Don't let the forum get you down
[QUOTE=Lobsid;4776440]Cut a newbie a break. I normal go for high end escorts, but most of my regular are no longer touring. SA is very new for me. I been treating it like a regular dating site. Lesson learned, at the end of the day they are escorts too. I just get throw off by the fact I made some online friends there that have not ask of monetary compensation.[/QUOTE]Don't let the forum get you down too badly. Based on my experience, you get what you put in. No doubt the scammers and pseudo escorts run amok on SA and all these sugar sites, but if you treat every pot like a straight streetwalker, you're going to get treated like a john.
I remember reading a few posts about brothers shelling out higher amounts initially, gaining trust with a pot, and then having an almost dating type relationship with their SBs. This is what I've found to be the case as well. I agree tho that its the exception to the rule. I routinely let one of my Sbs keep the room after our evenings together. I need to be back home because of my SO, and so if I didn't have a date with one of my side girls the next day, I'd leave a bottle ofvodka in the room and let my Sb hang there with her friends.
That said, I'd never do it on the first FC session, but live and learn.
When you find a good one, you'll go dark from the forum for a while.
I'm currently working my main SB and have two side chicks in rotation. Allowance ranges from $200 - $350. All three are smoking hot.
They are out there. Just got to give it time & a lot of work is all.
I didn't want to discourage him too much.
[QUOTE=Lobsid;4776440]Cut a newbie a break. I normal go for high end escorts, but most of my regular are no longer touring. SA is very new for me. I been treating it like a regular dating site. Lesson learned, at the end of the day they are escorts too. I just get throw off by the fact I made some online friends there that have not ask of monetary compensation.[/QUOTE]Bit I did want to get him thinking honestly about how he does things. I'm not saying there is one way to do things, just saying that an honest self-assessment can help him. If he tends to be so easy going that he can put himself in harm's way, then perhaps he should stop before he actually hurts himself.
If he has a bit more control, he has to truly define what is important. Annonymity, not getting taken for too much cash (he defines that, not us). But it seems to me the most important thing is to be able to disappear. Publicizing personal information makes it harder to disappear. Letting someone you don't know keep your room (first time SB) puts you at risk.
In the end the guys are right, we all started somewhere. I was doing escorts for years before the SB thing blew up. I got pretty lucky, my first SB was kind of reasonable, super hot, and took a while to show her immaturity so that I disappeared on her ass. I knew all along that I wanted some ability to disappear. Fake phone number, fake name, fake facts about parts of my life. I haven't been perfect. I try to do my best.
Just be honest with yourself about what is important to you, and don't let them make you stray too far from protecting yourself.
Otherwise, have fun.
Destiny is a scam. AVOID AT ANY COST
[QUOTE=JimInbMore;4772788][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/242e4d68-6edf-462e-a3b0-298a3bcbbeee[/URL]
This girl is a major time waster. I had planned a meet one evening. Even confirmed right up to an hour before. She (and her friend who she wanted to bring for a 3 way) were a big no-show. Contacted her later and gave her another chance to meet. Again, a big no-show. Of course, each time there was a big excuse like problems with her phone or she was allergic to the mushrooms she had eaten and went to the Emergency room.
Don't waste your time.[/QUOTE]I met her once and she stole money from my wallet. She has this another girl (calls her sister) and they both are looking for vulnerable folks.
Stole around 200 $ and made me bought a bottle of henessy. Both were eager to get my phone by saying she wants to play youtube videos and my bigger head took control and I made them leave my room.
Found out about stolen money later. Sneaky the way they work together to rob you.
