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[QUOTE=FairFight;4756122]Did you meet her on SA? Do you negotiate all terms before meeting up. Did it take you long to find her?

I would love to have a cute in shape white SB for 350 a session. Have they ever agreed to sleep over?[/QUOTE]There is definitely gold out there but it takes a lot of work to find just the right nugget and also a lot of patience.

Last February I started chatting with this real beauty and she initially ask for 800! I told her there's no way I could do that. I thought that would be the end of it with her but she still kept texting with me and sending nice cute pics now and then (non-nude) and we found out we shared some common interests. She offered nude pics and videos for reasonable rates and possibly even meet in person at some point for kissing and companionship and maybe a BJ but no sex unless she gets 800. I was really attracted to her so I figured why not, gave her some $ for pics and vids. She asked if I had any interest in any specific outfits and such that I would want to see her in so I told her and she asked if I could send her some more $ for what I want to see her in and she sent me a shopping list (with prices) of what she was thinking based on what I told her. Again I figured why not. She wasn't asking for more than what the items cost. She got them and we did a video chat where she modeled the stuff for me and later on sent me more pics and a video.

Just before April I got a bonus at work and decided I wanted to splurge and treat myself. I had a week long camping trip coming up and I knew based on our chats that she liked camping so I asked her if she would like to join me for at least one night on my camping trip. I offered her 1 k. She didn't jump at the offer right away but eventually agreed to it. We met in public for coffee just to actually meet in person for the first time. 3 days later she drove herself the whole 2 and a half hours to the park where I was staying and we had a great time. The following morning I gave her the 1 k and told her she could stay longer if she wanted. She ended up staying for 3 days and she didn't ask for anything more.

After that once I was back to normal she told me she wanted to see me again. I told her I want to see her too but I couldn't give her money like that again. It was a one time splurge because I got a bonus. She said she completely understood.

She continued to text a lot and then one day a month later she was like you have needs and so do I. If you can give me something to help me out now and then we can help each other. I offered 200 each time and she was ok with that. We ended up seeing each other usually for at least 2 hours or more every 2 weeks or so. She had a somewhat normal day job and also did some modeling. With the amount she was texting me and occasionally calling I was fairly certain she wasn't seeing anyone else. End of July she stopped taking money from me but by then we were doing stuff together on weekends and even going away on trips together. She eventually broke it off in December because she wanted to pursue a real relationship. We're still in touch and see each other for a bite now and then but the sex has ended.

There's definitely good ones out there! It took a lot more than I originally imagined to get into her pants but in the long run it was well worth it!

Looks like I'm going to need some element of good dating skills. I wouldn't be turning to SB's if I had any of that. I do enjoy the stories posted here.

[QUOTE=FairFight;4756122]Did you meet her on SA? Do you negotiate all terms before meeting up. Did it take you long to find her?

I would love to have a cute in shape white SB for 350 a session. Have they ever agreed to sleep over?[/QUOTE]I'm not a fan of negotiating details before meeting in person. I always tell them that chemistry will make both of us try to find something that works. She wanted more, of course. But after meeting for drinks and talking we both felt a vibe. We got to a reasonable number quickly, and frankly I got a bargain!

[QUOTE=BaltoMan66;4757500]I'm not a fan of negotiating details before meeting in person. I always tell them that chemistry will make both of us try to find something that works. She wanted more, of course. But after meeting for drinks and talking we both felt a vibe. We got to a reasonable number quickly, and frankly I got a bargain![/QUOTE]Realizing that we are all different, and that what works for one will not work for another, I have always found that stating exactly what I am offering and what I need upfront, before meeting, has been the best strategy for me. The SB can accept or not at that point, and I do not waste my time or theirs. I learnt that the hard way at the beginning of my adventures. Of course there is always the chance that when you meet you don't vibe anyway, but I have never found that to be the case. Just my humble opinion.

[QUOTE=WestLain1;4757827]Realizing that we are all different, and that what works for one will not work for another, I have always found that stating exactly what I am offering and what I need upfront, before meeting, has been the best strategy for me. The SB can accept or not at that point, and I do not waste my time or theirs. I learnt that the hard way at the beginning of my adventures. Of course there is always the chance that when you meet you don't vibe anyway, but I have never found that to be the case. Just my humble opinion.[/QUOTE]There a plenty of ways to do this. We all have to figure out what works for us.

My posts are about my experiences, and are not intended to imply that my way is the only correct way to do anything.

Have fun out there.

[QUOTE=FunGuy570;4755661]I was seeing her months ago before I had to cut her off after cops were asking about her in my office because her BF and roomates were drawing heat. After a brutal cut off, she contacted me a couple of days ago randomly after months of no contact, trying to get me to pay for her new apartment. I check SA and find she is back. She was last active back in September and had 5 daddies at the same time plus a BF, said to each of us we were exclusive. Be Careful with this one. She is a pathological liar and pretty sure suffers from Covert Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She lied about only have one SD, She lied about having a BF, Wanted one guy to meet her BF and lie to his face about fucking, She lies about never having money and tries to guilt you into giving more, She lies about not doing drugs, Everything with her is a lie. She will meet you, love bomb you, take you for everything you got, then leave and move on to the next sucker. Everything is passive aggressive and its more about power than money. She will try and get you to take her on shopping dates, trips, car shopping, other shit, on top of the allowance. This is all done passive aggressively and sometimes even when your already balls deep. She got the last SD to buy her boobs. Got one guy to divorce his wife. ETC. Sex is good, you can tell she is faking it but good. She will hang with you for hours, wine, dine, get you to buy her stuff, fuck you for 10 minutes, then roll out real quick. Its like having a dramatic nightmare GF or WIFE. Allowance starts off kind of reasonable but before you know it, your out thousands, you stand up for yourself and she treats you like shit, and then she is gone on to the next sucker. She looks good but put on a little weight since her pics.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3f55bc49-316e-498b-ae16-f785894d4d11[/URL][/QUOTE]Have a pic of her? Profile not coming up.

See Attached she lives in South Bmore Riverside area. Had daddies in VA, DC, and MD.

[QUOTE=Forddiesel06;4758388]Have a pic of her? Profile not coming up.[/QUOTE]

Anyone have intel on Mapi007?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b53994b1-1c7b-4825-bbb8-ea25a12084b7[/URL]

[QUOTE=FunGuy570;4755661]I was seeing her months ago before I had to cut her off after cops were asking about her in my office because her BF and roomates were drawing heat. After a brutal cut off, she contacted me a couple of days ago randomly after months of no contact, trying to get me to pay for her new apartment. I check SA and find she is back. She was last active back in September and had 5 daddies at the same time plus a BF, said to each of us we were exclusive. Be Careful with this one. She is a pathological liar and pretty sure suffers from Covert Narcissistic Personality Disorder. She lied about only have one SD, She lied about having a BF, Wanted one guy to meet her BF and lie to his face about fucking, She lies about never having money and tries to guilt you into giving more, She lies about not doing drugs, Everything with her is a lie. She will meet you, love bomb you, take you for everything you got, then leave and move on to the next sucker. Everything is passive aggressive and its more about power than money. She will try and get you to take her on shopping dates, trips, car shopping, other shit, on top of the allowance. This is all done passive aggressively and sometimes even when your already balls deep. She got the last SD to buy her boobs. Got one guy to divorce his wife. ETC. Sex is good, you can tell she is faking it but good. She will hang with you for hours, wine, dine, get you to buy her stuff, fuck you for 10 minutes, then roll out real quick. Its like having a dramatic nightmare GF or WIFE. Allowance starts off kind of reasonable but before you know it, your out thousands, you stand up for yourself and she treats you like shit, and then she is gone on to the next sucker. She looks good but put on a little weight since her pics.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3f55bc49-316e-498b-ae16-f785894d4d11[/URL][/QUOTE]No offense but she sounds like she is good at this. You spent a bunch of money on her and so did a bunch of other dudes. Last I checked that was a sb's goal. She makes dudes feel like king of fuck mountain for 10 minutes and they empty their wallets.

[QUOTE=PootyLover;4760451]No offense but she sounds like she is good at this. You spent a bunch of money on her and so did a bunch of other dudes. Last I checked that was a sb's goal. She makes dudes feel like king of fuck mountain for 10 minutes and they empty their wallets.[/QUOTE]I agree. I've dealt with hundreds of these girls over the years. This one takes the cake as the most crazy however there are many who play the same game. Remember folks these are fake relationships, fantasy's no matter what they say. Set your boundaries and keep them. If something does not feel right get out. Not worth the damage that girls like this can do, and its more than just financial damage.

[QUOTE=BaltoMan66;4757500]I'm not a fan of negotiating details before meeting in person. I always tell them that chemistry will make both of us try to find something that works. She wanted more, of course. But after meeting for drinks and talking we both felt a vibe. We got to a reasonable number quickly, and frankly I got a bargain![/QUOTE]I'm similar. Probably to a fault, though. You can only do so much over text. I'm usually just clear in my expectations (NSA / Casual) and then try to meet for coffee. I'm clear that I don't pay for coffee dates. I sometimes think that when you meet and talk. . . And if you can flirt a little and make her laugh. . . Perhaps she'll see that it might be fun for her too. . . Then it's a whole lot easier to come up with agreeable expectations on the gifts.

Anyone meet with these girls.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e686919a-379a-40e7-83ce-abd6d3b8738d[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/de26d387-b8cf-4716-aac1-77dca6ed7a23[/URL]

[QUOTE=Jbunk;4761251]Anyone meet with these girls.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e686919a-379a-40e7-83ce-abd6d3b8738d[/URL]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/de26d387-b8cf-4716-aac1-77dca6ed7a23[/URL][/QUOTE]Both look attractive. You have good taste.

This one has been around for years off and on. She is now unemployed and has time for new dudes. She is not as hot as her pics. The pics are old and edited. She is now skinny but has a saggy stomach, tits, and butt all full of stretch marks. She is like drug addict skinny rather than fit skinny. She lives with her BF. Performance is enthusiastic and bb is available. Allowance is reasonable but has gone up. Pussy is shallow and hard to get full thrusts she positions herself making it harder to get full penetration. She is a in and out in 30 min girl. No dates or small talk.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e686919a-379a-40e7-83ce-abd6d3b8738d[/URL]

Oh lovely I'll pass LOL thanks buddy.

[QUOTE=FunGuy570;4761299]This one has been around for years off and on. She is now unemployed and has time for new dudes. She is not as hot as her pics. The pics are old and edited. She is now skinny but has a saggy stomach, tits, and butt all full of stretch marks. She is like drug addict skinny rather than fit skinny. She lives with her BF. Performance is enthusiastic and bb is available. Allowance is reasonable but has gone up. Pussy is shallow and hard to get full thrusts she positions herself making it harder to get full penetration. She is a in and out in 30 min girl. No dates or small talk.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e686919a-379a-40e7-83ce-abd6d3b8738d[/URL][/QUOTE]