Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

Hi guys,

I am new to this forum, but not new to the site or idea of having a SB. Per meeting is something that I always insist on, and it worked fine for me so far. I don't do monthly payroll sort of thing. My biggest problem, and perhaps some of you are having the same problem, is finding a place to spend 2-3 hours during the day with SB. I am just starting to see a nice 21 year old SB, but need a room during the day, between 10:00 AM and 2:00 PM. Motels do not check you in before 2:00 or 3:00 PM, and that's too late for both of us, and neither of us can use our home. Of course, I'd never take her to my home, for the reasons most of us would understand. Can any one of you fellow hobbyist suggest what do you do in such situation, and where do you take your ladies? You can either PM me or offer any suggestions in the forum. Any help would be appreciated.

I must say that I agree with Dirty Dingus. Per date arrangement is the only way I'd go. I don't go for the monthly thing, because the most times those ladies have a GPS (Golden Pussy Syndrome) and I am not sure we would click.

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2820409]I have to say that I have had decent luck finding gals that are OK with a per date agreement. I try to explain that a per meeting basis is what I had in the past and it works best for me. It's less complicated, etc. A majority of the gals will go for it, but some are stuck on the idea of a monthly allowance.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2827310]Hi guys,

I am new to this forum, but not new to the site or idea of having a SB. Per meeting is something that I always insist on, and it worked fine for me so far. I don't do monthly payroll sort of thing. My biggest problem, and perhaps some of you are having the same problem, is finding a place to spend 2-3 hours during the day with SB. I am just starting to see a nice 21 year old SB, but need a room during the day, between 10:00 AM and 2:00 PM. Motels do not check you in before 2:00 or 3:00 PM, and that's too late for both of us, and neither of us can use our home. Of course, I'd never take her to my home, for the reasons most of us would understand. Can any one of you fellow hobbyist suggest what do you do in such situation, and where do you take your ladies? You can either PM me or offer any suggestions in the forum. Any help would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]It can be a problem sometimes getting a room before lunch. I usually like to find something around 11 AM. I have had pretty good luck with Sleep Inns having some early rooms available. I have the awards points program so I get a free room about once ever 10 yrs. LOL Sometimes I will make a reservation and put on the reservation that I would like an early check-in. This works sometimes and sometimes not. I often have to go looking when the first choice doesn't have any early rooms available. I have to say that hotel bills are killing me. Someone with a motor home should rent it out to guys like us that are looking for a room for a couple hours. Just park it in the Walmart parking lot!! LOL.

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2827406]It can be a problem sometimes getting a room before lunch. I usually like to find something around 11 AM. I have had pretty good luck with Sleep Inns having some early rooms available. I have the awards points program so I get a free room about once ever 10 yrs. LOL Sometimes I will make a reservation and put on the reservation that I would like an early check-in. This works sometimes and sometimes not. I often have to go looking when the first choice doesn't have any early rooms available. I have to say that hotel bills are killing me. Someone with a motor home should rent it out to guys like us that are looking for a room for a couple hours. Just park it in the Walmart parking lot!! LOL.[/QUOTE]Yes that certainly can be problem. I am not sure what to do. Motor home is not a bad idea, but what we should do is get 2-4 of us and split the cost of renting a 500 apartment or a small house. Or someone who has an extra room should make some extra money, buy renting it out. It would come out cheaper than always looking for a place LOL.

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2827406]It can be a problem sometimes getting a room before lunch. I usually like to find something around 11 AM. I have had pretty good luck with Sleep Inns having some early rooms available. I have the awards points program so I get a free room about once ever 10 yrs. LOL Sometimes I will make a reservation and put on the reservation that I would like an early check-in. This works sometimes and sometimes not. I often have to go looking when the first choice doesn't have any early rooms available. I have to say that hotel bills are killing me. Someone with a motor home should rent it out to guys like us that are looking for a room for a couple hours. Just park it in the Walmart parking lot!! LOL.[/QUOTE]Pretty much what I've done. Just call until I find a place. Luckily 6-8 pm typically works well for me as long as it isn't too often.

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2827310]Hi guys,

I am new to this forum, but not new to the site or idea of having a SB. Per meeting is something that I always insist on, and it worked fine for me so far. I don't do monthly payroll sort of thing. My biggest problem, and perhaps some of you are having the same problem, is finding a place to spend 2-3 hours during the day with SB. I am just starting to see a nice 21 year old SB, but need a room during the day, between 10:00 AM and 2:00 PM. Motels do not check you in before 2:00 or 3:00 PM, and that's too late for both of us, and neither of us can use our home. Of course, I'd never take her to my home, for the reasons most of us would understand. Can any one of you fellow hobbyist suggest what do you do in such situation, and where do you take your ladies? You can either PM me or offer any suggestions in the forum. Any help would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]I came across an ad on CL coupe of months back about renting a room for. 025 per 2 hrs. Called up the owner he mentioned house used by his friends for swinger parties but mostly unoccupied during normal days. He shared even pics and seem to be decent for a 2 hr time. Will PM you his contact.

Fellow hobbyists, and SB lovers) I am just wondering if and how many of you in this group use KIK app to safely and confidentially communicate with your SB's, so that you don't have to give away your phone #? I am just trying to get the feel how popular is the app as the means of communication?

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2827513]Yes that certainly can be problem. I am not sure what to do. Motor home is not a bad idea, but what we should do is get 2-4 of us and split the cost of renting a 500 apartment or a small house. Or someone who has an extra room should make some extra money, buy renting it out. It would come out cheaper than always looking for a place LOL.[/QUOTE]An apartment to share would be OK, but maintenance and cleaning (sheets and towels) could become a problem to manage.

What if we found a hotel room, rented it like weekly. If 2 or 3 of us pitched in to get it started, then we could loan it out in 2 hour blocks for like $50 and just put the money into more nights rental. It could stay rented until the money stops. We should switch rooms or change the name occasionally to avoid detection. Any ideas on this? In a hotel we would not have to worry about cleaning etc. One person would need to manage the key to avoid double booking.

GB40.

[QUOTE=Gigabyte40;2829051]An apartment to share would be OK, but maintenance and cleaning (sheets and towels) could become a problem to manage.

What if we found a hotel room, rented it like weekly. If 2 or 3 of us pitched in to get it started, then we could loan it out in 2 hour blocks for like $50 and just put the money into more nights rental. It could stay rented until the money stops. We should switch rooms or change the name occasionally to avoid detection. Any ideas on this? In a hotel we would not have to worry about cleaning etc. One person would need to manage the key to avoid double booking.

GB40.[/QUOTE]I see lots of potential problems. Who will get it in their name, and trust the others not to damage or steal the room supplies? I certainly wouldn't. Afterall, we are mostly strangers to each other on here. It is a great idea if all the participants adhered to the rules and didn't take advantage of the situation. Also, if 2 or 3 used it in a day, there would be no way to get sheets and towels changed between participants. I hate to be a pessimist, but I don't see it working out.

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2828791]Fellow hobbyists, and SB lovers) I am just wondering if and how many of you in this group use KIK app to safely and confidentially communicate with your SB's, so that you don't have to give away your phone #? I am just trying to get the feel how popular is the app as the means of communication?[/QUOTE]I used it initially to make contact, but once we started seeing each other more, I used a hotmail acct too.

I've followed this and the Richmond threads for quite a while and have gotten some great info from everyone, so first off thanks for everything you guys have shared. I've got a few thoughts to add.

So far I've stumbled through both of these sites and have had mixed results. I've had no luck on SA at all. All but a couple profiles are dormant and no one there that really stands out. I've pretty much given up on it.

WYP is very interesting. There are definitely fake profiles out there, probably run by the site, but I've learned a few tricks to filter those out before wasting credits / money. It's not foolproof but it's pretty successful. First off, I never respond any more to offers / winks from girls. My profile has no public pic so these offers are either fake or scammer girls. Instead I'll view profiles I'm interested in and if a girl reciprocates and views my profile, I'll send a wink and get the conversation going. Every time I've done this, the girl is real. Whether she has GPS or is a scammer is to be figured out from there, but they are real and I've had success meeting the ones that filter through.

Never respond or wink to profiles with no public pics, or only one pic. I've also found profiles with things like 38 DD or BBW or other sexual acronyms like that in the user name are generally fake.

Also, I never converse through the site. I give them my name and email and say let's talk that way first. This is another good filter because there are some that just say "Send me the details of our date and I'll see you there" and never send me an email. I ain't that dumb honey but there are some who might be.

Finally, all my offers are for $100. No more, no less. It's a respectable number that gets the conversation going for $10. If they expect more than that, it's not worth it. PERIOD! When I meet the girl for the first date (IN A CROWDED, PUBLIC PLACE GUYS), I immediately give her a nice girly girl card with $50 in it so she knows I'm not there to mess with her. I've had one complain it wasn't the full amount and I just walked. The other meetings went great and we renegotiated the total "date" price and activities during the conversation.

What I'd really like is a way to track and share those "bad" GPS / Scammer profiles so others don't waste their money and make the same mistake. Of course the site would never want to do that itself. What would you guys think about a thread here for SA and WYP profiles / girl reviews? We do it for everything else.

[QUOTE=Nccb69;2829526]I've followed this and the Richmond threads for quite a while and have gotten some great info from everyone, so first off thanks for everything you guys have shared. I've got a few thoughts to add.

So far I've stumbled through both of these sites and have had mixed results. I've had no luck on SA at all. All but a couple profiles are dormant and no one there that really stands out. I've pretty much given up on it.

WYP is very interesting. There are definitely fake profiles out there, probably run by the site, but I've learned a few tricks to filter those out before wasting credits / money. It's not foolproof but it's pretty successful. First off, I never respond any more to offers / winks from girls. My profile has no public pic so these offers are either fake or scammer girls. Instead I'll view profiles I'm interested in and if a girl reciprocates and views my profile, I'll send a wink and get the conversation going. Every time I've done this, the girl is real. Whether she has GPS or is a scammer is to be figured out from there, but they are real and I've had success meeting the ones that filter through.

Never respond or wink to profiles with no public pics, or only one pic. I've also found profiles with things like 38 DD or BBW or other sexual acronyms like that in the user name are generally fake.

Also, I never converse through the site. I give them my name and email and say let's talk that way first. This is another good filter because there are some that just say "Send me the details of our date and I'll see you there" and never send me an email. I ain't that dumb honey but there are some who might be.

Finally, all my offers are for $100. No more, no less. It's a respectable number that gets the conversation going for $10. If they expect more than that, it's not worth it. PERIOD! When I meet the girl for the first date (IN A CROWDED, PUBLIC PLACE GUYS), I immediately give her a nice girly girl card with $50 in it so she knows I'm not there to mess with her. I've had one complain it wasn't the full amount and I just walked. The other meetings went great and we renegotiated the total "date" price and activities during the conversation.

What I'd really like is a way to track and share those "bad" GPS / Scammer profiles so others don't waste their money and make the same mistake. Of course the site would never want to do that itself. What would you guys think about a thread here for SA and WYP profiles / girl reviews? We do it for everything else.[/QUOTE]You don't have to create another thread. Post the links to the babys here and tell good or bad. The Cincinnati thread has done this and probably was the first to do this aand continues to.

[QUOTE=Nccb69;2829526]I've followed this and the Richmond threads for quite a while and have gotten some great info from everyone, so first off thanks for everything you guys have shared. I've got a few thoughts to add.

So far I've stumbled through both of these sites and have had mixed results. I've had no luck on SA at all. All but a couple profiles are dormant and no one there that really stands out. I've pretty much given up on it.

WYP is very interesting. There are definitely fake profiles out there, probably run by the site, but I've learned a few tricks to filter those out before wasting credits / money. It's not foolproof but it's pretty successful. First off, I never respond any more to offers / winks from girls. My profile has no public pic so these offers are either fake or scammer girls. Instead I'll view profiles I'm interested in and if a girl reciprocates and views my profile, I'll send a wink and get the conversation going. Every time I've done this, the girl is real. Whether she has GPS or is a scammer is to be figured out from there, but they are real and I've had success meeting the ones that filter through.

Never respond or wink to profiles with no public pics, or only one pic. I've also found profiles with things like 38 DD or BBW or other sexual acronyms like that in the user name are generally fake.

Also, I never converse through the site. I give them my name and email and say let's talk that way first. This is another good filter because there are some that just say "Send me the details of our date and I'll see you there" and never send me an email. I ain't that dumb honey but there are some who might be.

Finally, all my offers are for $100. No more, no less. It's a respectable number that gets the conversation going for $10. If they expect more than that, it's not worth it. PERIOD! When I meet the girl for the first date (IN A CROWDED, PUBLIC PLACE GUYS), I immediately give her a nice girly girl card with $50 in it so she knows I'm not there to mess with her. I've had one complain it wasn't the full amount and I just walked. The other meetings went great and we renegotiated the total "date" price and activities during the conversation.

What I'd really like is a way to track and share those "bad" GPS / Scammer profiles so others don't waste their money and make the same mistake. Of course the site would never want to do that itself. What would you guys think about a thread here for SA and WYP profiles / girl reviews? We do it for everything else.[/QUOTE]Nccbb69 - thanks for your input. I agree it may be a good idea to start the new treads for those two sites and tracking the fake ones. But there are so many other sites and avenues of searching for prospects, that some of the members use. Although I am somewhat new to this SB / SD idea, I've also followed the Richmond forum and learned a lot, or at least enough to interest me in this side of the hobby. Searching for legit escorts, and always being on a timer, lately doesn't appeal as much. It would be nice if we could liven up the conversation in this area on this subject. Share some valuable information in public or via private messages, but at least get it going. I'll do what I can to support the idea.

I know there is a lot of buzz in here about sites such as SA and WYP, but I am curious if anyone had any success with "Date Broke College Girls", some chat apps ClL posts, Backpage posts, and similar. I am all about spending more $ on a baby, than on a memberships. Any input would be appreciated.

I have read some on both of these sugar baby threads. The Cincinnati discussion, in my opinion, is what it's all about. They discuss specific sugar babies in the area and often give links to their profiles. I know that many don't and won't give up their good "finds" and that is understandable. The Richmond discussion, in my opinion, is 99.9% hot air, and I find to be totally worthless. I don't even waste my time reading it anymore. I realize that many sugar daddies don't want to give up their great "finds" for fear of losing them or making the gal mad, but to make the discussion worthwhile, at least tell of the average or below average sugar babies so we can not waste our time on them. That is the direction that I would like to see this thread go, sharing specific info about specific babies. I do like the thread that we have going here. I have picked up some good pointers on the various sugar daddy sites

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2829613]I have read some on both of these sugar baby threads. The Cincinnati discussion, in my opinion, is what it's all about. They discuss specific sugar babies in the area and often give links to their profiles. I know that many don't and won't give up their good "finds" and that is understandable. The Richmond discussion, in my opinion, is 99.9% hot air, and I find to be totally worthless. I don't even waste my time reading it anymore. I realize that many sugar daddies don't want to give up their great "finds" for fear of losing them or making the gal mad, but to make the discussion worthwhile, at least tell of the average or below average sugar babies so we can not waste our time on them. That is the direction that I would like to see this thread go, sharing specific info about specific babies. I do like the thread that we have going here. I have picked up some good pointers on the various sugar daddy sites[/QUOTE]Congratulations, your right on spot. If the babys don't pull or deactivate their profile then they are still in the market while seeing the daddy. The Richmond thread early on contains alot of good info but evolved into a dick measuring thread with everyone that has 10 babies that are 10's. As you said no links or any kind of useful information other than some entertaining fiction.

Good post on your part and good luck with having an informative forum. Oh the Knoxville thread is also very informative.

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2829363]I see lots of potential problems. Who will get it in their name, and trust the others not to damage or steal the room supplies? I certainly wouldn't. Afterall, we are mostly strangers to each other on here. It is a great idea if all the participants adhered to the rules and didn't take advantage of the situation. Also, if 2 or 3 used it in a day, there would be no way to get sheets and towels changed between participants. I hate to be a pessimist, but I don't see it working out.[/QUOTE]A lots of great suggestions here, both ways. Yes renting a room on weekly basis could be beneficial, but I can also understand the concerns about the trust that are expressed. I think the point is, that if we keep discussing it, some good will come out of it. The idea here is to work together on something that could benefit more of us, instead trying to take an advantage of each other. People create partnerships and do work together all the time. This is a small risk to take, for a much larger benefit. If we would think hard we could probably come up with a good solution for most or all potential problems. I know this would not be for everyone, but certainly could help few people interested.

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2830313]A lots of great suggestions here, both ways. Yes renting a room on weekly basis could be beneficial, but I can also understand the concerns about the trust that are expressed. I think the point is, that if we keep discussing it, some good will come out of it. The idea here is to work together on something that could benefit more of us, instead trying to take an advantage of each other. People create partnerships and do work together all the time. This is a small risk to take, for a much larger benefit. If we would think hard we could probably come up with a good solution for most or all potential problems. I know this would not be for everyone, but certainly could help few people interested.[/QUOTE]This might not be for everyone because of how far away you are from Gastonia and depending on the quality of the girl you might not want to take her to it for the first meeting, but the HT in Gastonia is only $25 for an hour or so, and as long as you know what you are doing you won't have to give I'd. Kind of like the Bates hotel but it's got a bed and I've never heard of issues like some of the other hotels in the area. The HT is just a mile or so off exit 17 on I85.

[QUOTE=Gastonian4;2830804]This might not be for everyone because of how far away you are from Gastonia and depending on the quality of the girl you might not want to take her to it for the first meeting, but the HT in Gastonia is only $25 for an hour or so, and as long as you know what you are doing you won't have to give I'd. Kind of like the Bates hotel but it's got a bed and I've never heard of issues like some of the other hotels in the area. The HT is just a mile or so off exit 17 on I85.[/QUOTE]Hello Gastonian4! I hope this is the same Gastonian from years back but just 4 added at the end of the name. I enjoyed sharing resources with you years back, and appreciate your help. That is good to know about Gastonia and that there are places in case I am in that area. We'll just have to look for something similar in Charlotte. If you know of any, please share the info. As always, I appreciate your help.

[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;2829638]Congratulations, your right on spot. If the babys don't pull or deactivate their profile then they are still in the market while seeing the daddy. The Richmond thread early on contains alot of good info but evolved into a dick measuring thread with everyone that has 10 babies that are 10's. As you said no links or any kind of useful information other than some entertaining fiction.

Good post on your part and good luck with having an informative forum. Oh the Knoxville thread is also very informative.[/QUOTE]All these other forums are certainly great reference for us to get ideas, but focusing on our forum, to grow it and be helpful to each other is my priority. When I say helpful, I am not thinking about passing a SB's between us, unless of course, she want's to be passed around. Some low profile escorts don't mind that, but many SB's are not very accepting of an idea. I am certainly not a selfish guy, and I'll share just about anyone who want's to be shared, or at least write a reviews about those that are advertising and don't deserve attention. Sharing links on SB's profile from SA or similar sites, I think is a great suggestion. But being careful with that is a must. Some SB's don't like to feel like they are being passed around. Especially if you find them outside of those paid sites. They typically are very low profile, and want to keep it that way. They understand the relationship and arrangement, but still want to be with one person. I am seeing a nice young lady right now who responded to my add. She has a boyfriend and want's to keep that side of her life unchanged, but got herself in a little bind with rent an needed help. Being a good samaritan, I certainly didn't mind offering my help. That's a kind of situation, none us want to screw up by passing them around, regardless of how giving and sharing we are in here. I certainly wouldn't want to screw anything up in her personal life either. I certainly understand and respect that. I think many, of us, including myself, know how to get a SB, but run into problems where we don't know where to take them for those few hours during the day that we want to spend with them. In most cases we don't go to their home or bring them to ours. Some of the older SB's, have been doing this for a while so they may be already set up for such occasions, and you can use their place. But most of the younger ones either still live at home or with roommates, and don't exactly want to advertise to everyone what they do.

Where I would like to see this forum go, instead of sharing SB's between us (unless they want that), is to help each other with resources. Such as insites on places that accept short term rentals, allow early check-ins any time of the day. Also, perhaps, exploring other sources of looking for new talent besides these paid websites. I understand that these websites are bringing already someone with the interest in the lifestyle, and they do the screening for us, which is real convenient and in one place. But sometimes, the hunt itself is a just as exciting, and convincing the young lady to try it, after she never even thought about it, and succeeding, has it's charm. Sure it's more work, but it's also more fun, at least to me. Anyway, there are other free avenues for talent search, through some social media websites, chat apps, dating sites, free classifieds, etc. So, if any of you has a good experience and success with such resources, please share and explain your success, how and why did it work.

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2831099]All these other forums are certainly great reference for us to get ideas, but focusing on our forum, to grow it and be helpful to each other is my priority. When I say helpful, I am not thinking about passing a SB's between us, unless of course, she want's to be passed around. Some low profile escorts don't mind that, but many SB's are not very accepting of an idea. I am certainly not a selfish guy, and I'll share just about anyone who want's to be shared, or at least write a reviews about those that are advertising and don't deserve attention. Sharing links on SB's profile from SA or similar sites, I think is a great suggestion. But being careful with that is a must. Some SB's don't like to feel like they are being passed around. Especially if you find them outside of those paid sites. They typically are very low profile, and want to keep it that way. They understand the relationship and arrangement, but still want to be with one person. I am seeing a nice young lady right now who responded to my add. She has a boyfriend and want's to keep that side of her life unchanged, but got herself in a little bind with rent an needed help. Being a good samaritan, I certainly didn't mind offering my help. That's a kind of situation, none us want to screw up by passing them around, regardless of how giving and sharing we are in here. I certainly wouldn't want to screw anything up in her personal life either. I certainly understand and respect that. I think many, of us, including myself, know how to get a SB, but run into problems where we don't know where to take them for those few hours during the day that we want to spend with them. In most cases we don't go to their home or bring them to ours. Some of the older SB's, have been doing this for a while so they may be already set up for such occasions, and you can use their place. But most of the younger ones either still live at home or with roommates, and don't exactly want to advertise to everyone what they do.

Where I would like to see this forum go, instead of sharing SB's between us (unless they want that), is to help each other with resources. Such as insites on places that accept short term rentals, allow early check-ins any time of the day. Also, perhaps, exploring other sources of looking for new talent besides these paid websites. I understand that these websites are bringing already someone with the interest in the lifestyle, and they do the screening for us, which is real convenient and in one place. But sometimes, the hunt itself is a just as exciting, and convincing the young lady to try it, after she never even thought about it, and succeeding, has it's charm. Sure it's more work, but it's also more fun, at least to me. Anyway, there are other free avenues for talent search, through some social media websites, chat apps, dating sites, free classifieds, etc. So, if any of you has a good experience and success with such resources, please share and explain your success, how and why did it work.[/QUOTE]It would be great if we all would share our good finds, but that probably won't happen. We could actually use this forum as a communication point and just privately email the guys on here that are truly interested in sugar babies. In reality most guys are going to "protect" their investments even if their babies are seeing multiple guys. I think what John was saying is that if they have an active profile then they are actively searching for a sugar daddy, no matter what she tells the present sugar daddy. At the very minimum we could use this forum as a means of warning other daddies about bad, dishonest, rip-off sugar babies. I really see no need to be like the Richmond forum where its just a bragfest.

Aren't most sugar babies just looking for one rich guy to take care of them? Just a thought but it may not be possible to share the information so another guy can get some of the action too? Most of these gals don't think of themselves as escorts and they aren't looking for multiple guys are they? Maybe the information on rip offs can be shared but I don't know if it is possible to share the good ones or they become an escort? Just a thought?

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2831191]It would be great if we all would share our good finds, but that probably won't happen. We could actually use this forum as a communication point and just privately email the guys on here that are truly interested in sugar babies. In reality most guys are going to "protect" their investments even if their babies are seeing multiple guys. I think what John was saying is that if they have an active profile then they are actively searching for a sugar daddy, no matter what she tells the present sugar daddy. At the very minimum we could use this forum as a means of warning other daddies about bad, dishonest, rip-off sugar babies. I really see no need to be like the Richmond forum where its just a bragfest.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=NCTransplant;2831240]Aren't most sugar babies just looking for one rich guy to take care of them? Just a thought but it may not be possible to share the information so another guy can get some of the action too? Most of these gals don't think of themselves as escorts and they aren't looking for multiple guys are they? Maybe the information on rip offs can be shared but I don't know if it is possible to share the good ones or they become an escort? Just a thought?[/QUOTE]True, some are only looking for one guy. I have seen quite a few that are seeing multiple daddies. Of course they don't want to be thought of as escorts but quite frankly, they are basically f-ing for money. I have been seeing a sugar baby for quite some time. She is seeing multiple sugar daddies. How do I know? One of her sugar baby friends told me. I agree with you that guys are not going to share the info for fear of losing out. If you read the Cincinnati board they do provide specific info on some of the good and bad SBs. The ideal thing would be to have some sort of private board that is not public to discuss these more delicate details.

I suppose some could be accepting several daddies for smaller donations to the cause. They would be lower mileage but still the same in my book. If you get down to it just about every woman is a hoe at heart. How many women use sex to get what they want? Just about every damn one. There are some exceptions. That is why the pussy sometimes dries up after you marry them. They got what they want.

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2831256]True, some are only looking for one guy. I have seen quite a few that are seeing multiple daddies. Of course they don't want to be thought of as escorts but quite frankly, they are basically f-ing for money. I have been seeing a sugar baby for quite some time. She is seeing multiple sugar daddies. How do I know? One of her sugar baby friends told me. I agree with you that guys are not going to share the info for fear of losing out. If you read the Cincinnati board they do provide specific info on some of the good and bad SBs. The ideal thing would be to have some sort of private board that is not public to discuss these more delicate details.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=NCTransplant;2831240]Aren't most sugar babies just looking for one rich guy to take care of them? Just a thought but it may not be possible to share the information so another guy can get some of the action too? Most of these gals don't think of themselves as escorts and they aren't looking for multiple guys are they? Maybe the information on rip offs can be shared but I don't know if it is possible to share the good ones or they become an escort? Just a thought?[/QUOTE]NC Transplant, I agree 100%. That's pretty much what I was trying to say earlier. Most of these girls do not want to be passed around, because they don't see themselves as escorts. They usually stick with one, or just a few daddies, depending how many can satisfy their needs. Otherwise it makes them the same like escorts, and most of them don't want to go that rout. Actually, a good number of them see only one daddy at the time. Now, like someone mentioned, if their profiles are active, and they may be seeing more than one daddy at the time, that's still in significantly smaller numbers than your average escort. So helping the good ones to stay UTR is completely understandable. Once we're done with them, and if they decide to reactivate their profiles on SA or any other site, at that point it's all fair game. Reporting on bad ones should be a definite must, as a warning to the rest of us.. Or, if anyone is considering the particular SB, and want's to run her profile on the forum, just to check if any one of us had any experience with that particular one, that would be understandable.

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2831675]NC Transplant, I agree 100%. That's pretty much what I was trying to say earlier. Most of these girls do not want to be passed around, because they don't see themselves as escorts. They usually stick with one, or just a few daddies, depending how many can satisfy their needs. Otherwise it makes them the same like escorts, and most of them don't want to go that rout. Actually, a good number of them see only one daddy at the time. Now, like someone mentioned, if their profiles are active, and they may be seeing more than one daddy at the time, that's still in significantly smaller numbers than your average escort. So helping the good ones to stay UTR is completely understandable. Once we're done with them, and if they decide to reactivate their profiles on SA or any other site, at that point it's all fair game. Reporting on bad ones should be a definite must, as a warning to the rest of us.. Or, if anyone is considering the particular SB, and want's to run her profile on the forum, just to check if any one of us had any experience with that particular one, that would be understandable.[/QUOTE]Agreed. Passing along warnings about scammers or flakes is a good idea, but I'm not going to pass along too much info on the girls I see. I've asked them to be discrete about this and I owe them the same courtesy in return.

Makes sense. I just wish my pockets was deep enough to get into this game. But there are other risks involved in getting overly involved in any one gal.

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2831675]NC Transplant, I agree 100%. That's pretty much what I was trying to say earlier. Most of these girls do not want to be passed around, because they don't see themselves as escorts. They usually stick with one, or just a few daddies, depending how many can satisfy their needs. Otherwise it makes them the same like escorts, and most of them don't want to go that rout. Actually, a good number of them see only one daddy at the time. Now, like someone mentioned, if their profiles are active, and they may be seeing more than one daddy at the time, that's still in significantly smaller numbers than your average escort. So helping the good ones to stay UTR is completely understandable. Once we're done with them, and if they decide to reactivate their profiles on SA or any other site, at that point it's all fair game. Reporting on bad ones should be a definite must, as a warning to the rest of us.. Or, if anyone is considering the particular SB, and want's to run her profile on the forum, just to check if any one of us had any experience with that particular one, that would be understandable.[/QUOTE]

Never pass a sb onto another monger, especially guys that doesn't even belong to the SA or any other site. That is a big NO.

Posting links is ok because only paying members to the site can contact them. Now if their profile is up then they are open for business.

Most of these girls have more than one SD, count on that. There is the occasional girl who sees only one and they usually pull the profile or deactivate it. Again if profile is up they are.

Looking the same as you are.

Now posting the link and info as if they show up, are the pics accurate, what kind of arrangement they are looking for, are they pros, utr girls, useful info is quite all right. NEVER PASS THEIR NUMBER TO SOMEONE ELSE.

Now as to volume of guys they see most have quite a few, especially if your doing the college girls. Most are very wild and party hardy LOL. You would be surprised at the number getting hammered and doing 2-3 guys at the same time. Oh and remember that the college boys are getting it free. So don't throw out the low volume of guys that they are fucking.

If you giys want an useful forum then publish links and info. If you just want to do fictional writing about all the babes you have then there are several other forums that do that. Oh they don't give out any info either just all the 10's they are fucking.

[QUOTE=Bruco;2831896]Agreed. Passing along warnings about scammers or flakes is a good idea, but I'm not going to pass along too much info on the girls I see. I've asked them to be discrete about this and I owe them the same courtesy in return.[/QUOTE]I agree too: that I'm not going to pass along too much info on the girls I see. Here's why:

Girls that advertise on WYP or SA expect a SD who will take care of them and not share her info with his friends. It is intended to be a discreet arrangement. Also, I don't mind telling you about some girls on BP or in the strip club who are easily accessible to everyone. But I invest a considerable amount of time and money to meet girls on SB sites. I'm not going to go to all that trouble and expense and then just give you her number. You got to work for it like I did.

Now I will share techniques and tactics to guide you. And here's my first tip:

Login in to WYP. Setup a profile. Purchase some credits and start shopping. You will have to contact a bunch of them just to find a diamond-in-the-rough. But they're out there waiting for you.

GB40.

[QUOTE=Bruco;2831896]Agreed. Passing along warnings about scammers or flakes is a good idea, but I'm not going to pass along too much info on the girls I see. I've asked them to be discrete about this and I owe them the same courtesy in return.[/QUOTE]I had a fair share of them on SA. Below are top 2 scams that I faced. Now I do laugh thinking of them.

1. I started chatting with a beautiful probably a 10 22 ish girl. We flirted a lot and skyped about once or twice. Everything was perfect. The catch here is she won't meet outside and she only want to meet in the hotel room. Even though we skyped, I was little skeptical. We arragnged a date and the plan is to pick her from a public place. I did not book a room by this time. I went a little early and scooped the whole place just to make sure. I parked my car and started the wait game. A girl came with couple of guys, started putting on make up and started texting me from a different number with a story like her phone is gone blah blah. I was watching the whole thing from my car and started panicking on how they are trying to scam me. She is not the girl in the pics or the one who skyoer. Even now I am not sure how she pulled it. There is no trace of her pics on the web. I reported to SA and they deleted her of the very next day.

2. Started flirting with a beautiful 9 ish girl and planned the date. Again no trace of her pics on the web. As usual, asked for skype and she was up for it. Just want to see her pretty face. When the Skype was turned on, it was guy and he is interested to be my sugar daddy. Disconnected the Skype immediately and blocked him. He started texting me saying that he is willing to give or do anything for my virgin ass. I said fuck off and blocked him as well. I did not sleep for almost 2 days. Again reported to SA and they removed him right away and they have apologized for the inconvenience.

Now I really do laugh when I think about it, but I was really scared and pissed at that moment. I had good memeories on SA though. That's for another time. Bottom line is, We should really start calling out the scammers here and I will do the same in future.

Stay tight and have fun.

[QUOTE=HotLake;2832205]I had a fair share of them on SA. Below are top 2 scams that I faced. Now I do laugh thinking of them.

1. I started chatting with a beautiful probably a 10 22 ish girl. We flirted a lot and skyped about once or twice. Everything was perfect. The catch here is she won't meet outside and she only want to meet in the hotel room. Even though we skyped, I was little skeptical. We arragnged a date and the plan is to pick her from a public place. I did not book a room by this time. I went a little early and scooped the whole place just to make sure. I parked my car and started the wait game. A girl came with couple of guys, started putting on make up and started texting me from a different number with a story like her phone is gone blah blah. I was watching the whole thing from my car and started panicking on how they are trying to scam me. She is not the girl in the pics or the one who skyoer. Even now I am not sure how she pulled it. There is no trace of her pics on the web. I reported to SA and they deleted her of the very next day.

2. Started flirting with a beautiful 9 ish girl and planned the date. Again no trace of her pics on the web. As usual, asked for skype and she was up for it. Just want to see her pretty face. When the Skype was turned on, it was guy and he is interested to be my sugar daddy. Disconnected the Skype immediately and blocked him. He started texting me saying that he is willing to give or do anything for my virgin ass. I said fuck off and blocked him as well. I did not sleep for almost 2 days. Again reported to SA and they removed him right away and they have apologized for the inconvenience.

Now I really do laugh when I think about it, but I was really scared and pissed at that moment. I had good memeories on SA though. That's for another time. Bottom line is, We should really start calling out the scammers here and I will do the same in future.

Stay tight and have fun.[/QUOTE]Dang! That second story is crazy. Good to know that SA addresses complaints.

[QUOTE=HotLake;2832205]I had a fair share of them on SA. Below are top 2 scams that I faced. Now I do laugh thinking of them.

1. I started chatting with a beautiful probably a 10 22 ish girl. We flirted a lot and skyped about once or twice. Everything was perfect. The catch here is she won't meet outside and she only want to meet in the hotel room. Even though we skyped, I was little skeptical. We arragnged a date and the plan is to pick her from a public place. I did not book a room by this time. I went a little early and scooped the whole place just to make sure. I parked my car and started the wait game. A girl came with couple of guys, started putting on make up and started texting me from a different number with a story like her phone is gone blah blah. I was watching the whole thing from my car and started panicking on how they are trying to scam me. She is not the girl in the pics or the one who skyoer. Even now I am not sure how she pulled it. There is no trace of her pics on the web. I reported to SA and they deleted her of the very next day.

2. Started flirting with a beautiful 9 ish girl and planned the date. Again no trace of her pics on the web. As usual, asked for skype and she was up for it. Just want to see her pretty face. When the Skype was turned on, it was guy and he is interested to be my sugar daddy. Disconnected the Skype immediately and blocked him. He started texting me saying that he is willing to give or do anything for my virgin ass. I said fuck off and blocked him as well. I did not sleep for almost 2 days. Again reported to SA and they removed him right away and they have apologized for the inconvenience.

Now I really do laugh when I think about it, but I was really scared and pissed at that moment. I had good memeories on SA though. That's for another time. Bottom line is, We should really start calling out the scammers here and I will do the same in future.

Stay tight and have fun.[/QUOTE]I had one potentially dangerous experience. I had chatted with 2 gals on SDforme several years ago. They were from Greensboro, and we decided to meet for dinner in Charlotte. I sat in the parking lot waiting. I am not sure they ever showed up, but I did see one car approach with 2 blondes in it. They left so I am not 100% sure if it was them or not. I bailed because my gut feeling was starting to get the best of me. Several months later these 2 tried to rob a sugar daddy that they had been seeing at knife point.

One other gal that I recently talked with off SDforme wanted me to pick her up at her house. I was uncomfortable with that. A week or so later she had acquired a car and could meet me for lunch. The morning that we were to meet, I asked what restaurant she wanted to meet at. She said it didn't matter cause she was going to eat anyways. Strange!! So I suggested we just meet inside the mall. She didn't want to do that, but instead wanted me to meet her at her car in the parking lot. Again, I bailed because of my gut feeling.

Another strange one. I had talked to a gal off SA from Florence, SC. She was willing to drive to Charlotte. Claimed she would Skype to prove she was real. The Skype name she gave did not exist. I texted her a few weeks later, apparently, a gay guy had got her number and was wanting to hook up. I blocked him. Later, she recontacted me through SA and gave me a new number. We conversed back and forth for awhile, the suddenly a guy saying he was her bf texted me thanking me for breaking them up. I never replied but felt like telling him that his gf is the one hoing around on him.

Moral of the story: Think with your big head, trust your gut, and ignore what the little head is trying to get you to do!

[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;2832102]Most of these girls have more than one SD, count on that. There is the occasional girl who sees only one and they usually pull the profile or deactivate it. Again if profile is up they are.[/QUOTE]This isn't in blue so it's me the guy not the mod.

What makes them different from a hooker then except charging more money?

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2832254]I had one potentially dangerous experience. I had chatted with 2 gals on SDforme several years ago. They were from Greensboro, and we decided to meet for dinner in Charlotte. I sat in the parking lot waiting. I am not sure they ever showed up, but I did see one car approach with 2 blondes in it. They left so I am not 100% sure if it was them or not. I bailed because my gut feeling was starting to get the best of me. Several months later these 2 tried to rob a sugar daddy that they had been seeing at knife point.

One other gal that I recently talked with off SDforme wanted me to pick her up at her house. I was uncomfortable with that. A week or so later she had acquired a car and could meet me for lunch. The morning that we were to meet, I asked what restaurant she wanted to meet at. She said it didn't matter cause she was going to eat anyways. Strange!! So I suggested we just meet inside the mall. She didn't want to do that, but instead wanted me to meet her at her car in the parking lot. Again, I bailed because of my gut feeling.

Another strange one. I had talked to a gal off SA from Florence, SC. She was willing to drive to Charlotte. Claimed she would Skype to prove she was real. The Skype name she gave did not exist. I texted her a few weeks later, apparently, a gay guy had got her number and was wanting to hook up. I blocked him. Later, she recontacted me through SA and gave me a new number. We conversed back and forth for awhile, the suddenly a guy saying he was her bf texted me thanking me for breaking them up. I never replied but felt like telling him that his gf is the one hoing around on him.

Moral of the story: Think with your big head, trust your gut, and ignore what the little head is trying to get you to do![/QUOTE]I hate girls that trick their SD. Because of all the scams I restricted my hunt between 30-40 and was always lucky. They are good at bed though.

My understanding is the only difference is lower millage. A SB has one or just a few Daddies that she sees where a hooker may see several guys a day. There may be more accessibility too. My pockets are deep enough to afford a SB. Could feel more like a relationship rather than a hit it and go? Just how I see it. Just a more exclusive way for the same game.

[QUOTE=Admin2;2832414]This isn't in blue so it's me the guy not the mod.

What makes them different from a hooker then except charging more money?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Admin2;2832414]This isn't in blue so it's me the guy not the mod.

What makes them different from a hooker then except charging more money?[/QUOTE]To me most sugar babies are about the same as a hooker that has just a few regular customers. Most of them don't want to think of themselves as escorts, but its a very fine line between the two. There are quite a few professional sugar babies, and they depend on their daddies to provide them the level of living that they are use to. When they lose a daddy, they just pick up another to take up the slack. I am with you though, not very much difference at all!

[QUOTE=Admin2;2832414]This isn't in blue so it's me the guy not the mod.

What makes them different from a hooker then except charging more money?[/QUOTE]Technically your right, if they accept money for sex that's prostitution. Thats the law. Now if we go by that then not sure if anything outside of marriage is not and some will argue that is.

Is there a gray area? If your dating and you help with a bill would you consider them as hookers?

I agree with you that if your paying then that's hoo king. Cut off the money and see if they are still there.

Mongers like to think they have rediscover the wheel with the term SB. Younger less used pussy that cares about them while still paying for it.

[QUOTE=DirtyDingus;2833007]To me most sugar babies are about the same as a hooker that has just a few regular customers. Most of them don't want to think of themselves as escorts, but its a very fine line between the two. There are quite a few professional sugar babies, and they depend on their daddies to provide them the level of living that they are use to. When they lose a daddy, they just pick up another to take up the slack. I am with you though, not very much difference at all![/QUOTE]I couldn't disagree with this, even if I wanted to. The difference is only in milage. Several years ago, I red this line somewhere, if I remember correctly, while reading some eastern philosophical writings, related to femininity and the "power of pussy" In a rough translation, it said something like this "All women are ******! Sorry mother, you're women too. " It took a while to digest that, but as I get older, it gets clearer to me. All it takes is right circumstances, and a strength of the desire toward something, to bring that "inner *****" to the surface in every woman, and to use the pussy to get whatever they want. And of course, our radars get turned on and pick up the vibes making our laser guided missiles search for the target. With that in mind, I choose to have fun and hit as many targets as I can afford. Because, in the end, it will cost me one way or the other. I'll share what I can, whenever I can. Protect the gems, expose the fakes, and warn the rest. Play safe!

K here is what I don't understand. Why do the mongers say that the SB experience of feeling like a relationship. If that's what they seek then why not develope a regular GF, and help her out without her asking for help. Heaven forbid they do that.

My reasons for doing this is its faster than the normal process. I'm also older with a taste for younger women (not the 18-20's group) that most seem to shoot for. The last reason is I pay for it because its faster and this is the only reason most younger girls would even consider it. I believe that to be the case with every monger here. If you think they care again cut the sugar off. There again there are exceptions but lets not foget we are paying for the company, the sex and their feelings for us.

I have yet to meet a woman that won't use her pussy to get what she wants. How about a woman that lays on her back to get a job promotion? Isn't that the same thing too?

[QUOTE=Mravcapo69;2833268]I couldn't disagree with this, even if I wanted to. The difference is only in milage. Several years ago, I red this line somewhere, if I remember correctly, while reading some eastern philosophical writings, related to femininity and the "power of pussy" In a rough translation, it said something like this "All women are ******! Sorry mother, you're women too. " It took a while to digest that, but as I get older, it gets clearer to me. All it takes is right circumstances, and a strength of the desire toward something, to bring that "inner *****" to the surface in every woman, and to use the pussy to get whatever they want. And of course, our radars get turned on and pick up the vibes making our laser guided missiles search for the target. With that in mind, I choose to have fun and hit as many targets as I can afford. Because, in the end, it will cost me one way or the other. I'll share what I can, whenever I can. Protect the gems, expose the fakes, and warn the rest. Play safe![/QUOTE]