Seeking Arrangements

This past week I've had the opportunity to experience 2 of our local SA ladies and have left more than happy both times. One in kingsport, free and lots of fun if you don't mind a bit of extra weight: I usually won't with these type but I got quite a workout and have no complaints. The other was a JC lady that is new to the area. Fantastic and may become my atf. We'll see. If you see the jc gal don't be a dumb redneck as she isn't from here and she deserves to be WELL taken care of so we can keep her around!! Seniors ONLY can pm me for details (if you arent a senior or all your posts are only asking: I Will be brutal in my response).

Until next time: be safe out there!

Courney blaze is the real deal. Scheduling can be difficult as she works full time. 2. 5.

Seniors may pm for more details.

MotivatedQueenS. Fun in Asheville. Highly recommend. Treat her well and she will do the same.

Rider98 - if your lucky to see her a ton of fun once she loosens up. Treat her well.

Maybeyours127 - waste of time. Was high and 4 hours late. No apologies either. Was mechanical and there is way better for the price.

Summer is here boys. College ones will be storming in. Don't waste your cash or time on 2nd rate ones.

Here is some more info:

Sierramist2016: been in contact but extremely flaky, drifts in an out of communication and remembers nothing.

Pr! Ncessseni20693: has GPS. Guys if you are payin 3+, please stop as it's WAY over the going rate here. Nice chat but not worth that.

Traciii: looks hot by pics but is either insane or has the worst case of GPS this area has seen so far!

Sassyjo from WV: is good, new to this so still needs some practice, thin but sexy. Is coming to our area next week. Tell her sharky sent you.

Working on a few more. Ill let you know my findings. Hut as always be safe and for the sake of all that's holy: keep prices down!

[QUOTE=SharkyFuns99;3410453]Here is some more info:

Sierramist2016: been in contact but extremely flaky, drifts in an out of communication and remembers nothing.

Pr! Ncessseni20693: has GPS. Guys if you are paying 3+, please stop as it's WAY over the going rate here. Nice chat but not worth that.

Traciii: looks hot by pics but is either insane or has the worst case of GPS this area has seen so far!

Sassyjo from WV: is good, new to this so still needs some practice, thin but sexy. Is coming to our area next week. Tell her sharky sent you.

Working on a few more. Ill let you know my findings. Hut as always be safe and for the sake of all that's holy: keep prices down![/QUOTE]SassyJo from wv is a BP and CL girl. Everyone has a different idea of a SB.

Here is one close to Morristown.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/3c5b4aaa-403a-4b7d-bcb9-bd52e6365fb1[/URL]

Contacted a local in Newport that I found on SA a couple days ago. The market must be crazy, quoted 7 for a one stop shop.

[QUOTE=FroggTogg;3418040]Contacted a local in Newport that I found on SA a couple days ago. The market must be crazy, quoted 7 for a one stop shop.[/QUOTE]Well then give her 7 - inches.

Crystal: dark hair in pick, in jc, has some serious GPS going on, started the conversation with: "I don't think you can afford me but you can try". I nearly fell out of my chair laughing. Her looks based on profile and on fb says she's worth streetwalker rates. LOL.

Shaeshae91: in jc, dark skin, She flaked at the last minute after texting for a few day. Don't waste your time. Based on fb, she is friends with crystal, so its possible that she contracted a case of GPS after negotiations were done.

Lee118: jc. Actually in gray, She will talk and negotiate and the go silent.

Don't waste your time with these, and as always: stay safe out there.

[QUOTE=SharkyFuns99;3419555]Crystal: dark hair in pick, in jc, has some serious GPS going on, started the conversation with: "I don't think you can afford me but you can try". I nearly fell out of my chair laughing. Her looks based on profile and on fb says she's worth streetwalker rates. LOL.

Shaeshae91: in jc, dark skin, She flaked at the last minute after texting for a few day. Don't waste your time. Based on fb, she is friends with crystal, so its possible that she contracted a case of GPS after negotiations were done.

Lee118: jc. Actually in gray, She will talk and negotiate and the go silent.

Don't waste your time with these, and as always: stay safe out there.[/QUOTE]I'm getting really sick of the flakes on SA. My first few experiences with SA were fantastic, then it was a string of flakes and GPS with that one cash and dash from Carmen Sandiego. It's a shame.

There's some quality in Knoxville and Asheville, as far as I can tell, but a man doesn't want to make that kind of a drive just to play.

[QUOTE=StonesRoller69;3418581]Well then give her 7 - inches.[/QUOTE]Great minds think alike, she needs something to get her thinking straight.

I joined SA to see what might be available. I really hadn't had too much luck. I changed my profile a little to reflect that I do photography. I have had contact with a few young ladies about doing some photos. I left it up to them whether we have any other relations and I have stressed that I'm a pretty nice guy and wouldn't ask for anything more than they are comfortable with. I think now I have managed to collect digits on about four young ladies and I am in contact with a couple more. I haven't actually met any yet but strong possibilities for a little modeling if nothing else. I do have a couple that might extend into other things but I'm taking it pretty slow and building some trust. I am connected with four or five thru instagram and Facebook so I believe I'm getting a little trust and a few friends if nothing else.

[QUOTE=JS0157;3452917]I joined SA to see what might be available. I really hadn't had too much luck. I changed my profile a little to reflect that I do photography. I have had contact with a few young ladies about doing some photos. I left it up to them whether we have any other relations and I have stressed that I'm a pretty nice guy and wouldn't ask for anything more than they are comfortable with. I think now I have managed to collect digits on about four young ladies and I am in contact with a couple more. I haven't actually met any yet but strong possibilities for a little modeling if nothing else. I do have a couple that might extend into other things but I'm taking it pretty slow and building some trust. I am connected with four or five thru instagram and Facebook so I believe I'm getting a little trust and a few friends if nothing else.[/QUOTE]Are you trying to build their trust or yours?

SA isn't really a dating site like EHarmony, so don't treat it like one. If you want to make friends with girls, there are cheaper and better ways to do it. If you want to date and develop an emotional connection with relationship potential, use those routes. Even if you think you're friends, you'll always be "that SA guy" to her.

Women get on SA to use men and be direct about what they want and need, which does include NSA sex--a lot of the women are on there because they find it as a more "empowering" way to indulge their sex fantasies and sex addictions discreetly. Don't screw that up by conflating it with romance. Don't offer to give them stuff, like photo shoots, for free, or take them out to eat and drink on your dime with no expectation in return. Also, don't say what a nice guy you are and how you wouldn't ask for anything more than they are comfortable with or they'll be uncomfortable with giving you anything. This is a recipe to just be taken advantage of and used without getting anything in return. Believe me, most girls on SA have perfected that technique or want someone they can perfect them on.

On SA, you, as the one with the money (and in this case, valuable services) to offer are the one in demand and the one in control, not them. They should be trying to win you over and not the other way around. Your money and status as a SD on there empower you to be straightforward with your desires to women who should know why the hell you're on there. Don't be ashamed of them or try to hide them. The worst that can happen is this SB says "no." If she does, she's dong you a favor by not wasting your time.

Be straightforward, but respectful and tactful, with your desires. It will turn off some of the time wasters, the GPS girls, the fakes, and the ones who want men to pay them just to talk to them, but that's ok. Again, it'll save you time and just eliminate the ones who weren't for real.

Remember that SA exists to allow relationships that are free of deep emotional entanglement and allow both SDs and SBs to express and indulge their desires directly. Hopefully you will both enjoy your time together, but if she really wanted you, you wouldn't be paying and if you have to pay her to be with you, then she's not worth getting emotionally involved with, even as a friend. Expecting more of it than that is just going to get you hurt and leave you disappointed.

[QUOTE=Tncocksman;3455364]Remember that SA exists to allow relationships that are free of deep emotional entanglement and allow both SDs and SBs to express and indulge their desires directly. Hopefully you will both enjoy your time together, but if she really wanted you, you wouldn't be paying and if you have to pay her to be with you, then she's not worth getting emotionally involved with, even as a friend. Expecting more of it than that is just going to get you hurt and leave you disappointed.[/QUOTE]Excellent post, Tncocksman. SA is what it is and nothing more. I'll admit, I've met a woman from SA numerous times (sometimes with no term $) and I wish I had met her somewhere else because I really like her. However, the fact is I met her on SA and all the wishing in the world is NEVER going to change that. Always remember what SA is. If anyone wants something beyond that, check eHarmony, Match, POF, or that farmer website. LOL.

[QUOTE=Tncocksman;3455364]Are you trying to build their trust or yours?

SA isn't really a dating site like EHarmony, so don't treat it like one. If you want to make friends with girls, there are cheaper and better ways to do it. If you want to date and develop an emotional connection with relationship potential, use those routes. Even if you think you're friends, you'll always be "that SA guy" to her.

Women get on SA to use men and be direct about what they want and need, which does include NSA sex--a lot of the women are on there because they find it as a more "empowering" way to indulge their sex fantasies and sex addictions discreetly. Don't screw that up by conflating it with romance. Don't offer to give them stuff, like photo shoots, for free, or take them out to eat and drink on your dime with no expectation in return. Also, don't say what a nice guy you are and how you wouldn't ask for anything more than they are comfortable with or they'll be uncomfortable with giving you anything. This is a recipe to just be taken advantage of and used without getting anything in return. Believe me, most girls on SA have perfected that technique or want someone they can perfect them on.

On SA, you, as the one with the money (and in this case, valuable services) to offer are the one in demand and the one in control, not them. They should be trying to win you over and not the other way around. Your money and status as a SD on there empower you to be straightforward with your desires to women who should know why the hell you're on there. Don't be ashamed of them or try to hide them. The worst that can happen is this SB says "no." If she does, she's dong you a favor by not wasting your time.

Be straightforward, but respectful and tactful, with your desires. It will turn off some of the time wasters, the GPS girls, the fakes, and the ones who want men to pay them just to talk to them, but that's ok. Again, it'll save you time and just eliminate the ones who weren't for real.

Remember that SA exists to allow relationships that are free of deep emotional entanglement and allow both SDs and SBs to express and indulge their desires directly. Hopefully you will both enjoy your time together, but if she really wanted you, you wouldn't be paying and if you have to pay her to be with you, then she's not worth getting emotionally involved with, even as a friend. Expecting more of it than that is just going to get you hurt and leave you disappointed.[/QUOTE]Well considering not all of the girls on SA are looking for sexual relations and I'm open to doing photos I would say the trust I'm building is with the girl knowing I'm not shooting porn and trying to actually do some fairly classy photos. I also want them to trust that I'm not distributing the photos in anyway they are not comfortable with. I also hate to tell you but some are not even worried about cash. My work is pretty good with a camera and sometimes that's all they want. I've talked with a few and no money has even been mentioned. Sometimes they just want someone to make them look good. I'm not against other relations and understand their probably will be cash involved with most of that. But with some girls they are not looking for sex and some are happy to work with me with no strings attached. I would say if it's not costing me anything and I can get a girl to pose a little sexy at no cost it's a win-win for me.