Sexual Addiction Reports

zombie and civ2000,

I am half white and half native american. Thanks for the info. I am enjoying the asian party. I was just courious if I was a bit wierd now, since asian girls are the only ones that really turn me on. White still do a lil, mex not much, and black not much. I mean up to age 35 or so I thought asian girls were the worst looking girls around. Flat asses, lil or no boobs, slanted eyes, broken english, but now it's a complete turn on. I guess I'm tired of seeing fat or plump older american girls with stretch marks, cellulite and other turnoffs.

Zombie if you find that info on the journel let me know.


[QUOTE=PsyberZombie]You don't mention your own race , but sociologists have long recognized that when it comes to inter·racial relationships , by far the most common matchings are white man / asian woman ; and black man / white woman

Think about it = when was the last time you saw a couple that was asian man / black woman ??

Those last two demographic groups are also the ones least likely to be married or other·wise involved in long·term relationships

I'll see if I can dig up the article were I read that ; and the explanation for WHY it occurs = it originally was printed in a journal called NATIONAL REVIEW

Mean·while = Be a smarty !! Enjoy your Asian Party !![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=asain_ucker]
Zombie if you find that info on the journel let me know.[/QUOTE]

Here's an 'Abstract' of the article in question =

Is Love Colorblind?
By: Sailer, Steve
7/14/1997

The article analyzes interracial marriage and its impact upon Asian men and Afro American women. According to the 1960 to the 1990 Census, white-Asian married couples increased almost tenfold, while Afro American-white couples quadrupled. The reasons cited for the increase are greater integration and decline of white racism. The problem for Asian men and Afro American women is that intermarriage does not treat every sex/race combination equality. The article cites facts about intermarriage and how they violate conventional sociological theories.

In the following link, here is a guy (Clandestine72) that got caught by his S/O.

This is one of the many of the reasons why this sport is so dangerous BUT yet so enjoyable at the same time because of [b]A Danger That Lurks Around The Corner[/b].

The report can be found on the January thread of "Other Reports" in the state of Texas, fiscal year 2005. Needless to say, the wife wrote a report, then i guess he logged on and view what his wife wrote "Yikes!"

Since then, has either used another alliace on the forum or is no longer participating in the sport, or at least publically he may not !

This is an example of what may be the consequences of an addiction, events like this make people change, usually for the better !

-007

[url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=333500&postcount=1[/url]

Z3,

I saw that report previously.

There are so many ways to get tripped up in this hobby, from credit card receipts to those toll paying devices in our cars to computer footprints. People in general don't realize what a trail of crumbs we leave behind during our everyday activities.

Just between us though, that guy was dumb to not at least password protect his computer if his SO had access to it. Lesson learned the hard way.

I went back and read his previous posts. Compared to me, he was pretty tame. She probably would have castrated me in my sleep. From her high and mighty tone, I'll bet he is better off without her.

Muff Scout

Im in south carolina near greenville, you know your addicted when u go to one of the amps and have done the 3 girls there , and then go to one of the brothels nearby and have done the 2 ladies there, then at another amp, Im so close to them they baked me a birthday cake and eat lunch with them at least once aweek but no extras at this amp just a friendly atmosphere type thing, is it I enjoy the latter amps company and they make me feel not guilty. ?? oh well , sometimes Im good fora month or so then just got to have some ??

[QUOTE=Z3bondeye]In the following link, here is a guy (Clandestine72) that got caught by his S/O.
...
This is an example of what may be the consequences of an addiction, events like this make people change, usually for the better !

-007

[url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showpost.php?p=333500&postcount=1[/url][/QUOTE]

Quite agree, Z3. Reading that was tough to face. I wanted to look away but made myself absorb every word. To see things from the perspective of the lover who's being betrayed. There were simpler times when I didn't need this... complication in my life and I really wish I could find a time like that again.

3rdI

I went back and read the entire thread and came away with a few observations. Your posts really gave me cause to think in more detail about the subject which I have never done before.

First, it appears that those mongers who are primarily feeling gilt are the ones who are either married or have SO. I didn't sense these guilt feelings coming from single guys as much.

Second, was the distinction or definition between a hobby and an addiction. While they may appear to be similar at first glance, they are quite different. I agree with those who say an addiction is an uncontrollable urge to do something that may have negative consequences.

Third, betrayal and hurting of a loved one appears to be the primary reason for feeling guilty for your actions.

Fourth, sexual addiction, like any other addiction, is a very hard thing to break and there are often relapses to contend with.

Fifth, to best deal with your addiction, you will first need to be sincere in wanting to rid yourself of it and be willing to undergo considerable counseling to understand the root causes of it and attend various support groups.

Six, recovery is a constant uphill battle and a day-to-day thing.

This is really an interesting topic and has given my a lot of food for thought. I really appreciate everyone's willingness to share their opinions.

BBB

Bad boy u make a lot of sense, I fall into a lot of those catergories, but hey im 56 yold so better get while i can.

Passwords are good. If you erase your history and your SO is half savvy then the very erasure is an automatic conviction. Try using a different browser entirely. And use a different windows login ID too. But then theres keystroke trackers and there's no hiding from those. Anything you can do to monitor your kids she can do to monitor you. Makes me glad for this short moment that I'm totally single right now.

I have found that running a LiveCD version of the Linux Operating System offers very good security. Nothing is saved on your hard drive. The best part is that it doesn't use Microsoft Windows for anything!

To learn more visit: [url]http://www.knoppix.org/[/url]

Fred

[QUOTE=Fred Reed]I have found that running a LiveCD version of the Linux Operating System offers very good security. Nothing is saved on your hard drive. The best part is that it doesn't use Microsoft Windows for anything!

To learn more visit: [url]http://www.knoppix.org/[/url]

Fred[/QUOTE]

You'd think a senior member would be smart enough to post security information here:

[url]http://usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?t=371&page=1[/url]

rather than in the middle of a thread on sexual addiction. But what do I know?

[QUOTE=Block Partier] But then theres keystroke trackers and there's no hiding from those.[/QUOTE]


Oh my friend, I am most happy to report to you here and now that you are mistaken. Sometimes it's nice to be wrong eh? Keyloggers are actually very simple little devices. If it is a piece of software, spybot will find it and kill it: end of discussion. If it's hardware, it's a little more complicated than running spybot, but once you know it's there (either between your keyboard and the big box under your desk - or the card type that slides under the keyboard itself) than what's stopping you from fucking with it?

I promise you that if you google "keylogger hack" you'll see that it is easier than you think to simply reprogram the EEPROM memory with whatever you'd want: or desolder it, or fill it to capacity with Lorem Ipsum Text... whatever.

Google is your friend. So are drop out EE students.

Benchseats Rock

I find myself falling in love with so many of the great escorts I have used.

We wonder why we are addicted to amp's well a hot 25 or 30 yr old beautiful gives you a wonderful hot shower drys you off, always friendly to every detail drys you off, gives u a wonderful massage sucks u then does u and then we wonder why we like to go do it, in my city I have 2 that are great and convient to me. Oh well.

[QUOTE=Benchseats Rock]

Google is your friend. So are drop out EE students.

Benchseats Rock[/QUOTE]Yep, Google is a friend. I was looking up what kind of spyware LE uses. Seems they have programs that many of the large vendors of PC protection programs have agreed to overlook. So LE can spy and not be detected. Of course they would never abuse the capability I am sure. This is a nation with the rule of law after all. BTW, Kaspersky was named as one of the vendors that refuses to cooperate with LE.

HW