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Its worth a read AmericanScott did a nice job and it is well put. We can all use this advice. So many socially unacceptable practices out there. Enjoy. Happy hunting.
AMERICANSCOTT wrote.
After an initial discouraging couple of visits, a massage parlor I didn't like at first has really turned around and become one of my favorites.
I recently visited it again with one of the newer girls, who seemed like a bit of a germaphobe the first time I saw her. She was nice and sexy and fun, but repeatedly stopped the action to clean and what not. This time she was much more relaxed and into it than before. She gave me great BBBJ, CFS and by the end was super enthusiastic, telling me she needed me to fuck her and begging for my dick. (She seemed genuinely into it and almost aggressive begging for it.) Afterwards we had a really good conversation about how and why YMMV.
1. Some of you have asked if these girls really see a doctor regularly and get tested often. She told me that they absolutely do. I was told that they get IV vitamin shots monthly, test monthly and see the doctor in LA and here regularly as needed.
She even showed me her results on her phone, and joked that the doctor once asked how often does she fuck, that she comes in and gets tested so much. She also showed me the IV schedule of vitamins she gets, which she says gives her lots of energy to perform.
2. The girls are very particular about who they provide extra services to, more so than I imagined. It was explained to me that the girls there like me and trust me because I am very clean and smell good. They said that they do not have to offer any services to anyone they don't want to, and if a guy is dirty, smells bad, looks sick or has horrible hygiene, they will simply massage him and that is it. She told me I would be surprised at how many guys come for massage with shitty asses, funky pits, smelly feet, stinky breath, and even caked on dirt and grime. She said they only let those guys get 30 minutes or refuse them all together. Sometimes they will massage them, but they never get extras. That shit is gross. So fellas, please clean up your act. It may get in your way of getting an expanded menu if you don't.
3. She said some guys are too rough, and that she likes a gentleman (or gentle man). She said a lot of guys are too physically aggressive and either hurt them or scare them. If that happen she says they do not offer them much, and hope they don't come back.
4. She said to always call and schedule an appointment (something I never do). She said that they like when guys schedule appointments, because even if they are busy, they know they can take their time with those customers and not rush. She said if it is busy, and you are a walk-in, there will be pressure to hurry you up, so the other girls are not overwhelmed. She said that when she is relaxed, she is more likely to want to play or do more. She said that guys assume it is all about the money, but that is not the only factor. If they like you, if you help them be more relaxed (by scheduling, tipping reliably, and being kind), they will do more for you. They said there are customers they all like and fight over because they make the job easier and more fun.
5. BBFS and BBBJs are reserved for guys they truly trust to be clean and healthy, which makes sense. She brought another girl in to meet me, and told me that she was like her. Completely clean and safe. She suggested that the two of them would love to be with me BB if I wanted to at the same time, because they trust me and I am always kind. Funny, my mother always told me that women would like me and treat me well if I was kind and a gentleman. I didn't believe it after being married to my ex, but maybe it is true. LOL.
All of that made me feel a lot better about the industry. Some of these women have agency, they are free to decide what they will and won't do, and they care about their health and the health of their best customers. That's all really cool and good to know.
Greediness or desperation.
Seems like greediness or desperation has caught up with "Healing Touch". The last two times I went there they short me by 30 minutes. They are packing as many customers as possible. Yesterday was not an exception but this time it wasn't me. Whe I got there sofia the older lady came out and I asked her if she or the other girl (mimi) was available. She say yes we are not busy. She led me in to the room on the left and as I was getting ready I over hear a little commotion from the other room. Looks like they already had 2 customers waiting an the one of them was complaining about the crappie massage and rushing service. I felt bad so I put back my clothes on and left. I won't go back for a while. I think a lot of those places are now trying to make as much as possible. I ll stick with those who honor your time.
Be safe out there.
