Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

1. Volume. Message every girl you find attractive.

2. Be direct. Let them know exactly what you want and that you are willing to give an allowance.

3. Be reasonable. You arent going to get the hot 18 year old for 100.

4. If their description says open minded they are dtf.

5. Skip the meet and greet. 90% of my hookups have been right to my house their house or a hotel room. Almost every disappointment has been from a meet and greet.

6. Stay young. The older they are the more chance she's not going to look as good as her pics and the more drama she has in her life.

7. Don't flood their inbox with messages. If she's interested she will get back eventually.

8. Don't be vulgar. Be direct but respectful say you are looking for intimacy you don't need to tell her your fetishes save those for the 2nd or 3rd time like you would irl dating.

[QUOTE=SteveStone123;3838980]1. Volume. Message every girl you find attractive.

2. Be direct. Let them know exactly what you want and that you are willing to give an allowance.

3. Be reasonable. You arent going to get the hot 18 year old for 100.

4. If their description says open minded they are dtf.

5. Skip the meet and greet. 90% of my hookups have been right to my house their house or a hotel room. Almost every disappointment has been from a meet and greet.

6. Stay young. The older they are the more chance she's not going to look as good as her pics and the more drama she has in her life.

7. Don't flood their inbox with messages. If she's interested she will get back eventually.

8. Don't be vulgar. Be direct but respectful say you are looking for intimacy you don't need to tell her your fetishes save those for the 2nd or 3rd time like you would irl dating.[/QUOTE]All great advice. I have a bit of different take on 5 and 6 tho. Young have less drama and far simpler lives than the slightly older single moms. Trouble is that will have to use your place or pay for motel, as the youngest and the true students are almost always with parents, in dorms and such. Young ones also often ask for ridiculous amounts. Meet and greet can be a pain, but the ones willing to Meet up right away often are pros, druggies needing immediate money or scammers or worse. Not all of course, just have radar up and certainly don't host them at your place. Might also add to avoid the strippers. Huge waste of time imo.

Any recommendations for good head game (BBBJ) that won't break the bank?

Thanks in advance!

Slim.

Looks like the thieves are back.

[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/e85ae9a4-3d6d-49ef-a198-16aca2ec45f4[/URL]

[QUOTE=SlimShady132;3843110]Any recommendations for good head game (BBBJ) that won't break the bank?

Thanks in advance!

Slim.[/QUOTE]Caseycupcakes.

[QUOTE=RonOne;3846597]Caseycupcakes.[/QUOTE]I'm actually in the area meeting up with another promising Sb. See how this goes and I'll report back then I'll contact cupcakes too!

Thanks Ron!

Slim.

[QUOTE=SlimShady132;3846626]I'm actually in the area meeting up with another promising Sb. See how this goes and I'll report back then I'll contact cupcakes too!

Thanks Ron!

Slim.[/QUOTE]How does one now search for name / something specific, on SA? There used to be a search box on the bottom of the search column. I haven't seen that search option / box for a few weeks now. Thanks in advance.

[QUOTE=SlimShady132;3846626]I'm actually in the area meeting up with another promising Sb. See how this goes and I'll report back then I'll contact cupcakes too!

Thanks Ron!

Slim.[/QUOTE]The girl I wanted to meet up with flaked on our meet and greet. I usually agree to the initial meet and greet in public first to get to know the girl and see if I want to go through with it LOL messaged cupcakes still have yet to hear from her. Another girl (premium member I forget what that means) in Cheshire wants to meet at a coffee shop but just texted me to reschedule this morning so no luck on SA yet.

Cheshire girl [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/49cf7e94-3a24-4b8e-8fc0-c32925f61f9f[/URL].

Girl that flaked yesterday [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/486e94f1-f973-4237-ba07-4d3dbf01a746[/URL].

[QUOTE=SlimShady132;3847799]The girl I wanted to meet up with flaked on our meet and greet. I usually agree to the initial meet and greet in public first to get to know the girl and see if I want to go through with it LOL messaged cupcakes still have yet to hear from her. Another girl (premium member I forget what that means) in Cheshire wants to meet at a coffee shop but just texted me to reschedule this morning so no luck on SA yet.

Cheshire girl [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/49cf7e94-3a24-4b8e-8fc0-c32925f61f9f[/URL].

Girl that flaked yesterday [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/486e94f1-f973-4237-ba07-4d3dbf01a746[/URL].[/QUOTE]The one who you flaked on you is the same one who did that to me and 2 other guys. Looks like my reporting her did a whole lot of good. I posted about it on this thread a few weeks ago. Maybe if you reported. So she, assuming it a she, does no shows just to get her jollies.

[QUOTE=SlimShady132;3847799]The girl I wanted to meet up with flaked on our meet and greet. I usually agree to the initial meet and greet in public first to get to know the girl and see if I want to go through with it LOL messaged cupcakes still have yet to hear from her. Another girl (premium member I forget what that means) in Cheshire wants to meet at a coffee shop but just texted me to reschedule this morning so no luck on SA yet.

Cheshire girl [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/49cf7e94-3a24-4b8e-8fc0-c32925f61f9f[/URL].

Girl that flaked yesterday [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/486e94f1-f973-4237-ba07-4d3dbf01a746[/URL].[/QUOTE]I just went online at 9 am and both profiles cannot be found.

WTF??

Is it my basic subscription or what?

The lysxcx girl and I had started up a convo. Were texting etc. Talked about meeting. When it got down to maybe arranging something, she stopped responding to texts and blocked me in SA.

Also- for premium member SB, I generally ignore. I have found that the expectations are generally too high. I may have had a decent experience with one, but it wasn't anything great.

I'm able to see both profile. I only have a non-paid account.

[QUOTE=Snowman2;3847874]I just went online at 9 am and both profiles cannot be found.

WTF??

Is it my basic subscription or what?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sutigel2;3848025]The lysxcx girl and I had started up a convo. Were texting etc. Talked about meeting. When it got down to maybe arranging something, she stopped responding to texts and blocked me in SA.

Also- for premium member SB, I generally ignore. I have found that the expectations are generally too high. I may have had a decent experience with one, but it wasn't anything great.[/QUOTE]I had talked with her for a while, as I assume the others also had. You lucky she didn't even bother to set up a no show meeting with you. As for SB I find expectations similar to Sa, some ok and some ridiculous, just that it much lower volume than SA.

[QUOTE=Hapcj7;3847270]How does one now search for name / something specific, on SA? There used to be a search box on the bottom of the search column. I haven't seen that search option / box for a few weeks now. Thanks in advance.[/QUOTE]Yeah, just tried the same. The search box is no longer there.

[QUOTE=Sutigel2;3848025]The lysxcx girl and I had started up a convo. Were texting etc. Talked about meeting. When it got down to maybe arranging something, she stopped responding to texts and blocked me in SA.

Also- for premium member SB, I generally ignore. I have found that the expectations are generally too high. I may have had a decent experience with one, but it wasn't anything great.[/QUOTE]Yea I reported her ass! We'll see how it goes with this premium Sb.