How often do you guys meet someone on SA who can host? If I'm ever doing this again, I can't host anymore. In all the time I spent on there previously I never met anyone who could or would host.
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How often do you guys meet someone on SA who can host? If I'm ever doing this again, I can't host anymore. In all the time I spent on there previously I never met anyone who could or would host.
[QUOTE=Chicago41;4520207]How often do you guys meet someone on SA who can host? If I'm ever doing this again, I can't host anymore. In all the time I spent on there previously I never met anyone who could or would host.[/QUOTE]It is rare, but it does happen.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2441f955-24d9-48d0-992d-91d383ac8247[/URL]
I texted this girl. I'm getting a pro vibe from her. Anyone see her?
[QUOTE=Chicago41;4520207]How often do you guys meet someone on SA who can host? If I'm ever doing this again, I can't host anymore. In all the time I spent on there previously I never met anyone who could or would host.[/QUOTE]Hosting in a hotel room they already have = pro. Not always the worst thing in the world if they aren't also posting ads everywhere else and you need a quick setup. But, may or may not be what you had in mind joining SA.
Hosting at a private place without meeting you in public: Can work, but comes with a lot of risks. You have no guarantee that whoever's at that address is the girl you've been chatting with, and the scenarios you can end up in if there are really bad actors involved are pretty scary. Do your homework on both the girl and area / neighborhood if at all possible.
Hosting at private place after meeting you in public: Obviously the rarest but best scenario. In this case you've met, built at least a little bit of a connection, negotiated rates, and both decided to go through with something. Chances of a scam or worse are a lot lower if you've actually seen them, followed their car, etc. Only caveat from experience is that the sights and smells of someone's personal space aren't guaranteed to be turn-on, so be ready. I think the whole thing still works if you control all the logistics and end up in a decent hotel room, but it would be hard to turn down a trip to a good prospect's apartment.
[QUOTE=MoneyT;4511756]This may be a wild adventure for me. Several months ago I added a female on Snapchat via the "Quick Add" feature. Turns out we have a mutual friend. A few months back I saw that mutual friend on her story and asked how she knew her. Small conversation was had then she stopped communication. Now at that time I was only a subscriber to her profile as she didn't add me back as a friend. From time to time I would comment on her story. And most of the time she wouldn't respond back. Last night, she had a story up so I sent her a chat saying how pretty she is. She responded back with a thank you. Taking a stab in the dark, I replied for her to let me know if she's ever looking for a SD. Her response back was everything. She replied back saying "haha well actually. " Well I jumped both feet through that opening. We started chatting a bit, I reminded her how I met her on SC (she is no longer friends with that girl). And after a few pic exchanges, we have set up a meeting for tonight. I told her I would get a hotel downtown, order in some food. She asked that we have some white wine and take things from there. She asked me what my expectations would be from a SB. When I asked what she was open to, she immediately said everything but anal. Wow, and I wasn't the one to even bring up sex. She then asked what I would be comfortable donating. I asked her and she told me whatever I thought was fair.
Tentatively we are set to meet after her last class tonight (sometime after 5:30 pm). I will report back if things work out and we actually meet. I forgot to mention that she immediately sent me her cell # and said it would be better to communicate there as opposed to on SC. That's always a good sign. I'm keeping my fingers crossed on this one. BTW she told me she is 19, Latina and goes to UIC. Here are a few photos she sent me. Sorry I can't post the ones with her face.[/QUOTE]Our scheduled meeting for last week was pushed back for tonight. We spent a good part of last week just getting to know each other.
We're supposed to meet at a River North hotel around 7 pm. I'll report back when the deed is done.
[QUOTE=FafaFooey;4520277]Hosting in a hotel room they already have = pro. Not always the worst thing in the world if they aren't also posting ads everywhere else and you need a quick setup. But, may or may not be what you had in mind joining SA.
Hosting at a private place without meeting you in public: Can work, but comes with a lot of risks. You have no guarantee that whoever's at that address is the girl you've been chatting with, and the scenarios you can end up in if there are really bad actors involved are pretty scary. Do your homework on both the girl and area / neighborhood if at all possible.
Hosting at private place after meeting you in public: Obviously the rarest but best scenario. In this case you've met, built at least a little bit of a connection, negotiated rates, and both decided to go through with something. Chances of a scam or worse are a lot lower if you've actually seen them, followed their car, etc. Only caveat from experience is that the sights and smells of someone's personal space aren't guaranteed to be turn-on, so be ready. I think the whole thing still works if you control all the logistics and end up in a decent hotel room, but it would be hard to turn down a trip to a good prospect's apartment.[/QUOTE]I once met a seeking prospect in a coffee place and she quickly asked me to come up to her apartment. It was weird as I would not expect anyone to do that. She is not a pro but a legend on SA. I am sure multiple folks have done her. It was a big turn off as her place was not tidy. I wanted to use the bathroom and of god. Clothes and shoes were all over the place and her bed was so weird that I could not concentrate on my work with her. I would never take a chance even. I would just take a hotel that I know is better to setup the mood.
[QUOTE=CMentado1;4520264][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2441f955-24d9-48d0-992d-91d383ac8247[/URL]
I texted this girl. I'm getting a pro vibe from her. Anyone see her?[/QUOTE]Funny because I've messaged with her today too. She's been discussed earlier. TLDR she contacts EVERYBODY. Once she gave me her Snap I realized I was dealing with a pro. Check the bathroom photo. I'm 99% sure I know what hotel that is near Ohare.
[QUOTE=Chicago41;4520207]How often do you guys meet someone on SA who can host? If I'm ever doing this again, I can't host anymore. In all the time I spent on there previously I never met anyone who could or would host.[/QUOTE]Meeting my first SA gal this week. Coed that's able to host. Meeting before hand and taking it home is the plan wish me luck!
[QUOTE=DynoJr;4520700]Funny because I've messaged with her today too. She's been discussed earlier. TLDR she contacts EVERYBODY. Once she gave me her Snap I realized I was dealing with a pro. Check the bathroom photo. I'm 99% sure I know what hotel that is near Ohare.[/QUOTE]Mind sharing her snap?
[QUOTE=ArielDude28;4520687]I once met a seeking prospect in a coffee place and she quickly asked me to come up to her apartment. It was weird as I would not expect anyone to do that. She is not a pro but a legend on SA. I am sure multiple folks have done her. It was a big turn off as her place was not tidy. I wanted to use the bathroom and of god. Clothes and shoes were all over the place and her bed was so weird that I could not concentrate on my work with her. I would never take a chance even. I would just take a hotel that I know is better to setup the mood.[/QUOTE]Wasn't the Asian chick on the GOld Coast (Dearborn apt)? Apartment mess sounds like her.
100% pro
[QUOTE=DynoJr;4520700]Funny because I've messaged with her today too. She's been discussed earlier. TLDR she contacts EVERYBODY. Once she gave me her Snap I realized I was dealing with a pro. Check the bathroom photo. I'm 99% sure I know what hotel that is near Ohare.[/QUOTE].
[QUOTE=RobotPorn;4516496]Did you host or did she?[/QUOTE]She did not host.
[QUOTE=HitMan1783;4516850]Did this one about a month ago. BBFS, but YMMV. Has lots of sd / arrangements tho.[/QUOTE]When I found out during our convo she has been around the block, there was no way I was doing BBFS.
[QUOTE=Truthfu11;4521075]Wasn't the Asian chick on the GOld Coast (Dearborn apt)? Apartment mess sounds like her.[/QUOTE]That sounds just like her. She was freaky as fuck and a true nympho. But I got her at 19 years back. Her place is a fucking mess but she's down for just about anything.
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Does anyone have any experience with her? Definitely interesting and the right type for fun.
Thanks,
R.