Good observations, just to add.
[QUOTE=PelicanT99;6511605]If dancers don't sit down & talk, it's usually because they've pegged you as a lookie-loo, a fucko, a time-waster who doesn't spend. Maybe it's the way you dress, the way you never put tips on stage, the way you don't spend on girls who spend trine on you. They recognize regular customers, and know who doesn't spend. They talk to each other about it. So is it any surprise you just get fly-by "want to dance" if that's your vibe? Of course there's some girls who are just lazy, some who won't talk to old guys, black guys, guys in thin BB shorts & no underwear, etc. Any girl with sales skills knows a ripe prospect needs some face-time to close the deal & maybe get a regular. Monger, know thyself, before blaming "the bitches" LOL. Sorry to break it to you, but money makes the stripper come 'round. If you're just a window-shopper, why should they waste their time?
I'm up at the stage, dropping bills, making eye contact, saying come talk when you're free. I'll buy a $40 2 fer or 3 fer and use it to talk about services & prices in VIP. Even if they say no or too much, I felt her up and got my answers, so it's worth the one-time cost. And a little investment up front can pay off on the back end. I'm really not sure how others play it, but that's my MO and I am usually happy with the results. Again, if your plan ain't working, maybe change your plan?[/QUOTE]Another reason why you won't get dancers to sit and chat is they probably noticed you usually get 1 or a select few girls. Most girls are respectful of each other's hustle, and they don't want to step on each other's toes.
Or you usually get blonde girls. Or you usually get black girls. And so on. If you feel like you're not getting a lot of traffic come your way, sit down at the stage, throw a few ones to random dancers that usually don't fit your type. If they observe you really don't have a type they may come over to you and find out.
Bonus reason (extremely rare, but I've seen it): You just might be intimidating. Too tatted up. Too good-looking. Too buff. You look like an MMA fighter, etc. A while back I brought my very good-looking friend who recently got divorced to SR. (back when SR was busy). Before we entered the club, I thought these girls would be clawing at my guy. For almost 30 minutes girls would just walk by, look at him, and keep walking. At one point I stopped a few of the girls and said, "hey how come you're not talking to my friend?" The general answer was: "He's intimidating" or "I don't think I'd be his type, he looks picky" or "he's too handsome, is he nice?
