thought this website was for consenting adults not 12 year old boys that throw temper tantrims!

[QUOTE=Ronaroo; 1214231]Guys,

I didn't send any nasty messages to that * until she stood me up twice. Bottom line she deserved to be called a * and a working girl bc all she had to do was tell me from the very first time, I won't see you, go see someone else. If she had done that, none of this nonesense would have transpired.

She lied to me twice, stood me up twice, bottom line. She should have (once she decided I was a cop of siko) just ignore my messages or told me to go away.

But instead she lied to me about being in an accident and said lets make it up the next night, then she proceeds to re schedule with me and stands me up.

That's when I flew off the reservation and called her a working girl, and she deserved it, and she deserves to have her dirty laundry displayed on here so guys can take a 2nd guess before scheduling time with her.

I don't even know why I am wasting my time trying to rationalize with a bunch of johns. Maybe I am sick in the head. [/QUOTE]Ronaroo, sounds like my post below fell on deaf ears. You blame other people for your disappointment. Nothing this girl did is justification for your words to her or your words on this board about her. You are a grownup and responsible for your own conduct first, last and always. You should put your big boy pants on and be one. When you become angry and respond in anger you surrender control. That control does not go to another. You become uncontrolled. Not good for you.

There isn't anything different here. This is life. The situation could be presented by a slow motorist in front of you. A girl that goes behind closed doors with you who does not meet your expectations at any particular moment will be treated the same as that motorist. Just betting that the girl involved here sensed that. Girls have radar. But then, I'm sure your disappointments here are nothing new which makes my point.

I don't know what to tell you other than look within. Until you do that you will continue getting what you have been getting.

Jump back from your emotional responses to her and to the advice. Hands down one of the best times I have had in the past 2 years came when I cancelled an appointment. It was obvious from the moment I entered her room that she was almost scared out of her wits. So as she was freaking out worrying that I was a cop, I just told her that I didn't want her to be upset or uncomfortable and that I was leaving so that she could calm down. I told her I would call her the next day and I did.

I didn't try to set up another date, I just asked how she was. She was so appreciative that she invited me over and she was so appreciative of the bottle of wine I brought with me that she almost cried. I again left after having a glass of wine and complementing her on her courage (she was a single parent trying to get money for her kid). I called again the next day, went over again and this time she almost raped my ass. We did it about 3 times and she waived the fee.

And everytime I see her now, I leave money, but I tell her it is for her kid. She tells me she appreciates the few bucks I toss her way but that she fucks me because she appreciates that I was looking out for her.

That, my friend, is how you get your pimp on. Not by sending junior high level BS texts.

Just my 2 cents. Read the 22 rules and live them. Stay safe.

Wolfe.

[QUOTE=Ronaroo; 1213835]Here is the problem with her reports.

None of those texts were sent until after she stood me up twice. Twice I drove 35 new at $4 / gallon.

If she is such a sweetheart of a gem then she just stood have been honest and canceled on me.

Tell me you think I am a cop, there is 0 reason to not trust me or not like me. I have plenty of good references from lacy and gia and viva and formerly mc. Bell I even saw her girlfriend autumn just so Abby would verify me.

Let me repeat I never emailed or texted her anything nasty until she lied and stood me up 2x.

Again she admitted lying about a car accident bc she had second thoughts about seeing me,

Fine no problem then tell me you don't trust me and that you think I am a pig and I will move on.

But don't schedule with me again and stand me up again and then lie to me about both days.

Wow, you don't think I have a good reason to be pissed, yeah she might be hot but she will be old and wrinkly some day and there will be another hot young than to replace her

The sad thing is I am a nice guy and every gal I have met would say so. [/QUOTE]

You have stated the same explanation atleast two times and possibly three. NO ONE AND I REPEAT NO ONE agrees with you. You were wrong. Plain and simple. Abby once turned me down because I dared to negotiate her standard $$$ rate. She wasn't particularly friendly about it either. Said something like I don't like hagglers and hung up on me. Well I don't pay $$$ for anyone or even a third of that very often.

But it's her decision who she sees and what she charges. I've never lost a second of sleep over it and I haven't been angry with her. Time to move on.

Does anybody have any info on her? Her pictures look awesome but I can't find any reviews.

[url]http://www.eros-indiana.com/files/224586.htm[/url]

No time just yet for details but rest assured all the hype across 16 states is legit, run don't walk. I will fill in the blanks later

I do not know Abby, I have never seen her, and at this point I have no plans to visit with her, which I am sure is my loss. I just wanted to compliment her on the fine way she refuted the complaints against her by posting a well thought out response, complete with attached files. What a fine use of todays technology. Congrats Abby, on a job well done!

Heritage

I just have to command you on the way you handle this situation AbbyAmour. You have showed that you have class and dignity. No women should be treated that way including you. Are thee bad provider yes but should any one of them be treated bad, never. When you say something say it nice and sweet because one day you may have to eat it.

[QUOTE=AbbyAmour; 1213641]I've got issues for the masses to read? Why don't we tell the whole story-how you kept sending me text after text, how I didn't have a good feeling about you and how it took about a month for me to actually schedule something with you, after you had someone go out of her way to text me to tell me you were fine. I mean-if someone consistently ignores you for a month, wouldn't you get the hint they weren't interested in you?

So, after finally scheduling with you, I arrived at the hotel-didn't check in-and started getting bad vibes again. You'd think that an hour notice would be sufficient.

And then, after I cancelled on you the first time, you started whining, texting me all the time, and after ignoring you for a couple of days with your persistent texts, I figured I'd give you another shot, against my better judgement-and based on the screenshots of the texts you sent me, you have proven that my fears of you were accurate, and I'm glad I cancelled on you again. [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AbbyAmour;1213641]So, after finally scheduling with you, I arrived at the hotel-didn't check in-and started getting bad vibes again. You'd think that an hour notice would be sufficient.[/QUOTE]I know enough has been said about this, but I can't help myself from chiming in. Ronaroo: life is too short to go through it being a jerk like you were to Abby. You should always have enough respect for another not to type the things you wrote. You may want to see someone about that biploar issue you have going on. And I'm serious about that. There's medications out there that can help you.

Now since I chimed in about this, I need to do an escort report to get back on topic and not get railed on by the rest you guys. I typically don't report on the good things I find becuase I want them to stay good. I try to keep them out of the spotlight of "the man".

A couple of months ago, I had the pleasure of meeting Ms. Slutcake (you're a much finer person that the name alludes too, but it's probably to late to change). She was amazing! Her massage skills are top notch and her other skills are better than that. And she's a fine person on top of that. I enjoyed the conversation as much as everything else. She's a very intelligent, highly skilled masseuse that likes to get her bell rung, which I find highly admirable in today's society.

So, Ms. Slutcake, when Ronaroo calls looking for an appointment, you may want to pass on that one.

AG

[QUOTE=Ronaroo;1214231]Guys, Maybe I am sick in the head.[/QUOTE]Well said Ronaroo. You are.

FF.

PS. Elle the elf is in town and now I know she is covered in freckles.

But Google the following:

Tara escort 937.

In that order and click on the third item down. I think it may be time to call an old friend to see if she can line up a visit to central Indiana for a week to 10 days.

Play safe and keep it real.

BFDeal

Had another awesome dream about Andrea again this afternoon. She helped me celebrate my birthday with a great present and the best cake ever! She screens hard but is worth the effort. A true GFE!

I'm a new hobbyist here, finally ready to make my first post. Upon discovering this site a few months ago, I realized that I've been a "hobbyist" my whole life and all along just thought I was a pervert. (I know, I know)

I ventured out into this exciting new world and learned some lessons the hard way. I started safe, just to get my feet wet, with a couple visits to some AMPs. Wally World (that mole still haunts my dreams) and the Flower Shop. But middle-aged Asian women just aren't my thing.

So, I gave backpage a shot. 1st encounter was with a southside "bodyrubber" named Brooke, who ended up being a grandmother with a gimp leg. She was a sweet lady and God bless grandmothers, but not really for me. Then I tried what I thought, judging from the BP pic, was a young, curvy blonde chick (hotel off I-69/82nd) that ended up being the equivalent of three young, curvy blonde chicks in one body. I wouldn't have touched her with my 3-iron and had to tell her I didn't bring enough money just so I could get the hell out of there. Bad experience that had me really flustered.

Since then, I've dedicated a pretty absurd amount of my free time studying these boards. Just trying to be a sponge and soak up as much wisdom as I can from the senior members. I haven't tried to contact any of the highly regarded providers often discussed because they all appear to require references. It's the "chicken or the egg" debate, as a fellow hobbyist mentioned in a previous post. You need a provider to give you a reference, but you can't meet a provider without a reference. It's a frustrating catch-22.

My question (and I realize I should probably just ask a provider) is would a provider accept a stack of personal documents, that clearly show who I am and who I work for, as a screening method? If I were to meet a provider with my driver's license, payroll confirm. 401k statement, bank statement, phone bill, gas bill, cable bill and W-2. Wouldn't that be sufficient to prove I'm nobody's uncle? Obviously not for her to keep and some info would need to be blacked out. Seems to me that would be just as convincing as a reference from other providers. What's to stop me from giving a large rose donation to a provider, in exchange for nothing more than referring me to another provider?

I hope I didn't waste too much of your time. I apologize for being naive, any guidance would be greatly appreciated. If I need to do some reporting and get a few "TOFTT's" under my belt in order to get some senior member mentoring, then so be it. I'll pay my dues. But if any members want to help out a daisy fresh rookie, PM me any wisdom you wish to share. I'm all ears.

Happy hunting,

Bubbleboy.

P. S. Anyone kind enough to fill me in on what exactly "freckles" refers to? It would sure put my mind at ease.