Thanks KK for the insight and the advice
[QUOTE=Kit Kat; 1446391]Psychos and stalkers were the reason I had to stop offering in calls a few years ago. I even had to move, because they would just show up knocking on my door if I wasn't answering my phone. For me, hotels weren't an option as I only see one client per day, so I just had to switch to out calls only. Maybe you should do the same.
I don't know you, so I won't comment on anything else that's been said. But in my experience, and that of a few other girls I know, offering in calls from your home always turns out to be a bad idea.
Xoxo Kat oxoX[/QUOTE]Thanks Kat for the comments and the insight about the incalls. Hopefully she will take your advice although she certainly hasn't taken any of mine this weekend. Sometimes you do have to put your hands up in the air and scream. I saw Deb both in hobbying and again for a lunch or two a couple of times about a year ago. We both consider each other a little more than 'business associates' and acquaintances. While I won't get into anything about the reviews written since I obviously wasn't there and find no reason to doubt them publically I can say that the times I saw her I found her to be a nice woman and certainly of clean hygene. You can believe me or not I don't really care. Her place on the other hand not so much which is what can happens with cat and working a few jobs. Again that was a year ago and MY experience although I wouldn't have any expectations that it had changed dramatically. Again my reason for not seeing her was more financial and her place is quite a haul for me and not anything else. Like everyone else Deb has her issues which she will probably certainly agree with. One of which is she tends to open her mouth when she should keep quiet. Like at least one other on this board she doesn't care that a lot of guys here want the providers to keep their legs and mouths open and not say a peep especially when they have been 'wronged' (rightly or wrongly). When one takes exception to something I (SO) says they speak up. The same is not expected to happen when it happens to a provider. And when it does happen it is like a race to see who can beat them to a pulp first and best. (think Deanna S for one). That was the gist of the other forum BS which one can certainly argue didn't belong here.
My main reason for responding to this though is to tell you the disgust that I feel right now about some of the 'gents' in this hobby. Now we all know that there are some assholes out there but once again this has resulted in pointing out how many there actually are. And I'm not talking about the cheap pricks or those who don't treat the ladies with the respect they deserve. (and they do believe it or not) Deb forwarded to me some of the BP responses she got over the past week. Besides the disgusting language and lack of respect from some of the responders the more than veiled threats to do her harm, do harm to her property, show up at her place and threats to turn her in to LE (like those writing the replies are virgins to the law) go way beyond human decency. This was also the case of some of the phone calls received. Now we know that most of it is BS but with the idiots in the world one never knows. And sadly many referenced the thread here on USA. While I am pretty confident that it isn't with those I converse with myself here (or my sense of judgement is way off) it is still pretty disappointing. I've been doing this for 35 years and what I read and heard is hard to digest. I have written bad reviews on some but never have 'piled' on or resorted to the kind of garbage I read. As long as it was just a case of a bad day or bad karma (not stealing or rip-offs) things usually worked out (mostly better) with a future visit or phone call. While Deb, Deanna and other providers may occasionally deserve a bad review they are still ladies that don't deserve the kind of crap that went on. Maybe it is time to hang this up rather than be 'acquainted' with some those in this hobby. Times have changed and I'm not sure I want to change with them.
What does any of it mean?
"I did get busted by LEO for stealing a puppy from a pet store so this may be a sting."
What does that have to do with the rest of your post? What did you intend to mean by that statment?
Flashback? Bad acid?
Are you actually suggesting that because you have been arrested for breaking the law, you now have a 6th sense or intuition about what posts may be made by the POlice?
Thank you for giving us the warning.
[QUOTE=Mojo1016;1449102]This is my first post so if I am in the wrong section for this I'm sorry! The girl from this ad on BP who is going by the name Samantha! I remember seeing those pics on the New Hampshire BP board and the reports were saying they were ripped off. I know the pictures are the same but the name and # is different. I am also not sure about the number. I did get busted by LEO for stealing a puppy from a pet store so this may be a sting. Never the less it could be the same girl, it could be a different girl using the pictures. Just basically giving the heads up and be careful.[/QUOTE]