[QUOTE=DirtyDuke;3574160]That girl looks damn good. Obviously not terribly bright for the reason you mention but damn. Any intel on her?[/QUOTE]She favorited my profile and during chat told me she is from london and quoted 400.
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[QUOTE=DirtyDuke;3574160]That girl looks damn good. Obviously not terribly bright for the reason you mention but damn. Any intel on her?[/QUOTE]She favorited my profile and during chat told me she is from london and quoted 400.
[QUOTE=JRedmond;3574790]Back in the STL market.
Now DBA FunBabeXoXo in St Louis and CollegeGal1556 in Urbana, Illinois.[/QUOTE]She will never stop doing this. She found a way to make quick cash and is addicted to it now.
[QUOTE=TDG777;3574188]So, littlelouu took me for a ride. I feel like a fool. Most scammers just want money for their platonic time (or digital sexy-time), but it's obvious they will do nothing sexual in real life, right? This one will make out with you, and will even take her shirt off. She's short, slim, and busty, and to me much cuter than her pictures. Seems fairly interesting and intelligent too. Lives an hour away from the city, but is willing to drive to see you. But just as pants are about to come off, she'll say "I don't have sex on the first date. " At that point, I made a very poor decision. I decided she was genuine, and real, and not taking me for a ride. So I said no problem. And then she hung out with me for a few hours. And I thought, okay, maybe this is real. I give her an obscene amount of money (sorry guys, I'm probably part of the problem with GPS), and we reschedule for next week.
Almost the same exact thing happens again. It's hot and heavy, pants are about to come off, and she says "I don't feel comfortable yet". It sounds like she is fishing for more money. I offer an extravagant amount, because I'm high on lust. She seems to say "okay", so I resume. And she stops me again. At this point I shut down and invite her to leave. Somehow she gets me into a conversation again later, and she ends up staying for an hour or so, and actually reschedules again, even though I say I'm not going to pay until a sexual relationship starts. So my mind is all kinds of fucked up.
I bet you know how this story ends. She ghosts me, and then when I press for an answer, she is defensive and says she isn't interested.
I go back and forth between whether I fucked this one up, if I had played it differently. But I think she has found a niche scam: topless making out with the false promise of more. If you want to spend obscene amounts of money and get mind-fucked, then go for it. If not, then block her before you let your overconfidence take over like mine did.[/QUOTE]I've said (posted it numerous times) They do NOT get a cent, until my dick is 6" down their throat, or rammed up their pussy!
PERIOD.
These Ho's can play more games, figure out all kinds of scams, leave you with BLUE balls, and do NOT give a fuck about us!
Sorry you got burned, good luck, keep hunting, learn from your errors.
JAMESJ.
[QUOTE=TDG777;3574188]So, littlelouu took me for a ride. I feel like a fool. Most scammers just want money for their platonic time (or digital sexy-time), but it's obvious they will do nothing sexual in real life, right? This one will make out with you, and will even take her shirt off. She's short, slim, and busty, and to me much cuter than her pictures. Seems fairly interesting and intelligent too. Lives an hour away from the city, but is willing to drive to see you. But just as pants are about to come off, she'll say "I don't have sex on the first date. " At that point, I made a very poor decision. I decided she was genuine, and real, and not taking me for a ride. So I said no problem. And then she hung out with me for a few hours. And I thought, okay, maybe this is real. I give her an obscene amount of money (sorry guys, I'm probably part of the problem with GPS), and we reschedule for next week.
Almost the same exact thing happens again. It's hot and heavy, pants are about to come off, and she says "I don't feel comfortable yet". It sounds like she is fishing for more money. I offer an extravagant amount, because I'm high on lust. She seems to say "okay", so I resume. And she stops me again. At this point I shut down and invite her to leave. Somehow she gets me into a conversation again later, and she ends up staying for an hour or so, and actually reschedules again, even though I say I'm not going to pay until a sexual relationship starts. So my mind is all kinds of fucked up.
I bet you know how this story ends. She ghosts me, and then when I press for an answer, she is defensive and says she isn't interested.
I go back and forth between whether I fucked this one up, if I had played it differently. But I think she has found a niche scam: topless making out with the false promise of more. If you want to spend obscene amounts of money and get mind-fucked, then go for it. If not, then block her before you let your overconfidence take over like mine did.[/QUOTE]Your power is the $. The second you hand it over, the power is gone. Lesson learned.
You did so many things wrong not sure where to start. The obvious one is don't pay ever until after and certainly not based on a promise.
[QUOTE=JRedmond;3574709]Some of these girls can put on such an Academy Award performance and are so convincing, they could tell me to go to hell, and I'd probably be looking forward to the trip.
One thing I like to do is several hours before the day of our first get together, is text them to confirm our time and ask "what do you like in the bedroom".
That way it reminds them (once again) expectations of our arrangement and what will happen when they visit.
A few then change their story and revise what we both agreed to initially.
A few still come over and decide they changed their minds, in which case they get a free drink and 10-20 in gas money.
Sorry it happened and thanks for the warning.[/QUOTE]This is great advice. Within the first few messages to a woman, I say that I'm looking for a FWB relationship. At the meet and greet, I talk about how I'm not looking for a platonic relationship, but I leave it at that. Are you more explicit?
[QUOTE=JimmyJohn1987;3575007]Your power is the $. The second you hand it over, the power is gone. Lesson learned.
You did so many things wrong not sure where to start. The obvious one is don't pay ever until after and certainly not based on a promise.[/QUOTE]I can't disagree with you. But this is the first time I've met with a woman and they refuse to have sex. So, I choked. After that, you're right, she had all the power and knew it. I don't know man, I just fell for this girl. That was probably mistake #1. Thanks for the feedback.
[QUOTE=DocOck81;3574883]She will never stop doing this. She found a way to make quick cash and is addicted to it now.[/QUOTE]Well, to be fair, she is putting herself through college, which isn't cheap.
So I didn't realize this until today, after I went to report littlou, but there are a shit-ton of reasons that SA accepts for kicking someone from the site (unless their list hasn't been updated). I've attached a screenshot.
Some of the ones I had no idea about are:
- Known escort.
- Using escort terminology.
- Not following through on the arrangement (yup!
- Asking for money up front.
- Online only arrangement.
From now on, I'm reporting every single one. I'd like to keep the streetwalker BP influx to BP, and I hate wading through the online-onlys and money-up-fronters. I don't know if SA takes these seriously or not, but if you all want me to report someone, just say the word. I'm tired of wading through the garbage to get to the gold here.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/3315180e-859a-e69f-8275-60190db043cd[/URL]
She's tall, thin, busty, looks just like her pictures. Met at a bar, then went to my place. BB, CIP available, YMMV. Has UTR amateur-escort feel. Ghosted me afterward. Would repeat.
CollegeGal1556 in Urbana, Illinois is now KandySweetss.
She is usually online with both profiles about the same time.
[QUOTE=DocOck81;3574883]She will never stop doing this. She found a way to make quick cash and is addicted to it now.[/QUOTE]
She blocked me. She claimed she found a daddy, and she is not looking anymore. I logged into a lurker account and seen that she was on just a few hours ago. I guess that daddy didn't work out LOL.
She is on there daily. Excluding myself I know of 3 other guys on here that are seeing her.
I would imagine she also sees a lot of out of town business men passing thru as well.
Curious how many "friends" she sees in a week.
[QUOTE=StreyLok;3575547]She blocked me. She claimed she found a daddy, and she is not looking anymore. I logged into a lurker account and seen that she was on just a few hours ago. I guess that daddy didn't work out LOL.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=TDG777;3575169][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/3315180e-859a-e69f-8275-60190db043cd[/URL]
She's tall, thin, busty, looks just like her pictures. Met at a bar, then went to my place. BB, CIP available, YMMV. Has UTR amateur-escort feel. Ghosted me afterward. Would repeat.[/QUOTE]She's been on sa under a few different profiles for a while now, I guess to stay 'utr'. I wasn't ever interested but I know someone who has seen her and his description of activities match yours. Apparently she met and was naked within 2 hours of the initial contact so I'm thinking your escort vibe was tingling. Good thing is that's 2 reports of no rip off so there's that if she's your type.
[QUOTE=JimmyJohn1987;3575659]She's been on sa under a few different profiles for a while now, I guess to stay 'utr'. I wasn't ever interested but I know someone who has seen her and his description of activities match yours. Apparently she met and was naked within 2 hours of the initial contact so I'm thinking your escort vibe was tingling. Good thing is that's 2 reports of no rip off so there's that if she's your type.[/QUOTE]I've seen her and BB'd her several years ago. It definitely felt like an escort feel, I repeated once with a condom. I don't BB escorts or highly active SA ladies if I am aware they are highly active. One reason why I never BB'd the 18/19 year old Asian girl whom changes her profile name weekly.
[QUOTE=JRedmond;3575647]She is on there daily. Excluding myself I know of 3 other guys on here that are seeing her.
I would imagine she also sees a lot of out of town business men passing thru as well.
Curious how many "friends" she sees in a week.[/QUOTE]She was / is on every day. Told me months ago that she had a high paying SD then she texted me about two weeks ago saying he had been 'transferred' and she was in the market again. Wanted more than double what I had paid her previously so I told her I was not interested. Had my fun and moved on.
For those of you on the fence, know that she has and will meet for 75-100 bucks, no time limit, all ports are open and she doesn't ask for a cover, if you are in to that sort of thing.
Here are some pics in case you are curious.