Finally figured out Seduction and DO dance advice!
Since my bam from Blaze, I've been hitting up seduction day shift to see if anything pops. After about 5 trips, I realized regulars are there early 1-4 and get the girls attention. They don't waste too much time with newbies as the club is too slow to leave a regular to try some new money.
After falling through 5 or 6 times the past two weeks, Lexi (under 5 feet, chocolate, petite) comes over to offer me some dances. I say maybe. She asks why? I tell her I like DO dances. She says I can't have those but stays to chat. She asks if I get dances like that often. I tell her at other clubs and occasionally here. We chat a get her a couple of drinks ($5 well, $3 beers during day shift) and she just Chop it up.
A song she likes comes on and she asks if she can dance for me. For a non-DO dance, it was pretty decent. After the song, she asks me if it was a good dance. I tell her it was average. I tell her I've been getting DO dances for 10 years and the best regular dance will only be average for me.
She relents and says she wants to try a do dance. We do four. I slide her a 20. She says that it was fun to sneak but she won't be doing it again. I ask her why. She says because I got a little pre-cum on her. I apologize. I ask her if she minds if I put on a rubber-- which is my preference, I generally walk into the club with a rubber on but I hadn't had a whole lot of luck at seduction.
I go to the bathroom, slide a rubber on and come back. We get 8 dances before she says she's hot and wants a break so she can hit her blunt. During her break, she said that with a rubber those dances are harmless. I told her to start dancing again whenever she's ready. We end up getting about 20 more dances. About half way through those I ask her if I can point the tip on her lips. She agrees.
As soon as I point, the pussy so wet that the head is in her. She keeps dancing on the tip. A few songs late half the dick is in there. By the last couple songs she's riding me and I shoot in the rubber.
In total I spent $200 for about 25-30 dances and drinks. I got the digits and will be seeing her regularly.
Lastly, and I don't know if this condom is new but trojan has a rubber called "bareskin raw. " This the thinnest condom ever. Felt as close to raw I as I have ever felt. So much so that Lexi asked me if the rubber broke. It didn't. If you're giant, this might not be for you. As the screen name says, I'm only 6. 5 inches with not a whole lot of girth and this was really tight for even me. I recommend these rubber wholeheartedly if you want to be safe and feel that pussy!
Be safe!
Not Sure on all the Dynamics
[QUOTE=Niteluvr;6046414]Interesting and that's exactly the type of girl I would target because a pleasant disposition can mean the difference between a wild night and a bad storm. I was only mildly familiar with Follies. Are you saying that the 30% drop in takeout at Vivide, in comparison to Follies, is because the Follies girls were more into the escort circuit?[/QUOTE]Well, I knew several ladies that escorted half the time and stripped at Follies. It seemed common. I don't have my finger on the pulse of Vivide like some, but for the younger AA ladies they tend to be more conservative as a group in comparison to the wild west days of Follies. Might be related a bit to Covid, the culture of Vivid versus Follies, or whatever. On my first couple outings to Follies I asked 10 AA ladies if they would consider seeing me outside the club. I had yes, hell yes, absolutely, when did you have in mind, etc. I had only one lady tell me that she had done it before but could not any longer as she was engaged. This was on the first meet.
If I opened with that same question at Vivide (I don't) the interest level would be much less. I hear things like I try to keep my club business and OTC or personal life separated. I work and leave it at the club.
My perception is the younger AA ladies are more conservative than the Latinas and white women at Vivide. That is based on VIP activity. Even though I don't really do it I ask about VIP with the ladies I dance. For the young AA types it is less than 50%. I would guess more like 90% for the white women that pop in and out. That's my limited experience. These hard core local regulars can always step in and correct me or put a finer detail on how these club dynamics work.
The owners are not approving
One of the dancers I am friendly with said that the owners put cameras up and found f'ing going on in the halls upstairs and other places and threatened to shut it down. So any such activities are strictly behind the black curtains. That is supposedly why the curtains went upstairs as I used to get some DO titty fucking upstairs.
[QUOTE=NewDude;6048496]The young AA's are much more worried about there reputations. Stripping is not sex work in their culture. In addition, they likely have friends that visit the club and they don't want to have the reputation of a ho. I know it doesn't make sense, but try and understand the dynamics at play. When you see the make it rain, air dance receiving types having a good time, they're usually not interested in buying pussy. They think there game will get them down to fuck, whereas we just accept things as they are, a woman wanting money to fuck. Follies had an accepted ho culture for the day shift. There was no shame in selling pussy if you worked day shift at follies because everyone did the same. It was very rare, as you mentioned, to find someone not down to fuck for a couple hundred.
VIVIDE doesn't include the same pervasive culture of hoeing. Most of the black dancers at VIVIDE have heard of the follies name, but never worked there. There friends go to VIvIDE, so they can't be known as a ho. A customer with a trick reputation can be enough to fuckover a well built reputation. As you stated, any are down to sell some pussy, but you must go about it thr right way, AND, have the right standing at the club, I. E not be known as a trick.
The above is just a long way to say that you're right. Young black chicks care more about there reputation than the couple of hundred were willing to give them for extras. It was that way with our faves at strokers, and is also that way at vivide.[/QUOTE]
OTC is always available for the right person.
[QUOTE=JMAbacus;6047014]Well, I knew several ladies that escorted half the time and stripped at Follies. It seemed common. I don't have my finger on the pulse of Vivide like some, but for the younger AA ladies they tend to be more conservative...
...I hear things like I try to keep my club business and OTC or personal life separated. I work and leave it at the club.
My perception is the younger AA ladies are more conservative than the Latinas and white women at Vivide. That is based on VIP activity. Even though I don't really do it I ask about VIP with the ladies I dance. For the young AA types it is less than 50%...[/QUOTE]Including college, I've been living in ATL for 23 years. I've been engaged or married 7 of those 23 years. During the remaining 16 years, I have had 3 exclusive stripper girlfriends and dated about 9 or 10 more (fucking, some dates, etc but no official title).
I write all that to note that if a girls tells you she doesn't offer OTC, you have a decent chance of getting some long-term FREE vagina off her. Now, there is the possibility that she is so repulsed by you that there's not a price where she's willing to fuck you but all strippers have a price for the right person.
Strippers tell you no on OTC for three reasons: 1) As mentioned earlier, they're repulsed by you, and there isn't a price where she'd fuck you, 2) You don't tip enough to meet their quote and she doesn't want the "who does she think she is to charge $2000 for sex," girl and 3) She can envision herself dating or fucking with you.
I've met all the strippers I dated the same way. I was a regular. Being a regular, we sit and chat before and after the dances. That often leads to conversations on what they do on their off days. Eventually their favorite spots come up and I'll offer to take them there. Those turn into further dates which then leads to exclusive relationships or fuck friends.
Next thing, most of the guys a stripper will ever date will be guys she met at the club. This isn't theory. All of the strippers I've dated said it's easier as guys they meet at the club know and accept their lifestyle. They don't want to have that awkward "so what do you do?" conversation with a civilian. Also, in the back of a civilians mind, they're always asking themselves, "did she or is she fucking customers. " Lastly, they know the amount of discretionary income we have makes them suitable to that social lifestyle. They are not taking time to deal with a potentially frugal dude when there's guys at the club who drop anywhere from $250-$1 at the club on a weekly basis. Since they're likely to meet they're next bf at the club, they don't want to give off the impression that they fuck for money.
I say this to say, never believe the no OTC lie and if you hear that line, just know you have a 33% chance of fucking a stripper for free.