Sugarbabies?

[QUOTE=Babelover77;2453058]Let me get this right. SClause is saying the membership gets you free sessions? Why and how?

And ECincy says, if you do get free, be a man and spend anyway. Why? LOL.[/QUOTE]A SB does not really give it for free. They expect a reward. The next time it is not free. So you move on and that leaves the SB jaded and. The next guy has to deal with the attitude that everybody on sa wants it for free. Rad the profiles and you can pretty much tell which SB trusted a potential SD and did it for 'free' this way just ruins the hunting grounds.

[QUOTE=EuroInCincy;2458387]A SB does not really give it for free. They expect a reward. The next time it is not free. So you move on and that leaves the SB jaded and. The next guy has to deal with the attitude that everybody on sa wants it for free. Rad the profiles and you can pretty much tell which SB trusted a potential SD and did it for 'free' this way just ruins the hunting grounds.[/QUOTE]Unfortunately, I've had it from both sides of the fence.

I've had the girls who have been burned so many times they're cautious. In situations like those, I'll generally give them enough $$ for gas, babysitter, and all of that fun stuff in the beginning, but, not really what I'd consider "sugaring. " If they haven't done anything by the second or third date, then I generally won't have another one with them and just cut off all contact.

For the girls who then say that they don't want to have sex with their SugarDaddy, my response is generally:

"I'm really sorry -- I'm not comfortable giving women I don't know money unless I'm completely convinced that they're going to be my Sugar Baby. I don't want to be taken advantage of when there are so many women who are comfortable with my requests. ".

The reality is (and I believe that I've mentioned this in my post) is that if you're the type of SD who wants to "kick the tires" for free to see if your SB is a right fit for you, then just go see an escort. We have plenty of them in Cincinnati who are amazingly great. I honestly don't want to deal with the crazy girls (and in one case, their inane brothers) who have been burned and who want unrealistic things, and I'm sure that the girls don't necessarily want to deal with guys who don't want to pay.

MM.

[QUOTE=MisforMaster;2459655]Unfortunately, I've had it from both sides of the fence.
The reality is (and I believe that I've mentioned this in my post) is that if you're the type of SD who wants to "kick the tires" for free to see if your SB is a right fit for you, then just go see an escort. We have plenty of them in Cincinnati who are amazingly great. I honestly don't want to deal with the crazy girls (and in one case, their inane brothers) who have been burned and who want unrealistic things, and I'm sure that the girls don't necessarily want to deal with guys who don't want to pay.

MM.[/QUOTE]Fully agree. It is much better to share info, as I have done in the past with a few here, by making our own private blog with the real info about the sb's we encounter.

I have a possible sugar baby. Don't really know how to go about it, she sent me a pic looks TGTBT but wishful thinking has me ready to meet her. But she needs 2000 to take care of something. I know I can't give it all to her up front. But don't know how I should go about it. Any info would be great thanks.

I looking for a regular sugar baby.

[QUOTE=LookBig;2504002]I have a possible sugar baby. Don't really know how to go about it, she sent me a pic looks TGTBT but wishful thinking has me ready to meet her. But she needs 2000 to take care of something. I know I can't give it all to her up front. But don't know how I should go about it. Any info would be great thanks.[/QUOTE]Do not do that man! There are nice girls out there that want to be Sugarbabies, and they don't ask for $2000.00 up front like that.

[QUOTE=LookBig;2504002]I have a possible sugar baby. Don't really know how to go about it, she sent me a pic looks TGTBT but wishful thinking has me ready to meet her. But she needs 2000 to take care of something. I know I can't give it all to her up front. But don't know how I should go about it. Any info would be great thanks.[/QUOTE]Are you saying that you would actually CONSIDER giving upwards of 2,000 to someone you don't know, and even already suspect as someone TGTBT? Seriously?

[QUOTE=LookBig;2504002]I have a possible sugar baby. Don't really know how to go about it, she sent me a pic looks TGTBT but wishful thinking has me ready to meet her. But she needs 2000 to take care of something. I know I can't give it all to her up front. But don't know how I should go about it. Any info would be great thanks.[/QUOTE]I wish we all could share more info here. It might help us cut down on the number of flakes, etc we run into. To help you assess this situation, you should offer a bit more info. Can you tell us which website you used to meet her? You don't have to share a link but you might also consider sharing a photo. A lot of the women on SA, SD4 Me, etc use multiple profiles. One of us might have encountered her before.

In my experience, and I will bet it is true for most men here, when the SB asks for money right up front, a big warning sign goes off. They are either a ripoff or nando1 neither of which you want to get involved with. Good luck brother.

BAM.

No I'm not considering giving her 2000 up front. Never had a Sb so I'm looking for info on how it generally works. If its gift per visit it doesn't seem to be any different than any other encounter. And yes pics seem TGTBT but I'm not wiring / sending her anything so that part will work it's self out.

[QUOTE=Cincyfunguy;2506140]Are you saying that you would actually CONSIDER giving upwards of 2,000 to someone you don't know, and even already suspect as someone TGTBT? Seriously?[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=LookBig;2504002]I have a possible sugar baby. Don't really know how to go about it, she sent me a pic looks TGTBT but wishful thinking has me ready to meet her. But she needs 2000 to take care of something. I know I can't give it all to her up front. But don't know how I should go about it. Any info would be great thanks.[/QUOTE]Look.

I'd have to sit and question why I'd want to spend 2 K on something. Let alone a piece of girl from SA.

I'm not telling you "don't do that," because, well, we're men and we're stubborn.

With that said, follow my simple checklist: 1.) does her initial email seem like a form email? 2.) Do her pictures come back on tineye or others? 3.) Does the name she give me and her phone number match up? 4.) is she hiding her relationship status on facebook? 5.) is there a constant stream of drama from her?

If the answer to ANY of the above is yes, drop all contact and move elsewhere. Period.

Haven't asked for her facebook thanks that was helpful.

[QUOTE=MisforMaster;2506515]Look.

I'd have to sit and question why I'd want to spend 2 K on something. Let alone a piece of girl from SA.

I'm not telling you "don't do that," because, well, we're men and we're stubborn.

With that said, follow my simple checklist: 1.) does her initial email seem like a form email? 2.) Do her pictures come back on tineye or others? 3.) Does the name she give me and her phone number match up? 4.) is she hiding her relationship status on facebook? 5.) is there a constant stream of drama from her?

If the answer to ANY of the above is yes, drop all contact and move elsewhere. Period.[/QUOTE].

I just ended an exchange with a POT on SA using the profile title Red. She does not show when I search for her name. She approached me. Here is an attempt at a link.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e4ab6498/view?conversation-inbox[/URL]

She said her name was Kate and she gave me her number. PM if you want to know what it is. Neither number nor pics returned any hits. She wants $500/ date but will take $200. Two things triggered my spidey sense: 1) she mentioned sex and money in the same text message and later did the same in a PM. 2) She refuses to meet in a public place. Instead, she insisted on having the first meeting at my place or a hotel.

If you are chatting with her, be very. Very careful.

BAM.

So I took the SA leap for a month to see if anything good happened. Holy cow. While there is a fair share of hookers willing to meet by the hour, I've met and banged two SB's so far (two weeks in) at the cost of some sushi and wine on date one at my place (22 yoa, chunky but willing and able, if not a little off in the head. The second (and way hotter, professional job, bad divorce, wants a little fun, 30 something) came over Saturday, we went to a nice dinner, then sex toy shopping on a whim and back to my place for an all night sex party. No money exchanged. She is an f-ing blast and wants to keep coming over. Hasn't said word one about paying her bills or giving money. She just likes to drink wine, eat food and fuck like a champ. I have several more on the line who'll be visiting before long. This may be the long lost holy grail if you're willing to wade through the ones who just want money to hold your hand and get to the ones who first and foremost want to fuck like rabbits and worry about the financial stuff later.

[QUOTE=BradAM;2509026]I just ended an exchange with a POT on SA using the profile title Red. She does not show when I search for her name. She approached me. Here is an attempt at a link.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e4ab6498/view?conversation-inbox[/URL]

She said her name was Kate and she gave me her number. PM if you want to know what it is. Neither number nor pics returned any hits. She wants $500/ date but will take $200. Two things triggered my spidey sense: 1) she mentioned sex and money in the same text message and later did the same in a PM. 2) She refuses to meet in a public place. Instead, she insisted on having the first meeting at my place or a hotel.

If you are chatting with her, be very. Very careful.

BAM.[/QUOTE]She looks oddly familiar. But I can't place her.

MM.

I had a MnG with "Betty. " She is legit but our schedules are not going to overlap for now. She has some odd looking pics that had me a bit worried when I first saw them. I now understand better. Seniors can PM me if they want some background.

BAM.

[QUOTE=LookBig;2506547]Haven't asked for her facebook thanks that was helpful.

.[/QUOTE]Before you ask, go to facebook and search with her email address.

Decided to try the SB site and so far it works. Too bad I'm a broke ass. Missed quite a few but can't complain.

I keep a secure, running log of the women I contact and evaluate on several of the SB sites. I ignore women outside my target zone. I am also pretty good at online research. Some of you here have used me to help build a dossier on POT's. I have a good rotation at present (slogan: I have too many women!) but I am addicted to the hunt. I would like to see us create a local thread as good as the Richmond thread. I have decided to start sharing info on profiles that I have not "adopted. " I am also willing to share my research with any seniors who contact me by PM. Are there others here who value cooperation over competition between us SD's?

BAM.

[QUOTE=KnightWish69;2512762]Decided to try the SB site and so far it works. Too bad I'm a broke ass. Missed quite a few but can't complain.[/QUOTE]There are some strategies that will let you get SB's for free. Some are despicable; other simply require time and patience. Which site have you tried?

BAM.

[QUOTE=BradAM;2513287]I keep a secure, running log of the women I contact and evaluate on several of the SB sites. I ignore women outside my target zone. I am also pretty good at online research. Some of you here have used me to help build a dossier on POT's. I have a good rotation at present (slogan: I have too many women!) but I am addicted to the hunt. I would like to see us create a local thread as good as the Richmond thread. I have decided to start sharing info on profiles that I have not "adopted. " I am also willing to share my research with any seniors who contact me by PM. Are there others here who value cooperation over competition between us SD's?

BAM.[/QUOTE]Competition evens the playing field.

A few of us have already done the same thing -- I'll send you a message tonight (as long as I don't forget).

MM.

I just got a pm from an Atlanta SB saying the following:

[QUOTE]You profile intrigues me and you sound like fun. Hope your having a great day. I am traveling to your area to meet some friends in the next week. Would love to chat more and discuss the possibilities.[/QUOTE]She invited me to set up a three-way with my regular SB. (That's not happening.).

She sounds pro. Has anyone else been contacted? Has she volunteered a rate?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e9599af1/view[/URL]

BAM.

This one contacted me and offered to drive the same day from Muncie to see me.

[URL]http://www.sugardaddyforme.com/sugar-babies/in/muncie/blondie972[/URL]

Her profile picture traces to Helga Crawford in Beverly Hills. I asked her to send me some better photos to my email. She used [EMAIL]laurenblondie972@yahoo.com[/EMAIL] to answer and sent me pics from a porn model named Gisele. When I said I was disappointed because her pics looked so much like Gisele, she went silent.

If anyone has had better success, please let me know.

BAM.

This one turns up as Fin Dom and Fem Dom. I think I have encountered other profiles by her.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e3c440df/view[/URL]

[URL]https://twitter.com/jennamistress[/URL]

Good luck if you are seeking that kind of thing.

BAM.

Yes same message. Yet she went silent LOL.

[QUOTE=BradAM;2525534]I just got a pm from an Atlanta SB saying the following:

She invited me to set up a three-way with my regular SB. (That's not happening.).

She sounds pro. Has anyone else been contacted? Has she volunteered a rate?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e9599af1/view[/URL]

BAM.[/QUOTE]

Same thing up here in cmh, back and forth, then silent. Fishing?

[QUOTE=EuroInCincy;2532130]Yes same message. Yet she went silent LOL.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BradAM;2509026]I just ended an exchange with a POT on SA using the profile title Red. She does not show when I search for her name. She approached me. Here is an attempt at a link.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e4ab6498/view?conversation-inbox[/URL]

She said her name was Kate and she gave me her number. PM if you want to know what it is. Neither number nor pics returned any hits. She wants $500/ date but will take $200. Two things triggered my spidey sense: 1) she mentioned sex and money in the same text message and later did the same in a PM. 2) She refuses to meet in a public place. Instead, she insisted on having the first meeting at my place or a hotel.

If you are chatting with her, be very. Very careful.

BAM.[/QUOTE]Yes, was chatting back & forth with her for a bit. Got her number also, she's very forward, can't host, wants to visit your house, asks for $500, will take $200, and like you said, spidey senses itchin' like crazy. She sent me an email with more explicit photos, said she was vacation till June 25, then went back to work in Kenwood area. Wanted to come by before work. Never texted her back, now her profile is "Unavailable".

[QUOTE=BradAM;2525534]I just got a pm from an Atlanta SB saying the following:

She invited me to set up a three-way with my regular SB. (That's not happening.).

She sounds pro. Has anyone else been contacted? Has she volunteered a rate?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e9599af1/view[/URL]

BAM.[/QUOTE]Yes, got the same message, word for word, that you did. Wanted to meet over the weekend, told her I had Sunday (today) sorta free. Then wanted to know about my coming week schedule for a possible meet.

I asked, "To meet about what exactly?" as the only thing I know about 'her' is what she sent in her message. She never quoted me a rate, perhaps that's coming in her next reply. Strange though it seems. I've got my 10 ft. Pole handy, but even that might not be long enough. LOL.

[QUOTE=CincyGuy50;2532268]Yes, was chatting back & forth with her for a bit. Got her number also, she's very forward, can't host, wants to visit your house, asks for $500, will take $200, and like you said, spidey senses itchin' like crazy. She sent me an email with more explicit photos, said she was vacation till June 25, then went back to work in Kenwood area. Wanted to come by before work. Never texted her back, now her profile is "Unavailable".[/QUOTE]I can still see her profile but she revoked my rights to see her private pics. It was only one shot showing some saggy tits. Not at all attractive.

BAM.

[QUOTE=BradAM;2509026]I just ended an exchange with a POT on SA using the profile title Red. She does not show when I search for her name. She approached me. Here is an attempt at a link.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e4ab6498/view?conversation-inbox[/URL]

She said her name was Kate and she gave me her number. PM if you want to know what it is. Neither number nor pics returned any hits. She wants $500/ date but will take $200. Two things triggered my spidey sense: 1) she mentioned sex and money in the same text message and later did the same in a PM. 2) She refuses to meet in a public place. Instead, she insisted on having the first meeting at my place or a hotel.

If you are chatting with her, be very. Very careful.

BAM.[/QUOTE]I have been chatting her up too. She told me she lives on the West Side and her profile says Cleves. I have her number also.

I've got a full stable of SB's and more POTS than I can handle.

Thanks for sharing your intel.

Joe.

She has send me some nice video's LOL.

And more info is available to the ones who have had coffee with me.

[QUOTE=JoeBogus;2533477]I have been chatting her up too. She told me she lives on the West Side and her profile says Cleves. I have her number also.

I've got a full stable of SB's and more POTS than I can handle.

Thanks for sharing your intel.

Joe.[/QUOTE]

I Love Cincy's SB scene, but, if you guys want something insane, you should come to Miami.

I've been down here since last week, and I'm having lunch, dinner, and drinks with different girls (ranging between an "Ohio 8" and a "Miami 10") basically every day. Including one 6'1 tall blond Russian bombshell with a spinner body with no baby fat who's trying to get me to marry her, with allowances anywhere between $200/ week and $1000/ week.

It *really* makes me want to move down here!

Here is why. They say you get 10 free msgs when SD has one approved photo. I sent a message after meeting the photo obligation and they changed my message to a standard message - 'hi, you caught my attention, do you want to have an arrangement?' - what good is that message. Their staff is creepy to moderate even the free messages. Net, no trial of this site whatsoever. Unless you spend some crazy membership dues. Who knows!

[QUOTE=ChickaAmante;2536328]Here is why. They say you get 10 free msgs when SD has one approved photo. I sent a message after meeting the photo obligation and they changed my message to a standard message - 'hi, you caught my attention, do you want to have an arrangement?' - what good is that message. Their staff is creepy to moderate even the free messages. Net, no trial of this site whatsoever. Unless you spend some crazy membership dues. Who knows![/QUOTE]I'm here to tell you, it'll be the best $80 you'll spend. You'll get so much pussy flying at you for various arrangements. Weed through them, pick a few out and start fucking! It's almost too much pussy. LOL. I've settled in on this one hot POA that just wants to fuck. No money involved. I took her to a nice dinner. We went away for the 4th and spent the entire time banging. She wants to bang my other civilian girl (24 years old, fucks like banshee and hasn't asked for a dime). Spend the money for one month and you'll be happy. I promise.

[QUOTE=EuroInCincy;2534314]She has send me some nice video's LOL.

And more info is available to the ones who have had coffee with me.[/QUOTE]Can I get the videos?

BAM.

[QUOTE=MisforMaster;2535940]I Love Cincy's SB scene, but, if you guys want something insane, you should come to Miami.

I've been down here since last week, and I'm having lunch, dinner, and drinks with different girls (ranging between an "Ohio 8" and a "Miami 10") basically every day. Including one 6'1 tall blond Russian bombshell with a spinner body with no baby fat who's trying to get me to marry her, with allowances anywhere between $200/ week and $1000/ week.

It *really* makes me want to move down here![/QUOTE]Remember the lesson of Icarus and don't fly too close to the sun. All that great action may leave you with a sugar hangover when you have to come back to SWO.

BAM.

[QUOTE=ChickaAmante;2536328]Here is why. They say you get 10 free msgs when SD has one approved photo. I sent a message after meeting the photo obligation and they changed my message to a standard message - 'hi, you caught my attention, do you want to have an arrangement?' - what good is that message. Their staff is creepy to moderate even the free messages. Net, no trial of this site whatsoever. Unless you spend some crazy membership dues. Who knows![/QUOTE]In my experience, it is the only site in this area that produces active leads.

BAM.

Some of you guys are messing it up for the rest of us! Here is a link to a local SB. She claims to have made $15 K from four different SD's over the last three months and did nothing more than go to dinner and exchange texts. Have any of you guys been in contact with her?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1d36f7e/view[/URL]

OK, fess up: which of you guys is doing this?

BAM.

BTW, from her pictures, she appears to be a dancer and one of the pics is from inside a hotel room.

I would agree. It is a great site and lots of activity for a small investment of time and money. I have [URL]even.com[/URL]e across a few familiar faces out there.

I just deactivated my membership; for a short time. It was up for renewal again and I have too many to keep track of. There are many attractive women on there. You'd be amazed at what a nice dinner and / or minimal time or money spent will get you. I have met several; ranging in age from 19 - 43.

FYI. Red is back from vacationing in Florida. She gave me the same story. I had some nice pics, but never pulled the plug. Something just doesn't seem right with her.

Happy hunting.

[QUOTE=BradAM;2536450]In my experience, it is the only site in this area that produces active leads.

BAM.[/QUOTE]

This member on SA that is a potential scammer / Pro. Email address is [EMAIL]hoe4today@gmail.com[/EMAIL] so that tells you something. Email header says kristen stinkpuss. Really?

Her first PM to me in SA "my needs, well I need money to pay for my vehicle, and my costs of classes for school and a place to live. I need new clothes and shoes terribly. Do you think we can make an arrangement of some sort. ".

Her first email message to me "well I am looking to make money fast. I need to make my car payments, pay on some bills I'm behind on, and maybe some extra spending money. In return I tend to what ever needs you may have. I can meet as much as you like me too. Thanks for getting back to me. My cell number is 513-xxx-0871".

It only got stranger once the texts started. I did not follow up. Batavia / Amelia is too far for me anyway.

When I was playing on SA, some told me of the high donations and others of companionship without sex. I said fine, goodbye and wished them well. Most contacted later offering sex for a much lower price. Don't believe everything you hear.

KC.

[QUOTE=BradAM;2537492]Some of you guys are messing it up for the rest of us! Here is a link to a local SB. She claims to have made $15 K from four different SD's over the last three months and did nothing more than go to dinner and exchange texts. Have any of you guys been in contact with her?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1d36f7e/view[/URL]

OK, fess up: which of you guys is doing this?

BAM.

BTW, from her pictures, she appears to be a dancer and one of the pics is from inside a hotel room.[/QUOTE]