He doesn't want to burn bridges
[QUOTE=Muncher2323;4683434]This doesn't do ya much good though without the provider being named?[/QUOTE]I'm guilty of this too. He's venting. We've all been in this situation, we don't want to call them out publicly until they cross whatever line each person draws in the sand.
How do they,make it up to you?
Other than myself, has anyone ever called out a girl for her promise to "make it up to you"?
A girl twice cancelled on me, the second one when I was close to her location, the first I was just about to leave to head over. Both times, promises of "make it up to you next time" were made. Well, a week after the second cancellation, I contacted her and we booked a time and set a price for an hour appointment.
It was then that I reminded her of her TWO promises to make it up to me. A quick scroll through the text messages showed that to be the case. So I asked her, "How are you going to make it up to me? She said, "I will make you so happy. ". I told her pointedly that that's the original arrangement. "Making it up" means extra something; whether services, time, anything above the standard. She didn't understand, or was faking her naivete. So I offered her a deal; I pay for an hour, but as extra for her 2 previous cancellations, I get 90 minutes of play. She sill gets paid the same, and all she'll be out is the time.
She balked at the offer. She was telling me I was low balling her and that if I wanted 90 minutes then I should pay for 90 minutes. I just said that if her idea of making it up to me was for me to pay the same money for the same services for the same amount of time, then that's not making it up to me. I just ended the messages. 10 minutes past the appointment, I get a text asking how far away I was because I was late. I told her, "No. I'm not coming. But don't worry. I'll make it up to you next time. ".
My phone started blowing up because apparently she needed the money more than I needed to get laid. You can tell from the tone of her messages she wasn't happy (a lot of caps lock and a threat to block me). I just told her that blocking me is fine. I ended it with, "Next time, don't cancel, don't ghost, and don't promise to make it up when you have no intention of coming through. ".
But back to my original question. Have you ever called out a girl on a promise to make it up to you?
When she says, "I will make it up to you. "
When "I will make it up to you next time" has been said to me, my next text is always, "How are you going to make it up to me? More time for the normal rate? Normal time at a lower rate? Or a Freebie?" If they answer I save the text so they can't forget the promise.
If they don't answer with some equitable offer I never call her again.
[QUOTE=DNut;4684021]Other than myself, has anyone ever called out a girl for her promise to "make it up to you"?
A girl twice cancelled on me, the second one when I was close to her location, the first I was just about to leave to head over. Both times, promises of "make it up to you next time" were made. Well, a week after the second cancellation, I contacted her and we booked a time and set a price for an hour appointment.
It was then that I reminded her of her TWO promises to make it up to me. A quick scroll through the text messages showed that to be the case. So I asked her, "How are you going to make it up to me? She said, "I will make you so happy. ". I told her pointedly that that's the original arrangement. "Making it up" means extra something; whether services, time, anything above the standard. She didn't understand, or was faking her naivete. So I offered her a deal; I pay for an hour, but as extra for her 2 previous cancellations, I get 90 minutes of play. She sill gets paid the same, and all she'll be out is the time.
She balked at the offer. She was telling me I was low balling her and that if I wanted 90 minutes then I should pay for 90 minutes. I just said that if her idea of making it up to me was for me to pay the same money for the same services for the same amount of time, then that's not making it up to me. I just ended the messages. 10 minutes past the appointment, I get a text asking how far away I was because I was late. I told her, "No. I'm not coming. But don't worry. I'll make it up to you next time. ".
My phone started blowing up because apparently she needed the money more than I needed to get laid. You can tell from the tone of her messages she wasn't happy (a lot of caps lock and a threat to block me). I just told her that blocking me is fine. I ended it with, "Next time, don't cancel, don't ghost, and don't promise to make it up when you have no intention of coming through. ".
But back to my original question. Have you ever called out a girl on a promise to make it up to you?[/QUOTE]
Agree on the use of a separate forum thread
[QUOTE=BTBear;4685616]I really don't expect you to say who it was because I am pretty sure she said, "I don't do this with everyone, so keep it between us. " All this post proves is that some woman allowed you to BBFSCIP her, something we all know is not uncommon and happens more than anyone wants to admit it.
We should quit posting about BBFS in this forum and the Escort Review forum. BBFS posts should be in the BBFS BBBJ forum. There are cities (Las Vegas for one) that have User Forums dealing exclusively with BBFS. In those forums information is shared freely. Name and if there was an up-charge for it are posted allowing those that are doing it and those who aren't to make an informed decision about whether or not they want to see the woman.
The forum is factual. There isn't any bragging. In reality, what good does bragging do other than stroking the posters ego because he got something he THINKS no one else is getting? There isn't any criticism or pontificating about the risk and how "I refuse to do BBFS and avoid those women who do. " Even though those same guys won't see a woman who doesn't BBBJ them even though you can get Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Herpes and Syphilis from a BBBJ.
The recent Cristen Creames thread where someone posted pictures of her doing BBFS caused a major uproar and what did it serve? Most Seniors know that she does BBFS, I knew it and commented on it only to get a BS PM from the newbie that posted the pics accusing me of being the White Knight who told her about the post. Shit, I haven't talked / messaged her in about two years so it had to be one of you other members who told her. Or maybe she read it herself, some of these women can read you know.
This rant is getting too long and if Admin2 thinks it should be in the Octagon, then please move it. The bottom line is use the BBFS BBBJ forum for the reason that it was started, to share information. Keep opinions about safety and your resistance about doing it to yourself. If you do post in it be prepared for the possible fall out from the woman you post about or on the other hand, maybe she will give you a freebie for posting what she did because of all of the new business she got from the post.[/QUOTE]I agree on the use of a separate forum thread for BBFS discussions. Whether mongers pursue the BBFS route is a personal choice. I have experienced BBFS from providers that advertise that they don't, but it's not my preferred way to go. It's not surprising that if you get them off a few times orally, they don't object to you just sliding it in.
It Was Only a Matter of Time
It was inevitable that we would end up at the point of dick size.
Sometimes this is like watching adolescents argue on the playground.
Just sayin'.
What's up with the EB website?
Does anyone know what is going on with the EB website. If you click on girl to check out her reviews, comments, or additional pics, it brings you to a site called EROS. I can't seem to get past that. Has anyone figured out what is going on?