Not as advertised, but I knew that
I pretty much knew going in that this wasn't going to be anything close to as advertised, but I was itching for some Asian. The girl was cute enough. Probably in her 30's, but she hardly spoke a lick of english, or just had selective knowledge of it. Rail thin and tiny tits with some eraser nips. She let me touch her pretty much anywhere except FIV. Everything covered. And she meant it. I tried to get some bare Billy Joel, but she was having no part of it. She also used some kind of spray lube on the cover during FS. She must be tiny on the inside as she could hardly take me and really protested when I tried to get her legs over her shoulders.
Oh well. Busted in the bag and out I went. Would definitely not repeat. But again, I knew that.
[URL]https://cityxguide.com/escorts/korean-girl-new-real-young-hot-347-348-3150-23875070[/URL]
I'd like to make the same request
Been really slow Happy New Year!
[QUOTE=JRichard;4594346]The boards just have the SOS.
I need something different.
Good hygiene, older is okay.
Any numbers for today would be welcomed.
Thanks.[/QUOTE]
Searching for the unicorns
[QUOTE=JRichard;4594731]What we really ought to do is go on a field trip to NE Philly and bring some of the talent down here and introduce them to the area.
There is a wide selection of 18-23 yo, many clean and drug free.[/QUOTE]Umm, I really don't think so. TT.
Outcall. Is that the Dude going OUT to meet the girl?
[QUOTE=Ezerbef;4596409]When the location is listed something like " I come to you".
Instead of the city or town where they are it's a red flag for me.
Be cautious.[/QUOTE]I agree, the location "I come to you" is a bit of a red flag. That said, not necessarily. Coupled with a few other flags and THEN it is a deal breaker for me. But singly?
These girls deal with many dudes and some are not educated in the lingo, etc. Shoot some girls are not Rhodes Scholars either! So putting something like "I come to you" as the 'location' could be the way a girl states she is outcall. (make it clear for the few uneducated) Shoot a fair number of girls don't know the difference between incall and outcall and get all upset when you ask them about travel time when their post says they do outs!
Incall = Girl Hosts or provides a location where you can meet.
Outcall = Girl travels to the location where the dude is located.
One way one could handle unknown outcall situations is to ask the girl to meet you in a public place, like one might do with a blind date off of Match. Offer a drink / coffee and a small gasoline / travel fee with a promise if you hit it off then you exit stage right for some poetry reading. Of course if she feels unsafe or a bad vibe, then she is in public & free to leave. [I] (be sure to bring your copy of Emily Dickinson)[/I] Now most who are serious and want regular gigs reading contemporary poetry will understand. Those all about the money, those looking for quick funds or those with Agents will likely kick back against such an approach.
So some level of caution is always good and it is always better to walk away if one's Spidey Senses tingle. But there are often techniques one can use to reduce risk or manage situations.
Thanks! Wasted evening adverted.
[QUOTE=Seeker5901;4597965]Skip over her and keep looking. Her pics are out of date, lots of hard living and such between now and when the pics were taken.
She mentioned being a former SW and having been clean for 4 months when I met her at her townhome in Newark. Things in the house didn't add up either. Downstairs was nice, upstairs was run down. I gave her a small "sorry I wasted your time" donation and left.[/QUOTE]Thanks seeker! From her ad I got the impression that she was experienced, but I couldn't find her history. The ex-SW backstory makes sense. I'd love to find a good 'go to' in Newark. Might need to give Nikki a try despite flat reviews. And Tessa in Newark is advertising again, there is always her, right? (I know, I know, just reading her web page screams drama. Her blog should be considered a career suicide note for an escort if most of us dudes were literate.).
Damn it! She got ANOTHER ONE!
[QUOTE=Tteeder69;4600384]Came across an ad from the Milford area I was and they are you working so figured I would contact them and check them out we agreed on a price they gave me the street they lived on so I get there and it's a fairly well-off Housing Development when I got there she was standing out on the sidewalk she walked to the truck put her hand on the door and asked if she could get the money before she got in circle protection so my dumbass gave her don't money then she proceeded to tell me to go down the street make a right first house on the right and she would be right there she was going to walk because the neighbors were nosy I told her no ask for my money back and she refused 3 times or that time there were three vehicles behind me and she started to back up from the truck and then told me to go to the house and she would be right there so as I was driving down the street I was watching her in my rearview oh she stopped walking and was watching I knew what was going to happen so put my blinker on to turn on the street made a you-turn and she was gone and this picture is definitely not her.
[URL]https://delaware.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/young-fun-3023749535/691382636698[/URL][/QUOTE]Sorry for your loss!. But ya broke a rule. Glad no one got hurt tho. I'm pretty sure this is the same, or an associate of the girl that was previously advertising in Seaford, and is now advertising in Milford as well. #ends in 1405, I believe. THAT girl DID provide a couple of halfway decent dates a few months ago, but then started ripping people off.
I emailed from the ad and she wanted me to send 70 through PayPal. I said "yeah, ok". No further contact from her.
Learn the Rules - Stay Safe
[QUOTE=Tteeder69;4600384]Came across an ad from the Milford area I was and they are you working so figured I would contact them and check them out we agreed on a price they gave me the street they lived on so I get there and it's a fairly well-off Housing Development when I got there she was standing out on the sidewalk she walked to the truck put her hand on the door and asked if she could get the money before she got in circle protection so my dumbass gave her don't money then she proceeded to tell me to go down the street make a right first house on the right and she would be right there she was going to walk because the neighbors were nosy I told her no ask for my money back and she refused 3 times or that time there were three vehicles behind me and she started to back up from the truck and then told me to go to the house and she would be right there so as I was driving down the street I was watching her in my rearview oh she stopped walking and was watching I knew what was going to happen so put my blinker on to turn on the street made a you-turn and she was gone and this picture is definitely not her.
[URL]https://delaware.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/young-fun-3023749535/691382636698[/URL][/QUOTE]It pains me to see this kind of thing. Sorry for your bad experience, it happens too frequently, but you were brave enough to post & warn others!
That said, not surprised as it appears new guys are wandering into the hobby all of the time. Nothing wrong with being new, but it does make sense to get some background when starting a new hobby.
I see another poster noted that you "broke the rules". I think what they were referring to is the Rules for Internet Dating, which can be found here:
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?13919-My-Suggestions.-Rules-For-BackPage[/URL]
It is a short 25-post thread and I highly suggest anyone entering the hobby READ and Memorize / Internalize these rules! (NOT Paying up front is Rule #23 and has some follow up advice & info.).
Hey we all are new at some point, so no shame in that! Glad you found these threads as this is a great place to ask questions on style & technique and hone one's skills.
[I]Mongering looks easy, consistently safe mongering is anything but easy![/I]