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[QUOTE=Phone;4575455]To those of you who are married, how do you spend money on SB and not getting caught? Do you guys constantly withdraw a lot of cash?[/QUOTE]Am not married but I suggest you don't combine expenses when married, it can very much be a divorce sentence for many. If you are already doing it find a way out. Money is an important topic to discuss, google good reasons not to and use those in discussion.

Next, have a separate bank account. Have your salary direct deposited between two accounts. Play money account and your regular day to day money. Helps to keep you limited on spending too.

[QUOTE=RandysDonut;4577819]Am not married but I suggest you don't combine expenses when married, it can very much be a divorce sentence for many. If you are already doing it find a way out. Money is an important topic to discuss, google good reasons not to and use those in discussion.

Next, have a separate bank account. Have your salary direct deposited between two accounts. Play money account and your regular day to day money. Helps to keep you limited on spending too.[/QUOTE]Separate account is good but I prefer to keep cash. If wife runs a credit report, the account will show up (I do have an etrade account with banking service. It shows up but she knows I have it already. Keep cash. Hidden drawers, asking a close buddy who is single to keep cash you supposedly lost at a casino, some more ways that are in a grey area, so I will not mention.

[QUOTE=BobbieTheBuild;4577135]I just created an account with seeking arrangements. Before I take the plunge and pay for subscription, what is the going rate and how do the conversations go down?[/QUOTE]In my experience it depends on how curious you are about the profile. For example my mind tends to devalue hustler type girls who are more "Professional" or they work at a strip club. Those girls are easy to grab up for a few hundred bucks on any site.

So I always start with something basic then second message is something like this.

"Hey I don't want to waste your time if you're just trying to make some quick sugar if that's what you're doing cool but if you're more interested in getting to know each other more we can do that of course I just don't want to bore you with small talk if you just want some quick cash".

They put themself in a bucket for you.

Option 1 they just want money asap so you know she's ready whenever you are to hangout. I start low because I know they are going to start high. I'll literally start at $ I don't always get that number but I explain "listen I don't even know what I'm getting until we hangout regardless of what you say".

Option 2 they might be super unsure of what they are doing on the site but they know they want to hangout it with more mature dudes. So they don't want to just have sex immediately so here I usually start at 0 and I make it clear if I enjoy myself I'll want to hangout in the future. In my experience, if they were just a 6 performer and you don't want to text them anymore sometimes they will reach out just to hangout more just because they were rejected. But I've also had situations where the chick was so perfect for what I was looking for and because I was over anxious for the 2nd time they have gotten 350+ out of me the 2nd time and unfortunately I just set the market moving forward accidentally.

So my first offer, no matter the profile, has never been above $$ no matter if she is sending me videos of her playing with herself promising what she'll do to me. I don't go over that on an initial offering LOL.

Merry Xmas

At the moment, I have four regulars, three that have agreed to terms and about four more that are interested. The USC student texted me back so I think she could still be in the loop when she returns. Of the four one is free, three are at 1 and one is 250 but flexible.

[QUOTE=LargeEss;4588866]At the moment, I have four regulars, three that have agreed to terms and about four more that are interested. The USC student texted me back so I think she could still be in the loop when she returns. Of the four one is free, three are at 1 and one is 250 but flexible.[/QUOTE]I am so out of the loop. If I get laid once a week lately its a blessing. I had a date yesterday with my #1 girl that I met since I got here. And then she started her period that morning. So that was a no show. My ATF is supposed to be back in Vegas tomorrow? Who knows how long she will stay anyway. Plus I am a bit tired of her. I love her but after 18 months the honeymoon is way over. Been reaching out to a few girls this week. First time in about 2 months. So many cute girls in vegas, and at better or the same prices as L.A. And with definitely better attitudes. A lot of girls here are only paying like 4 bills a month rent. Sharing a 2 br with a friend. Or something similar. The lower COL here is def a bonus. My current rent all in is 1/3 of what I was paying in Hollywood.

Any of you had good experiences with SA in san jose area?

[QUOTE=LargeEss;4588866]At the moment, I have four regulars, three that have agreed to terms and about four more that are interested. The USC student texted me back so I think she could still be in the loop when she returns. Of the four one is free, three are at 1 and one is 250 but flexible.[/QUOTE]How are you pulling off regulars at 1 and 250? Most I've come across are looking for a lot more than that.

Any one meet this girl yet? We've traded a few messages and she's tying to tell me she hasn't slept with anyone in 2 years. I just don't buy it.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/95741a68-d5c6-41b3-a9ab-f53dee19a282[/URL]

[QUOTE=Boobman76;4592248]Any one meet this girl yet? We've traded a few messages and she's tying to tell me she hasn't slept with anyone in 2 years. I just don't buy it.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/95741a68-d5c6-41b3-a9ab-f53dee19a282[/URL][/QUOTE]I haven't met her but I'm with you, she's been on the board for three years and no one has gotten in her? Humm, sounds like she's feeding you a crock.

[QUOTE=Nmng4;4592055]How are you pulling off regulars at 1 and 250? Most I've come across are looking for a lot more than that.[/QUOTE]I basically follow Hollywood's advice. Blonde hair and blue eyes aren't my thing so I don't go after them. I'm am upfront and get turned down a lot but still manage to have a lot of fun.

So if I am looking to fulfill a certain fantasy involving mfm what is the best way to approach these girls? Some of the other advice I've heard has been invaluable. Teach me professors!

Hi all.

I have been in the mongering game for a few years now but looking to expand my options. Couple questions about SA.

-In your experience are most of the profiles real? I mean in the LA area its like 2 out of 3 look good to me (aspiring actresses or models).

-How do you approach the girls? Are you straight up like hey I'm looking for this (ie good conversation, bang bang, wine and dine date, travel).

-Whats an average amount they are expecting? Are most wanting a steady allowance or some good with donations at the time of meeting up?

Sorry for all of the questions. Just trying to get some idea before getting on there and sounding like a dummy. I am used to the make an appointment, do the deed, donation, and good home deal with kgirls.

[QUOTE=LargeEss;4575067]I know off topic but I figure someone will be able to help. My mailbox is getting full and I can't see a way to delete messages. Any help would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]Are you on the desktop version? There is a little x on the right side of every conversation, click that. Or click into the convo and then click the gear, which lets you delete too.

[QUOTE=McNutties;4599642]Hi all.

I have been in the mongering game for a few years now but looking to expand my options. Couple questions about SA.

-In your experience are most of the profiles real? I mean in the LA area its like 2 out of 3 look good to me (aspiring actresses or models).

-How do you approach the girls? Are you straight up like hey I'm looking for this (ie good conversation, bang bang, wine and dine date, travel).

-Whats an average amount they are expecting? Are most wanting a steady allowance or some good with donations at the time of meeting up?

Sorry for all of the questions. Just trying to get some idea before getting on there and sounding like a dummy. I am used to the make an appointment, do the deed, donation, and good home deal with kgirls.[/QUOTE]Others here may have had more success with some of the more beautiful SB's on the site, but other than paying for dinners, occasional ubers, a tank of gas here and there, and once a collection of textbooks, I haven't paid anything. Note that I joined SA a few years ago to work on my game, to connect and spend time with younger women, and of course get laid. I am pretty up front about not wanting to pay per meeting, which turns away most of the 7's and above, but I've definitely been able to meet plenty of 5's and 6's, and the occasional 7/8. They are all real people whose pictures match. I definitely have run across a number of girls who ask anywhere from $300-$500 for FS. Even after making out in my backseat, with her wetness on my fingers, I usually turn them away. Its funny, I have no problem handing over money to AMPs and Kgirls, but it has been a matter of pride and a bit of a challenge to myself to use charm instead.

There was this one 19 year old girl that I met a few years back, we saw each other on and off for two years. Enormous natural breasts, always horny, BB everything, and so incredibly eager to please. She could take it hard too. She never asked for money or food or anything, other than the text books that one time. She unfortunately got a conviction for transporting marijuana across state lines. Really a shame, she was trying to go to school and get her life together and I was watching out for her, a safety net of sorts, she would have made it. Not sure whatever happened to her, but I hope she's well.

Anyways, I like Hollywood's self cataloging approach, I may try that and start paying up front for the hot ones. .