We ALL need the lesson...
A Man, I truly feel badly for you, and hope you've learned from your experience. Please read the 22 rules for mongering, especially rules 12-16 and I think you'll see how this set-up occured. I am a firm believer in never doing incalls. There is simply too much that can happen. At a provider's home could be cameras (I saw a new one outside of Detroit in a store that specializes in these kind of things) that is as small as a coat button! Not just the lens, the whole camera! This in addition to the other possible perils of husband/boyfriend/pimp busting into the house and robbing the hobbiest, etc. There are so many others, it simply isn't worth the few extra bucks savings on a motel room. Always use YOUR location if you're looking to take a provider (SW or Escort) there. No, not your home, A hotel/motel of course is always best. And NOT their choice of hotels. YOUR choice. On the streets, if you want automobile action, there is one safe place (minimum) in EVERY area of town where I've never heard of the po-po busting anyone. I hesitate to put it on here because LE spends as much time on the board as anyone else and will readily see it and try to put a stop to it as well. Even PMs aren't good for disseminating the info because you never know when you're PMing LEO himself! Remember, to become a senior member it only takes 25 posts. Any one of the Senior Members could also be LEO! But go to a spot of YOUR choice, not hers! In fact, don't EVER say to the SW "Do you know of somewhere around here where we can park without interruption" that is just begging to get robbed! If you're out Mongering in a particular area, you should have scouted the area first to figure out where you'd take her if you DO pick someone up! If anyone knows a way I can get word out of where my personal choice is without worrying that it will fall under closer LEO scrutiny, please let me know!
But you've learned a valuable lesson. I sure hope it stops here for you and the blackmailers don't continue to demand more.
Good Luck to us all.