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[QUOTE=JustLooking30;2783489]Haha, my wife has done the same thing to me plenty of times. She must have been married too![/QUOTE]Yeah. Not going back there. She said after 10 visits you get one free. It's not worth the money to me to then have self serve.
That is crazy! She made you pay her for you to stroke yourself. That is the ultimate pimp move if I ever heard of one. I would have been livid walking out of there. Flipping chairs and tables over. But what I am confused about is why YOU would.
Leave a tip?
[QUOTE=ScottyWilk;2783932]Yeah. Not going back there. She said after 10 visits you get one free. It's not worth the money to me to then have self serve.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=MarriedCtBull;2793081]That is crazy! She made you pay her for you to stroke yourself. That is the ultimate pimp move if I ever heard of one. I would have been livid walking out of there. Flipping chairs and tables over. But what I am confused about is why YOU would.
Leave a tip?[/QUOTE]I left a small tip because the massage was fantastic.
[QUOTE=MarriedCtBull;2793081]That is crazy! She made you pay her for you to stroke yourself. That is the ultimate pimp move if I ever heard of one. I would have been livid walking out of there. Flipping chairs and tables over. But what I am confused about is why YOU would.
Leave a tip?[/QUOTE]This is not an unusual move in a suburban location where they fear the heat.
Been told that is the practice in Wethersfield, and in the old spot in Glastonbury near the E. H. Line that is out of business.
Has to be pretty hard for them to stick to those limits these days with all the competition offering HJs these days.
But a good massage is worth a small tip.
Ok guys, I've posted about wanting to try to go to a AMP and get a lady rub down. Not exactly what I wanted but I wanted a playful massage. I attended this Meriden establishment once before and laid on my stomach and got a good massage for $40. I know everyone says this spot is a dud but I tried it again (with my frequent rubs card). I felt like if they knew I was here before maybe I could talk my way into some boobie play.
Well I paid for my 1 hour it was just like before just more leg rubbing and such. When it was done I told her I wanted more. Told her I wanted to flip and have her rub my chest too. She went out came back in and mama said 30 min more $30 and put the clock in there!! Eff it, I was on a mission and I wanted to see how far I could take it.
There was no direct boobie play but at times a very sensual massage. Rubbing just under my underwear but not too far. She was constantly telling me how "beautiful" my body is and even at one point popped out a tit so I see hers. I gave a little feel. But that was the extent of it. I know I should try other establishments but I feel like If I am a frequent "flyer" that should count for something? NO?
Just wanted to share my experience. When I get the funds up I will try again and post.
[QUOTE=BBJudy;2941006]Ok guys, I've posted about wanting to try to go to a AMP and get a lady rub down. Not exactly what I wanted but I wanted a playful massage. I attended this Meriden establishment once before and laid on my stomach and got a good massage for $40. I know everyone says this spot is a dud but I tried it again (with my frequent rubs card). I felt like if they knew I was here before maybe I could talk my way into some boobie play.
Well I paid for my 1 hour it was just like before just more leg rubbing and such. When it was done I told her I wanted more. Told her I wanted to flip and have her rub my chest too. She went out came back in and mama said 30 min more $30 and put the clock in there!! Eff it, I was on a mission and I wanted to see how far I could take it.
There was no direct boobie play but at times a very sensual massage. Rubbing just under my underwear but not too far. She was constantly telling me how "beautiful" my body is and even at one point popped out a tit so I see hers. I gave a little feel. But that was the extent of it. I know I should try other establishments but I feel like If I am a frequent "flyer" that should count for something? NO?
Just wanted to share my experience. When I get the funds up I will try again and post.[/QUOTE]That's all you'll get if you leave your underwear on. You sent them a message that you don't want to be touched. Don't be a pussy. Strip.
LOL I didn't know!! I'm new! I need to learn the ways!
[QUOTE=Troutman;2941731]That's all you'll get if you leave your underwear on. You sent them a message that you don't want to be touched. Don't be a pussy. Strip.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BBJudy;2941006]Ok guys, I've posted about wanting to try to go to a AMP and get a lady rub down. Not exactly what I wanted but I wanted a playful massage. I attended this Meriden establishment once before and laid on my stomach and got a good massage for $40. I know everyone says this spot is a dud but I tried it again (with my frequent rubs card). I felt like if they knew I was here before maybe I could talk my way into some boobie play.
Well I paid for my 1 hour it was just like before just more leg rubbing and such. When it was done I told her I wanted more. Told her I wanted to flip and have her rub my chest too. She went out came back in and mama said 30 min more $30 and put the clock in there!! Eff it, I was on a mission and I wanted to see how far I could take it.
There was no direct boobie play but at times a very sensual massage. Rubbing just under my underwear but not too far. She was constantly telling me how "beautiful" my body is and even at one point popped out a tit so I see hers. I gave a little feel. But that was the extent of it. I know I should try other establishments but I feel like If I am a frequent "flyer" that should count for something? NO?
Just wanted to share my experience. When I get the funds up I will try again and post.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Troutman;2941731]That's all you'll get if you leave your underwear on. You sent them a message that you don't want to be touched. Don't be a pussy. Strip.[/QUOTE]I agree with Truotman, you need to be fully nude. AMP 101 is to be naked when the girl comes into the room. Keeping the skivvies on is tell the masseuse that you are only there for a rub down. If it is a place that offers a table shower take it and be fully nude and sitting up when the girl come back to the room. When the massage starts while you are on your belly, spread your legs when she starts working on your lower end so she will know you are there for more than a massage. I have said it before and I will say it again, you need to visit Sun Star in New Haven. Follow the advice in the AMP's Tips and Guidelines thread [URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?2291-AMP-Tips-and-Guidelines[/URL] and I bet you will have the results you are looking for.
I can't wait to read about your future reports.
You guys know that BBJudy is a woman?
I'm not suggesting that this vitiates the validity of the advice about getting naked and being open about it, but I think she is right that her best chance is to keep going to the same spot.
Let me modify that. Her best chance is asking ME for a massage, but I gather that she wants a different type of experience.
Anyway, you do need to flaunt it, but you probably also have to find a masseuse who is comfortable working on women's private parts. Most of these ladies are extremely skilled at providing manual stimulation to the male organs, but they may have only touched one vulva in their lives.
[QUOTE=RayAlan;2941888]I agree with Truotman, you need to be fully nude. AMP 101 is to be naked when the girl comes into the room. Keeping the skivvies on is tell the masseuse that you are only there for a rub down. If it is a place that offers a table shower take it and be fully nude and sitting up when the girl come back to the room. When the massage starts while you are on your belly, spread your legs when she starts working on your lower end so she will know you are there for more than a massage. I have said it before and I will say it again, you need to visit Sun Star in New Haven. Follow the advice in the AMP's Tips and Guidelines thread [URL]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?2291-AMP-Tips-and-Guidelines[/URL] and I bet you will have the results you are looking for.
I can't wait to read about your future reports.[/QUOTE]
I think I am going to try that place again. Keep going back and see what I get. My panties were see through red lace and I really thought that would have been obvious enough. Then I asked to flip and if she would rub my boobs too, but Mama (B / C I asked for more time) told her stomach and upper chest. (I gather this from hand motions and the stink eye she gave me). I feel like this is going to be a lot harder than my freaky imagination saw it.
I am not quite sure WHY I want this experience but it seems very exciting and cheaper / safer than risking finding a chick on BP to do it. You guys are lucky. Go in, get a tug and done. When I go in, it's like "I don't belong".
[QUOTE=MrMike1952;2943522]You guys know that BBJudy is a woman?
I'm not suggesting that this vitiates the validity of the advice about getting naked and being open about it, but I think she is right that her best chance is to keep going to the same spot.
Let me modify that. Her best chance is asking ME for a massage, but I gather that she wants a different type of experience.
Anyway, you do need to flaunt it, but you probably also have to find a masseuse who is comfortable working on women's private parts. Most of these ladies are extremely skilled at providing manual stimulation to the male organs, but they may have only touched one vulva in their lives.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BBJudy;2943694]I think I am going to try that place again. Keep going back and see what I get. My panties were see through red lace and I really thought that would have been obvious enough. Then I asked to flip and if she would rub my boobs too, but Mama (B / C I asked for more time) told her stomach and upper chest. (I gather this from hand motions and the stink eye she gave me). I feel like this is going to be a lot harder than my freaky imagination saw it.
I am not quite sure WHY I want this experience but it seems very exciting and cheaper / safer than risking finding a chick on BP to do it. You guys are lucky. Go in, get a tug and done. When I go in, it's like "I don't belong".[/QUOTE]Your last line hits the nail on the head. 95% of women don't go into these places and the ones that do usually start trouble for these places, are Aunt LEO or really want a legit massage and not what you want. May I make a suggestion, bring a guy with you and ask for a couples massage. Start playing with each other towards the end and have them get into it as well. Might work.
Tiger.
[QUOTE=BBJudy;2943694]I think I am going to try that place again. Keep going back and see what I get. My panties were see through red lace and I really thought that would have been obvious enough. Then I asked to flip and if she would rub my boobs too, but Mama (B / C I asked for more time) told her stomach and upper chest. (I gather this from hand motions and the stink eye she gave me). I feel like this is going to be a lot harder than my freaky imagination saw it.[/QUOTE]On the flip, when the masseuse is rubbing your front side, try placing your hand on hers and guide it to where you want to be rubbed. She may get the hint and be more accommodating. Also, like I said before, be totally nude, even see through lace panties are still panties.
[QUOTE=BBJudy;2943694]I am not quite sure WHY I want this experience but it seems very exciting and cheaper / safer than risking finding a chick on BP to do it. You guys are lucky. Go in, get a tug and done. When I go in, it's like "I don't belong".[/QUOTE]Exploring your sexuality is very healthy and mentally stimulating, especially when we delve into things that society generally frowns upon. Don't be quick to discard BP in your quest for an erotic massage. One advantage BP has over an AMP is you can speak to the provider before booking and ask her if she is willing to accommodate another female in the same way she would accommodate a male. It doesn't hurt or cost anything to ask.
Good luck and good hunting.
Obviously, a lot of guys here are rooting for you. There is definitely something that many of us find erotic about your quest. Keep us posted.
And, here is another idea. Perhaps if you went in as a part of a couple, and both you and your male companion arranged for a massage (separately, probably, with different ladies), this would make it more apparent what you are seeking and might put it a little more in their comfort zone.
But keep in mind, in this and most of the AMPs in CT. , they only provide manual services. It requires different skills to be able to get a woman off with only manual stimulation and, if I may say, I think it is probably harder. I mean more difficult.
[QUOTE=BBJudy;2943694]I think I am going to try that place again. Keep going back and see what I get. My panties were see through red lace and I really thought that would have been obvious enough. Then I asked to flip and if she would rub my boobs too, but Mama (B / C I asked for more time) told her stomach and upper chest. (I gather this from hand motions and the stink eye she gave me). I feel like this is going to be a lot harder than my freaky imagination saw it.
I am not quite sure WHY I want this experience but it seems very exciting and cheaper / safer than risking finding a chick on BP to do it. You guys are lucky. Go in, get a tug and done. When I go in, it's like "I don't belong".[/QUOTE]
Here is one more. Yes. Be naked. But also have a little battery operated vibrator and just use it when you are ready for her to rub you. Put that sucker right on your vag and really give her a good grinding and focus your whole attention on that. I'm sure she'll take the hint and help in various ways.
[QUOTE=MrMike1952;2946564]Obviously, a lot of guys here are rooting for you. There is definitely something that many of us find erotic about your quest. Keep us posted.
And, here is another idea. Perhaps if you went in as a part of a couple, and both you and your male companion arranged for a massage (separately, probably, with different ladies), this would make it more apparent what you are seeking and might put it a little more in their comfort zone.
But keep in mind, in this and most of the AMPs in CT. , they only provide manual services. It requires different skills to be able to get a woman off with only manual stimulation and, if I may say, I think it is probably harder. I mean more difficult.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=WhenWhen;2947001]Here is one more. Yes. Be naked. But also have a little battery operated vibrator and just use it when you are ready for her to rub you. Put that sucker right on your vag and really give her a good grinding and focus your whole attention on that. I'm sure she'll take the hint and help in various ways.[/QUOTE]I think I would be really nervous about bringing this in. But it makes a lot of sense. Manually getting a woman off is tough. I don't know if I'm even looking for full on, O. Just the excitement of having the experience of being touched in an erotic way. I have watched more AMP porn in these last few weeks than I think I've watched porn in my entire life (And I watch a lot of porn!) just to see if I can find some pointers (yes, its porn. I know it's not the best reference).
I like the idea for couple's massage, I think that would really kick it off. But the guy in my life isn't into massages and I don't think shares my same fascination. And let's be honest here, clearly something is missing at home if I am on this hunt. So until then, keep your experiences coming (no pun I SWEAR! LOL) I like to hear about them and maybe something works for me as well.