The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

[QUOTE=MmceStep;6771137]My answer is "Wait, you think I can't get an attractive woman to have dinner with me for free? I could fill up the next 3 months of dinners right now. " IMO, one of the biggest perpetuators of this approach with M&G's is the reddit forum dedicated to sugar lifestyle. You have these 18/19 yo's asking for beginner advice and there are generally two types of SB's responding to them, giving them this advice. The first is the old, bitter 40 yo former SB that has the 'You get all the money, girl' vibe and the other are the ultra high end SB's in NY or LA that have plenty of free time to be on reddit because they're getting $50 k per month to be some high rollers woman on the side. It's really making the market unrealistic, because now there are so many SB's waiting for the $400 dinner simps to show up.[/QUOTE]I did the Sugar Daddy thing for a while and I agree too. You have to be pretty professionally successful to keep a girl on retainer to bang, sext, and do whatever you want. Do they think I've done well enough to buy that while also being so devoid of charm that I can't find somebody to eat a meal with me?

Sorry babe, I'm paying for a no strings attached sexy FWB, not a dinner partner. Buying her dinner is not a mutually beneficial relationship.

Everyone be careful of this one on Seeking. Her byline mentions FaceTime as a requirement then she uses your "real" cell number to dig up info on you and then tries to (yes I'll say it) extort money to keep quiet. I know bad move on my part. But we had two really good phone conversations and she seemed "normal" and gave no hints of being a cyber stalker. I can't post a link because I deleted that account. Buyer beware!

Pics depict a cute blonde and the profile didn't raise any red flags. She did follow through on some of the threats so I had a day of uncomfortable cleanup to do. I also reported the extortion attempt to local authorities in case it continues. I was dumb.

[QUOTE=RealOne789;6772396]Everyone be careful of this one on Seeking. Her byline mentions FaceTime as a requirement then she uses your "real" cell number to dig up info on you and then tries to (yes I'll say it) extort money to keep quiet. I know bad move on my part. But we had two really good phone conversations and she seemed "normal" and gave no hints of being a cyber stalker. I can't post a link because I deleted that account. Buyer beware!

Pics depict a cute blonde and the profile didn't raise any red flags. She did follow through on some of the threats so I had a day of uncomfortable cleanup to do. I also reported the extortion attempt to local authorities in case it continues. I was dumb.[/QUOTE]Yikes, well I guess I can see why "I have an android, is zoom ok?" got me blocked, then.

[QUOTE=RealOne789;6772396]Everyone be careful of this one on Seeking. Her byline mentions FaceTime as a requirement then she uses your "real" cell number to dig up info on you and then tries to (yes I'll say it) extort money to keep quiet. I know bad move on my part. But we had two really good phone conversations and she seemed "normal" and gave no hints of being a cyber stalker. I can't post a link because I deleted that account. Buyer beware!

Pics depict a cute blonde and the profile didn't raise any red flags. She did follow through on some of the threats so I had a day of uncomfortable cleanup to do. I also reported the extortion attempt to local authorities in case it continues. I was dumb.[/QUOTE]Do you have a link for her?

[QUOTE=RealOne789;6772396]Everyone be careful of this one on Seeking. Her byline mentions FaceTime as a requirement then she uses your "real" cell number to dig up info on you and then tries to (yes I'll say it) extort money to keep quiet. I know bad move on my part. But we had two really good phone conversations and she seemed "normal" and gave no hints of being a cyber stalker. I can't post a link because I deleted that account. Buyer beware!

Pics depict a cute blonde and the profile didn't raise any red flags. She did follow through on some of the threats so I had a day of uncomfortable cleanup to do. I also reported the extortion attempt to local authorities in case it continues. I was dumb.[/QUOTE]She uses some of her IG pics in SA.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0471f30b-f8b2-4687-914a-28c0860e79ce[/URL]

[QUOTE=NiteLifed69;6772699]She uses some of her IG pics in SA.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0471f30b-f8b2-4687-914a-28c0860e79ce[/URL][/QUOTE]"her" IG pics, yeah right.

[QUOTE=SeekingRdu;6770213]I find nothing more offensive than a chick that expects money to meet for dinner or coffee. Any one of them suggest this now I just playing along saying yes and then never show up and let them waste a couple hours of their time.[/QUOTE]That's mean, but probably deserved if she's demanding $400 to eat a free nice meal. If these girls had brains they would at least adjust based on who they were talking to.

[QUOTE=RealOne789;6772396]Everyone be careful of this one on Seeking. Her byline mentions FaceTime as a requirement then she uses your "real" cell number to dig up info on you and then tries to (yes I'll say it) extort money to keep quiet. I know bad move on my part. But we had two really good phone conversations and she seemed "normal" and gave no hints of being a cyber stalker. I can't post a link because I deleted that account. Buyer beware!

Pics depict a cute blonde and the profile didn't raise any red flags. She did follow through on some of the threats so I had a day of uncomfortable cleanup to do. I also reported the extortion attempt to local authorities in case it continues. I was dumb.[/QUOTE]Did you ever facetime her to confirm it is the girl in the Pics?

[QUOTE=South215;6772989]Did you ever facetime her to confirm it is the girl in the Pics?[/QUOTE]No. She got my real phone number and got impatient I guess and started texting from another number to my real number, calling my house from that number, texting my profile pics to a relative. It got ugly fast after I blocked her.

[QUOTE=RealOne789;6773022]No. She got my real phone number and got impatient I guess and started texting from another number to my real number, calling my house from that number, texting my profile pics to a relative. It got ugly fast after I blocked her.[/QUOTE]You can see in my past posts I had something similar happen. Gave my real number, she immediately looked me up and started texting family. Thankfully info was out of date and none of the numbers she saw were correct anymore. My folks honestly wouldn't care anyway though. I blocked her. She texted me from other numbers saying she wouldn't stop until I paid. I Kept ignoring and blocking her numbers. Eventually she stopped and probably moved on to lower hanging fruit.

Takeaway: DO NOT GIVE YOUR REAL NUMBER. If they say something like "iPhone numbers only" or "I won't text a texting app", she is 99% a scammer. Most rational girls I've spoken to on there also use texting app. So legit ones shouldn't have a problem with it.

Always use snapchat for face to face conversations. If they say they don't have a snap chat red flag!

[QUOTE=Swimmer123;6773165]You can see in my past posts I had something similar happen. Gave my real number, she immediately looked me up and started texting family. Thankfully info was out of date and none of the numbers she saw were correct anymore. My folks honestly wouldn't care anyway though. I blocked her. She texted me from other numbers saying she wouldn't stop until I paid. I Kept ignoring and blocking her numbers. Eventually she stopped and probably moved on to lower hanging fruit.

Takeaway: DO NOT GIVE YOUR REAL NUMBER. If they say something like "iPhone numbers only" or "I won't text a texting app", she is 99% a scammer. Most rational girls I've spoken to on there also use texting app. So legit ones shouldn't have a problem with it.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sobe69;6777690]Always use snapchat for face to face conversations. If they say they don't have a snap chat red flag![/QUOTE]So Snapchat cannot be recorded or screenshot?

[QUOTE=Sobe69;6777690]Always use snapchat for face to face conversations. If they say they don't have a snap chat red flag![/QUOTE]I say the opposite. Anyone I've talked to who wants to use Snapchat is usually a scammer.

[QUOTE=RedBaronDaron;6778323]So Snapchat cannot be recorded or screenshot?[/QUOTE]It's more difficult to do so without the other user knowing, but of course not impossible. But that said, the point isn't that it can't be recorded, but rather that it doesn't give the other end your phone number like Text / Facetime / Whatsapp on your personal number does.

Used for video to video chat. Not necessarily for regular communications. My go to snap since I can get all of the nonsense out of the way if I have not validated that they are real yet. A quick f2 f video chat resolves fake pics and dudes trying to scam. Its just an additional tool that is non traceable. Its also a great way to see there true day to day activity if they post allot.

[QUOTE=FireMan32;6778328]I say the opposite. Anyone I've talked to who wants to use Snapchat is usually a scammer.[/QUOTE]

Just get a google number. You can have many and always change it. Snap is good too but sometimes the fakes think you may put your real name in snap. I've had many girls want my snap and just never respond. The same with Whatsapp. That's my go to. I have a fake number there too and usually everyone I talk to there can be searched.