Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[QUOTE=TopGun9;4166749]You're right.

BUT, there are way too many girls up here on SA for you to be wasting time haggling over a price. I like girls that accept whatever amount I offer. If agreed, we move forward. If not, thank you. Next.[/QUOTE]I usually catch them online in the message area and counter them live. Same on with text on the phone. Takes me a few seconds. If they decline then that's fine, too. Sometimes, it's also in how they say no. A little smooth talking can ease them into a more affordable range. They don't want to appear to be settling for lower standards too fast. .

BMD.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;4166860]I usually catch them online in the message area and counter them live. Same on with text on the phone. Takes me a few seconds. If they decline then that's fine, too. Sometimes, it's also in how they say no. A little smooth talking can ease them into a more affordable range. They don't want to appear to be settling for lower standards too fast. .

BMD.[/QUOTE]You need to stick to your price. They will always ask for more and some will not budge, but most will. I give them my offer and some accept, some will double it or more. I almost always decline and suggest they would be better off with someone else. If they move on, ok. Many will accept your terms if you are firm and are not rude about it.

I am doing a meet and greet with a hot looking 22 year old to, orrow. She wanted double my offer and I did as I said above and she agreed to my number. Fingers crossed she is as hot as her pics in real life.

[QUOTE=RonOne;4165157]Hope you have good luck on SA. Remember most are a waste of time. Be selective an do NOT overpay. Set your limit an stick to it. Never pay anything in advance. If you are not comfortable with her Bail out. Just my 2 cents.[/QUOTE]Thank you Ron, I will report back with any success!

They both are thick but the head game is strong.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/aac6ae17-127c-4ba1-a222-7289b6ede7ee[/URL] this one's in Wolcott and can't host. $150 did the trick even though she asked for double that.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/archive/404d68db-70f4-4327-8942-2cceb8eb7da1[/URL] this one is in New Britain and will host in a clean, safe location.

[QUOTE=TopGun9;4165746]This girl wants $450. I stopped the conversation and deleted her number. I don't negotiate.[/QUOTE]There are lots of good info an tips about how much you pay an how you treat them on here. If you are just getting into Sa an others I suggest you go way back on the posts. Good info on experiences an when to hold the line on price an move on. Some of us have been on SA for a few years an I dare say most of the girls are a waste of time. If you can nurture 2 or 3 gems you will have hit a home run. But it takes time an patience. An a little luck.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4167943]They both are thick but the head game is strong.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/aac6ae17-127c-4ba1-a222-7289b6ede7ee[/URL] this one's in Wolcott and can't host. $150 did the trick even though she asked for double that.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/archive/404d68db-70f4-4327-8942-2cceb8eb7da1[/URL] this one is in New Britain and will host in a clean, safe location.[/QUOTE]Here is the correct link for the second one.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/6476bf9e-9544-4276-916b-745678fcf1a6[/URL]

I am getting no replys to Nicole2540 on Sa Looks like a very hot UCONN student Anyone hit her up an get a meeting?

[QUOTE=XxMarkXx;4159976]Was off of SA for a while, as I was enjoying the company of a few ladies. Those relationships have run their course, so I have renewed my membership. Some initial intel to share. As always, YMMV.

Nautibeachgirl. Met for coffee, very nice conversation. She is bigger than her pics, more like a small bow, but not unattractive. Reasonable expectations. Has transportation. Will probably setup a read date soon.

SummerSunrise. Met for happy hour. Nice person, just not for me. She is the girl in the pics, but pics are misleading. She is much heavier in person and seems like she really needs the makeup that is in her pics. We worked out arrangement info before meeting, which I always try to do. Reasonable expectations, but I will not be going forward.

Lulu413 - only messaged. Looking for 500+ per meet. Out of my range, conversation ended.

Bomb Schele. Looking for 400+ per meet.

Artist0801 - not looking for a relationship, just looking to hookup. 200/90 mins. Nice deal, tried to set up a meet, but comms got quiet.

Fitchick1212, babyoil. Looks like scammers.

JayLo11 - comms went dead.

Hope it helps someone.[/QUOTE]Meet up with Nautibeachgirl for drinks at a local brewery. Had a nice time good conversation even had a nice conversation about a sex toy party she attended the night before. Very open and comfortable and I think if we had time we would have ended up back at my house. A little heavier than I had hoped but would definitely hook up.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/eaa53044-39ae-4381-8a5e-d6315a877f2c[/URL]

Here's a copy / paste of the last message she sent me, not only does she gave GPS but she can't do math:

Please read my profile.

I'm my ideal friendship we'd meet 3-4 or more times a month with an allowance of 1 k per meet or a 5 k allowance would be perfect.

I am looking for a long term / hidden boyfriend / no drama / great friend.

Your turn!

To be honest though she is rocking that Roseanne Roseannadanna hairstyle.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4169761][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/eaa53044-39ae-4381-8a5e-d6315a877f2c[/URL]

Here's a copy / paste of the last message she sent me, not only does she gave GPS but she can't do math:

Please read my profile.

I'm my ideal friendship we'd meet 3-4 or more times a month with an allowance of 1 k per meet or a 5 k allowance would be perfect.

I am looking for a long term / hidden boyfriend / no drama / great friend.

Your turn![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4169761][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/eaa53044-39ae-4381-8a5e-d6315a877f2c[/URL]

Here's a copy / paste of the last message she sent me, not only does she gave GPS but she can't do math:

Please read my profile.

I'm my ideal friendship we'd meet 3-4 or more times a month with an allowance of 1 k per meet or a 5 k allowance would be perfect.

I am looking for a long term / hidden boyfriend / no drama / great friend.

Your turn![/QUOTE]She really doesn't look like anything special from pics in profile, pretty average girl would be my guess. Maybe offer her 10 K per month but tell her you will need a min of 2 x per week and usually do 2 pops each time. See what she says. If nothing else the math should throw her LOL.

Homegirl is dtf. Just got her on SA, but don't feel like driving to Bridgeport.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b8eeb59b-ae09-44c2-b2e7-a746f152658f[/URL]

Might have a handler. Looks good. She's cheap though. May take less than $100 for meet. She seems nice too. Wants a motel. Cant host at home, but wants you to pay for motel and take amount out from what you were gonna give her.

If up for it, go for it. SA has me lazy. I only wanna search for chicks near to me.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4169761][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/eaa53044-39ae-4381-8a5e-d6315a877f2c[/URL]

Here's a copy / paste of the last message she sent me, not only does she gave GPS but she can't do math:

Please read my profile.

I'm my ideal friendship we'd meet 3-4 or more times a month with an allowance of 1 k per meet or a 5 k allowance would be perfect.

I am looking for a long term / hidden boyfriend / no drama / great friend.

Your turn![/QUOTE]Her I'd is: anotherbrokeagent. Well named for someone who can't do math. .

BMD.

[QUOTE=Sleyk0;4170319]Homegirl is dtf. Just got her on SA, but don't feel like driving to Bridgeport.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b8eeb59b-ae09-44c2-b2e7-a746f152658f[/URL]

Might have a handler. Looks good. She's cheap though. May take less than $100 for meet. She seems nice too. Wants a motel. Cant host at home, but wants you to pay for motel and take amount out from what you were gonna give her.

If up for it, go for it. SA has me lazy. I only wanna search for chicks near to me.[/QUOTE]I texted with her a few days ago. Wanted 300 per meet. I asked for how much time? 3-4 hours. Not that I would but she's just fishing.

BMD.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;4171444]I texted with her a few days ago. Wanted 300 per meet. I asked for how much time? 3-4 hours. Not that I would but she's just fishing.

BMD.[/QUOTE]Yeah bro, I got her to $100 for the quick meetup and smash. She messaged me again this morning. Must be desperate.

At this point you can probably drag her low and she'll still accept. She seems cutes though. If she was closer I might have sampled.

Here's another one asking for $500-600.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a2e5dafd-39a8-4ab4-ad5f-28085f42ae2b[/URL]

[QUOTE=Sleyk0;4170319]Homegirl is dtf. Just got her on SA, but don't feel like driving to Bridgeport.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b8eeb59b-ae09-44c2-b2e7-a746f152658f[/URL]

Might have a handler. Looks good. She's cheap though. May take less than $100 for meet. She seems nice too. Wants a motel. Cant host at home, but wants you to pay for motel and take amount out from what you were gonna give her.

If up for it, go for it. SA has me lazy. I only wanna search for chicks near to me.[/QUOTE]Jeez She is pushing like crazy to meet me. Message message message. She does look good but Stratford is to far for me She is on SA BTW. Someone close to there should try her out.

[QUOTE=RonOne;4173011]Jeez She is pushing like crazy to meet me. Message message message. She does look good but Stratford is to far for me She is on SA BTW. Someone close to there should try her out.[/QUOTE]I live in Southington and she said she would come to me. Not sure I am going to try or not but will let you know if I do.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4172834]Here's another one asking for $500-600.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a2e5dafd-39a8-4ab4-ad5f-28085f42ae2b[/URL][/QUOTE]Indeed, talked to her when she first joined, asked for 600, so maybe she's starting to soften a little, LOL.

[QUOTE=RonOne;4173011]Jeez She is pushing like crazy to meet me. Message message message. She does look good but Stratford is to far for me She is on SA BTW. Someone close to there should try her out.[/QUOTE]She reached out to me as well. I may have to sample even though its a little out of the way. I will report if I do.

[QUOTE=Sleyk0;4170319]Homegirl is dtf. Just got her on SA, but don't feel like driving to Bridgeport.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b8eeb59b-ae09-44c2-b2e7-a746f152658f[/URL]

Might have a handler. Looks good. She's cheap though. May take less than $100 for meet. She seems nice too. Wants a motel. Cant host at home, but wants you to pay for motel and take amount out from what you were gonna give her.

If up for it, go for it. SA has me lazy. I only wanna search for chicks near to me.[/QUOTE]I was near the area so I reached out on SA. She replied extremely quickly. Messaged a few times and it was off to the races (or dumpy motel). She's a good time, open minded and GFE. For $ plus a short stay, I'll definitely repeat.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/archive/fd901750-7c64-4cdb-ba3c-6045d6c8dc69[/URL]

Into some Kink, wanted 500-1000 per meet depending on activity. When I declined she eventually came down to 350.

I'm not looking kinky stuff.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/f22b165d-6cd9-404b-acb2-7d559b7efea5[/URL]

"Expecting close to around 800".

[QUOTE=Swm11;4173829][URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/archive/fd901750-7c64-4cdb-ba3c-6045d6c8dc69[/URL]

Into some Kink, wanted 500-1000 per meet depending on activity. When I declined she eventually came down to 350.

I'm not looking kinky stuff.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/f22b165d-6cd9-404b-acb2-7d559b7efea5[/URL]

"Expecting close to around 800".[/QUOTE]Please repost their links. These links are to your [I][B]Messages[/I][/B].

[I]Safe mongering and sugaring![/I]

Can you share the link to the profiles?

[QUOTE=Swm11;4173829][URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/archive/fd901750-7c64-4cdb-ba3c-6045d6c8dc69[/URL]

Into some Kink, wanted 500-1000 per meet depending on activity. When I declined she eventually came down to 350.

I'm not looking kinky stuff.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/f22b165d-6cd9-404b-acb2-7d559b7efea5[/URL]

"Expecting close to around 800".[/QUOTE]

Has anyone had success with other sites, like secret benefits? Seems like SA has the most active users.

My SA account was permanently banned. Apparently they really do look at your chats! So, I am seeking other sites for now:

[QUOTE=XxMarkXx;4174323]My SA account was permanently banned. Apparently they really do look at your chats! So, I am seeking other sites for now:[/QUOTE]Sorry to hear you were banned. That sucks.

I wonder what it will take to get around the ban. Is it as simple as changing your email address? Or do you need to use a whole different payment method, with a different billing address? I wonder how sophisticated their ban process is? Have you made any effort to circumvent the ban, and if so, what? By your post, it seems anything you've done so far has been unsuccessful.

If anyone has any insights, it would be great to hear.

The moral of the story is, of course, to not get banned in the first place. I have "trust issues" with all internet companies, and therefore have always moved conversations with a POT to text before discussing $, or even better yet, to the meet & greet if possible. So far this practice has done well by me. I'm not surprised to hear that they're reading member's chats, especially in the wake of FOSTA / SESTA. Even though they probably couldn't care less what you do or say to others on the site, they need to be able to show that they have a history of actively banning blatant behavior if ever they were to be investigated.

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;4174264]Can you share the link to the profiles?[/QUOTE]Oceansview 500-1000

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ad2b60f5-5b5a-4341-978a-a1c86f5c9c89[/URL]

Told me she was into some Kink, wanted 500-1000 per meet depending on activity. When I declined she eventually came down to 350.

[QUOTE=BigBoss203;4174264]Can you share the link to the profiles?[/QUOTE]Fizzle 800.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e7219c93-1b4f-4959-b15c-a854784e7813[/URL]

"Expecting close to around 800".

[QUOTE=RWarNmsn69;4173843]Please repost their links. These links are to your [I][B]Messages[/I][/B].

[I]Safe mongering and sugaring![/I][/QUOTE]Sorry about that was trying to post from my phone.

This one said she wasn't interested in anything sexual so I tried to inquire as to how she thought that would work. Right after admitting she never had a sugar daddy she made up a fantastic lie about meeting some guy at the mall to hand out that gave her $500 and bought a "fuzzy jacket". Of course I challemged her on it and she made up more BS about other things he bought with no sexual exchanges.

Living in a fantasy land.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f331b30e-b9a6-480e-b49e-94480aad396a[/URL]

[QUOTE=Kwagmire;4174385]Sorry to hear you were banned. That sucks.

I wonder what it will take to get around the ban. Is it as simple as changing your email address? Or do you need to use a whole different payment method, with a different billing address? I wonder how sophisticated their ban process is? Have you made any effort to circumvent the ban, and if so, what? By your post, it seems anything you've done so far has been unsuccessful.

If anyone has any insights, it would be great to hear.

The moral of the story is, of course, to not get banned in the first place. I have "trust issues" with all internet companies, and therefore have always moved conversations with a POT to text before discussing $, or even better yet, to the meet & greet if possible. So far this practice has done well by me. I'm not surprised to hear that they're reading member's chats, especially in the wake of FOSTA / SESTA. Even though they probably couldn't care less what you do or say to others on the site, they need to be able to show that they have a history of actively banning blatant behavior if ever they were to be investigated.[/QUOTE]Actually, I got banned a few months ago. Was contacted by an obvious spammer and was goofing on "her" a bit too much and mentioned $ in the process. A grw days later, the ban notice came. No warning or anything.

So, in January, I made a new account with a new email. I think the mistake I made was that I paid through google play and used the same account to pay. As well, I primarily use the app on my phone, so they could also be checking the device info.

I am getting a new phone soon, so, I may start over woth a new google play account to pay through, new phone, new email, etc.

I typically do the arrangement discussion over text on google voice. Most girls will give out their number. This works for me because I hate using my free time to buy them drinks or dinner only to hear they feel they are worth 2 k a month and move on. Everyone in the bar knows my 50 year old ass is paying the hot 25 year old, but I prefer not to feed the eavesdroppers.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4174488]This one said she wasn't interested in anything sexual so I tried to inquire as to how she thought that would work. Right after admitting she never had a sugar daddy she made up a fantastic lie about meeting some guy at the mall to hand out that gave her $500 and bought a "fuzzy jacket". Of course I challemged her on it and she made up more BS about other things he bought with no sexual exchanges.

Living in a fantasy land.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f331b30e-b9a6-480e-b49e-94480aad396a[/URL][/QUOTE]She needs to scrape up about $ 400,000 -before an April court date- anyone feeling generous?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/94ce06a1-d73e-4475-9182-472bab3c57da[/URL]

Tried to invite herself over to my place than asked for $35 for gas money. After I called her out on it got belligerent.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;4175088][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/94ce06a1-d73e-4475-9182-472bab3c57da[/URL]

Tried to invite herself over to my place than asked for $35 for gas money. After I called her out on it got belligerent.[/QUOTE]She's nowhere near Connecticut. Location listed as "Connecticut, Connecticut" and brand new profile, and a last active date in the FUTURE. It's currently 8:57 pm Eastern Standard Time on March 1 and she is last active on the site on March 2? Obviously she's in a time zone in Asia or something.

Good move on avoiding the scam.

Kwag.

[QUOTE=Kwagmire;4175202]She's nowhere near Connecticut. Location listed as "Connecticut, Connecticut" and brand new profile, and a last active date in the FUTURE. It's currently 8:57 pm Eastern Standard Time on March 1 and she is last active on the site on March 2? Obviously she's in a time zone in Asia or something.

Good move on avoiding the scam.

Kwag.[/QUOTE]I chatted with her too. Pretty much knew from the start it was a scam but I played along to see what shed say. She gave me the I'm so hungry can you send 35 LOL. I asked where in CT she was, she said chaplin, which is and hr and 30 min from me. I told her and she said shed come for 100. I said youll drive 3 hrs round trip for 100 ok. Then back to can you send 35 so I can eat LOL. When I said I'm not sending anything she got nasty.

This girl sounds like a UTR / pro. Watch out for her if you going to meet her, potential for cash / dash.

1 - Wanted more than 200.

2 - Can be dropped off and picked up, got a driver. Sounds like she got a handler or another girl working with her.

3 - Claim to have been cheated before by guys so want cash before the deed. Cash and dash ALERT.

4 - Uses out of state number starting with 959 and ending with 7704. Fake.

That booty looks tight and tempting though.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2568e841-fb4f-46e1-86fe-fe044dc5ffcb[/URL]

[QUOTE=Swm11;4174391]Oceansview 500-1000

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ad2b60f5-5b5a-4341-978a-a1c86f5c9c89[/URL]

Told me she was into some Kink, wanted 500-1000 per meet depending on activity. When I declined she eventually came down to 350.[/QUOTE]You guys shouldn't be wasting time on these girls. She's been on the site since 2015, in the world of sugaring, she's a fucking OLD PRO. Move on.

[QUOTE=Kwagmire;4175202]She's nowhere near Connecticut. Location listed as "Connecticut, Connecticut" and brand new profile, and a last active date in the FUTURE. It's currently 8:57 pm Eastern Standard Time on March 1 and she is last active on the site on March 2? Obviously she's in a time zone in Asia or something.

Good move on avoiding the scam.

Kwag.[/QUOTE]I think SA uses some other time, such as Greenwich Mean Time. If you are onine late in the evening, the people you see online will show a "last active" date of the next day, even though both you and the person you are looking at are in the US).

[QUOTE=TopGun9;4175745]This girl sounds like a UTR / pro. Watch out for her if you going to meet her, potential for cash / dash.

1 - Wanted more than 200.

2 - Can be dropped off and picked up, got a driver. Sounds like she got a handler or another girl working with her.

3 - Claim to have been cheated before by guys so want cash before the deed. Cash and dash ALERT.

4 - Uses out of state number starting with 959 and ending with 7704. Fake.

That booty looks tight and tempting though.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2568e841-fb4f-46e1-86fe-fe044dc5ffcb[/URL][/QUOTE]I had been chatting with her for a week. Never could get her to meet for coffee.

Sounds very young and new to this.

All of a sudden, now wants money up front. Not sure what changed over the last week, but I told her no. Been burned too many times.

It will be interesting to hear if anyone has actually met her.

Sounds like she is just enjoying string guys onto me.

Can't find her SA profile anymore, goes my the name Alexus, or Lexus, or something simliar.

Want 250 to meet, and 50 deposit. WTF? First time hearing that from a hoe. She wants you to send her 50 in order to set up a time and day to meet, to prove yourself real. I told her to send me 100 to prove to me she's real. LMAO.

I blocked her ass and move on. Her number starts with 508 and ends with 0507.