The comments on cash; and how to get to VIP, my 2 cents
Catching up on some overdue USASG thread reviews, it looks like the topics "spending cash", "VIP" and "Tattletales" have been discussed in-depth recently. A few of my observations:
Strip Clubs "generally"- I view the Adult Entertainment (Club) industry as a huge "Machine" in which the most vital "lubricant" for its operation being money "in motion", that is money being transferred from men to women as tips, for dances, in garters or in VIP, etc. In most clubs, if a guy walks in and has the appearance that he has the capacity to "spend money" (create your own definition) and walks to the bar area, stakes out a seat or some turf, gets a beverage and tips the server, that "guy" will have no problem being solicited for a dance, "do you want company? Or any combo of small-talk, hustle, etc. The dancers are there to earn various levels of "tip-outs" before they clear a $ for themselves, so there is a desire to get "the House" paid as quickly as possible so they can earn a living. The appearance (and demonstration) of the ability to transfer cash from you to them is the lifeblood of life and success inside a club for a dancer.
Code of Conduct- A guy will separate himself from the masses by being respectful and polite with the dancers, they get hit on constantly or are verbally molested by folks in all stages of sobriety that if you can keep a modest conversation going on some topic ("how is your day going? "you have perfect teeth!) You have advanced into "Good Guy" status pretty quickly and made them comfortable with you as a person, which is a huge part of what it is all about. Depending on the dancers approach to you (direct request for "dance", flirtatious, "I'm thirsty, can you buy a drink) You can react with some variation of your Club "game" and see how she reacts and go from there. Slow and consistent builds trust, don't expect that you will conquer VIP with any specific dancer on the first visit (but it might).
VIP, or not?- The comments on "how do I get into VIP at Club $* at $ at ** (pick your fave)" is really a question of how do you want to play the game. Getting to VIP with someone is I believe the daily goal of any dancer who shows up at a club, the question in my mind is if you want to play at "the Club" (with their rules) or take things "off campus" via take-out. If getting to VIP is your personal goal, your only limits are your cash available and time, going off-campus requires developing a different level of comfort and expectations with a dancer who may be interested in something outside the club (or not). End of the day, the ladies are earning a living through a variety of activities, some will travel off-campus if required and others don't. Your limits are far greater inside the club if that is your choice, and a lot depends on the specific club.
The mystery with all this is that it changes like the weather, you need lots of options..LOL.
Stay Safe,
PR.
[QUOTE=GeorgeGA;1949177]Agree 100%.
Many years ago (late 80's / early 90's), a buddy of mine and I had partial season tix for the Hawks (pro hoops team). Usually, we would meet at the Varsity for dinner, go to the Cheetah for a few cold ones, get to the hoops game usually around the end of the first quarter or so, and leave to return to the Cheetah at halftime. Usually, the place (the Cheetah) wasn't real crowded at that hour and we got to recognize and know some of the women. A couple times we were there with a consultant on an expense account who would have women dancing for us all the time. One time we had 9 (yes, nine) women dancing on the table in front of us during one of the "2 for 1" specials. But, I digress...
Over several weeks of this, we made friends with two dancers who said they were sisters, (but weren't). Although it was many years ago, I'm not sure if it's OK to say their stage names, but they both were gorgeous! If you happened to frequent the place in that time frame, you'd likely recognize their names. It got to a point where they would sit with us (my buddy and I are decent enough looking guys and he's quite the talker, I'm a financial guy that would sometimes talk with them about investments and taxes) when we came in, knowing that we weren't going to spend a lot of money (our financial situations were different 20-25 years ago and it was usually early in the evening) and go dance when they wanted / needed to. We would tell them they needed to "go make some money" and sometime they replied, "The night is still young, we'll be here long after you leave.
The point is, if you're a decent enough guy, for SOME of the women, you don't have to be a big spender. Of course, I've had more than my share sit at my table and immediately leave when I decline a dance, saying, "Maybe later." I want to decide who I have dance for me, not have the gals pick me.
Just my $0.02.[/QUOTE]