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[QUOTE=Sexingit;3316639]She played you for $400. That doesn't seem much in the long run but these girls are about the instant gratification. If it's her real number, I would pass it out to all members with less than 5 posts. These girls must understand that they can't scam people and there are consequences.[/QUOTE]She never showed up that night to get the money or hang out.
I see another purpose for posting other than reviewing a specific SB. For me, it's about sharing techniques and best practices on how to attract, land and handle SB's and the multitude of situations we run across.
In fact, I believe that has always been the main attraction to the Richmond board and why it is so popular.
[QUOTE=JohnHandCock;3314303]If a person wants to review a girl the way he does an escort then profiles are appropriate, otherwise its just good storytelling. If it a profile from SA that is still active then the girl is still seeking assistance. For some reason lots of guys think after they have made a connection on SA that she belongs only to them. Threads are filled with reviews of good storytelling who never post a profile link. So other than being a good story (fiction or bragging) what useful info does it provide? The definition of a sb means something different to everyone here. For me if she has more than one sd at a time then she is utr or a pro sb. If she has been in the sex industry that leaves her out, so for me there is very few true SB's on SA.[/QUOTE]
Anyone meet this one? Goes by Ashley Disaster or maxxx.
[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;3316931]I see another purpose for posting other than reviewing a specific SB. For me, it's about sharing techniques and best practices on how to attract, land and handle SB's and the multitude of situations we run across.
In fact, I believe that has always been the main attraction to the Richmond board and why it is so popular.[/QUOTE]LOL yeah the richmond board has thousands of pages that can be read for technique, security and whatever else you can imagine. What it actually doesn't have in those thousands of pages is very few actual reviews of real SB's. This isn't rocket science and you can only rehash and recycle ideas already posted on the richmond board so many ways. Most ideas and techniques have been posted already and most take what works for them from the post and use it so its not really a new technique just new guys rehashing others ideas.
After going back to SA again I feel like now I really understand this game. Currently talent is kinda low now and not worth it now to join, but that can change in the spring.
Any girl you start an arrangement with will say I'm looking for one SD only, when you hear that line its total BS. The sugar baby will even hide to block you to make you think you're the only one. These girls are just like the pros, they looking to make that money and see others.
Another thing I have come across is girls wanting money before meeting. This happens often, if the girls too eager to meet so fast and sends pics to gain your trust, she's going to say she's in need of a little money asap and probably will add this can be deducted from our first meeting or act like they don't even care about money. They just want to meet for sex and have a good time. This has happen to me 3 times in two weeks. Yes first time I fell for the scam after so many dirty text messages, pictures and phone calls I fell for it. Gave her the money online and she was gone. Watch out for that crap, some of these girls good actors.
Another type that's funny is the girl that doesn't want anything sexual, That makes me laugh because I already have that arrangement with my wife.
During December and January I fucked 5 of them and yes I'm a monger and I see others, but these girls do also. So be smart and don't trust them or give them any information. My membership is done and a few and I honestly feel like I'm done with it. I know enough girls now that I can see.
Hey brother, I typically dabble in the Tidewater area, but I'll be in the Chantilly area next week so I was checking out what why'all got going on up here. Ironically, Maxxx was a VA Beach favorite for quite some time, and we recently learned she had a dedicated daddy. Is she advertising in your area? If so, get it if you can. She has a bad ass body with no restrictions. Attached are some pics when she posted in our area.
Salty.
[QUOTE=SoleKollectah;3320760]Anyone meet this one? Goes by Ashley Disaster or maxxx.[/QUOTE]
Thought you'd like to know she's showing up in VAB again now as Kitanyaaa. I guess daddy didn't work out.
Salty.
[QUOTE=SaltyDog2016;3341556]Hey brother, I typically dabble in the Tidewater area, but I'll be in the Chantilly area next week so I was checking out what why'all got going on up here. Ironically, Maxxx was a VA Beach favorite for quite some time, and we recently learned she had a dedicated daddy. Is she advertising in your area? If so, get it if you can. She has a bad ass body with no restrictions. Attached are some pics when she posted in our area.
Salty.[/QUOTE]
So, gentlemen, I got the account and I think I will be tripling down on this for the next 90 days. If successful, I'll continue if not no big deal.
The first big thing is this. Scrolling through, I spot a lady who works at the same company as me. Much lower position than me, in fact we never interact, however it's 100% her.
A part of me wants to chase this hard as I noticed her attractiveness the first time I saw her. Another part of me is like hell no.
Advice and. 2 cent comments?
Also any tips in general to SD on SA, I'm all ears.
I've always been told don't shit where you eat. Just make sure your profile is not recognized by her. Either put a fake picture, search the web for a close resemblance to you or adjust your settings to hide yourself from profiles you view. The downside to the second option is it takes away from others noticing you looking at them. Certainly don't add her to your favorites.
Salty.
[QUOTE=TheBarbarian;3345796]So, gentlemen, I got the account and I think I will be tripling down on this for the next 90 days. If successful, I'll continue if not no big deal.
The first big thing is this. Scrolling through, I spot a lady who works at the same company as me. Much lower position than me, in fact we never interact, however it's 100% her.
A part of me wants to chase this hard as I noticed her attractiveness the first time I saw her. Another part of me is like hell no.
Advice and. 2 cent comments?
Also any tips in general to SD on SA, I'm all ears.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=TheBarbarian;3345796]So, gentlemen, I got the account and I think I will be tripling down on this for the next 90 days. If successful, I'll continue if not no big deal.
The first big thing is this. Scrolling through, I spot a lady who works at the same company as me. Much lower position than me, in fact we never interact, however it's 100% her.
A part of me wants to chase this hard as I noticed her attractiveness the first time I saw her. Another part of me is like hell no.
Advice and. 2 cent comments?
Also any tips in general to SD on SA, I'm all ears.[/QUOTE]You need to spend several days reading the current Richmond sugar thread, as well as the archive called Highlights. That you already committed to 3 months is amazing. I can only take 1 month at a time, then I have more than enough to keep me busy, maybe b / c when I am active, I get obsessed w / being on the site and getting POTs.
About the girl at your company. You will learn from the Richmond thread that keeping your identity secret from the baby is job 1 here. This is crucial for us married guys, but wise for anyone. The chances of you keeping this if you were even just to do M&G w / her are 0 (she sees your car at Sbux. Then she sees it in the company parking lot and puts 2 and 2 together).
Guys I'm reading as we speak / type. I'm going to avoid the cutie at the Company and get my IQ up.
So, I'm back on SA after about a 3-4 month hiatus and after 3 days I've observed something that I thought I'd share.
This current crop has no idea what they're doing in regards to SD / SB relationships. Some have bought in to the glamour of getting a SD and are pricing themselves out, others would be on Backpage if it didn't have a negative connotation to it. Since Wednesday, I'm 3 for 3 on action on the first meeting. Total $ spent? $185 (including lunch / coffee bought).
1st girl. Just doesn't like fucking guys her age (22) and likes the experience of an older guy.
2nd girl. Met in a parking lot to give very terrible head (won't be calling back).
3rd girl. Met for coffee, As we go to leave. I grab her ass and tell her I'd love to fuck her mouth. Finished me off in the car, will probably become a regular along with the first.
Prob 5-6 other girls that I may meet just to see how many jewels I can find in this 30 day membership.
Happy hunting.
[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;3353083]So, I'm back on SA after about a 3-4 month hiatus and after 3 days I've observed something that I thought I'd share.
This current crop has no idea what they're doing in regards to SD / SB relationships. Some have bought in to the glamour of getting a SD and are pricing themselves out, others would be on Backpage if it didn't have a negative connotation to it. Since Wednesday, I'm 3 for 3 on action on the first meeting. Total $ spent? $185 (including lunch / coffee bought).
1st girl. Just doesn't like fucking guys her age (22) and likes the experience of an older guy.
2nd girl. Met in a parking lot to give very terrible head (won't be calling back).
3rd girl. Met for coffee, As we go to leave. I grab her ass and tell her I'd love to fuck her mouth. Finished me off in the car, will probably become a regular along with the first.
Prob 5-6 other girls that I may meet just to see how many jewels I can find in this 30 day membership.
Happy hunting.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the post. I'm all for contributing to the forum but why not share more info? Especially, #2? I mean if you're not going back anyway, some of us like bad head. I for one consider myself a trainer for inexperienced newbies.
The intent of the post was giving feedback on the current state of SA. From reading the forum, it seems like guys are putting some of these girls on a pedestal when actuality they are much more simple and easier to work with.
I'll gladly share the info of the 2nd girl privately.
[QUOTE=DCOutlaw;3353845]Thanks for the post. I'm all for contributing to the forum but why not share more info? Especially, #2? I mean if you're not going back anyway, some of us like bad head. I for one consider myself a trainer for inexperienced newbies.[/QUOTE]
I've heard of few good experiences, and many bad ones, when a guy gets involved with a gal at the office. Personally, it blew up in my face once. Had to quit and move on from a great position. Learned my lesson. Never again. And that wasn't even a SD / sb relationship.
But if you do decide to move forward. Just keep it all completely out of the office and not during either of your work time. But I agree you should remain anonymous and find another pot. Too many landmines to avoid.
The only scenario I would say it is safe is if you are both single and you really date. Even then, it is a terrible idea. But if it is love it could work out okay. But we are not talking about that here anyway.
Good luck and let us know how it goes.
Rusty.
[QUOTE=TheBarbarian;3345796]So, gentlemen, I got the account and I think I will be tripling down on this for the next 90 days. If successful, I'll continue if not no big deal.
The first big thing is this. Scrolling through, I spot a lady who works at the same company as me. Much lower position than me, in fact we never interact, however it's 100% her.
A part of me wants to chase this hard as I noticed her attractiveness the first time I saw her. Another part of me is like hell no.
Advice and. 2 cent comments?
Also any tips in general to SD on SA, I'm all ears.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=RustyMuffler;3355407]I've heard of few good experiences, and many bad ones, when a guy gets involved with a gal at the office. Personally, it blew up in my face once. Had to quit and move on from a great position. Learned my lesson. Never again. And that wasn't even a SD / sb relationship.
But if you do decide to move forward. Just keep it all completely out of the office and not during either of your work time. But I agree you should remain anonymous and find another pot. Too many landmines to avoid.
The only scenario I would say it is safe is if you are both single and you really date. Even then, it is a terrible idea. But if it is love it could work out okay. But we are not talking about that here anyway.
Good luck and let us know how it goes.
Rusty.[/QUOTE]Because I fucked a girl at work that worked with me that was also much younger and more junior in the company. It was fun as hell until her friends and coworkers talked her into trying to strong arm me to get herself promoted. She actually listened to them. I actually loved her. Needless to say I had to resign or be fired and I started my own company. It was fun, exhilarating when it lasted!
I just joined SA. Can't seem to snag one. Been reading through the VA threads and trying to figure out the best intro message to snag one. I think there needs to be a SB101. LOL.
[QUOTE=LowJack;3376417]I just joined SA. Can't seem to snag one. Been reading through the VA threads and trying to figure out the best intro message to snag one. I think there needs to be a SB101. LOL.[/QUOTE]Pscho girl wanted 5 k. Then dropped down to 1 k. Called my burner and bitched me out for insulting her. Too funny.
[QUOTE=LowJack;3376603]Pscho girl wanted 5 k. Then dropped down to 1 k. Called my burner and bitched me out for insulting her. Too funny.[/QUOTE]There is a lot of good help and advice on the Richmond board. Looks like we swim in similar waters, so if you need any help, let me know.
[QUOTE=LowJack;3376417]I just joined SA. Can't seem to snag one. Been reading through the VA threads and trying to figure out the best intro message to snag one. I think there needs to be a SB101. LOL.[/QUOTE]I like the opening line another member had " I want to eat your pussy and pay your bills". LOL.
[QUOTE=MassageFan82;3377544]I like the opening line another member had " I want to eat your pussy and pay your bills". LOL.[/QUOTE]Some chick tried to hit me up for 500 just to meet? What the F? And 400 after. I don't think so. LOL. This is getting insane. I guess this a SD vs SB game these girls want. I am thinking of pimping myself out. Holy cow! There was one girl who pinged me out of the blue and gave a rate of a 100. Wasn't too interested though cause she is way out in Waldorf. I'm meeting a young Latina down in Lorton tomorrow. I'll keep you guys updated.
[QUOTE=LowJack;3378237]Some chick tried to hit me up for 500 just to meet? What the F? And 400 after. I don't think so. LOL. This is getting insane. I guess this a SD vs SB game these girls want. I am thinking of pimping myself out. Holy cow! There was one girl who pinged me out of the blue and gave a rate of a 100. Wasn't too interested though cause she is way out in Waldorf. I'm meeting a young Latina down in Lorton tomorrow. I'll keep you guys updated.[/QUOTE](BTW I use an app instead of a burner. You can switch up numbers and stuff for free. Just have to suffer through ads if you don't pay.).
LOL. The drama continues. I got bold and just started sending my internet phone number to fav'ed chicks just to see who would bite. A latina in FFX LatinaLov3 texted back. Quoted her 200 and I think tonight is bad to hook up with latina girls. Cinco De Mayo. I forgot. Doh! She was pretty conflicted between going out and money. LOL.
[QUOTE=LowJack;3378420](BTW I use an app instead of a burner. You can switch up numbers and stuff for free. Just have to suffer through ads if you don't pay.).
LOL. The drama continues. I got bold and just started sending my internet phone number to fav'ed chicks just to see who would bite. A latina in FFX LatinaLov3 texted back. Quoted her 200 and I think tonight is bad to hook up with latina girls. Cinco De Mayo. I forgot. Doh! She was pretty conflicted between going out and money. LOL.[/QUOTE]I've chatted her up as well. Haven't gotten to the financials yet. Let me know how things go.
Just an FYI. If you are curious what their equivalent to this board is, get on ****** and search "sugar baby" or similar terms. You'll find a lot of interesting stuff on there.
Satuday, went down to Lorton and met the Latin chic near Starbucks. Things were real awkward cause she looked 16 and I looked like her father. Couldn't take the chance and just ended it. The latin lover from the day before that bailed cause of Cinco De Mayo never responded to my texts. Oh well. Then there was the Ohio chick who liked me and let me see her photos. We were corresponding with my Monger email but then it just stopped. ?? Maybe she found out I'm a dirty old man? Dunno.
Sunday, an Arlington white older lady (34?) messaged me out of the blue. She was really direct and we got things to 125. Had to go to Arlington and well as you can tell from previous posts, frustrated. Although she is not that much in looks, but very open, direct and a generally nice person. Tats and piercings if you are into it. You just have to deal with the crummy neighborhood. Definitely a go to if you don't want to deal with BS. LOL.
I think I'm going to rest cause this is like going to job interviews.
Could it be that I've been spoiled by all the Escorts and Chinese condos? Possibly.
But in general, a real interesting experience and I have found out that although this is a terrible hobby, I will not get bled for money just to have a cup of coffee. Nor will I mess with girls that look like they have to study for the PSAT's.
BTW,
That Richmond link is freaking packed with SB's. Maybe I should take a trip? LOL.
Thanks Doc and Booker for all the quality advice.
As you all know, keep safe and stay thirsty my friends.
Don't be too discouraged. The SB route can be fruitful if you have the patience, and yes it IS basically interviewing for a position you're trying to fill. When I first got on SA, I was spending quite a bit of time interviewing on the front end but it paid off in the long run because I got reliable meet-ups and no BS. This typically lasts about 5 months or so with each one and then the cycle restarts as the 3-4 start to fall off the wagon.
Nice reporting.
[QUOTE=LowJack;3380185]Satuday, went down to Lorton and met the Latin chic near Starbucks. Things were real awkward cause she looked 16 and I looked like her father. Couldn't take the chance and just ended it. The latin lover from the day before that bailed cause of Cinco De Mayo never responded to my texts. Oh well. Then there was the Ohio chick who liked me and let me see her photos. We were corresponding with my Monger email but then it just stopped. ?? Maybe she found out I'm a dirty old man? Dunno.
Sunday, an Arlington white older lady (34?) messaged me out of the blue. She was really direct and we got things to 125. Had to go to Arlington and well as you can tell from previous posts, frustrated. Although she is not that much in looks, but very open, direct and a generally nice person. Tats and piercings if you are into it. You just have to deal with the crummy neighborhood. Definitely a go to if you don't want to deal with BS. LOL.
I think I'm going to rest cause this is like going to job interviews..[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;3380333]Don't be too discouraged. The SB route can be fruitful if you have the patience, and yes it IS basically interviewing for a position you're trying to fill. When I first got on SA, I was spending quite a bit of time interviewing on the front end but it paid off in the long run because I got reliable meet-ups and no BS. This typically lasts about 5 months or so with each one and then the cycle restarts as the 3-4 start to fall off the wagon.
Nice reporting.[/QUOTE]I'm really happy that some ladies on the site are direct and too the point. I have an unconfirmed appointment with a lady on Wednesday in Vienna. An upfront lady who quoted a monthly 2500 in Bethesda (can't do that). An Mclean girl who wanted 3 K / month plus nails, manicure, makeup, spa treatments and clothes. WTF? My ex-wife had something of that allowance. Which was part of the reason why I dropped the ole hag! What kind of lady buys a $8 k bag when we were trying to buy a house? "Oh it's a steal at that price" Yeah, you want to sell my kidney and lungs next? My lawyer cost less that what the ex stole from me. LOL. Jeez. Sorry, I'm bitching.
Well hopefully, I can find that right one that will be my true go to.
Anybody meet up or talk with this girl she was not active for a while but I notice she's on every couple days now. I asked in the Baltimore thread only got a couple responses curious about you guys in Virginia.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c84b8556-5772-4c2b-ab90-242056dfdc05[/URL]
Well, so now I've got a whole slew of weirdness. Was able to meet up with a Thai chick in Merrifield. Really good looking arm candy. Negotiations were 100 a meetup and 300 a bedroom date. I'm considering on taking the plunge but told her I'd get back to her. There was another Mclean chick Sabastian that was upfront and wanted a three some for 2 K. Pictures seem nice but she didn't want a meeting until things were settled upfront. Possible scam. I did get a couple of hits for out of towners coming to town. One quote 200 for oral awareness and the other is yet to post details. I think I may expand my search to Winchester and Gainsville. The Baltimore scene seems like a last week adventure. Oh well.
[QUOTE=LowJack;3385218]Well, so now I've got a whole slew of weirdness. Was able to meet up with a Thai chick in Merrifield. Really good looking arm candy. Negotiations were 100 a meetup and 300 a bedroom date. I'm considering on taking the plunge but told her I'd get back to her. There was another Mclean chick Sabastian that was upfront and wanted a three some for 2 K. Pictures seem nice but she didn't want a meeting until things were settled upfront. Possible scam. I did get a couple of hits for out of towners coming to town. One quote 200 for oral awareness and the other is yet to post details. I think I may expand my search to Winchester and Gainsville. The Baltimore scene seems like a last week adventure. Oh well.[/QUOTE]If nothing happens after the "meet-up", she just got 100 for doing nothing.
[QUOTE=Serpico99;3385611]If nothing happens after the "meet-up", she just got 100 for doing nothing.[/QUOTE]LOL. Initial meet was actually just 12 bucks for coffee. She said next time would be 100 for meeting her. Sweet girl.
[QUOTE=LowJack;3385781]LOL. Initial meet was actually just 12 bucks for coffee. She said next time would be 100 for meeting her. Sweet girl.[/QUOTE]Sorry about misinterpreting it. I know some girls are wanting a meeting fee just to meet up, and do nothing else. I guess as a preventive measure to cull through the scammer SDs.
[QUOTE=LowJack;3385218]Well, so now I've got a whole slew of weirdness. Was able to meet up with a Thai chick in Merrifield. Really good looking arm candy. Negotiations were 100 a meetup and 300 a bedroom date. I'm considering on taking the plunge but told her I'd get back to her. There was another Mclean chick Sabastian that was upfront and wanted a three some for 2 K. Pictures seem nice but she didn't want a meeting until things were settled upfront. Possible scam. I did get a couple of hits for out of towners coming to town. One quote 200 for oral awareness and the other is yet to post details. I think I may expand my search to Winchester and Gainsville. The Baltimore scene seems like a last week adventure. Oh well.[/QUOTE]What does a "Meet up" include?
Gents,
Not only is SB / SD hobby like a job interview, it's very inconsistent starting off and time consuming.
I've gotten around showing my face but it's the inevitable. Showing my face on the internet is a no for me, though I've been able to navigate around this demand.
I started get tons of responses when I type a "smooth" generic message with my # and email at the end. This worked. I'll report more of my experiences here shortly but I'll say this, I partook in this SB hobby for off the market stuff but it takes so much time. The texting back and forth, flaking, or just not being able to sync schedules.
Any input, advice and stories are great. The Richmond board is the Bible and is a must read, it has helped tremendously.
[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;3386612]What does a "Meet up" include?[/QUOTE]I think dinner or drinks possibly clubbing. If you are willing to fork over shopping. For loners like me I do appreciate going out with someone other than riding solo to bars and clubs. The other intimate stuff is additional charges.
[QUOTE=TheBarbarian;3386640]Gents,
Not only is SB / SD hobby like a job interview, it's very inconsistent starting off and time consuming.
I've gotten around showing my face but it's the inevitable. Showing my face on the internet is a no for me, though I've been able to navigate around this demand.
I started get tons of responses when I type a "smooth" generic message with my # and email at the end. This worked. I'll report more of my experiences here shortly but I'll say this, I partook in this SB hobby for off the market stuff but it takes so much time. The texting back and forth, flaking, or just not being able to sync schedules.
Any input, advice and stories are great. The Richmond board is the Bible and is a must read, it has helped tremendously.[/QUOTE]I don't show my face either. I ran into one potential that simply would not meet without seeing my face, so I asked if she had snapchat. Sent a face pic through that avenue and it notifies me if she screenshots it. (She didn't). That was one way around it.
[QUOTE=LowJack;3387129]I think dinner or drinks possibly clubbing. If you are willing to fork over shopping. For loners like me I do appreciate going out with someone other than riding solo to bars and clubs. The other intimate stuff is additional charges.[/QUOTE]That's something I would never do but if you see value in it, more power to you.
[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;3387995]That's something I would never do but if you see value in it, more power to you.[/QUOTE]I guess I am jaded. I actually do want my ex wife's friends to see me out there instead of rolling solo. LOL!
Anyways. Going to see what happens this week. Really interesting and I can see how this can be addictive.
You guys have any juicy posts?
I'm always searching for my Persian princess and stumbled on her on SA:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/43953b21-7e81-48f9-9621-0f98c093fc2b[/URL]
We discussed 300 for nuru but I was able to connect the dots before pulling trigger.
BP video seems to show a lot add weight gain so I didn't schedule.
[URL]http://nova.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/beautiful-upscale-bombshell-g&[/URL]#949;and-949;lmεns-cho-cε-eductive-and-exy /27408822.
How's the talent on SA? I've come to the end of my 6-8 month run where all my SA's I've found have become too flaky. Is it worth taking another dip into SA right now?