Looking for love in all the wrong places
The old saying is true " you can't turn a working girl into a housewife". Aahh yes I was in the same situation once. Got my UTR girl I was seeing set up with a savings account and a credit card. Hell I even bought her a car for Christ sakes. They will string you along to get the one and only thing it is they want from you. $$$$. Mine even introduced her kid about 6 months into our "relationship", we did the family thing for quite some time. Baseball games, road trips, bbq's, you name it. But in the end when the credit card was maxed out and the bank account was empty. The sex stopped, the I love you's stopped and she always had an excuse as to why she didn't have time to see me. Looking back on it now, yeah I was sooo stupid, wish someone would have pulled me aside and beat me about the head with a hammer or showed me USASG. But at the time when I was fucking that gorgeous young little thing. Those thoughts don't even cross your mind. I don't even want to think of all the $ I threw away on her, the B-days, Christmas, nice dinners, jewelry. Not to mention $ spent on her kid. The really sad part is, is that I passed up shots at real relationships, because I knew that if I got a real GF. I'd have to cut ties with her. You live and learn. Sometimes the hard way or for me always the hard way. Its harsh and cold but you have to learn to hump them and dump them cause pussy is a hell of a drug and working girls know exactly how to get you hooked, you give them an inch and they will take a mile.
Working girl VS Housewife.
Guys I am going to disagree. Yes most girls want the $ for reasons like kids, drugs, pimps ect. But there are some that are looking for that rainbow at the end of National Ave. Swayback when I was in college, I picked up a girl that did some hooking and some striping and everything you can think of. She needed a place to stay. I was drunk and brought her to my pad. Spent 20 dollars the next day on cloths for her at St. Vinc. And she stayed at my place. After a week of cleaning up her and my place she really was happy to be in a place that she was not forced or pushed to bring home the bacon. I had no problem that she still continued to strip at the club. But I made it clear, I don't want her hooking while she lived under my roof. It was me that ended it not her. Aver the semester she wanted more, and I could not commit. She was hot after her cleanup. And I was able to do anything I wanted any time. And she would come home from work, shower, and do me. She was not bringing home as much as the other girls cause sneeze not giving like the other girls. Was she really faithful. Yes I believe she was. She wanted something good and nice. But then we will never really know. She just disappeared. Got a hold of her brother a few years back and she is married living in NJ. So you never know.