I'm far from perfect, but it always amazes me when someone blatantly is a preditor
And when you call the person on it he gets defensive. An example is today. A potential client called me for an appointment, so we set up a time. I have him a discount for my half an hour rate, which I don't mind doing. Anyway he asked me to be all dolled up with lingerie, stockings and heels. And enters the bedroom and before giving me my rate asks if it's alright if he just pulls out. I don't offer BBFS. I won't and I don't care who asks and what their situation is. I don't care if the guy has had himself fixed. I don't care if the guy can't cum without one. It's just not offered and no one can coerce me into offering it. I don't care how much money is offered me, I decline. So when he found out I don't offer BBFS he said maybe another time and left me empty handed. He had also mentioned that I'm the first escort he ever called and he is newly divorced. I was curious, so I googled his number which I should have done in the first place. He's pulled the same stunt on other escorts, it's all over the internet under his other number as well as other scams. So it's not his first time seeing an escort and he did this purposefully. I told him so and he said that it's a monger phone and now he's going to have to get a new one. Hmmm. A newbie that calls his phone a "monger phone. " LOL. I like, actually love spending time with the majority of mongers I meet, and won't let the fact that one robbed me the day before Thanksgiving (a regular) and this one who tries to coerce escorts to offer risky services, because he knows they need the money and knows he's going to leave if she doesn't offer unprotected sex. That's just so wrong! Thanks for letting me vent. Happy Christmas shopping to everyone. I finished all Christmas shopping for my mom. MY dad's next. Xoxo Debbie.
Gallo1 are you going all Scrooge on me during the holidays
The guy that robbed me I've known for at least a year. I should have googled the other guy who wanted BBFS, but I just didn't. My phone was ringing a lot and I missed googling him. Most of the guys I see are awesome. Only a few are assholes thankfully. The unusual encounters? You mean like the off the grid, think outside of the box guys who call me wearing diapers and lingerie, wanting to drink my pee and such? I don't mind. I love doing fetishes! It keeps everything fun!
Most of my horror stories are from guys who call me and don't get to see me. LOL. I weed those guys out quickly. I mean yes, some I see are idiots, but they are very few. I have posted about them to vent, so you guys can see what it's like from the other side of the fence. And believe me I'm not the only escort that gets these calls, not the only one that gets fetish requests and not the only one who sees some idiots. We all do.
I suppose I could ask for everyone's real names, addresses, work information. One escort actually was doing criminal background checks for awhile. I can't imagine anyone wanting to see her based on that requirement. Also I just don't want guys personal information. Do you think that would stop a serial killer from seeing me?? He'd see me then get rid of my phone and laptop. I can't imagine any guy wanting to give a hooker personal information either to possibly used against him if she has a change of heart or he does something that offends her. Your ATF just had a bad experience where her client wasn't careful hiding her info from his wife. That's happened to me too, but at least none of the SO's got a hold of my address.
And just to let everyone know p4 p involves fantasies that a guy can't easily find anywhere else. Also not all men respect escorts, nor women. If I really hated escorting I wouldn't do it. I have good and bad days (just like everyone else does during work). , more assholes or no assholes. Guys I find inspiring, guys who enjoy talking to me and telling me about their lives, guys who want to cuddle with me.
I didn't realize that I was sounded negative, but actually that's the purpose of Massholes in the first place. LOL. I think besides me wanting to vent, I want guys here to know what it's like being an escort, the good, the bad and the ugly. Maybe I didn't think the good stories would be as entertaining and also the good stories would make me seem boastful, like getting a $100 tip for Christmas. Oh yeah, this is scroogy and I hope I don't offend anyone, and it gets to me every time, please guys don't send pics of your dicks to escorts. We know what dicks look like! LOL. I hope everyone enjoys the upcoming anticipation of the holidays! Xoxo Debbie.
Why do guys send escorts dick pics?
How do they think they will make a good impression by sending one? Is there a purpose for a guy to send a dick pic? Inquiring minds want to know! Xoxo.