...someone has to be paranoid in this hobby. It may as well be me!
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...someone has to be paranoid in this hobby. It may as well be me!
Frank
[QUOTE=Frank99]Thanks for the responses. I have a dumb question. Everyone says they dont keep personal information after the visit. How can they vouch for you if they dont keep your information?????
Feel free to answer her or PM.
Frank[/QUOTE]
Frankly Frank, I think you answered your own question. Most regular escorts do keep information. I have been out of the using escorts for a few years but had a real tough time giving out to much when I did. What I used in a pinch when I had to come up with a reference, especially when travelling, I would use preselected escort name or names that was somewhat known but said that it had been 6 months or a year previously since I had seen them hoping that either no one checked or the reference(s) didn't remember.
With a little B.S. and acting like you know your way around I don't think you will have too much of a problem.
Can't say if this approach is bullet proof but I never had a problem doing that.
Paland, I did speak to one provider who seemed to back off of the restrictions a bit when I began to show some witty banter. So, I suppose you are right. Not all is as it is stated originally with escorts. Thanks for the advice on this one. I think I just need to think more creatively here.
I usually tell them, hey bottom line here is you are offering a service and I want to be a customer. Then I ask them this, Ok you want a reference right, let's assume I see you, and a month from now I go to see someone else, how are you gonna feel when she calls you? Basically you are asking me to give you all of the contact info for someone I have seen. What if you happene to ULE? Where does that leave her? Not to mention that now, my regular girl, has you calling, next time I see her, it is going to be ackward.
Next thing I do is see someone who will see and give without having in advance. If you need to know one who will PM me. Trusted members only. My time on the board is sparse, do not expect a response quickly.
Most of the cheaper high volume girls on cl don't ask for references. The higher dollar lower volume escorts on e & cb are a little more cautious. Giving your name cell # employment info should not be a problem. Email the escort & determine if she has a brain in her head. If you think she is going to call your work place & explain to whoever is answering the phone that she is a hooker checking to see if you are le , than don't give her your information. If no woman for any reason would ever call your work place & ask for you , then don't give her your info. Use your big head to keep out of trouble. There are escorts that are not that fussy about references , you can find one. I am seeing one of the traveling girls on Friday at the inner harbor. This is my 2nd time with her. I gave her my work info the first time but she never checked.
The first time I was ever asked for references I gave the name and number of another Eros provider. 5 minutes after hanging up, she called me back and scheduled the appointment. I had never seen that other Eros girl. So much for checking references.
Only once was I asked for contact information other then my cell. I would never give that out.
Horsetrader
Went to the W/W Loop on Tuesday not many SW out in the downpour. Thanks to wireless internet ( ain’t technology great) saw Tammies add on CL, she was not the girl in the CL picture but looked as good. The pictures are from a provider in LA, Baldy Cruiser posted some of her pics. Tammie actually had a better body 36D-26-38. She is 19 pretty, pleasant, accommodating and easy to schedule, she picks up and is available on short notice. She has a row house incall off of Hollins Ferry East of Patapsaco Avenue, so if you are running the W/W and B/CB and come up empty this an alternative. I went up to her bed room not much furniture, quilt on the floor but the pussy is good. She has a very firm body and plenty of curves. Started with CBJ, DATY was clean sweet and she came in my mouth. All positions were on the menu you gotta hit this from behind. This girl will really let you pound her If you like a slim waist and nice round booty this girl is not to be missed.
Appearance 8
Body 9
Service 8
Overall 8 would have been a 9 but she used fake photo.
[QUOTE=Frank99]I am not sure that this question belongs here but I thought I would ask. I have been looking at escort listings on eros and other sites. So many of them require references before hand. Well, this scene is new to me. I am not sure what to do. If anyone has any advice. I am very secretive and really don't want to give out information. But if you look at my past posts, you will see that I am most definitely a hobbyist!
What should I do? Also, if you want to PM any information that is fine too.
Thanks.
Frank[/QUOTE]Most of the CL girls do not require references, they want the money right now no Bullshit, or just look up girl on eros and give info. I just saw tammie on CL did not even ask for refernces. Be warned when the don't ask for references, you will have to play R U A COP when you meet.
Is there a method any of y'all use when see a CL girl for incall?
How do you avoid a potential sting?
I mean, I think I am pretty good at scoping a BS ad versus a legit ad.
What type of steps should you take to stay safe?
I figure one thing I would never do is mention money at all...From the phone convo to getting to her incall location...In the past, most girls don't talk money until the deed is done, which I would guess is smart for both.
If the girl asks for money up front, how should you respond? Or does the average girl know not to do this?
Anyway, if there is some kind of procedure to keep you from getting stung, please drop knowledge or point me to a good resource!
[QUOTE=Meltyman]Is there a method any of y'all use when see a CL girl for incall?
How do you avoid a potential sting?[/QUOTE]First off, realize that if you show up at an incall location and it turns out to be a police sting, you're up shit creek no matter what. What are you going to tell the judge if it comes to that -- "Your Honor, I thought she just wanted me to come over and screw her; I didn't know there was any money involved, and I never even read that 'erotic services' heading thing on Craigslist"? The judge will look at you like you've got two heads, say something like, "Do you think I'm a moron, boy?", and then find your ass guilty-as-charged. Don't expect to be able to plead your way out of a maximum sentence, either -- usually, the judge has some discretion about whether to just fine you or include some jail time, but if you feed him some bullshit, you may find yourself in the lockup for a while.
Your best bet is to not see anyone who doesn't have some established reputation. If she's been reviewed here, or some reputable escort-review sites, you're almost certainly OK; I've never heard of guys getting stung by providers mentioned at those sites. Girls getting busted by cops pretending to be clients, yes, but not the other way around. It's a safety thing -- a busted "client" might freak out and hurt the undercover officer if she's not got backup close at hand, and it's more work than a cheapo solicitation bust is worth to set up a sting like that.
Whatever you do, if any mention of drugs is made, end things right then and there. If she asks you to score some coke and bring it with you, and you don't know this chick, you're just begging to get busted. If you show up and she asks you to go with her to score before you do anything, loudly proclaim that you would never do anything like that, and get the fuck out of there. While solicitation might not be worth their time, drugs are most definitely worth their time.
Honestly, your most likely problem is some kind of ripoff. CL girls are very much hit-and-miss about actually providing any services. I've had good luck before, and some awful luck, too. Be prepared to walk out if things aren't as advertised, and think carefully about whether you want to get belligerent if she starts raising hell over the issue. You might be able to handle yourself just fine as long as it's just you and her, but what if there's a coked-out pimp in the next room with a gun? Is it worth the $100 risk to you? Only you can decide for sure, but you'll certainly be happier if you think about it beforehand and come up with a plan.
Personally, I prefer to save my money and see a reputable escort instead of burning it on CL gambles. You can find decent local providers for $225-275, and anything on CL for less than $175-200 should be looked at with a very dubious eye. (OK, maybe something like Kandie's BJ special is OK, but otherwise...) The extra money is worth the peace of mind to me, and it isn't *that* much more expensive.
[QUOTE=Frank99]Thanks for the responses. I have a dumb question. Everyone says they dont keep personal information after the visit. How can they vouch for you if they dont keep your information?????[/QUOTE]They may keep something that is enough to remind them of who you are, or if something memorable happened, that might do it. In the process of chatting with one lady, I told her about a special deal at the National Aquarium, which made sure she remembered me as "super nice guy". They may also keep an email address as a reminder, too.
Then again, they might keep *all* the information you give them -- that's one of the risks we take in this hobby.
I had one lady who gave me a very nice session that ran a little long. A few minutes after I left, I got a call from her on my cell, saying, "Honey, my afternoon is a little hectic, can we bump our appointment back an hour?" She'd only kept the phone numbers and times of her afternoon appointments -- if she really had all my info at hand, she'd have known she was calling the wrong guy.
I was reading on WJZ's website today that Pamela Martin Associates was recently busted.
If anyone is into pregnant girls, Adrianna (see RAPS) works with DY
(dyvinedates.com) is 20 & pregnant and does it all.
I have never tried CL but I do like escorts.com. The girls usually have a few reviews and that makes me feel a little safe. Have not been ripped off but have been a little dissatisfied now & then.
Anyone know what happened to Kelly? She was in Tysons area and on CL.
I call up this one, listed on the bottome of page one, and she is real nice. Proceeds to give me directions to somewhere in pig town. All the while I am work. I am like will 60 cover french with an IM. She said sure but I'm not sure what IM is. I discreetly explain, and she says no, hell no, are fucking crazy? I said "You are the one in pig town, how much do you want?" She says "300". I say, "Babe, I mean no disrespect, but go look out your window. You see you neighbor out there? She will do it 10 time for that much. And BTW, when you said 'I have a totally open schedule' that is why, you need to get a fucking clue." She hung up on me, and honestly, she just beat me to it.
I am done with city paper!
$$$ for a Pigtown girl? You have to be kidding. What's it made of, gold? :D
Larry!